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Why Most Of Nigerian Ladies Are Very Stingy?

From Time Memorial, Almost All The Nigeria Ladies who I have came across in this life, has this the same Stingy Mindset.

I use to dash different things to the lady that I cherish, but whenever I try to ask her for a small favour, the same lady will tell me that she has no money, bla bla, that she is broke and has no food to eat.

From All Indication, this lady use to collect monthly Salary Of 48,000Naira, Yet To Give Me a Small Favour, Is Very Hard For Her.

A Lady Who Can't Send the guy, she said, she is dating as low as mtn Recharge Card or even happy birthday text message or birthday call, during his guy's birthday, what again can that lady be able to offer.

Most Of the Ladies, that use to beg me for 10,000naira but they can't be able to send as low as mtn recharge card to me, during my birthday on December 25th, How do such ladies expect To Give 10k to them.

My Fellow Nairalander, Why Most Of Nigerian Ladies Are Very Stingy?

I need an answer to this Question Please, this is 2022, Brand New Year.

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Damnnn niggar

That is the nature of most women in general
Not only Nigerian women

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

That is the nature of most women in general
Not only Nigerian women

Most Of Nigerian Ladies, I came across here in Nigeria, use to beg me for 10,000naira cash, but immediately I ask them to give me mtn Recharge Card of 100naira to start with, they will stop talking to me?

How can such a lady get 10,000naira from , If She Can't be able to give as low as 100naira mtn Recharge Card to .

There Is Nothing Way No Go See Inside this Blogging Business.

A girl will rather give you sex than anything money or material things. My current girlfriend am dating have never given me a pin before for d past 3yrs.

ufotty2001:
A girl will rather give you sex than anything money or material things. My current girlfriend am dating have never given me a pin before for d past 3yrs.

God Almighty Bless You For that answer.

Why Is It, So Hard for most of Nigeria Ladies to give material things or money to Nigeria Guys?

I'm talking from experience as With 6years Blogging Expert

[quote author= post=109005262]God Almighty Bless You For that answer.

Why Is It, So Hard for most of Nigeria Ladies to give material things or money to Nigeria Guys?

I'm talking from experience as With 6years Blogging Expert[/quote]It's not their fault. Nigerian men spoil them with I am capable mentality. They simp for this ladies over time which has led to this notion of it is only men that ought to give physical things while they offer only their Coochies

The thing is...
They see men as providers by default..
They see men as givers by default..
And giving to a man seems wrong to them by default, as in mindset..
So their mindset or psychology directs them on what to do or what not to do in the relationship..
Until u meet a woman who loves u from her heart over her mindset or reasoning..
Then you will know that women if they want to give, they will give you like say u use juju do them

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
That is the nature of most women in general Not only Nigerian women

You are not right bro!

Cos they are smart..well not all are stingy..your definition of stingy is subjective...

[quote author= post=109005093]My Name Still Remain , A Popular Blogger On Nairaland Forum.

Why Most Of Nigerian Ladies Are Very Stingy?

From Time Memorial, Almost All The Nigeria Ladies who I have came across in this life, has this the same Stingy Mindset.

I use to dash different things to the lady that I cherish, but whenever I try to ask her for a small favour, the same lady will tell me that she has no money, bla bla, that she is broke and has no food to eat.

From All Indication, this lady use to collect monthly Salary Of 48,000Naira, Yet To Give Me a Small Favour, Is Very Hard For Her.

A Lady Who Can't Send the guy, she said, she is dating as low as mtn Recharge Card or even happy birthday text message or birthday call, during his guy's birthday, what again can that lady be able to offer.

Most Of the Ladies, that use to beg me for 10,000naira but they can't be able to send as low as mtn recharge card to me, during my birthday on December 25th, How do such ladies expect To Give 10k to them.

My Fellow Nairalander, Why Most Of Nigerian Ladies Are Very Stingy?

I need an answer to this Question Please, this is 2022, Brand New Year.[/quote]It wasn't like this before o, I used to have a lot of female friends who gives without thinking back then, but these days all these ladies want to do is take, even those who have little wants to take more

[quote author= post=109005189]Most Of Nigerian Ladies, I came across here in Nigeria, use to beg me for 10,000naira cash, but immediately I ask them to give me mtn Recharge Card of 100naira to start with, they will stop talking to me?

How can such a lady get 10,000naira from , If She Can't be able to give as low as 100naira mtn Recharge Card to .

