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wwwtortoise:
Mind sharing what you mean by boldened?

Btw we are here to share ideas and learn not pick offense with contrary opinions.

Peace !

TheGidRedpiller:
I'm thinking of investing in a skill learning program, for men only of course.
We help in raising kings little by little from there.

What do you guys feel about this idea?

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

CaveAdullam:
Not only because romance is men's favourite subject but that from an evolutionary standpoint sex, food and play are the primary things that excites humans and will mostly talk about it and think about it all the time.

We move!

CaveAdullam:
DAY 43, REDPILL 2022

As a man, you need to be strong for yourself. Because on tougher days, women either stay aloof or run away.

Authority: Yourself first!

CaveAdullam:
Not only because romance is men's favourite subject but that from an evolutionary standpoint sex, food and play are the primary things that excites humans and will mostly talk about it and think about it all the time.

We move!

ayomikuolatunji:
Bro I need your help. I am a web developer but I need your help for something. Give me your WhatsApp number 09025252652

Mychive:
Quite lengthy because I want to be as detailed as enough for better understanding..

We were great as friends that anyone could think we were dating even though by then, we were not dating at all, although we once had deep romance but no se.x because she wasn't ready and I wouldn't force or rape.

We kicked of relationship late last year and after a month, an issue came up where I had to travel for an exam and she had to go for her I.T. We couldn't hold our long phone calls like before , even though we still talk everyday but not as deep as we used to due to the new schedule.

After I was done with the exams , I called her a day after and told her I would speak with her later. Before the evening came, she dropped a breakup message for me on WhatsApp and I asked why, she told me she doesn't understand what's going on anymore because she noticed we didn't talk like before.

Made her realised that she ought to know that our schedule in the previous weeks wouldn't allow but now that exams are out of the way for me, we can talk often cos I wasn't really available during the exam time.

She complained that she would message me and I wouldn't reply quick on WhatsApp ...this was true sha cos those times, I might just be online and drop my phone somewhere or would be reading some stuff online here on WhatsApp so she felt I was ignoring or intentionally delaying the responses.

I Sha explained to her and everything got settled....

4 days later, she broke up again saying she still doesn't feel the vibe anymore that we were greater when we were friends than when Relationship entered.

I didn't press more on the dating again but she was still constantly giving the attention and acting like nothing happened. I wasn't sure if she had reconsidered or not. So I told a friend of mine who was her friend (male) to help me tease her a bit to even know her stand... She didn't know about this sha. She didn't know the guy was trying to find things out for me.

So he told the guy that she started dating me a month ago and then after a month, an issue came up. She explained what happened and how pained she was to feel avoided or taken for granted because I wasn't really responding to chats quickly like before...She told my friend that "now she doesn't even know if we're back or not"

Then she said after the first issue, she started thinking of some things... That now me the guy is done with school even though she knows I'm still doing Masters program of 2 years, not like she's planning on marriage but she doesn't know what might come up, secondly, age difference, I'm like 5 years older...then her sister doesn't know about the Relationship which she doesn't like...due to how close they're and the fact that when her previous relationship ended and she told her sister, her sister fought her for not letting her know about the Relationship till it ended.

Then she told my guy that I feel the issue of we dating or not has been settled but within her , she knows it's not settled and whether then or later, the breakup will still happen and everybody would be fine. She told my friend all these. Now, my friend told me everything she said but he refused to tell me this last part because she told him not to tell me.... It was when I checked their chat on my friends phone that I discovered myself. ...safe to say my friend knew it and didn't tell me.

I travelled down home last December and I didn't have it in mind to see her at all but she made suggestions twice that we should see...

First time, she suggested we see... She said she wanted a private place ..a roomm.. I told her no problem. Come to my place or we go to hotel... As those are the two options available, she rejected. But she wouldn't tell me where she wanted. On Jan. 1st, she told me that we should meet as well that her sister would cover up for her when she's leaving home... She wants a private place, rejected hotel or coming to my place.. . similar to first time. We couldn't get to see.

On the 3rd of January, she broke up saying we were having too many issues, her sister doesn't know about this and she doesn't like the fact that her sister doesn't know plus some other people she tells that she's single which wasn't a fair thing...and she's confused and not sure whether she wants the Relationship or not, that we were better as friends till Relationship came.
Till now, I didn't get what really happened...but she knows it that I really like her.

Though throughout last week, I was in her school city and I told her about it. She made plans to come see me but said she wouldn't sleep over...

I Sha didn't later let that plan work. I didn't bother letting her know when to come around to meet me at the hotel. ...till I left..

