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Bola146:
That is why you shouldn't start what you can't continue!!!!!! See the beginning of the wahala the lady should know better by now when you were displaying her legs, it was with fullest enjoyment you should try and continue that way sir please. The triplets need your care now please, it's a matter of time. How I wish I can be sending a token to the kids monthly but God sees my heart.

God bless you ma I am trying my best but if my wife carries on with her attitudes she will loose me because my health is getting worse day by day and if I die she will take care of them alone

Prospertochu:
God bless you ma I am trying my best but if my wife carries on with her attitudes she will loose me because my health is getting worse day by day and if I die she will take care of them alone

Kai you will never die please. Say something positive to yourself please

InTheCloudySky:
Her giving your mother one meal a day doesn't make sense. She wouldn't treat her own mother like that. Either increase the feeding money you're giving her or she too should be doing something to earn money.

God bless you ma for saying the truth yes she wouldn't treat her mother like that because if my mother happen to be her mother she would do everything to make that money sufficient to feed all of us , I wish I had more to give her

Prospertochu:
I am married with three kids 2 years and 3 months triplets , my salary is 55k i used to give my wife 20k mother 10k , 5k for rainy days and 20k for myself transportation and other expenses outside my house. My wife complained that the money was not enough I added 5k making it 25k monthly but she still demanding for more money and she has threatened to leave if I don't give her more , I had no money to give her my own mother was homeless staying in church and I couldn't stop giving her that 10k because she needed it . My wife used to fought me every single day and my uncle asked us to leave the family house hearse we were disturbing their peace and I was ready to let her go and I will be sending 25k for our triplets upkeep every month but for the sake of our kids we have settled down with 30k monthly leaving me with 15k , so far we have moved out of the family house, we are staying in a parlour and room house a brother from Canada gave us the place it is not permanent but it is better and we are very very grateful. Like I said earlier my mother was staying in church now we have a one bedroom house I have discussed with my wife for my mum to come and live with us and I will stop the 10k I was giving her and I will add it to her money making it 40k monthly she have agreed. Now that my mother is here with us she started again with the 40k is not enough to feed all of us note I dobt eat breakfast I eat lunch at work and in the evening at eat at home , she is only giving my mother foods in the evening while she and my kids eat 3 Square meal a day. I asked her why she is treating my mother so badly she said the economy is hard if she doesn't have she won't kill herself. I am sick and tired and if I have sorted things it was for the sake of our kids and now I am starting to regret. I am thinking from this month when I get my salary I will give her 30k and give my mother 10k to be cooking her own foods. It is my decision good?

If you can't put the kids in school now cause of money, let your your wife get a job and leave the kids with your mom to take care off while you guys are away.

aanuoluwami14:
No wonder you showcase your insanity here typing empty skull advises here, are they God to know how many kids are inside her belly? When he was playing with her legs, didn't he think he would result to this? He didn't have something to fall on but he would have sex with her?! Your type are having bastards children outside been denied . Prayers without work is invain. Sule let me tell you, prayers work very well

If prayers truly work, you won't be on nairaland wasting your time...


Mumu

Prospertochu:
I married her against my wish her mother forced me to marry her because of the pregnancy. I blamed myself sha maybe if I have had use condoms I wouldn't have been in this miserable marriage.

unfortunately condom cost 100 naira only

stacyadams:
unfortunately condom cost 100 naira only

Bitter truth

Blessings27:
If you can't put the kids in school now cause of money, let your your wife get a job and leave the kids with your mom to take care off while you guys are away.

She doesn't want to work because the salary is too poor she want to have her own business

michael77777:
If prayers truly work, you won't be on nairaland wasting your time...


Mumu

Ode! Your are living in no meaningful life? Were

aanuoluwami14:
Ode! Your are living in no meaningful life? Were

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Prospertochu:
I am married with three kids 2 years and 3 months triplets , my salary is 55k i used to give my wife 20k mother 10k , 5k for rainy days and 20k for myself transportation and other expenses outside my house. My wife complained that the money was not enough I added 5k making it 25k monthly but she still demanding for more money and she has threatened to leave if I don't give her more , I had no money to give her my own mother was homeless staying in church and I couldn't stop giving her that 10k because she needed it .

55k a month for a family of 5 and you want to have your mother added to that list? You are very very unserious individual.

Since your kids are old enough, let your mom takes care of them while she looks for a job.

Ps_ women like this don't change. Even if u give her 500k, she will still complain and starve your mother. It's in their DNA.

Kobojunkie:
55k a month for a family of 5 and you want to have your mother added to that list? You are very very unserious individual.

Jobless fool at least I am better than your jobless ass you have nothing else to do than critizing people who may be doing better than you , I don't need your stupid comment here

Foodqueen:
Since your kids are old enough, let your mom takes care of them while she looks for a job.

