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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by DriveByKiller: 7:22pm On Feb 12, 2022
pocohantas:


Lmao. Maybe na she follow disstroy am.
the other old hens may not know you or the enemies you have managed to draw. But I like how you stylishly mention them.

I'm intrigued how you never forget the men you admire and hate from a distance.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by BItt: 8:05pm On Feb 12, 2022
DriveByKiller:
the other old hens may not know you or the enemies you have managed to draw. Bitt I like how you stylishly mention them.

I'm intrigued how you never forget the men you admire and hate from a distance.
hello
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by pocohantas(f): 8:41pm On Feb 12, 2022
Continue quoting and liking your comments yourselves. When you finish, you close door and drop key under carpet. Learn to leave when the ovation is loudest. Ain’t no one interested anymore…


Obviously. kiss kiss

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nobody: 8:54pm On Feb 12, 2022
McDuncan:


Ok. So the rubber hair was the motivation for the DP? How daft can the black woman get?

While the fake hair is relatively cheap, you should be boasting about your natural endowments, not some tacky add ons that left you looking like a 3rd world asylum seeker in this 21st century.


I have a psychiatrist that has ogbonge psychotic medications for you.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by pocohantas(f): 8:56pm On Feb 12, 2022
Ninisun:




grin grin grin grin...pray to reach 50years.
Thanks for wishing me long life(menopausal age) kiss

Many more menopausal years to you. kiss

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Nobody: 8:58pm On Feb 12, 2022
pocohantas:


Many more menopausal years to you. kiss


Amen Nnem ooo

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by McDuncan: 9:38pm On Feb 12, 2022
Ninisun:



I have a psychiatrist that has ogbonge psychotic medications for you.

Was actually wondering who needs it more since you have big enough children to trace and beat up your tormentors.

You should be overly occupied with middle age things and devote yourself to the midlife crisis beckoning at your door already. You'd definitely need mental therapy for this and also to manage the trepidations from your fastly approaching menopausal-induced hormonal imbalance.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by McDuncan: 9:41pm On Feb 12, 2022
pocohantas:
Continue quoting and liking your comments yourselves. When you finish, you close door and drop key under carpet. Learn to leave when the ovation is loudest. Ain’t no one interested anymore…


Obviously. kiss kiss

Honey, unlike you, we ain't doing it for the ovation.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by cococandy(f): 9:47pm On Feb 12, 2022
Nairaland is overdue for a green sick emoji
Jagunlabiodua:
Your husband is cheating on you and so what?
Yes it's hurts but think about Muslim women who share their husbands with maybe 2-4 wives.

You need to stop listening to feminist online and go back to the elders in the village and learn from the women there how to be a peaceful wife.

This is warning to you, do not accept to divorce your husband, tear the divorce papers and put it straight to him you are going nowhere for ever, let him know this so he would stop planning ahead of the divorce

The reason why you must not divorce your husband is you didn't cheat according to your story. I'm sure you know how to get this your husband if you want to just be loyal, allow him to do whatever he is doing with the new girl, just be looking, develop yourself, reinvent yourself, give it 3-4yrs, focus on your kids, do not cheat, give your husband sex, cook, clean,talk don't ask him too much questions, leave your husband stop monitoring him, don't call his female contacts, no man will take it easy with his wife if she does that, understand your husband.

The worst decision you will make is to leave your husband because he is having an affair with a woman while you are his wife in his home. You think you can find a faithful man as a single mother? The single mother life is that of sorrows, use and clean mouth, at the end you might even start paying to keep men and most will be after your money, which will be used to carry single young girls, how about your kids? They are going to be mad at you for divorce. your case is not about domestic violence, do you know your husband can carry Cain and flog you like a child? And it's legal Ok you don't know bcoz you lean towards feminism. Let your husband have his way I'm a man and telling you let him be for now it's just a phase.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by eyinjuege: 10:55pm On Feb 12, 2022
McDuncan:


Ok. So the rubber hair was the motivation for the DP? How daft can the black woman get?

While the fake hair is relatively cheap, you should be boasting about your natural endowments, not some tacky add ons that left you looking like a 3rd world asylum seeker in this 21st century.

