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Many things have destroyed a lot of relationships out there.

Let's hear and learn from your experience and what you have to tell us.

Heart broken

here to learn.

Redpill.

They'll come for my head now. Well, I'm in Mars. I won't hear their noise.

Sex mindset, its the greatest destroyer of most relationships.Any man that truly loves you as a lady will never ever demand sex from you.Run as fast as your legs can carry you once a man starts demanding for sex from you in a relationship because when a man truly loves you,he'll have no energy before you to sustain erection,your presence and appearance should make him very weak.

Iyaebe:
Sex mindset, its the greatest destroyer of most relationships.Any man that truly loves you as a lady will never ever demand sex from you.Run as fast as your legs can carry you once a man starts demanding for sex from you in a relationship because when a man truly loves you,he'll have no energy before you to sustain erection,your presence and appearance should make him very weak.

Clap for yourself.

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Iyaebe:
When a man truly loves you,he'll have no energy before you to sustain erection,your presence and appearance should make him very weak.

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I believe when a woman also loves a man dearly, she'll have what we call common sense not to ask him to provide her basic needs.

The love and affection he has towards her should make her strong and undemanding.

Iyaebe:
Sex mindset, its the greatest destroyer of most relationships.Any man that truly loves you as a lady will never ever demand sex from you.Run as fast as your legs can carry you once a man starts demanding for sex from you in a relationship because when a man truly loves you,he'll have no energy before you to sustain erection,your presence and appearance should make him very weak.

Idiot but you will demand for money , deman for phone and also want him to take you out but you can't give him the only thing you can offer, liability

Qatar2022:
Idiot but you will demand for money , demand for phone and also want him to take you out but you can't give him the only thing you can offer, liability

This is then proof that a Relationship in Nigeria,is nothing But Cloaked Prostitution. The woman is a PROSTITUTE who will deny her Client sex if he is lacking behind on his "Provider duties". The Client thinks he is being loved by the PROSTITUTE,so he spends his hard earned money on her,not knowing that is the sole reason the PROSTITUTE is in said Relationship.

What can you get from your girlfriend that you cannot get from the Everyday PROSTITUTE?

Fixated mindset about gender, tribe, religion and people itself

Qatar2022:
Idiot but you will demand for money , deman for phone and also want him to take you out but you can't give him the only thing you can offer, liability

What is love without given? was she not on her own she the man came with his lovey lovey feelings, money,phones,and others are just physical expression of what a man feels towards a lady.Learn to be civil and don't let me handle you the "iyaebe" way.

Ryda:
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I believe when a woman also loves a man dearly, she'll have what we call common sense not to ask him to provide her basic needs.

The love and affection he has towards her should make her strong and undemanding.

Providing a woman's basic needs is just the physical expression of love from men,most of this basic needs can be afforded by the ladies but a man has to be a man,a masculine one at that.

Iyaebe:
Sex mindset, its the greatest destroyer of most relationships.Any man that truly loves you as a lady will never ever demand sex from you.Run as fast as your legs can carry you once a man starts demanding for sex from you in a relationship because when a man truly loves you,he'll have no energy before you to sustain erection,your presence and appearance should make him very weak.

If She doesn't have sex with the man,she is Practically useless. But i will indulge you,of what Usefulness then for a man to go into a relationship if not to be intimate with said woman?

Iyaebe:
Providing a woman's basic needs is just the physical expression of love from men,most of this basic needs can be afforded by the ladies but a man has to be a man,a masculine one at that.

Then in that case, Please indulge me,how does a Woman Physically express her "love" for her man?

odinson1:
Then in that case, Please indulge me,how does a Woman Physically express her "love" for her man?

A woman is under no obligation to express love physically, her physical expression of love only starts after marriage till she breathes her last.Men should accept and take charge,even with animals the males are always the provider and the females won't allow the male mount until he has fed her to her satisfaction but they solely give care to their offsprings. Accept reality and stop expecting women to be financially responsible, men with this mindset don't excel in life.

Iyaebe:
A woman is under no obligation to express love physically, her physical expression of love only starts after marriage till she breathes her last.Men should accept and take charge,even with animals the males are always the provider and the females won't allow the male mount until he has fed her to her satisfaction but they solely give care to their offsprings. Accept reality and stop expecting women to be financially responsible, men with this mindset don't excel in life.

It's funny how still,you didn't mention one way a woman can Physically express her "love" towards her man.
That aside,your Analogy of the Female Animal not allowing the Male to mount until he has fed her to her satisfaction,only proves That the relationship they have is nothing but PROSTITUTION,yes?

So going by your logic,Females are Naturally PROSTITUTES who will deny their Partners sex if he is lacking in his provider duties. Before you reply, please check up the meaning of Prostitution.

odinson1:
If She doesn't have sex with the man,she is Practically useless. But i will indulge you,of what Usefulness then for a man to go into a relationship if not to be intimate with said woman?

