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ivolt:
Your story is confusing.
Were you actually married? Have you divorced her?

How did your ex-wife gets so close to you that she knows everything about your girlfriend?

Modified:
This is likely a fake story. This same OP was complaining about his wife not buying cloth
for their maid, less than 2 years ago. How he went from being rich to broke to rich again, divorcing and acquiring
a new girlfriend within a spate of 2 years is real wonder.

He claims the side chick is a baker, so it explains why he wants her. He needs someone to sponsor him.

His story is always what I knew it would be: full of lies and loops to make him look innocent. They probably separated because of cheating and not money.

West2019:
how did she get your girl friend contact

Yet he claims he cannot contact his wife.

Isn't this forum full of comedians?

BRATISLAVA:
LMAO.

To the issue: aren't they her children too? How do you think weaponizing her children in that manner is lawful?

How is he weaponizing the children? From the attitude the woman is displaying, she isn't in anyway stable to take care of the children and besides, the children have come of the age where the father can have full possession of them.

mardis:
How is he weaponizing the children? From the attitude the woman is displaying, she isn't in anyway stable to take care of the children and besides, the children have come of the age where the father can have full possession of them.

He should collect his children, you said. Is he the only one who has the children? Did he provide the eggs used in producing them that you feel he should collect them from their mother? If not that you believe in weaponizing children, you wouldn't think so.

She is capable of caring for her children, because her issue lies with the man. Why should the man have full possession of them if he isn't trying to hurt her? They are her children too, so why should the man possess them fully if not to hurt and deprive her of her children while he goes on to have others with his lover?

You forget that he is already having another child elsewhere, while the woman isn't. So who is more negligent of the children? Who actually cares about the children? Yet you want him to take "possession" of the children, as the weapons they are in his arsenal.

The man is negligent and cares little for his children. He's only making noise because she's not allowing him to get married to another woman while still married to her, which is criminal. If he were serious he wouldn't tow his side chick path

LilMissFavvy:
Shut the fucckkk up you numbskull*. So your blank skulll dosen't tell you that information was not there and it has just been modified/added?

One should keep an open mind when a particular piece of information is not provided in a write-up, instead of reaching a hasty, erroneous, and stupid conclusions.

The op, too, has his own share of the blame for carelessly mentioning 'brother in-law' without clarification(initially), and leaving rooms for wild interpretations and imaginations.

The truth is that most Nigerians are very careless

Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

Did she remember the kids while taking such action , pls do the needful so she could stay away from your life

That Your Ex Needs To Chop better Slap wetin be her problem naa