You're the only race of men so effeminate that you concern yourself so much about women's accessories.
I'm yet to see any other race so concerned about how their women tan themselves or get lip fillers, or butt surgery to look like the black woman- the original prototype for all races, who carry the Eve Gene.
Why is her wig of such importance to anyone?
Do better.
Nigeria needs you more on her affairs. Leave all the hair accessories to the women folk forghusake

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Jagunlabiodua: 11:25pm On Feb 12, 2022
How I'm I wicked? By trying discouraged a woman from foolishly breaking her home, Look you women are not men and can never be men and stop crying our president M Buhari clearly told his wife Aisha she belongs to the kitchen and the other room and that's the reality. Nigerian women must and should learn how to obey and submit to their husbands or else don't marry the man. All men can not be enslaved by your shenanigans. you are very wicked encouraging a married woman to turn to a single mother. Home breaker clap for yourself
Jobia:
All I can say is, you're a wicked human being.
Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by McDuncan: 11:55pm On Feb 12, 2022
eyinjuege:


You're the only race of men so effeminate that you concern yourself so much about women's accessories.
I'm yet to see any other race so concerned about how their women tan themselves or get lip fillers, or butt surgery to look like the black woman- the original prototype for all races, who carry the Eve Gene.
Why is her wig of such importance to anyone?
Do better.
Nigeria needs you more on her affairs. Leave all the hair accessories to the women folk forghusake

So what's the ratio of black women adorning themselves with fake hair to the Caucasian women going for fuller lips or tanning themselves to get a colour like the Spaniards or Italians? Or the number of black women who bleach their skin? 9-1, 8-2 ?

Generally, whether it's fake tits or butts, all men independent of race would point it out, so don't swing this into some racial polemic.

We're only the race whose women have become comfortable with fakery. And if not for your insecurities/low self-esteem, your wigs should have looked more like your Afro or natural hair and never like the Caucasian who is completely distinct.

It's good reminding you lots once in a while what grows naturally from your scalp.

And for the correction; no one tans or do a lip job to look like blacks. The Eve gene assertion was hilarious.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by eyinjuege: 2:02am On Feb 13, 2022
McDuncan:


So what's the ratio of black women adorning themselves with fake hair to the Caucasian women going for fuller lips or tanning themselves to get a colour like the Spaniards or Italians? Or the number of black women who bleach their skin? 9-1, 8-2 ?

Generally, whether it's fake tits or butts, all men independent of race would point it out, so don't swing this into some racial polemic.

We're only the race whose women have become comfortable with fakery. And if not for your insecurities/low self-esteem, your wigs should have looked more like your Afro or natural hair and never like the Caucasian who is completely distinct.

It's good reminding you lots once in a while what grows naturally from your scalp.

And for the correction; no one tans or do a lip job to look like blacks. The Eve gene assertion was hilarious.

Black women set the trends .
Other than talking about wigs, what else do you have to talk about to call black women fake?
In case you're not aware, almost every white woman tans, many have had one surgery or the other to have the voluptuousness of the black woman. Same as lip fillers. There is literally no celebrity who hasn't done any of these things to emulate a race they're not.
Yet, their men are not putting their noses in all these but are busy building a right society for their women and children that you all dream to run to.
That's the goal for most of you black men, especially in Nigeria. To go to another society built by other men like you and to serve them there.
Please, stop availing yourself with the hairstyles of women and their skin products. Other races of men are too busy running things.
If you were as hardworking and busy as other races of men who were setting their own women up as the beauty standard for the world, perhaps your women would see the beauty in themselves and would not bother with trying to look like other races.
It still screams of your failure as leaders in your own society.
And to the particular wig in question, that's a curly wig/hair. Black women have always had curly hair, so I don't understand why you think wearing that particular wig is trying to look like another race.
You really need to take your responsibilities seriously as leaders of this Nigeria, but first learn what leadership entails .

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by baby124: 3:23am On Feb 13, 2022
eyinjuege:


Black women set the trends .
Other than talking about wigs, what else do you have to talk about to call black women fake?
In case you're not aware, almost every white woman tans, many have had one surgery or the other to have the voluptuousness of the black woman. Same as lip fillers. There is literally no celebrity who hasn't done any of these things to emulate a race they're not.
Yet, their men are not putting their noses in all these but are busy building a right society for their women and children that you all dream to run to.
That's the goal for most of you black men, especially in Nigeria. To go to another society built by other men like you and to serve them there.
Please, stop availing yourself with the hairstyles of women and their skin products. Other races of men are too busy running things.
If you were as hardworking and busy as other races of men who were setting their own women up as the beauty standard for the world, perhaps your women would see the beauty in themselves and would not bother with trying to look like other races.
It still screams of your failure as leaders in your own society.
And to the particular wig in question, that's a curly wig/hair. Black women have always had curly hair, so I don't understand why you think wearing that particular wig is trying to look like another race.
You really need to take your responsibilities seriously as leaders of this Nigeria, but first learn what leadership entails .
That guy you are arguing with is not black. But a coward with low self esteem and big loser in life.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by McDuncan: 9:30am On Feb 13, 2022
eyinjuege:


