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ubunja:
can a man be 100% masculine, and a woman 100% feminine? I don't think that's possible. The genders will always exist on a spectrum of masculine/feminine balance,, with alphas more masculine than feminine and stay-at-home women more feminine than masculine. But both genders will always carry both energies,, just in different concentrations and ratios.
I'm saying this because there are jobs that don't kill a lot of women's femininity, jobs like Nursing. Which happen to nurture women's nurturing nature. And women's nurturing nature is part of their femininity.

luminouz:
Phone. Easier to carry around

Elder0001:
Cc CAPSLOCKED

demmymoney:

CELEBRITIES ARE THE WORST EXAMPLES TO USE WEN IT COMES TO INTERSEXUAL DYNAMICS

demmymoney:
MASCULINITY IS WORK

ma373733:
leemao

Emmynator:
Hmmm, very interesting topic of discussion today.
This is my take.

I don't think a redpiller should be against being a provider, this is actually our natural masculinity at its finest.
I get that alot of women want to drop their parts while wanting men to retain the provider aspect of the age long transaction. The red pill stands against this sort of shortchanging on the sexual market place table.
Avoid so called independent women who neither make financial contributions (saying you're the provider) nor fulfill her feminine gender role in return (oh, that shit is outdated). That is a redpiller's battle.

However, if you want to share bills with your woman (dumping the provider status quo), then be ready to accommodate a woman who is dumping her own status quo too.
And like anyone will say, being in a modern relationship will emasculate you and masculinate her, because you both have to tap into feminine and masculine sides to come to a common ground.

Personally, i am not against being a provider, but i will only provide when my conditions are met, chastisty, agreeable, teachable etc
If i am marrying a women, she must engage in a job that can give her time for child rearing, if we are both pursuing a career, getting home late, hereby missing a huge chunk of our child/children's upbringing, then it is an unfortunate situation, which everyone should avoid.

I am not interested in engaging in power tussles with a female in the name of modern relationships, I come with the old negotiation chips, she better does the same else a deal is off the table.

Red pill chapter 22 vs 12.
"He who goes to the negotiation table, must ensure he is getting equal or more value for his resources".

Emmynator:
This would have been true, if celebrities do not end up determining what intersexual dynamics transition into.
Most intersexual dynamic trends have been started and popularized by celebrities.

Zabiboy:
Oga Dapacity,
Every work has a reward right?
So whats the reward for this "Burden of responsibility" you talk about?
Is it for the tag "A MAN" or "short life expectancy" or "the feeling of you being in control of people( your family in this case)"??
I'll love to know

DaniWhizbang:
I think most of them still don't get it. You want a submissive feminine wife but don't want to take up the full responsibility that comes with being masculine.

My elder bro is 3 yrs into his marriage with a kid and there's no atom of noise or quarrel in his union.

He takes full responsibility in his home. Provides financially and handles all masculine tasks. His wife is practically a sit at home wife who does virtually all feminine tasks like washing, cleaning, cooking even when she's fully pregnant. He recently got her a maid due to her pregnancy. Girl is at peace with everyone in our family unlike my other brothers wives.

Elder0001:
Cc CAPSLOCKED

demmymoney:
50/50 DOESN'T EXIST

ARENT U GUYS LOOKING AT WESTERN SOCIETIES AND WOKE SOCIETIES NI

IF U WANT UR HOME TO B TRADITIONAL THEN ADHERE TO TRADITIONAL GENDER ROLES

IF U WANT UR HOME TO BE MODERN THEN ADHERE TO MODERN GENDER ROLES

ITS VERY SIMPLE....

demmymoney:
THE SOCIAL HIERARCHIES MEN WORK IN ARE SHAPED LIKE PYRAMIDS, TOP OF THE PYRAMIDS ARE MEN WHO ARE SUPERIOR, HIGH VALUED, WEALTHY, POWERFUL AND RESPECTABLE..... BOTTOM OF THE PYRAMIDS ARE MEN WHO ARE POOR,MISERABLE, LOW/NO VALUED, INFERIOR AND NOT RESPECTABLE

