My fiance blocked me on WhatsApp three years ago, I couldn't reach her on phone either. I couldn't reach her mum and two sisters, trying to understand why she blocked me and why I couldn't reach her Family.

Two days later I saw her traditional wedding pictures on Facebook. It was the cruelest thing that ever happened to me.

I didn't have much money then so I could understand why she left. But I spent every dime I had on her, the sex was good and I was always there when she needed me.

All this happened three years ago, I felt that because she left me abruptly her life was supposed to be miserable, but she really is doing well, I have been stalking her all the way, I attended her wedding and her graduation, though quite conspicuous in the act, she drives the latest cars now, the last time I heard about her she was leaving the country to the UAE to deliver her second child. And still nothing bad happened to her.

I still can't get over her my life is miserable. But then all those years she left and I had time for myself to think clearly and learn web development skill, I was able to build my self a site that quickly transformed itself, it had a fast growth, an e-commerce/fintech company, which i am now officially it's CEO, with a company size of 11 people. I just got a seeding of 1.2 million dollars, to buy riders for dispatchers and also for advertisement.

But with all these she's thriving and she's doing well, It makes me wonder if life is really fair, I still have pictures of the day I proposed at ShopRite, the kisses, the hugs, the time we spent together, I still can't believe she forgot all that.

I am doing well now I have my own house and two cars to it, and a thriving company. But I can't stop stalking her, because of her I moved to Enugu where she lived. Some days whenever I come back from work Early I give this secondary school boys small cash to go to her husbands mansion to see if there is any activity there, then come back and report to me.

I believe she doesn't know I am still unto her, almost any day I am coming back from work, I drive through her beauty spar just to catch a glimpse of her.

I convinced my kid sister to move to Enugu, also convinced her to enroll her child in the same nursery and primary school my fiance's child goes to.

No matter how hard I try to meet other women, I always see her face on the wall behind them. I have tried to meet women from different countries from some of my trips to Dubai. No matter how gorgeous they never appeal to me.

Even till today I still see her as my fiance, I don't know what to do or how to get over her.

They use Toto water cook food for this one

Unbelievable.

If by any chance the story is true, do yourself a favour, let it all go and move on.

redon12:
My fiance blocked me on WhatsApp three years ago, I couldn't reach her on phone either. I couldn't reach her mum and two sisters, trying to understand why she blocked me and why I couldn't reach her Family.

Two days later I saw her traditional wedding pictures on Facebook. It was the cruelest thing that ever happened to me.

I didn't have much money then so I could understand why she left. But I spent every dime I had on her, the sex was good and I was always there when she needed me.

All this happened three years ago, I felt that because she left me abruptly her life was supposed to be miserable, but she really is doing well, I have been stalking her all the way, I attended her wedding and her graduation, though quite conspicuous in the act, she drives the latest cars now, the last time I heard about her she was leaving the country to the UAE to deliver her second child. And still nothing bad happened to her.

I still can't get over her my life is miserable. But then all those years she left and I had time for myself to think clearly and learn web development skill, I was able to build my self a site that quickly transformed itself, it had a fast growth, an e-commerce/fintech company, which i am now officially it's CEO, with a company size of 11 people. I just got a seeding of 1.2 million dollars, to buy riders for dispatchers and also for advertisement.

But with all these she's thriving and she's doing well, It makes me wonder if life is really fair, I still have pictures of the day I proposed at ShopRite, the kisses, the hugs, the time we spent together, I still can't believe she forgot all that.

I am doing well now I have my own house and two cars to it, and a thriving company. But I can't stop stalking her, because of her I moved to Enugu where she lived. Some days whenever I come back from work Early I give this secondary school boys small cash to go to her husbands mansion to see if there is any activity there, then come back and report to me.

I believe she doesn't know I am still unto her, almost any day I am coming back from work, I drive through her beauty spar just to catch a glimpse of her.

I convinced my kid sister to move to Enugu, also convinced her to enroll her child in the same nursery and primary school my fiance's child goes to.

No matter how hard I try to meet other women, I always see her face on the wall behind them. I have tried to meet women from different countries from some of my trips to Dubai. No matter how gorgeous they never appeal to me.

Even till today I still see her as my fiance, I don't know what to do or how to get over her.

Let her go senior man. It's not worth it. You have everything going well for you. There are plenty fishes in the river. You'll be fine sir.

Btw.. I'm in a location where we have constant power supply, and I need a job to keep me going as I plan to invest in learning a skill at the same time. But I can't achieve that until I can fund it. Please I'm available if you need a virtual assistant sir, thank you.


