backbencher:


She can travel to the US after she gets her nursing qualifications...

Canada, and UK even are looking for nurses.

Yes. She will even bring her husband and children.

If she accepts her uncle, she will be a slave and a sex machine. She will eventually be murdered if she escapes.

linearity:


If the offer from the uncle in US is genuine, I doubt if he will be 'trapped'. This is the US, and it is in the best interest of the uncle to act legally and pay fair wages to his/her laborers. Yes, she can face deportation if ratted out, but the Uncle will face more severe consequences including also deportation if they are not yet citizens and/or imprisonment, fines, payment of back wages, etc.

And if she is abused, she stands a chance of getting a U or a T visa in the US as long as she report the abuse to the authorities and cooperate with law enforcement as they investigate and prosecute the abuser.

So you want this woman to risk being tr4fficked for the possibility of a related visa?

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hosey:

Yes. She will even bring her husband and children.

If she accepts her uncle, she will be a slave and a sex machine. She will eventually be murdered if she escapes.

I even know one married nurse, got place in Canada, allowed to bring kids, spouse. No wahala.

Besides, it's better to go to these developed countries with a tertiary qualification(unless you are going there for undergraduate studies)

shawante:
If you like no run go do passport.. Dey dia dey talk

It depends your relationship with your so call uncle

Tank uu...I really don't want to make any mistake

bazzyblings:


This isn’t a topic you bring out for deliberation .. aren’t you seeing what’s going on in the country ? And you have an opportunity to go else where and you’re seeking deliberations about it ??

Na juju b that

I graduated last yr in a federal university and I got admission same year into nursing school

BigIyanga:

So you graduated from University and then got another admission to study nursing?? Or are you admitted to a nursing school that doesn offer Bachelor degree?

hosey:

She will locked and trapped in a room and used as a love-vendor. NOTHNG IS FREE. Better dont go.

I take it that, you have never stepped into the US, so point arguing that.

Also, I am not denying the fact that some ladies get 'locked up and trapped' in the US and used for the acts you have described...but it is harden criminal gangs with links and connections that do that in the US.

The uncle can threaten her and will pray to be right all the times, he only require one slip and there is something she can do to checkmate her uncle and put him on his toes.

It will only take a phone call from a neighbor, a friend, a coworker or a scripted message from her to outsiders for the authorities to come knocking.

And unless the Uncle is a sadist, die-harden criminal belt on self-destruction, no person of African descent knowing what they have passed through to maintain their US credentials and having the ability to invite a relative from Nigeria to join them abroad will want to risk all on that and their immediate family in the US by doing what you have just described.....the risk-reward (if at all there is any reward, though I see none) is not even close!

hosey:

Lol. The uncle will not even pay her. He will eventually sleep with her and use her as a love-vendor for his freinds.

Uncle that does his poor and looking for free labour. International student in US pay about 20000 USD per year for school fees .

This is how many of you become sexually trafficked.NOTING IS FREE.

Finish your Nursing qualification and be on control.

I’m sorry that uncle wouldn’t try that ?

He will spend the rest of his life in jail
He will know better , US don’t joke with sex trafficking,rape or molestation

MAKE UNA DEY ASK MUMU QUESTION OOOH

AMERICA JOOOR

Lavisha:
Hey,

Your bro is a LIAR.
You may end up as a nanny forever.


Go to Nursing School, nurses are making it big time Nowadays.

Enemy of progress

I will advise you numerically.

1. Check if truly your uncle owns a hospital. Google is name and cheek on the BBB website to be sure.

***Some years back an American lady was introduced to my friend for marriage, he was told she owns 3 hospitals we later discover it to be false.

2. Due to covid 19, most embassies unofficially suspend visa issuance. They also give denials for those with previous interviews appointment.

***I don't want to mention their names but I know of an embassy that has a 30-month backlog of visa applications. They have decided that throughout 2022 they will only issue visas for undeniable cases, they have decided to use 2022 to restructure their staff and do renovation work.

Given the above, I will advise you to pursue your nursing career and before you know it, you are done. With your nursing certificate, you have something to fall back on and if your uncle is sincere, he can then help you.

3. Signing a contract with your uncle is not advisable.

*** Your uncle may likely use a visiting visa, what if after two years he tell you babe you are on your own. By then you would have overstayed your visiting visa and been branded as an illegal migrant. Do you know the pain of being illegal when caught?

4. If you don't have a passport now, it may likely take you 2-3month to obtain one. Another 3 months to get an interview by then you have wasted a year.

Please pursue your nursing career now you have the time.

I have a first degree already n d main reason I went for a second degree is to practice outside the country.I am not desperate to leave,i want to take my time.

Chyma231:
so u want to study nursing and end up being nurse Eliza here in this zoo country ?? Oga madam ...tell ur uncle u have a friend who is ready and DM me so I will gladly take the offer , if u can't accept the offer and leave here ...there is no hope in this country . If you leave and enter United state , after two years of being there , u can leave ur uncles house and start life on your own. Yanky no be Nigeria oo ...and he can't turn u to a slave there ....America is a civilised country ...a simple 911 call can put him in prison if he tries that. So my dear ...leave this country ...opportunity comes but once !

titusodem:
Let's put promise fulfill apart, I will rather advise you accept the offer from USA.

hmmm.. tanks

Aunty you better stay in Nigeria and finish with your nursing school, Nursing is a hot cake, you will see how opportunities to travel legally abroad will open up for you after you finish your nursing school. Don't mind your uncle and don't let your family pressure you to go.
Goodluck

Kelechi009:


Let's even pray and hope the Uncle will not even start sleeping with her.

chisos!lol

Tank you very much

Simran94:

Hello, please don’t listen to those telling you to jump on the USA offer. Poverty sometimes can make people make irrational decisions that they would end up regretting in the end.