Ps_ women like this don't change. Even if u give her 500k, she will still complain and starve your mother. It's in their DNA.

God bless you for saying the truth yes you are right even if I was rich and I use to give her 1 million she will never be satisfied at all but one day when I am no more in this world she will be alone with 3 kids and she will appreciate the small money I am giving her

Prospertochu:
Jobless fool at least I am better than your jobless ass you have nothing else to do than critizing people who may be doing better than you , I don't need your stupid comment here

Insult me all you want but it won't take away from the foolishness that is your current life and the fact that rather than resolving the core issue, what you seek to do is tack on more foolishness to your status quo to then conveniently place the blame on just your wife in this.

P.s. I don't live my life foolishly.

Kobojunkie:
Insult me all you want but it won't take away from the foolishness that is your current life and the fact that rather than resolving the core issue, what you seek to do is tack on more foolishness to your status quo to then conveniently place the blame on just your wife in this.

P.s. I don't live my life foolishly.

Same to you go ahead insult me as much you like because that's your job you have nothing else to do in life apart from critizing people , it is a pity because you don't get kobo for this stupid lifestyle that you have choose , it would be better if you use the energy to get yourself a job and stop putting mouth on things that doesn't concern you lowlife fool. I am not those who you insults and they keep quiet. Fool

Recycled topic.
Very stale.

Jobless ones that won't look for something to do.

Nigerians future leaders

Prospertochu:
God bless you for saying the truth yes you are right even if I was rich and I use to give her 1 million she will never be satisfied at all but one day when I am no more in this world she will be alone with 3 kids and she will appreciate the small money I am giving her

Hope you aren't planning to kill yourself.

Jejely take your mom and go elsewhere.

Think if your mom o. No woman deserve to lose a child.

Pls...

Prospertochu:
Same to you go ahead insult me as much you like because that's your job you have nothing else to do in life apart from critizing people , it is a pity because you don't get kobo for this stupid lifestyle that you have choose , it would be better if you use the energy to get yourself a job and stop putting mouth on things that doesn't concern you lowlife fool. I am not those who you insults and they keep quiet. Fool

Again....Insult me all you want but it won't take away from the foolishness that is your current life and the fact that rather than resolving the core issue, what you seek to do is tack on more foolishness to your status quo to then conveniently place the blame on just your wife in this.

P.s. I don't live my life foolishly.

Foodqueen:
Hope you aren't planning to kill yourself.

Jejely take your mom and go elsewhere.

Think if your mom o. No woman deserve to lose a child.

Pls...

Thank you so much

I understand what you are passing through. I will advice you mandate your wife to get a job. Your wife is not considerate at all. Please, take care of your mum, give her 10k like you are planning. If your mum can still work, please let her get a job even if it is cleaner job. Sincerely, your income cannot sustain you all. Either your wife works or your mum works.
Have a family meeting and discuss this issue o. Feeding is not easy now o.
Your kids will start school soon, how will you cope?
Treat this issue as urgent.

Prospertochu:
I am married with three kids 2 years and 3 months triplets , my salary is 55k i used to give my wife 20k mother 10k , 5k for rainy days and 20k for myself transportation and other expenses outside my house. My wife complained that the money was not enough I added 5k making it 25k monthly but she still demanding for more money and she has threatened to leave if I don't give her more , I had no money to give her my own mother was homeless staying in church and I couldn't stop giving her that 10k because she needed it . My wife used to fought me every single day and my uncle asked us to leave the family house hearse we were disturbing their peace and I was ready to let her go and I will be sending 25k for our triplets upkeep every month but for the sake of our kids we have settled down with 30k monthly leaving me with 15k , so far we have moved out of the family house, we are staying in a parlour and room house a brother from Canada gave us the place it is not permanent but it is better and we are very very grateful. Like I said earlier my mother was staying in church now we have a one bedroom house I have discussed with my wife for my mum to come and live with us and I will stop the 10k I was giving her and I will add it to her money making it 40k monthly she have agreed. Now that my mother is here with us she started again with the 40k is not enough to feed all of us note I dobt eat breakfast I eat lunch at work and in the evening at eat at home , she is only giving my mother foods in the evening while she and my kids eat 3 Square meal a day. I asked her why she is treating my mother so badly she said the economy is hard if she doesn't have she won't kill herself. I am sick and tired and if I have sorted things it was for the sake of our kids and now I am starting to regret. I am thinking from this month when I get my salary I will give her 30k and give my mother 10k to be cooking her own foods. It is my decision good?

Forget about your wife ,a woman will alwas complain when things are not working out financially,the only solution now is not to try and make more money and nprove financially,55k ,even if it's just a child it's still small not to talk if triplets,the lord is your strength

Prospertochu:
I married her against my wish her mother forced me to marry her because of the pregnancy. I blamed myself sha maybe if I have had use condoms I wouldn't have been in this miserable marriage.

