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elampiro:
My thinking is that the current issue is because she cannot see a future with him. She is hurt. If she saw a future with him or are married, she wouldn't have done those postings. She might not have even recorded him.

This your logic no make sense at all, so because she sees a future with him, she should condone abuse that could one day end her life

It doesn't matter the kind of future you're dreaming with someone, if there are red flags it's better to call its quit else you might not live to see the future. Why do you think many married folks call it quits and divorce? Or engagements gets called off?

eph12:
Murder suspect have been released on bail, is it rape suspect that can't be released on bail?

But Mendy was arrested and charged with offenses on 26 August and had been denied bail on three occasions since.

elampiro:
My thinking is that the current issue is because she cannot see a future with him. She is hurt. If she saw a future with him or are married, she wouldn't have done those postings. She might not have even recorded him.

[color=royalblue] Which kind thinking be this?

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elampiro:
But the police questioned the girl before they arrested Greenwood. Why does it look like you are trying to create the impression that should Greenwood be acquitted, it would not be that he was innocent, but that the law was weak. Pictures and audio posted to the net alone do not make someone guilty. It still remains a one-sided account. What if also the girl had threatened him that should he walk away she would ruin his career. There are many what if ...what if ..and what if.

My thinking is that if it was a very serious rape case, Greenwood will not have been released even on bail. This is the mitigating factor I was talking about that people did not understand.

This assault happened last year or 2020, and she is just coming out with it. Omo am beginning to think Greenwood was being blackmailed to remain in the relationship cos of monetary gain, maybe he got fed up and decided to quit. But for her to be devastated the pictures and video got out, claiming her phone was hacked tells another story. Well me done activate sidon look mode for this matter, until the police finish their investigation.

Ellexy:
This your logic no make sense at all, so because she sees a future with him, she should condone abuse that get one day end her life

It doesn't matter the kind of future you're dreaming with someone, if there are red flags it's better to call its quit else you might not live to see the future. Why do you think many married folks call it quits and divorce? Or engagements gets called off?

Have you heard of provocation? I saw one video like that when a married woman was squeezing her husband's private parts because she discovered he was dating girls. The man was at her mercy, cos na death near so. When a woman feels she owns you alone, the home is peaceful. But when there is a doubt, some women will not react, some will walk away in peace, but here are some that will ruin it all before they end it. This is why I still want to hear the whole story first.

TrebleChamp:
This assault happened last year or 2020, and she is just coming out with it. Omo am beginning to think Greenwood was being blackmailed to remain in the relationship cos of monetary gain, maybe he got fed up and decided to quit. But for her to be devastated the pictures and video got out, claiming her phone was hacked tells another story. Well me done activate sidon look mode for this matter, until the police finish their investigation.

And what could have provoked the assault?

Why did Greenwood threaten to kill? Did she threaten his career with blackmail?

After the report is out, I can know if I will blame Greenwood 100%.

popizaino:
I rate a GOAT by amount of goals he scored in a calender year and I don't also think any player has ever scored 91goals in a calender year.

That won't do sorry, he or Ronaldo can only lay claim to the GOAT title when either win the Fifa World Cup. Ronaldo is the highest goalscorer in International football, does this make him the GOAT? Definitely not in my opinion. Go and watch clips of a young Maradona, not the cocaine ravaged 1994 World Cup Maradona ooh

izzou:
[color=royalblue] Which kind thinking be this?

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I just weak shaa

Never wanted to say this before but this Elampiro dull gaan. Like extremely dull!

Almost thought he was trolling at a point.

ChristoBam:
Never wanted to say this before but this Elampiro dull gaan. Like extremely dull!

Almost thought he was trolling at a point.

Ayagayagayagayo Heeeeeeeeiiiii Ayagayagayagayo

Next time Baba Elamps say e wn reserve him comment abeg, make una no too try to engage am abeg ...

The level of "proud ignorance" though, smh

Leyqute:
Person suppose frame this post for when PSG win EPL wirh Messi scoring hattrick.

Postdigger please could you help bookmark it? E go get use for future.

Epl?

CrystalTiger:
Next time Baba Elamps say e wn reserve him comment abeg, make una no too try to engage am abeg ...