Your uncle is a medical doctor who has an hospital over there, which means he should have enough money to pay for a professional nanny. Why can’t he hire one? Why is your uncle giving you a condition to help him take care of his child before he helps you? This sounds more like a trap.

You said it yourself that you have never met this uncle before.

Please, go to your Nursing school. Nursing and other health paths are in shortages in the UK, Canada and USA. When you graduate, apply for many NHS companies abroad and you will be great.

Tank you...I appreciate

safesurfer:


It seems your uncle is forthright with you, telling you how he's going to do it

Some will tell outright lies from the onset that they want to help you, only to experience something else after you land.

Since you said in your other comment that you plan to relocate to UK after nursing school, I'll say you should weigh your options properly before making a move.

But I don't think your uncle has any ulterior motive. Just a gut feeling though.

Rush do visa and vamoose out of dis kontri.

Cousin9999:


So you want this woman to risk being tr4fficked for the possibility of a related visa?

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And, where did it say that, she is been trafficked or you guys just came up with that or you are assuming the worst case scenario as the default thing that will happen here?

There are valid nanny visa in the USA, though very hard to get; so it is not entirely impossible that the Uncle is saying the truth because childcare in the US is very expensive if it not government subsidized....Yes, I agreed that anyone can be potentially trafficked, but US is not high risk destination for African traffickers and the risks of getting caught and severely punished are very very high.

Traffickers also know that, the US is not like Europe when potential traffickers are afraid of reporting to the Police for fear of getting deported, in the US an illegal's immigrant can walk into a Police station or dial 911 the slightest chance they get and drop the phone without saying a single word and the authorities will come knocking.

Nothing here say, she should not be cautious; but we should not default to the worst case scenario here.

I appreciate... tank you

linearity:


hmm....

An uncle in the US, he can't even sponsor you for any US visa except for an invitation letter that anyone else can get. The US visa system does not have any preference category for extended family members, I doubt if your uncle is telling you the whole truth.

But, again...both activities are mutually exclusive, you can still go ahead and pursue your Nursing degree.....because, even if your uncle put in for your visa together, it will be a very very long time before you even go for an interview...unless he is 'packaging' a visitor's visa for your and want to pay all those in-side agents the huge fees that not only will get you in front of the line, but will ensure that pre-visa interview examiners okay your documents and pass them off to the officer who will be interviewing you as 'all clear'.

The open secret on the street is, this level of sort can cost up to N1.5m to N2m.

Tank you very much

hosey:


You better don't go. Your uncle wants free labour and will eventually use you as a love-vendor and sexual trafficking for his male friends.

Finish your Nursing school and get nursing work experience.

Then you can come to UK or USA. You can also bring your husband and kids. When you gain nursing experience after you graduate, let me know so I can tell you various opportunities.

Don't mind all those people telling you to travel. Most of them are kids with no life experience filled with poverty mentality.

This is a very dicey situation and many points have to be answered before you make your final decision.

1. Your uncle wants you to come to take care of his children. In America today, people really need childcare especially in this COVID era. That's his primary concern, not your education. How sure are you that he will sponsor your education as he said when the time comes? Childcare here in the US is EXPENSIVE.

2. How are you going to come? Like someone said, are you coming as a visitor? I hear getting visas other than student is a daunting task now and that interviews are backed up until 2024,, and there's even no assurance you will be granted a visa. Are you willing to hold your education on the premise that he will "sponsor" your education after two years?

If I were you, rather than wait, I will enroll in Nursing school. Getting into the US these days is not as easy as it was before. Don't build your future based on mere promises. Get your qualifications first, then write your NCLEX exams. You will have a better chance that way than to come empty handed. Nurses are in high demand here in the US. I know that cos my mum is an RN here and i know how much she makes. Your uncle's priority is his children, not you.

Even without considering the scamming risk, why be a nanny when you can be training as a nurse and getting valuable experience?

There's also the issue of the visa. This "uncle" is likely to have you there illegally. That will ruin your chances of legally working abroad in a good position.

The thought of wasting 2 years of your life babysitting doesn't appeal to me except if there is a contractual agreement that you will be paid for that services.

Proceeding with your nursing school will be a much viable option.

Thanks.

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Please please just go to the United States. Endure for two years and leave your uncle house .. this is the best thing that can ever happen to you in this Season btw can you link me to your Uncle? I will do the Job. I have 3 years experience in Caring for the Aged.

linearity:

Nothing here say, she should not be cautious; but we should not default to the worst case scenario here.

America isn't Disneyworld.

And even if the uncle never harms her, you have to look at the reality that he likely won't finance her education, and will have her there illegally. She also likely won't be earning much money if any, so what is she getting out of it?

Study Nursing here in Nigeria and it will open countless opportunities to not only travel abroad but also get a good job with or without your uncle.

I have not seen him before

Phyde:
You know your uncle more than we do. With the present country situation, i will advise you move and further your nursing school there, with better opportunities compare to Nigeria.

Tank you

shevchenko:

How old is the child? Just be careful 2 years can turn to 5 years or forever

You are 25 years , this is the time you are leaving the peak of potential male interests .

Do your nursing jejely in Nigeria.Family reunion abroad is horrible