Frankled:
you said it all.
If i am to go raw with the meaning of our traditional marriages. It means i now own the girl. And what i own, i will take care of while she does nothing but to please me cos my happiness is her happiness. Redpill just teaches you how not to be manipulated when you're performing your duties not when you're not, that is being irresponsible. This doesn't mean your Woman can not be working. She can be taking care of minor or less noticeable things while you handle the major things that matter (tho she can help once in a while). some Women, after giving her your World will still put you inside their armpit and be pressing you like remote while others are too greedy and will keep on wanting. But with redpill, high blood pressure, loss of peace or sudden death will not be your portion. And practicing redpill on the right patner who know what she want is the only thing that can keep fear in her not to cheat (a hole is still a hole though thats why i said right partner).

Some other Men would consider or prefer western culture. Its ok for them cos it suits their lifestyle. But they will be paying everyday for it cos they ve decided not to pay the other way round. Their z no fuccing bloo.dy way you will make a woman your equal and her authority will not indirectly supersede yours. Even if she becomes a hole and start cheating or she eventually get tired of you and dump your a.ss in the marriage. People in the public will still naturally without hearing any story point fingers at you because she has a generally accepted vunerability mask advantage over you

N/B: If you prefer equality method, please Raw redpills isn't for you

Zabiboy:
Bro, who tf cares about these so-called "social hierarchies"?
Seems like you're still interested in living life for tags...
guess no need for further discussion

Emmynator:
Hmmm, very interesting topic of discussion today.
This is my take.

I don't think a redpiller should be against being a provider, this is actually our natural masculinity at its finest.
I get that alot of women want to drop their parts while wanting men to retain the provider aspect of the age long transaction. The red pill stands against this sort of shortchanging on the sexual market place table.
Avoid so called independent women who neither make financial contributions (saying you're the provider) nor fulfill her feminine gender role in return (oh, that shit is outdated). That is a redpiller's battle.

However, if you want to share bills with your woman (dumping the provider status quo), then be ready to accommodate a woman who is dumping her own status quo too.
And like anyone will say, being in a modern relationship will emasculate you and masculinate her, because you both have to tap into feminine and masculine sides to come to a common ground.

Personally, i am not against being a provider, but i will only provide when my conditions are met, chastisty, agreeable, teachable etc
If i am marrying a women, she must engage in a job that can give her time for child rearing, if we are both pursuing a career, getting home late, hereby missing a huge chunk of our child/children's upbringing, then it is an unfortunate situation, which everyone should avoid.

I am not interested in engaging in power tussles with a female in the name of modern relationships, I come with the old negotiation chips, she better does the same else a deal is off the table.

Red pill chapter 22 vs 12.
"He who goes to the negotiation table, must ensure he is getting equal or more value for his resources".

Frankled:
If you prefer equality method, please Raw redpills isn't for you

Elder0001:
Cc CAPSLOCKED

Zabiboy:

Wake up to reality bro...

Zabiboy:

Wake up to reality bro...
Tell me, how many "females"( between 18-24) are ready to play the traditional role in this era?...
Do you also know that someone can play all feminine, traditional and all, then still change after giving her the ring?
One question tho bro...
If a guy does his cooking, cleans his apartment, has a washing machine/washes with his hands and is ok financially, tell me bro, can cooking, cleaning and washing be classified as an investment on the wife's part if he gets married? If No, what then should he be looking out for as an investment by his wife on him?

SO IT IS WOMEN WHO ARE IN THEIR 30s THAT WILL MAKE TRADITIONAL WIVES AND MOTHERS ABI

LETS NOT B FOOLISH HERE NAA!

ANYWAYS LOW VALUED BETA MALES WILL ALWAYS EITHER SETTLE DOWN WITH MASCULINE FEMALES OR HOES OR BOTH

U CANT MAKE THIS SHIT UP!!!

demmymoney:
YOU ARE A USELESS DULLARD FOR ASKING THIS FOOLISH QUESTION

FOOL!

ReacherSaidNoth:
The only fool here is the one who throws insults where none is needed.