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I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Failure44: 5:11pm On Feb 23, 2022
This going to be a little long because am in a state of mental confusion and heart ache.

I'm close friends with this girl and we have been friends for about 5 months, we got extremely close in a short period of time and would every now and then do some romantic things like touching each other or going out on little dates.
So flash forward to 5 months later
During this 5 months we have fought countless times that includes blocking and deleting each other contacts but one of us has always tried to get back together.
Either she does or I do, so ye it's kinda toxic.
Our last fight was the worst, we didn't talk for months till she called me and told me a lot.
Even told she told her mother about me because of the fight we had. (I was shocked)

Now why am making this post is because I recently logged into her account and found out she is dating someone.
Yes, she has been in a relationship with someone since last year and has been having constant sex with that person even after she told me various times, she is single and has no interest in a relationship.
It leaves me heart broken even tho we're still friends (only reason I never asked her to be in a relationship with me is because she just doesnt seem like a loyal person to me and I was proven right yesterday)

So since yesterday, I've been debating in my mind.

Should I stay with her and bear the pain till I can have sex with her because at least lemme have my own share of the cake grin

Or should i completely cut her off because I won't lie, this thing dey pain me cuz I really gather mind for this girl.
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Failure44: 5:14pm On Feb 23, 2022
I would be lying if i say, am not in serious heart ache after reading those messages of their sexual activities but I at least want my own share of the cake.

I just don't know if I can bear the pain long enough to do it.
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Feb 23, 2022
Slice of the cake! Shut up!!

Seems you don't want reasonable comments... Wait for the redpillers then... Since you're obviously down for their idiocy... undecided

Next time... Humble yourself...
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 5:15pm On Feb 23, 2022
Haha.. cheesy
What else can I say.. grin
I reserve my comment.. cheesy

Let me not shake romance section cos I've had enough of wannabe redpillers tears on my mention..

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Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Jeon(f): 5:15pm On Feb 23, 2022
this is what we called confusion @it peak.

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Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Failure44: 5:15pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
Slice of the cake! Shut up!!

Seems you don't want reasonable comments... Wait for the redpillers then... Since you're obviously down for their idiocy... undecided

Next time... Humble yourself...
If you didn't have any meaningful contribution then why comment?

You're attacking me, when am the victim of heart break here.

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Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Feb 23, 2022
Failure44:
I would be lying if i say, am not in serious heart ache after reading those messages of their sexual activities but I at least want my own share of the cake.

I just don't know if I can bear the pain long enough to do it.
You just want sex...

It's not your heart that's aching but your wrinkled balls... undecided

Go and masturbate... It would ease the pain

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Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Failure44: 5:18pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
You just want sex...

It's not your heart that's aching buy your wrinkled balls... undecided

Go and masturbate... It would ease the pain
How would you feel after a woman you invested so much time and energy into is giving her body to another guy?

Obviously you would want your own at taste atleast.

I just don't know if I can bear giving off fake vibes till then.
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nicepoker(m): 5:18pm On Feb 23, 2022
Op the E newspapers will eat you raw grin

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Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Feb 23, 2022
Failure44:

If you didn't have any meaningful contribution then why comment?

You're attacking me, when am the victim of heart break here.
I know your kind... You come here with your sad sob stories... Then ask if you should stick around to screw her... You receive a go ahead from the redpillers... Blah blah blah...

You don't deserve her... It was never love...

If you're so Hot... Go get a hoe... You can afford that, right?

Or like your brothers, you need free sex? undecided
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Failure44: 5:19pm On Feb 23, 2022
Nicepoker:
Op the E newspapers will eat you raw grin
Omo, am just confused oo

I was the person that was lied to here.
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by donbachi(m): 5:19pm On Feb 23, 2022
Take ur mental health serious...and make sure u complete ur required dosage.

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Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Failure44: 5:20pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
I know your kind... You come here with your sad sob stories... Then ask if you should stick around to screw her... You receive a go ahead from the redpillers... Blah blah blah...

You don't deserve her... It was never love...

If you're so Hot... Go get a hoe... You can afford that, right?