There Is Nothing Way No Go See Inside this Blogging Business.[/quote]Must you mention ? And who the hell are you? what makes you feel you are special ? my foot

Lol.. most are good at collecting
Cannot remember the decade I got a penny from a Nigerian girl

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

That is the nature of most women in general
Not only Nigerian women

Trashy,useless crap!

Una don start again.
Mtchewww

Its societal conditioning

That is how some of them are wired. Imagine one telling me her grandmother will not forgive her if she gives a man her money but she can collect a guys money without stress. Fear women!!

Have a similar thing here, she hardly spend one naira on me, but why are they like that?

This is the nature of an average nigerian girl..they believe they're supposed to be taken care of...them no dey spend on their friend or bf..so use your head

Nosimp2022

MJBOLT:

I have a couple of reasons why

1.women only spend on guys they like,I know this based on personal experience.if she doesn't like you then she won't spend on you.

2.most women are used to receiving and it's due to the fact that most guys are always trying to prove something they are not.

That's it.

nerdfrost:
This is the nature of an average nigerian girl..they believe they're supposed to be taken care of...them no dey spend on their friend or bf..so use your head

Nosimp2022

Yesso
2022: Year of the Redpill

If a woman loves you, she will give you things. But finding a woman that will love you is where the work is. A woman that loves think with her heart, but the one that doesn't thinks with her mind.

We don't choose who loves us, they choose us. And if you find that woman who despite your imperfection loves you perfectly, keep her. Her ability to loves you redeems her shortcomings.

Ladies are not stingy...they don't just like you .....


Experience 105*

Akakanfirstclass:
The thing is...
They see men as providers by default..
They see men as givers by default..
And giving to a man seems wrong to them by default, as in mindset..
So their mindset or psychology directs them on what to do or what not to do in the relationship..
Until u meet a woman who loves u from her heart over her mindset or reasoning..
Then you will know that women if they want to give, they will give you like say u use juju do them

Where Can See Such a Lady Who Has Spirit Of Giving In Them?

ufotty2001:
A girl will rather give you sex than anything money or material things. My current girlfriend am dating have never given me a pin before for d past 3yrs.

exit that parasitic situation ship b4 it engulf you

My colleague said she can't call a guy with her airtime highest flashing
Now tell me how somebody dat has Dix type of mentality give a guy 1naira?

omoseth:
That is how some of them are wired. Imagine one telling me her grandmother will not forgive her if she gives a man her money but she can collect a guys money without stress. Fear women!!

and did you use to give her things?better leave the situation ship

pansophist:
If a woman loves you, she will give you things. But finding a woman that will love you is where the work is. A woman that loves think with her heart, but the one that doesn't thinks with her mind. We don't choose who loves us, they choose us. And if you find that woman who despite your imperfection loves you perfectly, keep her. Her ability to loves you redeems her shortcomings.

Can you be more explicit about that part?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Can you be more explicit about that part?

Love is something you can not rationally explain. It transcends human's logic. Mere services to your beloved becomes pleasurable, and you derive fulfilment in their happiness. It's a service from the heart. You don't think it, you just do.

But when someone doesn't love you, they rationalise every of their service thinking with their mind, while good deeds is more of an investment, to make you bid to their will. They will expect reciprocity, to at least an equal measures, and trying to be one step ahead. It's a game to them, of which they must win.

Typically for men, it is to get as much sex as possible while money is a topping if she is capable, while for women, it's the opposite. To get as much material and status elevation, while him being good in sex is a toppings. Men complaining that women are financially exploiting them are in love, so they think with their heart. Same for women. The women that have done all kinds of things they regretted sexually did it with men that they love.

pansophist:
Love is something you can not rationally explain. It transcends human's logic. Mere services to your beloved becomes pleasurable, and you derive fulfilment in their happiness. It's a service from the heart. You don't think it, you just do.

But when someone doesn't love you, they rationalise every of their service thinking with their mind, while good deeds is more of an investment, to make you bid to their will. They will expect reciprocity, to at least an equal measures, and trying to be one step ahead. It's a game to them, of which they must win.

Typically for men, it is to get as much sex as possible while money is a topping if she is capable, while for women, it's the opposite. To get as much material and status elevation, while him being good in sex is a toppings.

Very explicit.

Thanks, dear.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Very explicit.

Thanks, dear.

I updated it. Check the last paragraph

I haven't met stingy women though. Perhaps change your circle