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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Psoul(m): 8:50am On Feb 11, 2022
The fastest way you can locate that ur son is to go make money.
I mean, make real money.
Once that is done, you don't need to go looking for the boy.
The boy, his mother, relative and kindred will start looking for you.
Na you go dey select the ones you want to see and the ones you don't think u need around u.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:50am On Feb 11, 2022
Ogunleti01:
must you talk
Tienes algun problema con eso huh? undecided
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by baby124: 8:51am On Feb 11, 2022
SarkinYarki:
What do you want to see him for? Do you have an inheritance for him?
He needs money, he get health problems. Lol. Now he remembers he has a strong healthy son whose mother is from a wealthy home. He wants to use that boy through emotional manipulation.

I am sure in 24yrs he didn’t even buy Spider-Man school bag for the boy. Or even baba dudu

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by beejay85: 8:53am On Feb 11, 2022
golbe1972:
With deep pain in my heart I'm crying out for justice and help from all those who can help me locate my son .

The last time I saw my son was when he was two years old before the mother eloped with him. His name is Nelson Raymond but I heard they've changed his name to ADEWALE.

The woman in question is from a popular Kotun family in Lagos. I was literally slap on the face due to my financial incapability. The woman's name is RONKE KOTUN, heard she's married to one Mohammed.

I was deprived access to my son because I'm not a Muslim and she thought I would influence the boy from turning away from Islam if I should be in his life. The last time I managed to get her contact she boasted that I'm nobody in Lagos and can't take her anywhere. I contacted the Justice court for mediation but we couldn't locate her to serve her an invitation.

Please I'm using this medium to reach out to anyone with useful information on how to track her. I contacted a family member of hers who claimed he doesn't know where she lives, yet he kept collecting money from me under the pretence of helping to locate my son.

It's really depressing as this is my only child and I'm not getting any younger and with underlining medical conditions which makes me think I might never see my son again before my time comes.

Please this is a plea of a helpless man seeking for justice.
Don't come here to deceive us...
24 years!!! You never cared for the child from the onset..
Reason why u came here to seek our help..
My advise- let sleeping dog lie, lick your smelly wound of parental irresponsibility and move on whilst seeking for forgiveness from God..
Should God grant ur request ,the boy will seek for you on his own...
At age 24_26 he should be perfecting his charted course in life and u LL be an unnecessary distraction for now...
Let them be

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by emmykk(m): 8:53am On Feb 11, 2022
golbe1972:


He's not a property to be claimed, rather just to establish a father son relationship.


Had his negligence made the so call son to die who will he establish a son and father relationship.


You are seeing a useless person coming to reap where he didn't sow instead of telling him the truth you are gnashing it.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Eriokanmi: 8:54am On Feb 11, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

You cancelling my comment can't stop people from seeing the fact and accept it..
Instead of you to prove me wrong you are proving me right by being a weakling..
Stop distracting yourself here pls. That you got disappointed as a result of your unbelief doesn't change the fact that God exists. You're just like Saul whom God met with, along his way to Damascus on his mission to do what you're also doing ignorantly right now. Try and pray (if only your perverse soul wouid permit you) and ask God to manifest Himself ti you humbly. You'd have a change of mind afterwards.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Willie2015: 8:54am On Feb 11, 2022
MufasaLion:


Place of prayer? I wonder how y'all reason.

My religion teaches me whenever there is a distress...

which one cannot remove...one must fast and pray

M K Ghandi
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:55am On Feb 11, 2022
Eriokanmi:
Stop distracting yourself here pls. That you got disappointed as a result of your unbelief doesn't change the fact that God exists. You're just like Saul whom God met with, along his way to Damascus on his mission to do what you're also doing ignorantly right now. Try and pray (if only your perverse soul wouid permit you) and ask God to manifest Himself ti you humbly. You'd have a change of mind afterwards.
Pray to what? shocked
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by eminikansoso(m): 8:59am On Feb 11, 2022
Righteousness2:
Take it to GOD in Prayers like someone said up there.
There is Nothing Prayers cannot do.
What GOD cannot do, does not Exist!

@ golbe1972 ,I recommend you Visit the Lord's Chosen Charismatic revival Ministries .
So Oga pastor na Lord Chosen you dey go.
It is well.
May God Strengths our faith
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by nbisi: 9:01am On Feb 11, 2022
Let him keep deceiving himself, after allowing d woman n family to take care of d boy with d mindset when d boy grows will definitely look for him. Wot effort do u make for a whole 24 yrs? Did u contribute in d boy's welfare , just to come here to spew rubbish on dis forum. Admin pls delete him n his post..thanks

TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by AdaAwka1: 9:03am On Feb 11, 2022
You impregnated a woman you are not married to, dont you know dats a criminal offence?? Instead of u to go and get married and have children of ur own you are here chasing clout. Dont you know that by tell that man of 24 all these ur tale, you just want to disorganise his life?? You want to pull him down to be as sorrowful as you are. I beg if you are not as loaded as dangote no near there oo

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Tatashi: 9:04am On Feb 11, 2022
Liar!!! You are one of those useless fathers who abandon their kids in young age only to rear your head to look for them when other people have suffered to raise them. You better leave that boy and his mother alone. If you were a good father, he would have looked for you. You want to reap where you did not sow? Oga, respect your self

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Cecero(m): 9:04am On Feb 11, 2022
If you intend taking this to the court of public opinion, then Twitter is your best bet. You'll get better exposure and people will rally round you.
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by JayPeeOham: 9:05am On Feb 11, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

How can you give your life to someone who doesn't exist? undecided

Does life exist?

If your answer is "Yes", then point to that part in and out of your body that is called Life undecided

Let me tell you without Christ, you have no Life what you have is a Heart!

Jesus Christ is The Life (John 14:6) and without him you're lifeless.