Or like your brothers, you need free sex? undecided

I don't deserve her but I was the one lied to angry

If you knew how much I sacrificed, you wouldn't spew this nonesense.

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Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Feb 23, 2022
Failure44:

How would you feel after a woman you invested so much time and energy into is giving her body to another guy?
You don't care that she's giving her love to him? undecided


Obviously you would want your own at taste atleast.
So it's sex? undecided


I just don't know if I can bear giving off fake vibes till then.
Hug a transformer then...
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 5:21pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
You don't care that she's giving her love to him? undecided

So it's sex? undecided

Hug a transformer then...
Berry #your words pls.. smiley
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Feb 23, 2022
Failure44:


I don't deserve her but I was the one lied to angry

If you knew how much I sacrificed, you wouldn't spew this nonesense.
I don't care!

You sacrificed your destiny for sex... That's on you...

Go masturbate... Leave the poor girl alone
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Feb 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Berry #your words pls.. smiley
Thank you... smiley

He could be suicidal... I apologize.


Cc: Failure44

I'm sorry
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by stixxy(m): 5:23pm On Feb 23, 2022
Another Simpson found. You dey allow girl to friend zone you for this 2022?

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Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Failure44: 5:24pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
You don't care that she's giving her love to him? undecided

So it's sex? undecided

Hug a transformer then...
The first question got me thinking actually.

I already said the only reason I never asked her out for a relationship is because she doesn't seem like a loyal person at all which turned out to be right.
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Failure44: 5:24pm On Feb 23, 2022
stixxy:
Another Simpson found. You dey allow girl to friend zone you for this 2022?
How did I simp, uncle?
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 5:24pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
Thank you... smiley

He could be suicidal... I apologize.


Cc: Failure44

I'm sorry
Thank you too..pls I don't want that 1 week stuff happening to this account again you get?
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Feb 23, 2022
Failure44:

The first question got me thinking actually.

I already said the only reason I never asked her out for a relationship is because she doesn't seem like a loyal person at all which turned out to be right.

So what do you want us to do? undecided

She's not loyal... Meaning she's not a partner but a bedmate...

You want sex... Why come here like you're the victim?
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Feb 23, 2022
stixxy:
Another Simpson found. You dey allow girl to friend zone you for this 2022?
he should have raped her? undecided
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Feb 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Berry #your words pls.. smiley
Both of you should do and get married abeg
I dey find rice, hunger wan kill me here

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Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:28pm On Feb 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Thank you too..pls I don't want that 1 week stuff happening to this account again you get?
Damn! Thank you! grin
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by goshikid: 5:28pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
You don't care that she's giving her love to him? undecided

So it's sex? undecided

Hug a transformer then...

Next time if you don't have what to type
Shut up!!

Why did she lied to Op at first, do you know if he asked out her and she refused, only to find out she's banging another dude.
Abeg if you no get watin to type try shut up
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 5:28pm On Feb 23, 2022
Senomii:

Both of you should do and get married abeg
I dey find rice, hunger wan kill me here
K
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Feb 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

K
Don't just reply with k, you must marry her
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by motymop: 5:30pm On Feb 23, 2022
Why are all of you so full with hate and too much anger and negativity, who did this to you?

A guy here is bleeding in pain and see the trash been spilled out.

If you have no empathy, rather than comment why don't you ignore the post.
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Feb 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

K
He's my baby... I left him alone... He's hungry... Lemme goan feed Senomii...

He looks for trouble when there's no breast in his mouth...

I apologize
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Failure44: 5:31pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
So what do you want us to do? undecided

She's not loyal... Meaning she's not a partner but a bedmate...

You want sex... Why come here like you're the victim?
I'm the victim because she lied to me and would even try to stop me from going out with other girls.

At a certain point, I couldn't even post other girls.
Re: I Love Her But I Also Hate Her, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Feb 23, 2022
BoredBerry:
He's my baby... I left him alone... He's hungry... Lemme goan feed Senomii...

He looks for trouble when there's no breast in his mouth...

I apologize
Triple mtchewww

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