Intimacy will come but not so easy,man must cultivate and waters his plants before harvesting.Only a woman who does not know her value gives free and easy sex.Remember sex is strictly for married couples and it comes after dowry and other rites have been fulfilled

Iyaebe:
Providing a woman's basic needs is just the physical expression of love from men,most of this basic needs can be afforded by the ladies but a man has to be a man,a masculine one at that.

And what physical expression of love do men get from their woman in return.

Please don't say the woman will shower him love and affection.

Iyaebe:
Sex mindset, its the greatest destroyer of most relationships.Any man that truly loves you as a lady will never ever demand sex from you.Run as fast as your legs can carry you once a man starts demanding for sex from you in a relationship because when a man truly loves you,he'll have no energy before you to sustain erection,your presence and appearance should make him very weak.

Cover your nyash and go treat your STDs

Iyaebe:
Intimacy will come but not so easy,man must cultivate and waters his plants before harvesting.Only a woman who does not know her value gives free and easy sex.Remember sex is strictly for married couples and it comes after dowry and other rites have been fulfilled

Why does she have to put a price tag on sex? Doesn't that make her a PROSTITUTE though?

Ryda:
And what physical expression of love do men get from their woman in return.

Please don't say the woman will shower him love and affection.

Women are care givers and not design to show physical expression.No man can survive without that care that women give,even your daughters are greater assets than your sons,you'll only realize this when you are old and tired.God knows what He was doing when He gave men more physical strength and any man who deliberately refused to show physical expression and provide all needs has to answer God on the day of judgement. If you are a man and your wife is providing in any way,just be ready to justify yourself on the last day,it won't be funny. Do you know Muslim men don't allow their wives to do anything? they strictly follow the Quran but modern men have dabaru everything.

Iyaebe:
Women are care givers and not design to show physical expression.No man can survive without that care that women give,even your daughters are greater assets than your sons,you'll only realize this when you are old and tired.God knows what He was doing when He gave men more physical strength and any man who deliberately refused to show physical expression and provide all needs has to answer God on the day of judgement. If you are a man and your wife is providing in any way,just be ready to justify yourself on the last day,it won't be funny. Do you know Muslim men don't allow their wives to do anything? they strictly follow the Quran but modern men have dabaru everything.

You are beating around the bush and you know it. Now, in what Physical ways does a Woman Play the role of a "Caregiver" for her man?

Emphasis on MAN please, don't bring children into the mix.

Iyaebe:
Women are care givers and not design to show physical expression.No man can survive without that care that women give,even your daughters are greater assets than your sons,you'll only realize this when you are old and tired.God knows what He was doing when He gave men more physical strength and any man who deliberately refused to show physical expression and provide all needs has to answer God on the day of judgement. If you are a man and your wife is providing in any way,just be ready to justify yourself on the last day,it won't be funny. Do you know Muslim men don't allow their wives to do anything? they strictly follow the Quran but modern men have dabaru everything.

Women are care givers and not design to show physical expression
Can you refer me to any portion of the Bible that addressed the bolded

No man can survive without that care that women give

Says who?

your daughters are greater assets than your sons
You'll be the first person on this thread to bash whoever says the boy child is a greater asset than the girl child

any man who deliberately refused to show physical expression and provide all needs has to answer God on the day of judgement

You mentioned all needs, also state the portion of the Bible that says man must provide all needs

Do you know Muslim men don't allow their wives to do anything
Yes they don't
But It is established in shari'a that it is impermissible for a wife to go out for work except with her husband's permission.


Stop giving me incoherent response!

odinson1:
This is then proof that a Relationship in Nigeria,is nothing But Cloaked Prostitution. The woman is a PROSTITUTE who will deny her Client sex if he is lacking behind on his "Provider duties". The Client thinks he is being loved by the PROSTITUTE,so he spends his hard earned money on her,not knowing that is the sole reason the PROSTITUTE is in said Relationship.

What can you get from your girlfriend that you cannot get from the Everyday PROSTITUTE?

Relationship in Nigeria is all about interest

Iyaebe:
What is love without given? was she not on her own she the man came with his lovey lovey feelings, money,phones,and others are just physical expression of what a man feels towards a lady.Learn to be civil and don't let me handle you the "iyaebe" way.

This should be a lesson / eye opener to you people that visit a guy without sisi, it's very wrong no matter what he promised you

Iyaebe:
Sex mindset, its the greatest destroyer of most relationships.Any man that truly loves you as a lady will never ever demand sex from you.Run as fast as your legs can carry you once a man starts demanding for sex from you in a relationship because when a man truly loves you,he'll have no energy before you to sustain erection,your presence and appearance should make him very weak.

EHNNN...
Be like say na oyibo man you de talk about.