Another question?

Since you don't believe God exist, could you please share your own belief and what is that you believe in and why you do?

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Bright2(m): 9:06am On Feb 11, 2022
Op , I put it to you that you how to go about it but as a smart guy , you are trying to build defense here on nairaland to defend your attitude Incase your son start opening your pages when you both meet. My best advice is , better go spiritual before then otherwise that man might not reason your matter . Don't come here to start Muslim and christian war.
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by FERNANDEZISBACK: 9:08am On Feb 11, 2022
JayPeeOham:


Does life also exist?

If your answer is "Yes", then point to that part in and out of your body that is called Life undecided

Let me tell you without Christ, you have no Life what you have is a Heart!

Jesus Christ is The Life (John 14:6) and without him you're lifeless.
What do you know/understand by life?
And what make you say the bolded?
You can't just quote a fictional book..
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by macrodata(m): 9:16am On Feb 11, 2022
GeneralOjukwu:
24 years....

Sorry but you were complacent.

The boy...now man is gone!

I can bet you refused to send any money for his upkeep, hiding under " I am principled".

In cases of separation, if you're unlucky to have the lady take away the child, best to try every possible avenue to pay for EVERYTHING you can.

Make every possible efforts to reach out.

These are seeds that would grow in the child's mind later.

As it is, the lady has won. Because the worst outcome is if the child takes a look at you and then turns away in resentment (for abandoning him).
Are you daft or lady ass reader? Didnt you read that he's not been able to trace the family? Yet you utter rubbish in boldness like you have your life all figured out. Learn not to judge people.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Nobody: 9:17am On Feb 11, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

How can you give your life to someone who doesn't exist? undecided

Why are you troubled over someone you claim does not exist?
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Nicepoker(m): 9:19am On Feb 11, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
This ain't where to get justice.. undecided
If you really seek justice you know the right place to go....
when you seem not to understand the difference between tracking and justice. Just be opening mouth like a soil with low PH.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by FERNANDEZISBACK: 9:19am On Feb 11, 2022
Tetehjewels:


Why are you troubled over someone you claim does not exist?
Does a response mean I am troubled? undecided
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Nobody: 9:22am On Feb 11, 2022
golbe1972:
With deep pain in my heart I'm crying out for justice and help from all those who can help me locate my son .

The last time I saw my son was when he was two years old before the mother eloped with him. His name is Nelson Raymond but I heard they've changed his name to ADEWALE.

The woman in question is from a popular Kotun family in Lagos. I was literally slap on the face due to my financial incapability. The woman's name is RONKE KOTUN, heard she's married to one Mohammed.

I was deprived access to my son because I'm not a Muslim and she thought I would influence the boy from turning away from Islam if I should be in his life. The last time I managed to get her contact she boasted that I'm nobody in Lagos and can't take her anywhere. I contacted the Justice court for mediation but we couldn't locate her to serve her an invitation.

Please I'm using this medium to reach out to anyone with useful information on how to track her. I contacted a family member of hers who claimed he doesn't know where she lives, yet he kept collecting money from me under the pretence of helping to locate my son.

It's really depressing as this is my only child and I'm not getting any younger and with underlining medical conditions which makes me think I might never see my son again before my time comes.

Please this is a plea of a helpless man seeking for justice.

If you have gotten her phone number then open a federal civil case against her and with the case registered in court, you can then involve the police and demand they track that number to know her whereabouts because she needs to be served a subpoena.

Put pressure on them until they provide a police report to back it up and run a trace on that phone number

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Nobody: 9:24am On Feb 11, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Does a response mean I am troubled? undecided

You SPECIFICALLY picked out that comment to respond to it TWICE. This means it's a nagging issue on your mind.

If something or someone does not exist as you claim why then should it matter to you what righteousness says?
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by ahnie: 9:25am On Feb 11, 2022
Abeg let the past stays in the past.





Move on with your life.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by JayPeeOham: 9:29am On Feb 11, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

What do you know/understand by life?
And what make you say the bolded?
You can't just quote a fictional book..

Since I know nothing about life, that's why I asked you to tell us where we can find it but you dodged the question including the one I asked about your beliefs.

So, until you answer those questions we can't have a conversation bruv
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Dreytonisback(m): 9:29am On Feb 11, 2022
Post the woman's picture and ur son's own when he was 2yrs old if you have them here on nairaland make we help you yab the woman for here but if na justice you want , you no fit get am for nairaland oo

Na people with house rent issues , low sperm count
Cheating girlfriends
Family problems naim full here, Dem no get solution to their own problem talk more of yours

We are here to catch cruise on a stead, so post her picture let some boys bomb her


Lights up my kpoli in peace

Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by LordIsaac(m): 9:30am On Feb 11, 2022
On this issue, I'm prepared to hear the other side.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Ogunleti01: 9:30am On Feb 11, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Tienes algun problema con eso huh? undecided
Bi were se maa n bere niyi oooo!
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by ictplotter(m): 9:31am On Feb 11, 2022
Whazar:
Go to her Kotun whatever and ask for your son since you said they are popular like that
Just carry femi falana along

Make ur son no go be my high school mate sha Bolaji Kotun
Femi falana legal consultancy fees alone is 3m.
So justice is for the rich and the political class in Nigeria.
Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by virginchaser(m): 9:31am On Feb 11, 2022
Abandoned kids reary forgive and forget when they grow older. It's worse when they have mothers that are manipulative. It does no good to them all, mother, father and the children.

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Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by tranxo(m): 9:31am On Feb 11, 2022
Jeon:
WHY DO YOU WANT TO CLAIM THE BOY AFTER 24YEARS?
Claim what is his? Take a chill pill. The man is only trying to see his son may be one last time before he dies and you are trying to prove what with your question?

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