Edit: Those two above me just rush ruin my moment

I would have said perhaps you are soul mates and your heart is always pinging her heart. In matter like this you need to visit a counselor to help you see pass , if you truly love her and she is your soul mate, then you should be happy for her that she is married and successful ... if she was destine to be your wife, nothing in this universe would have stop it, because we are like a movie in God's hand we are here to entertain him. In your case you have made effort, it didn't work out , stop trying to force what was not predestine because her purpose was to reset your brain and that has been accomplish.

Since you guys had premarital sex then she ows you nothing and nothing bad will happen to her,she will continue to grow bigger because she's not your child and your right hand does not posses her.So much entitlement from fornicators disguised as boyfriend/girlfriend.Abeg move your skinny ass on and no dy disturb us here,you are even a very wicked man for expecting her life to be miserable because of ordinary leave wey she leave you,how am I sure you've not done juju on her head and it didn't catch her.Time wasters like you,you've used mouth to tie her down promising marriage without taking any bold step and she met a talk and do man and you still expect her to stick around? no make me change am for you ooo.Somebody will sit down and all this boys will just be getting on my nerves on this nairaland.

Arrrrrrrrh

I fear who no fear woman. Chap ! My brothers fear woman.

Wow Op, I can literally understand the pain of loving someone and at the moment you want to grab them they roll out of your hand.

Sir, Thank heaven you are doing well. To be honest I thank God on your behalf. But you see women this days marry men who are ready, who has the money not men who they love. We have heard stories where, 'she's married but still allow her ex in'. To show you they really love them selves but they can't be together, why? Because the society we live in have block their brains to understand that marrying a rich man without love is satisfaction and is better than marrying a poor man with love. You will hear words like "it's better to cry in Dubai than to cry in the village". Why because money is like everything to a woman. If anybody marry his wife broke and she still stick to him trust me that woman worth everything you will ever become.


Op I would advise you let her go. She's doing well and enjoying her life. And trust me, the be enjoyment have close her eyes to remember you at all. Just skip her and open you heart to meet a sweet and respectful woman.

But in all never trust or underestimate the power of a woman, they can be laughing with you and at the same time preparing different stuffs to hurt you.

Apostle Johnson Suleiman said, Before you marry go and beg your ex, make peace with them. He said some of the problem we encounter in our homes are as a result of these. Imagine the emotional damage this lady has done to this man even after years. Be careful!!!

..... Out !!!

Get Rid Of Emotions And Sentiments= Save Yourself Heartaches. 2cents

redon12:
My fiance blocked me on WhatsApp three years ago, I couldn't reach her on phone either. I couldn't reach her mum and two sisters, trying to understand why she blocked me and why I couldn't reach her Family.

Two days later I saw her traditional wedding pictures on Facebook. It was the cruelest thing that ever happened to me.

I didn't have much money then so I could understand why she left. But I spent every dime I had on her, the sex was good and I was always there when she needed me.

All this happened three years ago, I felt that because she left me abruptly her life was supposed to be miserable, but she really is doing well, I have been stalking her all the way, I attended her wedding and her graduation, though quite conspicuous in the act, she drives the latest cars now, the last time I heard about her she was leaving the country to the UAE to deliver her second child. And still nothing bad happened to her.

I still can't get over her my life is miserable. But then all those years she left and I had time for myself to think clearly and learn web development skill, I was able to build my self a site that quickly transformed itself, it had a fast growth, an e-commerce/fintech company, which i am now officially it's CEO, with a company size of 11 people. I just got a seeding of 1.2 million dollars, to buy riders for dispatchers and also for advertisement.

But with all these she's thriving and she's doing well, It makes me wonder if life is really fair, I still have pictures of the day I proposed at ShopRite, the kisses, the hugs, the time we spent together, I still can't believe she forgot all that.

I am doing well now I have my own house and two cars to it, and a thriving company. But I can't stop stalking her, because of her I moved to Enugu where she lived. Some days whenever I come back from work Early I give this secondary school boys small cash to go to her husbands mansion to see if there is any activity there, then come back and report to me.

I believe she doesn't know I am still unto her, almost any day I am coming back from work, I drive through her beauty spar just to catch a glimpse of her.

I convinced my kid sister to move to Enugu, also convinced her to enroll her child in the same nursery and primary school my fiance's child goes to.