Black women set the trends .
Other than talking about wigs, what else do you have to talk about to call black women fake?
In case you're not aware, almost every white woman tans, many have had one surgery or the other to have the voluptuousness of the black woman. Same as lip fillers. There is literally no celebrity who hasn't done any of these things to emulate a race they're not.
Yet, their men are not putting their noses in all these but are busy building a right society for their women and children that you all dream to run to.
That's the goal for most of you black men, especially in Nigeria. To go to another society built by other men like you and to serve them there.
Please, stop availing yourself with the hairstyles of women and their skin products. Other races of men are too busy running things.
If you were as hardworking and busy as other races of men who were setting their own women up as the beauty standard for the world, perhaps your women would see the beauty in themselves and would not bother with trying to look like other races.
It still screams of your failure as leaders in your own society.
And to the particular wig in question, that's a curly wig/hair. Black women have always had curly hair, so I don't understand why you think wearing that particular wig is trying to look like another race.
You really need to take your responsibilities seriously as leaders of this Nigeria, but first learn what leadership entails .

I won't have you peddle false assertions like hot crypto, woman! Black women set what trend? By bleaching their skin and wearing fake Caucasian lookalike wigs.

Almost every white woman tans? Where did you get that from? You're desperately trying to close the gap between number of black women who bleach their skin and number of white women who tan. There are millions of Caucasians with a natural darker skin shade who never tan. Those in Spain, Portugal, Italy, southern France, parts of US, Mexico and a whole lot from other countries in the northern hemisphere have a particular skin shade that those with pale skin try to match by tanning, not tanning to be like a black woman. You have to read more when dabbling into stuffs like this.

Your assertion of whites having lip jobs to look like black women is crazy. They have their own version of full lips which is what they aim for, not that of blacks. And black women still top the charts amongs women who do butt lift surgery.

It is quite wishful thinking and pathetic to assume when white women do surgery for butt enhancement or fuller lips then they're trying to look like black women. This is ignorance at its best. Races like Arab/mongoloids should have those claims if any race would be so stupid enough as to lay a claim to that. You just want to balance out the fact that black women's standard of beauty means she puts on a Caucasian wig, albeit dishonestly.

And yes, universally all men prefer natural tits to a knifed one. Ask Michael Owen.

I don't know but you're striking me with some real negative vibes here! How dare you claim the wig in question looks like a black woman's hair because it's curly?? At best that hair belongs to a mixed race, very far from the black race. Honesty is decency!

And yes, the black man including your father and his male ancestors fought and are still fighting for you. They gave you a name and identity. By their blood and sweat they carved out your village boundaries. They're no less hard-working than their Caucasian or Arab counterparts.

Talking about responsibilities, women are known to shirk theirs. You're blaming the black man for your insecurities and low self-esteem in trying to look like a white woman. So we didn't set you up for the world to see your beauty that's why you want to look like the white woman. Hilarious!! You shouldn't have joined words with me in the first place (I'm still trying to be nice).

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Lezzlie(m): 9:40am On Feb 13, 2022
eyinjuege:


Black women set the trends .
Other than talking about wigs, what else do you have to talk about to call black women fake?
In case you're not aware, almost every white woman tans, many have had one surgery or the other to have the voluptuousness of the black woman. Same as lip fillers. There is literally no celebrity who hasn't done any of these things to emulate a race they're not.
Yet, their men are not putting their noses in all these but are busy building a right society for their women and children that you all dream to run to.
That's the goal for most of you black men, especially in Nigeria. To go to another society built by other men like you and to serve them there.
Please, stop availing yourself with the hairstyles of women and their skin products. Other races of men are too busy running things.
If you were as hardworking and busy as other races of men who were setting their own women up as the beauty standard for the world, perhaps your women would see the beauty in themselves and would not bother with trying to look like other races.
It still screams of your failure as leaders in your own society.
And to the particular wig in question, that's a curly wig/hair. Black women have always had curly hair, so I don't understand why you think wearing that particular wig is trying to look like another race.
You really need to take your responsibilities seriously as leaders of this Nigeria, but first learn what leadership entails .
African women are in all honesty a pariah to men.

