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MarquisKelvin:
She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime ago (before I met her). The guy asked her to be his girlfriend, she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway

The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching him, wasn't possible...

After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and all that...

Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being available, then requests to get her back, what will be your reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again yet she gave the same reply

I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then...

And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice

Below are the messages i sent to her... So that she will explain things to me

realestate99:
our urge to be with a pretty lady makes us take some avoidable shit, look at the lamentations you just typed, if it is converted to PDF, it would be more than 12 pages on top woman matter, na wa o

Relationship nowadays is pure tactics, true love is just 1.8℅, always enumerate your partner's emotional disposition to you from time to time, you should not appear too needy, if she removes subsidy from her emotions, you follow suit.

if she comes out to tell you that she will go back to the guy then you have to be decisive , you can either be vandalising her without emotions on the side or quit outrightly but I don't like the epistle stuff you put up there, no sieving, just straight from the mind.....that is a f^cking mental torture, you deserve better.

MarquisKelvin:
She said to me, The truth is that I loved him not because he got me an iPhone no , but because it was genuine
Do not say the reason why I love him is because he’s financially stable cuz he’s not the first person

She's staying

MarquisKelvin:
She said to me, The truth is that I loved him not because he got me an iPhone no , but because it was genuine
Do not say the reason why I love him is because he’s financially stable cuz he’s not the first person

She's staying

KingDash:
so y'all are together now? I got this kind of ish too, well kinda.. I asked my girl if she wanted a iphone for val, but she said I should get her a teddy bear instead.. what kinda of girl doesn't want an iphone that's what I'm thinking right now??

realestate99:
She said all that? so what is your plan?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She might be an emotional lady.. relationship is all about patience and understanding aiit..don't rush things..you guys are still learning just as we all do in life..

Do as I said call and meet her physically..make her feel loved ..tell her how you really feel and things might work out for you guys..

MarquisKelvin:
She said to me, The truth is that I loved him not because he got me an iPhone no , but because it was genuine..
Do not say the reason why I love him is because he’s financially stable cuz he’s not the first person

She's staying

she said loved him... That was what I was watching out for... She has met the guy in the past before we started dating... And na me open her cunt self

If she had said love him instead of loved... Na to leave am with immediate effect

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I see..

MarquisKelvin:
How you see am?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
That can't be classified as cheating..
Just speak with her as I said..

MarquisKelvin:
I will bro... Thanks

MarquisKelvin:
She said to me, The truth is that I loved him not because he got me an iPhone no , but because it was genuine..
Do not say the reason why I love him is because he’s financially stable cuz he’s not the first person

She's staying

she said loved him... That was what I was watching out for... She has met the guy in the past before we started dating... And na me open her cunt self

If she had said love him instead of loved... Na to leave am with immediate effect

GoodHardDick:
You're just trying to console yourself, that girl is in love with that nigga.

E sure me die say dem Don bang tire. Forget all those things she told you. She told you those things not to make you feel hurt (which obviously you are already).

You're just her second option while that guy is the main bf.

No too stress yourself. Forget her and move on.