No matter how hard I try to meet other women, I always see her face on the wall behind them. I have tried to meet women from different countries from some of my trips to Dubai. No matter how gorgeous they never appeal to me.

Even till today I still see her as my fiance, I don't know what to do or how to get over her.

You are not a serious fellow.

Fake story

Kriss216:
They use Toto water cook food for this one

I swear. A real man can't be this weak

Iyaebe:
Since you guys had premarital sex then she ows you nothing and nothing bad will happen to her,she will continue to grow bigger because she's not your child and your right hand does not posses her.So much entitlement from fornicators disguised as boyfriend/girlfriend.Abeg move your skinny ass on and no dy disturb us here,you are even a very wicked man for expecting her life to be miserable because of ordinary leave wey she leave you,how am I sure you've not done juju on her head and it didn't catch her.

There will be a shout of Joy in Heaven the day you make a sensible post.

Kriss216:

There will be a shout of Joy in Heaven the day you make a sensible post.

Chairman of fornicators association of Nigeria, tell your colleagues that there's no permanent commitment where no bold step has been taken, some will use ring to stylishly tie you down while pursuing wetin no lost,e no hard me to throwaway ring wey bold step no follow.

Martinez39s, ubunja, CaveAdullam, Luminouz, mjbolt you know we don't like ourselves but I dash you people this op.

She's a despicable human being that betrayed you. A human being like that isn't worth living rent free in your head.

Those of you judging the lady without hearing from her are evil,no lady will leave a good man that's faithful and truly loves her.Put your thinking cap on before passing judgements.

OP, you're a SIMP and a mumu man!
Too much zeeworld and Nigerian movies has affected your sense of reasoning this is exactly what I'm saying, SIMPS always think emotionally with their brains instead of thinking logically with their senses.

You spent your last kobo on her trying to please her and always make her happy, she in turn allowed you to continue wasting your money on her knowing fully well that she will never marry you

You should know women marry who's available. before you proposed to her at the shoprite, another dude has already proposed to her. She left you because the other nigga has more money than you.

Weak and Pussy ass niggas everywhere!!
You better stop this your Simpson madness and block that woman, forget her and move on with your life. Stop stalking on her! Stop simp-ing around!

Another Simp spotted..

OP...

Do you know the redpill?

Or should I teach you personally?

For a few bucks, I'll panelbeat redpill into your fuqin skull.

N.B: That girl had taken your soul. Only the redpill can save you bro

redon12:
My fiance blocked me on WhatsApp three years ago, I couldn't reach her on phone either. I couldn't reach her mum and two sisters, trying to understand why she blocked me and why I couldn't reach her Family.

Two days later I saw her traditional wedding pictures on Facebook. It was the cruelest thing that ever happened to me.

I didn't have much money then so I could understand why she left. But I spent every dime I had on her, the sex was good and I was always there when she needed me.

All this happened three years ago, I felt that because she left me abruptly her life was supposed to be miserable, but she really is doing well, I have been stalking her all the way, I attended her wedding and her graduation, though quite conspicuous in the act, she drives the latest cars now, the last time I heard about her she was leaving the country to the UAE to deliver her second child. And still nothing bad happened to her.

I still can't get over her my life is miserable. But then all those years she left and I had time for myself to think clearly and learn web development skill, I was able to build my self a site that quickly transformed itself, it had a fast growth, an e-commerce/fintech company, which i am now officially it's CEO, with a company size of 11 people. I just got a seeding of 1.2 million dollars, to buy riders for dispatchers and also for advertisement.

But with all these she's thriving and she's doing well, It makes me wonder if life is really fair, I still have pictures of the day I proposed at ShopRite, the kisses, the hugs, the time we spent together, I still can't believe she forgot all that.

I am doing well now I have my own house and two cars to it, and a thriving company. But I can't stop stalking her, because of her I moved to Enugu where she lived. Some days whenever I come back from work Early I give this secondary school boys small cash to go to her husbands mansion to see if there is any activity there, then come back and report to me.

I believe she doesn't know I am still unto her, almost any day I am coming back from work, I drive through her beauty spar just to catch a glimpse of her.

I convinced my kid sister to move to Enugu, also convinced her to enroll her child in the same nursery and primary school my fiance's child goes to.

No matter how hard I try to meet other women, I always see her face on the wall behind them. I have tried to meet women from different countries from some of my trips to Dubai. No matter how gorgeous they never appeal to me.

Even till today I still see her as my fiance, I don't know what to do or how to get over her.