The level of "proud ignorance" though, smh

Bring forward an intelligent argument to counter mine. Law is not based on beer palour discussion but what the law makers of a country sit down to deliberate, vote and pass. This is why the spousal rape law is not acceptable in some countries and even new to the world.

What if you are married and your spouse denied you sex for one year, whereas he/she is doing it outside? The law will not punish him/her for adultery but the law protects him/her to deny his/her partner as long as possible. I guess this kind of power is what some countries looked at and refused to pass it. In some religions, divorce is not allowed. You do so, you live in adultery with your new spouse till death.

I say again with emphasis, law on spousal rape is a new law in the world. For tens of centuries past, it never existed.

elampiro:
Bring forward an intelligent argument to counter mine. Law is not based on beer palour discussion but what the law makers of a country sit down to deliberate, vote and pass. This is why the spousal rape law is not acceptable in some countries and even new to the world.

What if you are married and your spouse denied you sex for one year, whereas he/she is doing it outside? The law will not punish him/her for adultery but the law protects him/her to deny his/her partner as long as possible. I guess this kind of power is what some countries looked at and refused to pass it. In some religions, divorce is not allowed. You do so, you live in adultery with your new spouse till death.

I say again with emphasis, law on spousal rape is a new law in the world. For tens of centuries past, it never existed.

[color=royalblue]Is she married to Greenwood?[/color]

elampiro:
And what could have provoked the assault?

Why did Greenwood threaten to kill? Did she threaten his career with blackmail?

After the report is out, I can know if I will blame Greenwood 100%.

We cannot know for sure what provoked the assault, but am sure the police would find out in their investigation. Greenwood is like many other male who feels they are the stronger version of the human race, a lot of men beat their girlfriend and wife on a regular because they are stronger. Am even sure some of the people who have castigated Greenwood here since this news broke out also beat their girlfriend and wife too. I can never justify assault or attempted rape or rape, but i will wait until the police finish its investigation and the report is released.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Is she married to Greenwood?[/color]

Did the name Greenwood appear in the comment you quoted?

Someone brought the topic of spousal rape and we are thrashing it. In the UK, spousal rape is a crime since 2003. Another source stated 1991

But when a case is before the authority many things come into play. There might be clauses in law, precedence from recent judgments that the lawyer will argue with. Not all cases are the same and some things are mitigated by circumstances. Look below what people think in a UK survey.
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Understanding Consent In Marriage In The UK
Marital rape is a difficult concept to grasp for policymakers in the UK. It’s a slippery slope to define consent between people who are presumably in a consensual sexual relationship. The following are some alarming statistics surrounding Attitudes to Sexual Consent, according to a survey by YouGov:

- 33% of the respondents think that it’s not rape if a woman is forced into having sexual intercourse without any physical violence.
- Almost a third of men think consent is present if a woman was flirting on a date. The sex ensuing wouldn’t count as rape even if there was no explicit consent given.
- A third of men think that consent can’t be retracted during sex.
- 24% of the respondents think that long-term relationships don’t require consent for sex.
These statistics are alarming because they depict the mindset of a huge population of adults in the UK—who are part of the jury for rape cases—are unclear about what constitutes rape. These statistics show that the conceptual understanding of rape is flawed, which proves to be the biggest hurdle in the prosecution of rapists.
http://wembleysolicitors.com/blog/marital-rape-why-was-it-so-difficult-for-the-uk-to-criminal-is-a-sexual-assault-within-a-marriage/

elampiro:
Did the name Greenwood appear in the comment you quoted?

Someone brought the topic of spousal rape and we are thrashing it. In the UK, spousal rape is a crime since 2003. Another source stated 1991

But when a case is before the authority many things come into play. There might be clauses in law, precedence from recent judgments that the lawyer will argue with. Not all cases are the same and some things are mitigated by circumstances. Look below what people think in a UK survey.
...........................................