You spend more on hair-do and body cream more than any other race in the world.

How do you feel flipping your artificial hair side to side when your REAL hair's length isn't even up to your ears?

Fakery is in your DNA!!!

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by pocohantas(f): 9:40am On Feb 13, 2022
baby124:

That guy you are arguing with is not black. But a coward with low self esteem and big loser in life.

Nawa! Our own resident Chief whip?
Na elder be that o. Kai! grin

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Lezzlie(m): 9:43am On Feb 13, 2022
pocohantas:


Nawa! Our own resident Chief whip?
Na elder be that o. Kai! grin
How'd you like my new dress, baby? grin grin grin grin

You keep sending me to the wardrobe and each new apparel skips your heart in remembrance of the time ypu watch from afar.

I love to love that I can hurt you with just two words grin

I know what your friends don't.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Lezzlie(m): 9:50am On Feb 13, 2022
eyinjuege:


You're the only race of men so effeminate that you concern yourself so much about women's accessories.
I'm yet to see any other race so concerned about how their women tan themselves or get lip fillers, or butt surgery to look like the black woman- the original prototype for all races, who carry the Eve Gene.
Why is her wig of such importance to anyone?
Do better.
Nigeria needs you more on her affairs. Leave all the hair accessories to the women folk forghusake
I can't take you to swim in a pool without you looking for wear to hide your hair.

You come to your bed at night with a night hairnet looking like a patient in surgery!

You're in the saloon twice a month.

And how many white woman have some fillers and surgery... just the celebs. No everyday white woman gives a rat's arse about looking like you.

But every black woman on the streets is on weaveon or attachments and it stinks with your dead skin cells oozing out our life expectancy away.

And you bleach like poorly roasted bolé.

Multicoloured stretch marks , black knuckles and yellow fingers. Black/brown yansh and yellow pale laps.

Spits!

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by eyinjuege: 10:06am On Feb 13, 2022
Lezzlie:
I can't take you to swim in a pool without you looking for wear to hide your hair.

You come to your bed at night with a night hairnet looking like a patient in surgery!

You're in the saloon twice a month.

And how many white woman have some fillers and surgery... just the celebs. No everyday white woman gives a rat's arse about looking like you.

But every black woman on the streets is on weaveon or attachments and it stinks with your dead skin cells oozing out life expectancy away.

And you bleach like poorly roasted bolé.

Multicoloured stretch marks , black knuckles and yellow fingers. Black/brown yansh and yellow pale laps.

Spits!

You're just another daft one.
How many white women do you know?

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by HaneefahRN(f): 10:08am On Feb 13, 2022
Lezzlie:
I can't take you to swim in a pool without you looking for wear to hide your hair.

You come to your bed at night with a night hairnet looking like a patient in surgery!

You're in the saloon twice a month.

And how many white woman have some fillers and surgery... just the celebs. No everyday white woman gives a rat's arse about looking like you.

But every black woman on the streets is on weaveon or attachments and it stinks with your dead skin cells oozing out life expectancy away.

And you bleach like poorly roasted bolé.

Multicoloured stretch marks , black knuckles and yellow fingers. Black/brown yansh and yellow pale laps.

Spits!



You are yet to outgrow this your black women-hate. Hope you have married a white goddess now?

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by eyinjuege: 10:15am On Feb 13, 2022
Lezzlie:
African women are in all honesty a pariah to men.

You spend more on hair-do and body cream more than any other race in the world.

How do you feel flipping your artificial hair side to side when your REAL hair's length isn't even up to your ears?

Fakery is in your DNA!!!

