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kaynik: I hate to generalize but I find myself stereotyping cos of the hurt I have been through. I have known this guy for almost 10 years. We started a serious relationship beginning of 2008 and he left the country at the end of that very year. We found our selves in a long distance relationship, something I hated and had told him before he traveled. In 2010 we got engaged and later that year we did our introduction. The distance continued and I also had to leave the country. Now that he was my fiance, things were worse between us.Last year, he insulted and abused me emotionally. He kept accusing me of cheating. One day he wanted to show that he cared and was not really abusing me, so he sent a chat between him and his friend. Unfortunately for him, he copied and pasted the wrong part of the chat as the cat he sent revealed that he was cheating on me with women. He begged and begged and i didnt listen. Not because he cheated but because he was cheating and was also abusive. Please anyone reading his should take note, any man or woman who keeps accusing you of cheating without any proof is actually cheating. Its what they call projecting in psychiatry.
Well, 2012 came and I stupidly forgave him. he promised never to insult me again and he was true to his promise. He also added that he had broken off with the girl. Just yesterday a lady got in touch with and revealed that this my fiance has been dating her since 2008. I always sensed it but this guy kept lying for four straight years. He is manipulative and smooth. Besides the cheating, he has put me through hell.
Now the problem is I can never forgive him but we are planning our wedding. We are supposed to go for counselling next week. I know I have to cancel the marriage counselling but what next. I loved him at some point and I wasted my life with him as i am not young. I have heard stories like this before but I never knew this evil man can be like that. He has also wasted the time of the girl he was cheating on me with as she isnt young too.
How can he get punished, how do I announce to the family what this man has done. am confused and disappointed. please help.

hawtin:

i honestly hope this was not targeted at me?

cowgurl: What will you do if it were? Definitely not you Hawtin, you don't come across as a male chauvinist.

i trust u
all these big words can be misleading
una to dey blow am too much
pity us wey dey learn
if it were me sha,
i will fight u ghetto style
bite your nipples off with my mouse teeth
i have bitten a dcck off its socket before
no test me
olorun dem dey fear me for area

kaynik: I hate to generalize but I find myself stereotyping cos of the hurt I have been through. I have known this guy for almost 10 years. We started a serious relationship beginning of 2008 and he left the country at the end of that very year. We found our selves in a long distance relationship, something I hated and had told him before he traveled. In 2010 we got engaged and later that year we did our introduction. The distance continued and I also had to leave the country. Now that he was my fiance, things were worse between us.Last year, he insulted and abused me emotionally. He kept accusing me of cheating. One day he wanted to show that he cared and was not really abusing me, so he sent a chat between him and his friend. Unfortunately for him, he copied and pasted the wrong part of the chat as the cat he sent revealed that he was cheating on me with women. He begged and begged and i didnt listen. Not because he cheated but because he was cheating and was also abusive. Please anyone reading his should take note, any man or woman who keeps accusing you of cheating without any proof is actually cheating. Its what they call projecting in psychiatry.
Well, 2012 came and I stupidly forgave him. he promised never to insult me again and he was true to his promise. He also added that he had broken off with the girl. Just yesterday a lady got in touch with and revealed that this my fiance has been dating her since 2008. I always sensed it but this guy kept lying for four straight years. He is manipulative and smooth. Besides the cheating, he has put me through hell.
Now the problem is I can never forgive him but we are planning our wedding. We are supposed to go for counselling next week. I know I have to cancel the marriage counselling but what next. I loved him at some point and I wasted my life with him as i am not young. I have heard stories like this before but I never knew this evil man can be like that. He has also wasted the time of the girl he was cheating on me with as she isnt young too.
How can he get punished, how do I announce to the family what this man has done. am confused and disappointed. please help.

cowgurl: Okay you can do something Hawtin so I won't test you even in my dreams . Ride on gurl!

i kissed a girl and i like it
i am attracted to u
have u tried kissing a girl?

Ileke-IdI:
Women are also liars. Gimme a break.

kaynik: I hate to generalize but I find myself stereotyping cos of the hurt I have been through. I have known this guy for almost 10 years. We started a serious relationship beginning of 2008 and he left the country at the end of that very year. We found our selves in a long distance relationship, something I hated and had told him before he traveled. In 2010 we got engaged and later that year we did our introduction. The distance continued and I also had to leave the country. Now that he was my fiance, things were worse between us.Last year, he insulted and abused me emotionally. He kept accusing me of cheating. One day he wanted to show that he cared and was not really abusing me, so he sent a chat between him and his friend. Unfortunately for him, he copied and pasted the wrong part of the chat as the cat he sent revealed that he was cheating on me with women. He begged and begged and i didnt listen. Not because he cheated but because he was cheating and was also abusive. Please anyone reading his should take note, any man or woman who keeps accusing you of cheating without any proof is actually cheating. Its what they call projecting in psychiatry.
Well, 2012 came and I stupidly forgave him. he promised never to insult me again and he was true to his promise. He also added that he had broken off with the girl. Just yesterday a lady got in touch with and revealed that this my fiance has been dating her since 2008. I always sensed it but this guy kept lying for four straight years. He is manipulative and smooth. Besides the cheating, he has put me through hell.
Now the problem is I can never forgive him but we are planning our wedding. We are supposed to go for counselling next week. I know I have to cancel the marriage counselling but what next. I loved him at some point and I wasted my life with him as i am not young. I have heard stories like this before but I never knew this evil man can be like that. He has also wasted the time of the girl he was cheating on me with as she isnt young too.
How can he get punished, how do I announce to the family what this man has done. am confused and disappointed. please help.