Understanding Consent In Marriage In The UK
Marital rape is a difficult concept to grasp for policymakers in the UK. It’s a slippery slope to define consent between people who are presumably in a consensual sexual relationship. The following are some alarming statistics surrounding Attitudes to Sexual Consent, according to a survey by YouGov:

- 33% of the respondents think that it’s not rape if a woman is forced into having sexual intercourse without any physical violence.
- Almost a third of men think consent is present if a woman was flirting on a date. The sex ensuing wouldn’t count as rape even if there was no explicit consent given.
- A third of men think that consent can’t be retracted during sex.
- 24% of the respondents think that long-term relationships don’t require consent for sex.
These statistics are alarming because they depict the mindset of a huge population of adults in the UK—who are part of the jury for rape cases—are unclear about what constitutes rape. These statistics show that the conceptual understanding of rape is flawed, which proves to be the biggest hurdle in the prosecution of rapists.
http://wembleysolicitors.com/blog/marital-rape-why-was-it-so-difficult-for-the-uk-to-criminal-is-a-sexual-assault-within-a-marriage/

[color=royalblue]You are quoting texts for Marital rape, and I'm asking you if she's married to Greenwood.

I ask again

Is she married to Greenwood?[/color]

postdigger:
Epl?

UCL o.
My mistake. Thanks

Must be something about that no.5 jersey, innit?


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izzou:
[color=royalblue]You are quoting texts for Marital rape, and I'm asking you if she's married to Greenwood.

I ask again

Is she married to Greenwood?[/color]

In the comment you quoted, did you see Greenwood mentioned?

However in Europe, people have substituted the world 'couple' for 'marriage'. All these footballer like Pique, Ronaldo, Martial, with women and kids do you think they are married?. In situation of a court proceeding, the lawyers are going to argue they are couples. This is the modern world we live in where everything God has established is been substituted

CrystalTiger:
Next time Baba Elamps say e wn reserve him comment abeg, make una no too try to engage am abeg ...

The level of "proud ignorance" though, smh

Instead of you to thank me for opening your eyes that abortion is a criminal offense in Nigeria so that you don't fall into it.

Laws are not made from discussion in the beer palour or from imagination. Laws are written. In modern world, some laws are controversial. In the US the laws promote same-sex marriage as good, but in Nigeria it is a criminal offense to engage in such. Kirikiri

In some countries, boyfriend and girlfriend can register as civil union to enjoy all benefits as married people. etec etc.

Good morning nairalanders, please I need a quick response to this and your opinions; I rented a single room apartment on the 19th of February 2020 and if we are to count the months, my stay supposed to expire on the 19th of February (if am correct). My landlord came before the due date and said my rent expired end of January, we dragged that but due to me saying i will renew then, we ended that. Now this is 2022, she came yesterday to tell me I have this week to pack. Am I getting it wrong telling her my house rent expires on the 19th of Feb 2022 (which makes it 12months) or is that how it is counted( January ending which is 11months)? Location: Abeokuta

Sorry for posting this here but in anyway just give your opinions. Have posted this in property section but the mod isn't pushing it to front page yet. My apology to you guys, thanks

Bjteensdes24:
Good morning nairalanders, please I need a quick response to this and your opinions; I rented a single room apartment on the 19th of February 2020 and if we are to count the months, my stay supposed to expire on the 19th of February (if am correct). My landlord came before the due date and said my rent expired end of January, we dragged that but due to me saying i will renew then, we ended that. Now this is 2022, she came yesterday to tell me I have this week to pack. Am I getting it wrong telling her my house rent expires on the 19th of Feb 2022 (which makes it 12months) or is that how it is counted( January ending which is 11months)? Location: Abeokuta

What is the exact wording of the rental agreement you signed?

Only in the jungle called Nigeria will a landlord give the tenant a week to pack out.

Meanwhile after last year's issue you should have been proactive and avoided having the same argument this year. The disagreement in dates should have been sorted out one way or the other during the course of the past 12 months.

afrodoc2:
What is the exact wording of the rental agreement you signed?

Only in the jungle called Nigeria will a landlord give the tenant a week to pack out.

Meanwhile after last year's issue you should have been proactive and avoided having the same argument this year. The disagreement in dates should have been sorted out one way or the other during the course of the past 12 months.

No rental agreementI just collected the receipt where the date I paid was stated (February 19)

You know, after telling that woman I will extend my stay and pay, she wasn't shouting again and said I should pay. Since I know I have my receipt stating the date, I know I have a proof in case she wants to come here again and cause any trouble

ChristoBam:
Never wanted to say this before but this Elampiro dull gaan. Like extremely dull!

Almost thought he was trolling at a point.

Bro have some respect please, he is an elderly man.