We are more of WhatsApp status viewers now sha. It's been over a month and I still can't stop thinking about her, couldn't get her off my head. I'm not chatting or talking to her so I don't appear desperate or simping.

I need advises / suggestions on this because I'd be travelling to her school city again next week and I'm lost between seeing her or not.

Lightway:
This is rubbish.

Is it not the same whites that created a vaccine within one year which normally takes 3 to 5 years.

You're here praising Yahoo boys. Nonsense

Raalsalghul:
You and Ubunja should speak for yourselves please.

So you mean 365/247 people should be talking about women?

No emphasis on fitness, skill acquisition, investment ideas, careers, travel, connecting and uplifting each other?

That borders on obsession if you ask me and yet folks here complain about oneit-is.

pansophist:
Zabiboy

If I begin listing all kinds of government assistant the whites have access to, this thread will full. Whites depends far more on their government than blacks. A poster who previously quoted me was oblivious to the facts that Whites are actually the largest beneficiary of diversity slot (originally known as affirmative action).

The idea that you should help yourself without assistant somehow is just wrong. If no one sent you to school and you cant read and write, you'll probably not know that nairaland exist, talk more of being a IT guy. Fear God naw. If nobody rescue the almajiris, they will be like that in the next hundred years. It's called living in the reality.

I'm trying hard not to write much on this because this discussion sef don tired me. But I'll end with this. Things are far far more complex than it seems. Everything you'll blame the black man on, are symptoms of the prison he is in for centuries. But there is hope, and in my dumb calculations, when the world superpower shift from the west to Asia, Africa would see the sun once again. By 2028, China should overtake the US as the world power and largest economy, as the west declines further.

If you follow geopolitics and attentive to global event, you'll see in sharp clarity that we no longer live in a unilateral world, where the west stay on top and command other countries, and with ongoing multi trillion dollars BRI project over the next decades, things should get better. As an example, the railways being built all over Nigeria and Africa are part of the BRI global infrastructure funded by the Chinese. Same with the mambilla dam for electricity, and so much more.

Buhari don't have to beg IMF for money and their predatory conditions to keep us poor, when we have exim bank of China, with their tech to improve. Things will get way way worse before it gets better, and when it starts to get better, it will be exponential, just like the decline was exponential as well. Good things is, the worse time is almost ending ushering the beginning of the good times. This is a dumb prediction so please don't take it seriously.

ubunja:
do you really wanna speak about all that in the romance section?

ubunja:
the only reason this thread has come this far is because it's talking about women - men's favorite subject - I can promise you talking about racial empowerment and whatnot will kill it faster than anything.
People are in Romance Section because they want solutions to their romantic issues, not to stop China from colonizing Africa. Let's not lose focus. Yes,, There's many problems people have, but there can't be a thread dedicated to tackling them all. We can only choose one problem and laser focus on it. Leave the rest for others. If you feel the thread is stale maybe it's because you're not playing your part contributing the truths you feel are missing - within topic.

Raalsalghul:
What is your definition of "Redpill"?

ubunja:
what part of "People are in Romance Section because they want
solutions to their romantic issues" did you not understand?

Raalsalghul:
You and Ubunja should speak for yourselves please.

So you mean 365/247 people should be talking about women?

No emphasis on fitness, skill acquisition, investment ideas, careers, travel, connecting and uplifting each other?

That borders on obsession if you ask me and yet folks here complain about oneit-is.

emmaodet:
I wonder ooooo
When i want to discuss about business, i go to business/investment or agric section.
When i want to lament, i go to dairy section.
Likewise other ones.

emmaodet:
At the bolded.......Are you really sure?
For a moment, don't you think the people who spread the disease had thee vaccines long before spreading the disease?
Just think about it.

emmaodet:
At the bolded.......Are you really sure?
For a moment, don't you think the people who spread the disease had thee vaccines long before spreading the disease?
Just think about it.

Raalsalghul:
You and Ubunja should speak for yourselves please.

So you mean 365/247 people should be talking about women?

No emphasis on fitness, skill acquisition, investment ideas, careers, travel, connecting and uplifting each other?

That borders on obsession if you ask me and yet folks here complain about oneit-is.

ubunja:
maybe you didn't get my question? Do you wanna talk finances, skills development, travel and careers in the Romance Section?

Lightway:
Shut up abeg..

You just typed rubbish.... Which people. China, UK, or USA

ubunja:
Lol dairy is for tears lmfao

Lightway:
[s]Create your own thread oga.

This is a thread about women and redpill[/s]

Pukkalolo:
Talking about just one woman is obsession(oneit) but talking about women in general is not obsession...