Just make sure they are yours or else you might die of cardiac arrest the day you found out the kids are not yours

How old is your mother? Why can't your mother work? Is she suffering from one ailment?

Look, the only way is for your mother to get a job. The alternative is for her to take care of your triplets so you and your wife can fully concentrate on your job/business.

Don't ever suggest to your wife to get a job at this stage without anyone to help with the kids. Only a ma.d man will tell a young mother of triplets to get a job. Attending to those toddlers daily is harder than driving a truck from Lagos to Kano every day. So kill that idea and don't ever bring it up.

Prospertochu:
I am married with three kids 2 years and 3 months triplets , my salary is 55k i used to give my wife 20k mother 10k , 5k for rainy days and 20k for myself transportation and other expenses outside my house. My wife complained that the money was not enough I added 5k making it 25k monthly but she still demanding for more money and she has threatened to leave if I don't give her more , I had no money to give her my own mother was homeless staying in church and I couldn't stop giving her that 10k because she needed it . My wife used to fought me every single day and my uncle asked us to leave the family house hearse we were disturbing their peace and I was ready to let her go and I will be sending 25k for our triplets upkeep every month but for the sake of our kids we have settled down with 30k monthly leaving me with 15k , so far we have moved out of the family house, we are staying in a parlour and room house a brother from Canada gave us the place it is not permanent but it is better and we are very very grateful. Like I said earlier my mother was staying in church now we have a one bedroom house I have discussed with my wife for my mum to come and live with us and I will stop the 10k I was giving her and I will add it to her money making it 40k monthly she have agreed. Now that my mother is here with us she started again with the 40k is not enough to feed all of us note I dobt eat breakfast I eat lunch at work and in the evening at eat at home , she is only giving my mother foods in the evening while she and my kids eat 3 Square meal a day. I asked her why she is treating my mother so badly she said the economy is hard if she doesn't have she won't kill herself. I am sick and tired and if I have sorted things it was for the sake of our kids and now I am starting to regret. I am thinking from this month when I get my salary I will give her 30k and give my mother 10k to be cooking her own foods. It is my decision good?

Stupid fool ,u r putting all d blame on a young mother of triplet when Ur lazy mother can not fend for herself, imagine Ur sister is a household is ur mother crippled or just lazy she is supposed to be supplying U with food stuff n by adding to Ur problem or is it how her own mother is depending on her. Oga Ur mother did n't plan her life well she is more of a leech n a bloodsucker let her go and hustle to take care of Ur sister who is a household. Ur main focus should be d welfare of Ur kids feed them well

odinson1:
@First bolded is why it is a Foolish concept to even consider asking a woman for Relationship Advice. They don't Think with their brains. If he continues to "Endure with her", he will Die young because the stress is too much! She's draining away his energy,pushing him pass his breaking point. If this madness doesn't stop,he will Die a miserable old or in thise case,young man.

@2nd bolded, If prayers worked, there would be nothing like World Hunger

are you married? If you are married dont your wife breastfeed your baby? Imagine breastfeeding 3 babies.

michael77777:
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He goat and ewu

Realestbae:
Stupid fool ,u r putting all d blame on a young mother of triplet when Ur lazy mother can not fend for herself, imagine Ur sister is a household is ur mother crippled or just lazy she is supposed to be supplying U with food stuff n by adding to Ur problem or is it how her own mother is depending on her. Oga Ur mother did n't plan her life well she is more of a leech n a bloodsucker let her go and hustle to take care of Ur sister who is a household. Ur main focus should be d welfare of Ur kids feed them well

just imagine the Op, using 40k in buhari's economy to feed 3 babies? The kids would be so malnourished I can imagine.

Prospertochu:
I married her against my wish her mother forced me to marry her because of the pregnancy. I blamed myself sha maybe if I have had use condoms I wouldn't have been in this miserable marriage.

Don't take your blessings for granted. The economy is really bad and 55k household income is not sufficient even for a a family of 2. My advise is for you to get a side hustle, anything you can do to bring in extra money no matter how little.
The Lord is your strength

cyndyuc:
I understand what you are passing through. I will advice you mandate your wife to get a job. Your wife is not considerate at all. Please, take care of your mum, give her 10k like you are planning. If your mum can still work, please let her get a job even if it is cleaner job. Sincerely, your income cannot sustain you all. Either your wife works or your mum works.
Have a family meeting and discuss this issue o. Feeding is not easy now o.
Your kids will start school soon, how will you cope?
Treat this issue as urgent.

who would take care and breastfeed the triplets? Would you tell your wife to leave your 3 month old babies to go and work?

aanuoluwami14:
He goat and ewu

You are cursing me?... tomorrow you will start claiming child of God....


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