Daresh: OP let me give you good advice, he wont change so pack your bags and run. If you dont want to have a broken marriage or spend your nights crying, I advice you to end it now. I made that mistake of thinking things will change in marriage but sweetie it doesnt. My husband even knelt down to beg me when I caught him but did that change him? Dont think you are too old or anything like that because believe me marriage is just the beginning of a very long journey and if he doesnt have your best interests now, what will happen in 5 yrs? 10yrs, 30 yrs? Just accept that you've wasted time on him and dont waste anymore or I assure you, you will cry more. Cut out NOW. Tell your family, especially your mum and Dad and let them knowwhat has bn going on. Dont let anyone sweet talk you into staying, I assure you he is lying.

luckgames:

Can we hear your husband side of the whole story?
Good luck with your second hand single life

luckgames:

Can we hear your husband side of the whole story?
Good luck with your second hand single life

cowgurl:
i kissed a girl and i like it
i am attracted to u
have u tried kissing a girl?
Katy Perry? Never liked that song.
Wow! Am honoured Hawtin but pls don't go opening a thread about it okay,
Have I kissed a gurl? Yeah, but not french, it was the Nigerian kind.

cowgurl:
i kissed a girl and i like it
i am attracted to u
have u tried kissing a girl?
Katy Perry? Never liked that song.
Wow! Am honoured Hawtin but pls don't go opening a thread about it okay,
Have I kissed a gurl? Yeah, but not french, it was the Nigerian kind.

hawtin:

i will teach you
it starts someday
lmao i be mad babe abi?
i no well
i will spoil u
explain nigerian kind

Mynd_44:
Well in that case, we have all kissed our mothers then

cowgurl: Good to know we have a Nigerian kiss Mynd

Daresh: OP let me give you good advice, he wont change so pack your bags and run. If you dont want to have a broken marriage or spend your nights crying, I advice you to end it now. I made that mistake of thinking things will change in marriage but sweetie it doesnt. My husband even knelt down to beg me when I caught him but did that change him? Dont think you are too old or anything like that because believe me marriage is just the beginning of a very long journey and if he doesnt have your best interests now, what will happen in 5 yrs? 10yrs, 30 yrs? Just accept that you've wasted time on him and dont waste anymore or I assure you, you will cry more. Cut out NOW. Tell your family, especially your mum and Dad and let them knowwhat has bn going on. Dont let anyone sweet talk you into staying, I assure you he is lying.

cowgurl: Believe me Mynd, I had no idea.

kaynik:
I hate to generalize but I find myself stereotyping cos of the hurt I have been through. I have known this guy for almost 10 years. We started a serious relationship beginning of 2008 and he left the country at the end of that very year. We found our selves in a long distance relationship, something I hated and had told him before he traveled. In 2010 we got engaged and later that year we did our introduction. The distance continued and I also had to leave the country. Now that he was my fiance, things were worse between us.Last year, he insulted and abused me emotionally. He kept accusing me of cheating. One day he wanted to show that he cared and was not really abusing me, so he sent a chat between him and his friend. Unfortunately for him, he copied and pasted the wrong part of the chat as the cat he sent revealed that he was cheating on me with women. He begged and begged and i didnt listen. Not because he cheated but because he was cheating and was also abusive. Please anyone reading his should take note, any man or woman who keeps accusing you of cheating without any proof is actually cheating. Its what they call projecting in psychiatry.
Well, 2012 came and I stupidly forgave him. he promised never to insult me again and he was true to his promise. He also added that he had broken off with the girl. Just yesterday a lady got in touch with and revealed that this my fiance has been dating her since 2008. I always sensed it but this guy kept lying for four straight years. He is manipulative and smooth. Besides the cheating, he has put me through hell.
Now the problem is I can never forgive him but we are planning our wedding. We are supposed to go for counselling next week. I know I have to cancel the marriage counselling but what next. I loved him at some point and I wasted my life with him as i am not young. I have heard stories like this before but I never knew this evil man can be like that. He has also wasted the time of the girl he was cheating on me with as she isnt young too.
How can he get punished, how do I announce to the family what this man has done. am confused and disappointed. please help.