Remember women make up more than half of the total population on earth.... We interact with women everyday... Knowing how women think and how to handle them is actually an important skill... Many men actually wished they had it.

True story bro...

I was in the office with my former Boss--A very successful guy. While we were discussing work stuff, I noticed his face--he looked very sad.

I said, "Sir, you don't look fine...hope all his well."

His reply was, "All is well my friend, it just women and their wahala"


Then Surprisnly to me, he opened about the issues he his experiencing with his wife... He is what I refer to as blue pill husband...His wife was given him tough time at home, despite the fact that his skill acquisition, investment ideas are top notch and despite the fact that he had travel to different places around the world...

At that time, I have become very experienced with women...I gave him some redpill advice on how to handle his woman..

A week later, he invited me to his office...He said, " thanks for your advice...It actually worked. I wish I knew all these in my youth days..." .... I can't even put in writing how appreciative he was about the redpill advice I gave to him...


Dont get me wrong, fitness, skill acquisition, investment ideas, careers are all important topics--very important topics.

I have heard different stories of men losing their life because of women... Either they commit suicide because a lady break their hearts or they get killed by a lady because they couldn't handle her or what ever reason

If these men had the redpill knowledge, they'll probably still be alive...


Money and materialistic possession can buy you an orgasm, but it can't buy long-term genuine sexual attraction and loyalty from a woman. Thinknof it, If money was capable of doing that, wife of rich and successful men would never cheat on their husbands.

Getting women should never be the goal... Become a valuable/successful man is the goal...But as men, we still need the redpill knowledge...You still need to understand how women think and how to handle them.

Be smart brothers...

Raalsalghul:
Anybody that wants to talk about women is free to, but stop shutting people that wants to discuss tangential concepts like fitness, skill acquisition, investment ideas, careers, travel etc.

Raalsalghul:
Anybody that wants to talk about women is free to, but stop shutting people that wants to discuss tangential concepts like fitness, skill acquisition, investment ideas, careers, travel etc.

SOZINN:
Guy, if you have any message concerning fitness please share. I could really use some.

Pukkalolo:
Talking about just one woman is obsession(oneit) but talking about women in general is not obsession...

Remember women make up more than half of the total population on earth.... We interact with women everyday... Knowing how women think and how to handle them is actually an important skill... Many men actually wished they had it.

True story bro...

I was in the office with my former Boss--A very successful guy. While we were discussing work stuff, I noticed his face--he looked very sad.

I said, "Sir, you don't look fine...hope all his well."

His reply was, "All is well my friend, it just women and their wahala"


Then Surprisnly to me, he opened about the issues he his experiencing with his wife... He is what I refer to as blue pill husband...His wife was given him tough time at home, despite the fact that his skill acquisition, investment ideas are top notch and despite the fact that he had travel to different places around the world...

At that time, I have become very experienced with women...I gave him some redpill advice on how to handle his woman..

A week later, he invited me to his office...He said, " thanks for your advice...It actually worked. I wish I knew all these in my youth days..." .... I can't even put in writing how appreciative he was about the redpill advice I gave to him...


Dont get me wrong, fitness, skill acquisition, investment ideas, careers are all important topics--very important topics.

I have heard different stories of men losing their life because of women... Either they commit suicide because a lady break their hearts or they get killed by a lady because they couldn't handle her or what ever reason

If these men had the redpill knowledge, they'll probably still be alive...


Money and materialistic possession can buy you an orgasm, but it can't buy long-term genuine sexual attraction and loyalty from a woman. Thinknof it, If money was capable of doing that, wife of rich and successful men would never cheat on their husbands.

Getting women should never be the goal... Become a valuable/successful man is the goal...But as men, we still need the redpill knowledge...You still need to understand how women think and how to handle them.

Be smart brothers...

Smartb0y:
I like you bro but you're being stubborn.
Here is for what it is , discussing about sexuality, relationship and all that.

If you're so keen on discussing about other topics, create a thread and tag it with redpillers.

We will oblige you , I for one will be interested.

ubunja:
fitness is part of red pill and it has been discussed on this thread,, too bad the guy who spearheaded it got bored and stopped.

Any talk of skills acquisition, investment ideas, careers, travel etc need to be brief so as not to derail,, but fully fledged discussions need to be taken ocorresponding sections of NL, otherwise it will be shut down. We didn't push this thread for more than a year to have people derail it cause they're bored about discussing female nature and intergender dynamics. It's natural to get bored about something periodically. If you're bored, take a break from the thread,, come back when you miss it. Simple.