African women's hair rise up to the heavens, directly where the angelic beings reside.
No Other race of women can do that. The same African women can make their natural hair straight if they want to.
We don't breed lice in our hair like most others do, because even the lice respect our hair.
You mentioned somewhere that your women take their haircare seriously and go to the salon 2x a week. Is there really a problem with self care?
I'm also yet to see any race of woman rock a bald head like a black woman and still look absolutely fabulous doing that
You really need a lot of exposure and education.
You always sound so ridiculous trying to mock the women that birthed you. Perhaps even raving psychotic.
That's why you can never be taken seriously by real men out there.
Do better, boy

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by eyinjuege: 10:27am On Feb 13, 2022
Some of you effeminate men need to educate yourselves better.
It's a shame you know nothing about your own hair or the hair of your mothers.
Imagine saying black women don't have long hair longer than their ears or that they can't have curly hair.
Na ment? Curly hairstyles are one of the easiest to do on natural black hair and we're not talking of biracials here
Sorry to derail the thread a bit
Let's talk about black women's hair, since that's the conversation our "scroung" men want to have
I will be posting some pictures of Nigerian women on here from one of my favourite African hairstylists . She actually does amazing jobs.
These are not wigs but their natural hair styled in different ways

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Lezzlie(m): 10:50am On Feb 13, 2022
eyinjuege:


You're just another daft one.
How many white women do you know?
I could ask you the same? How many white men do you know?

Your stupidity needs professional management!

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Lezzlie(m): 10:53am On Feb 13, 2022
eyinjuege:


African women's hair rise up to the heavens, directly where the angelic beings reside.
No Other race of women can do that. The same African women can make their natural hair straight if they want to.
We don't breed lice in our hair like most others do, because even the lice respect our hair.
You mentioned somewhere that your women take their haircare seriously and go to the salon 2x a week. Is there really a problem with self care?
I'm also yet to see any race of woman rock a bald head like a black woman and still look absolutely fabulous doing that
You really need a lot of exposure and education.
You always sound so ridiculous trying to mock the women that birthed you. Perhaps even raving psychotic.
That's why you can never be taken seriously by real men out there.
Do better, boy
[i]African women's hair raise up to the heavens where angelic beings reside[/i]

I just couldn't read further.

You're either senile or stupid or both.

You shouldn't be discussing anything more than food and Bollywood.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by eyinjuege: 10:53am On Feb 13, 2022
Lezzlie:
I could as you the same? How many white men do you know?

Your stupidity needs professional management!

Oh, I actually know a lot of them.
You're a shame to black people. A huge shame
Spits

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Lezzlie(m): 10:58am On Feb 13, 2022
eyinjuege:


Oh, I actually know a lot of them.
You're a shame to black people. A huge shame
Spits
grin grin grin you actually know a lot of them? Where? Okay you reside abroad?

You took statistics from your dingy shack where you hide away from law enforcement like a vampire avoiding sunlight!

Listen, there's a reason black men dig white women. Even African Americans who have lived in the America for generations.

You know why? Because you're a copy, a poor copy of someone in Europe and America.

We just want the original!

Now get put of my face with your smelly weaveon.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by eyinjuege: 11:08am On Feb 13, 2022
Lezzlie:
[i]African women's hair raise up to the heavens where angelic beings reside[/i]

I just couldn't read further.

You're either senile or stupid or both.

You shouldn't be discussing anything more than food and Bollywood.

You cannot accept the fact that your women are the original, the prototype for all. E shock you?
African women's natural hair stands in all its glory, yes and it points to the heavens.
I'm not sure why you're so comfortable discussing women's hair routines with a woman on social media.
And that in itself is a huge problem.
You should spend the time trying to learn from other men on how to be a leader and how to hold true power. You can only learn from those men who hold the power in the world.
Do better, this 2022.
How can you bring up your status in the world? Aren't you tired of being the bottom of the barrel?

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by eyinjuege: 11:13am On Feb 13, 2022
Lezzlie:
grin grin grin you actually know a lot of them? Where? Okay you reside abroad?

You took statistics from your dingy shack where you hide away from law enforcement like a vampire avoiding sunlight!

Listen, there's a reason black men dig white women. Even African Americans who have lived in the America for generations.

You know why? Because you're a copy, a poor copy of someone in Europe and America.

We just want the original!

Now get put of my face with your smelly weaveon.

Look at you, razz and crass.
We chill we the big boys where we at.
I'm more respected than you can ever be. Nobody reckons with you, and that's so sad.
Tueh. Spits again.
My last response to you, boy
Do better.

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Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by Lezzlie(m): 11:18am On Feb 13, 2022
eyinjuege:

Look at you, razz and crass.
We chill we the big boys where we at.
I'm more respected than you can ever be. Nobody reckons with you, and that's so sad.
Tueh. Spits again.
My last response to you, boy
Do better.
I have been conversing with a Ghetto bird and a human merchandise

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