Your behaviour (if this story is true) is outright creepy!

Pls relocate back from Enugu, and move on.







Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters!

luminouz:
OP...

Do you know the redpill?

Or should I teach you personally?

For a few bucks, I'll panelbeat redpill into your fuqin skull.

N.B: That girl had taken your soul. Only the redpill can save you bro

No need wasting your time trying to make that SIMP a Red piller.

He'll never understand what it means to be a Red piller. Dude is so weak and will take years before he'll become a red piller. Imagine how he is thinking emotionally with his brain instead of thinking logically with His senses!

Gosh. I hate simps!!!!

This is super story!!!!!!

Lol.. stop stalking her now... You're only going to be hurting yourself if you continue and it could lead you to doing something deadly.

Wishing someone evil is not good. Just let karma take it's course. That is if she really did you wrong.

I tell you something. It's not because you love her you're feeling this way and cant let go but because you can't seem to get over the fact that another man snatched her away from you because he was richer and now that you're well to do, theres this urge to fight for what you think was yours. Trust me. If by any chance she comes back, you'll realize you don't love her anymore and all that zeal to fight and get her back was borne out of vengeance and not love.

Another thing could be lust. Just remembering all your sexcapades with her and the thought that another man is now enjoying it is what is making you freak out. Lust!!!!

Just stop lusting and fantasizing about her. Keep telling yourself she's gone for good and never gonna come back. Truth is, she no longer remembers a thing about you. so why worry about someone who doesn't care whether you still exist or not.

Just let go. Get someone to talk to. Like a chat buddy who'll take your mind off her. And try not to engage in sex in your next relationship to avoid being trapped or stuck again.

They misuse entirety sewage taya foodstuffs for this one

Kriss216:
They use Toto water cook food for this one

lol! una too funny.....

Another man down. Bro you need to move on and don't make a habit of hanging around women who have no interest in being with you. Rejection is certainly better than living with what if's.

Well, you have a wild imagination. Someone should make a nollywood movie out of this. It will surely be better than that chief daddy nonsense.

Mariangeles:
Unbelievable.

If by any chance the story is true, do yourself a favour, let it all go and move on.

I tried but it didn't work out, every night I see her in my dreams.

To be honest the reason I strived for success was to be richer than her husband.

I don't want to put out my identity here due to the reputation of my company, my whole body responds to just her.

Everyone I meet See's me as a role model, but deep within a hole exist.

Is there some one I can talk to, or a therapy I would have to undergo, the funds are no problem.

All I wish is I could meet her personally just for the last time, I think I would be okay.

I don't know if this is normal, but I regard her child like mine..

First off stop the stalking both online and offline. Secondly, you need to relocate or move away from where you are since its close to her, I know its hard but its been 3years you've literally paused your life for someone who has moved on a long time ago.

I know how hard it is trust me, but your life is not tired to her. If she can actually forget all you shared and jumped ship you can too, you deserve to be happy.

Lastly you need to talk/see a counselor if you're interested I can help

redon12:


I tried but it didn't work out, every night I see her in my dreams.

To be honest the reason I strived for success was to be richer than her husband.

I don't want to put out my identity here due to the reputation of my company, my whole body responds to just her.

Everyone I meet See's me as a role model, but deep within a hole exist.

Is there some one I can talk to, or a therapy I would have to undergo, the funds are no problem.

All I wish is I could meet her personally just for the last time, I think I would be okay.

I don't know if this is normal, but I regard her child like mine..

I genuinely feel so sorry for you.

What I think what you need is closure.
One last chance to meet her and ask her all the questions you've harboured.

You have to and must decide to let go of all the hurts without resentments, so that you call begin to heal.
Stop stalking her. It has gotten to the point of obsession.
You're doing yourself much harm.

You will be fine eventually.

Conwarden:



Your behaviour (if this story is true) is outright creepy!

Pls relocate back from Enugu, and move on.







Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters!

My company branch is here now. I moved here last year's Q1 in the wake of the pandemic, which helped greatly, the company is thriving, if you have ever been to Enugu, you must have used one or two of my services.

I did not find chasing my interests creepy, just like I do with business. Looking back now, it's quite Stark that most of my close associates, where afraid to advice me due to my status...

Most times it's good to come forth to a place of even capacity.

Moving out of Enugu is not an option. Truth is I didn't see my encroachment wrong since I had proposed to her.

One thing I didn't reveal is the fact that I feel that she carried my child.

We never had any querrel our relationship was perfect, with consent from both families.