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Toxicity On Nairaland by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jan 05, 2022
Can someone give me a reason why nairaland is too toxic?
Too many insult on women in romance section,boys on here insulting women all the time and some other irritating attitude.
Too many tribalism on the politics section..same goes for crime section..

I feel like the moderators are doing nothing about it..I think it's high time people know that women ain't objects meant to be mocked all the time on here..
Mynd44
Lalasticlala
Seun
Dominique
It will be really appreciated if you guys look into this issue mentioned above..you can't just be on here while such things take place..

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Kriss216: 5:45pm On Jan 05, 2022
Rozz aka Zzor aka Iyaebe aka FernandezPablo.

She's back with this moniker.

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Godada(m): 5:46pm On Jan 05, 2022
Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Laturuturu: 5:50pm On Jan 05, 2022
Will you keep quiet there
Olosho

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jan 05, 2022
Laturuturu:
Will you keep quiet there
Olosho
shut up your mouth

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Laturuturu: 5:58pm On Jan 05, 2022
Smelling toto

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by DispatcherLagos: 6:09pm On Jan 05, 2022
The forum is controlled by the most tribalistic set of people. No wonder it's visitors keep reducing by day. Of a truth, nairaland has gone to the dogs

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by helinues: 6:13pm On Jan 05, 2022
It's vice versa.. Some ladies have also been opening senseless threads about guys

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Boomboost(m): 6:20pm On Jan 05, 2022
Womenarespecial:
Can someone give me a reason why nairaland is too toxic?
Too many insult on women in romance section,boys on here insulting women all the time and some other irritating attitude.
Too many tribalism on the politics section..same goes for crime section..

I feel like the moderators are doing nothing about it..I think it's high time people know that women ain't objects meant to be mocked all the time on here..
Mynd44
Lalasticlala
Seun
Dominique
It will be really appreciated if you guys look into this issue mentioned above..you can't just be on here while such things take place..

Women are not special, na normal human being una be.

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by siofra(f): 6:54pm On Jan 05, 2022
helinues:
It's vice versa.. Some ladies have also been opening senseless threads about guys

The ladies are only reacting to the misogyny here.

If misogyny is eradicated on this forum, I'll disappear too.
Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by helinues: 6:55pm On Jan 05, 2022
siofra:


The ladies are only reacting to the misogyny here.

If misogyny is eradicated on this forum, I'll disappear too.

Ladies are supposed to be proving guys wrong with all the allegations against them even though some are genuine

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by siofra(f): 7:00pm On Jan 05, 2022
helinues:


Ladies are supposed to be proving guys wrong with all the allegations against them even though some are genuine

Proving guys wrong in what way? Arguments?


Majority of the allegations are false and these men are not ready see reason (I've tried before) They claim to be logical but they only prove the fact that men have the lowest IQs on the intelligence scale.

You people will only believe what you want to believe. Without mincing words you are sexist and misogynistic, similar to racists who try to justify their beliefs with stereotypes and half-baked facts.

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Bluezy13(m): 7:01pm On Jan 05, 2022
Hmmm...
But the women are not helping matters.


In other news; I have observed that rate of wooing women on this forum has reduced exponentially, but drastically on other platforms compared to three years ago and backwards.
What could be the reason ?
Is that women are no longer relevant or what exactly or men have lost interest...or something else ?

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by siofra(f): 7:03pm On Jan 05, 2022
Bluezy13:
Hmmm...
But the women are not helping matters.


In other news; I have observed that rate of wooing women on this forum has reduced exponentially, but drastically on other platforms compared to three years ago and backwards.
What could be the reason ?
Is that women are no longer relevant or what exactly ??

I still get tens of emails everyday. So to me it hasn't.
Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Bluezy13(m): 7:06pm On Jan 05, 2022
siofra:


I still get tens of emails everyday. So to me it hasn't.

Well...it has.

Before now, you would have been getting hundreds or even thousands of emails everyday.
But now...it is just tens... common tens o.
And to buttress my observation, these emails are private, before now it would have been public wooing...
What do you think could be the reason, dear Siofra ??

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Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by slickycee: 7:07pm On Jan 05, 2022
So its because of women bashing that makes here toxic.

All the numerous scams !!
The trolling and harassment
The fake stories and all .

It's woman bashing that you carry for your head !
I can't blame you .


The forum is slowing going into it trenches, no more interesting threads
The frontpage news are just so pathetic.

People are discouraged from sharing their truths and experience.
You'd find grown adults having a back and forth on a sensitive thread.

If they were contributing to the thread it would have been better, but they'd be arguing and insulting each other as if that's the reason for the thread. It's well.
But do all these matter ? As long as the sites keeps bringing money and traffic, then there's no problem
Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by siofra(f): 7:12pm On Jan 05, 2022
Bluezy13:


Well...it has.

Before now, you would have been getting hundreds or even thousands of emails everyday.
But now...it is just tens... common tens o.
And to buttress my observation, these emails are private, before now it would have been public wooing...
What do you think could be the reason, dear Siofra ??

Not true. I've been on this forum years before now with other female moniker. With a light skinned girl with big nyash as my dp and I still got tens of email.
Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Bluezy13(m): 7:20pm On Jan 05, 2022
siofra:


Not true. I've been on this forum years before now with other female moniker. With a light skinned girl with big nyash as my dp and I still got tens of email.

Alright, a little test will prove your point.
When last did some guy woo or even tried wooing you on this forum apart from privately via email ??
Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by siofra(f): 7:25pm On Jan 05, 2022
Bluezy13:


Alright, a little test will prove your point.
When last did some guy woo or even tried wooing you on this forum apart from privately via email ??

Hey! That's private stuff. I can't reveal that.
Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Bluezy13(m): 7:31pm On Jan 05, 2022
siofra:


Hey! That's private stuff. I can't reveal that.

Oh Common..., a little hint would suffice...
Don't make think me you are trying to meander your way out of the tight corner.
Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by Maxxim: 7:51pm On Jan 05, 2022
Bluezy13:


Oh Common..., a little hint would suffice...
Don't make me you are trying to meander your way out of the tight corner.
cheesy cheesy
Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by helinues: 8:22pm On Jan 05, 2022
siofra:


Proving guys wrong in what way? Arguments?


Majority of the allegations are false and these men are not ready see reason (I've tried before) They claim to be logical but they only prove the fact that men have the lowest IQs on the intelligence scale.

You people will only believe what you want to believe. Without mincing words you are sexist and misogynistic, similar to racists who try to justify their beliefs with stereotypes and half-baked facts.

I might have wasted my time though
Re: Toxicity On Nairaland by stanliwise(m): 12:35am On Jan 06, 2022
My major concern are the gay guys claiming misogyny. claiming how they lived a thousand years without women .
B4 nkor no be man you dey nack? cheesy

That redpill has become an umbrella for forming Superman and hiding under the macho shadows. It’s a high for guys with esteem problem. Infact na cruise everybody come dey now.

Abuse a female online and doing the reverse offline.

This too shall pass away
Anyway people have to be careful

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