₦airaland Forum

doctore212:
Me na olosho dey hungry me. If I can find one beta Yoruba olosho Mee I go dey happy

crismark:
I simply won't marry from my tribe(igbo) because of the high cost of bride price and the wedding ceremonies (white and traditional). They want the man to foot all the bills starting from introduction.

I don't see myself spending over 1m simply because i want to put a woman in my house.
Never!

I see my yoruba guys getting married even tho am way richer than them. Yoruba culture has made things easy for the men while my stupid igbo culture keeps making life difficult for we young folks.

I will never please others and displease my pocket. The very moment i see a yoruba girl that ticks 80% of the boxes, am getting married.

Candidlady:



First off
Iam happy you moved out of that state to another state, but this your current state sef hmmmmm °°°make ino talk°°°°

Matters on ground

Happy you chose to spend the rest of your beautiful life with a Yoruba soul..

They are sweet and fun to be with and yeah hardworking

°°°°°°°cant say same for the men°°°°

crismark:
Am very sure if you put all your family financial resources together, it won't be greater than mine(am not boasting). That your family is poor doesn't make everybody in Nigeria poor.

I'd rather marry a "dirty" yoruba girl and save my money than marry your "clean" igbo girl and part ways with my N1M+

Am an Anambra boy by the way.
Idiot

okoroemeka:
don't blame and call Igbo culture stupid for not marrying,Igbo culture should not be generalized and from your comments you are just looking for excuses and who to blame for your ineptitude,last Sunday I accompanied my farm manager to umunze for formal introduction to his in-laws,guys are getting married everyday and you are complaining,do you want to marry someone's daughter without doing the important traditional rites for the family and community?do you want to be given a wife on hire purchase?if finance is what is holding you from marrying and Igbo lady please restrategize and improve your finance and stop calling Igbo custom stupid.

crismark:
I simply won't marry from my tribe(igbo) because of the high cost of bride price and the wedding ceremonies (white and traditional). They want the man to foot all the bills starting from introduction.

I don't see myself spending over 1m simply because i want to put a woman in my house.
Never!

I see my yoruba guys getting married even tho am way richer than them. Yoruba culture has made things easy for the men while my stupid igbo culture keeps making life difficult for we young folks.

I will never please others and displease my pocket. The very moment i see a yoruba girl that ticks 80% of the boxes, am getting married.

shantti:
Guy no mind him, the way few fellow igbos reason eh, it baffles me. If u ask them the concrete value u will get in return for paying millions in the name of bride price, they will keep mute. Most of our Igbo culture has its foundation clouded in greed. It all about stomach infrastructure.

Brian47:
With this your write up, I know that you're not igbo.

shantti:
U r fool. I am Igbo but this your senseless mentality is a shame to our tribe.
Please can u tell me the qualities that constitutes to a girl not being cheap. The so called Igbo expensive girls, is it that their father left behind huge estates for them or they have Canadian citizenship or are millionaires or have PhD. Can u please tell me that qualities that makes them.different from other tribes.
After spending millions to marry them, they will end up sitting in ur sitting room doing nothing but eating and farting here and there.

ndo1:
Good personal hygiene,sexual fidelity to their husband,they can provide financial assistance to their husband cos they hustle as well and to crown it all, igbo women give you cute, beautiful and intelligent kids.if you have lived in multi ethnic hood,like lagos u can relate that igbo kids stand out among their peers.its genitic.i owe no one apology.

kollinzgee:
I have spent literally all my life in Yorubaland,I was born in Shagamu ogun state then I moved to Lagos in 2005 I was still a child then now I'm in my late 20's and thinking about settling down once I finish schooling at least by age 33.
There is a reason why I prefer Yoruba girls even even though a lot of people are discouraging me especially from my tribe Igbo and other southern tribes.firstly i find it easier to relate with and woo Yoruba girls mainly because throughout my life I have made more Yoruba friends in than any other tribe, so I am igbo by blood but Yoruba by mindest I have lived in mushin,shomolu ,bariga,fadeyi so Yoruba way of life is nothing new to me,there was a time I was hustling in jibowu with one transport company like that,if you know jibowu you will know it is Igbo dominated,I had Igbo friends who found it very difficult to woo Yoruba girls in the area but as a retired omo-ita shomolu. I have already started wooing one Fatima like that with Yoruba language in less than a month we Don dey flow,kiss hug and do other things, the Yoruba girls there found me more attractive ,just be like magic for my igbo brother's eyes.

Secondly,I am not saying Yoruba girls are perfect,but they easily fall in love and are soft hearted than Igbo girls, if you woo a Yoruba. girl with money you are in big trouble she will likely cheat on you with the guy she truly loves ,but Igbo girls too tear eyes for my liking ,I am sure some of you can relate to this,
if you are a hustling guy and you have two girls that love you,one is Yoruba and the other is Igbo bet me it is likely the Yoruba girl will date you but the Igbo girl will rather suppress the feeling she has for you and go for a Better established guy it's not their fault though it is the way they were brought up,a Yoruba parent want their daughter to just marry whoever she likes and bring home grandchildren,an Igbo parent want their daughter to marry an established man to come carry the family responsibility.

Well consider me lucky my parents are late, all my siblings are just like me, all born and bred in the southwest so I guess nobody can stop me on this mission, I guess I have all their blessings..

ndo1:
Poor church rat,you are not Igbo.go and marry you fellow yoruba.igbo girls are not cheap and dirty like yoruba girls.

ndo1:
Good personal hygiene,sexual fidelity to their husband,they can provide financial assistance to their husband cos they hustle as well and to crown it all, igbo women give you cute, beautiful and intelligent kids.if you have lived in multi ethnic hood,like lagos u can relate that igbo kids stand out among their peers.its genitic.i owe no one apology.

RichardRandy:
A gree with some part ur post ..thats when u say igbo ladies are money driven while Yoruba lafies prefer love..u are right 100%.
I like aspect about them.

But whrn u say igbo parents wants their children to marry who get money thats not true.
Maybe some igbo parents not all..

And lastly i think yoruba gals very tribalistic the reason they fall for u easily becoz u speak the language maybe u woo them with the language.
If u sabi yoruba language u go Bleep them tire.
Thats if u are not yoruba. Thats the easieast way to get into their pants. If not u wind it difficult.

Yoruba gals are tribalistic igbo gals are more liberal and friendly

Minjim:
But this ur comment is tribalistic

crismark:
Sit in your village and continue assuming and assigning tribes to people

shantti:
Bro please try to utilize your brain. I stay in osun and I have seen Yoruba women pass this ur assertion with flying colors. Educated yoruba women that are the pride of their husbands. Women that are neat, intelligent, loyal, financially supportive and more.
Who told u Igbo kids stand out among kids from other tribes in terms of physical attractiveness. Bro, u really have not seen beautiful people then

okoroemeka:
don't blame and call Igbo culture stupid for not marrying,Igbo culture should not be generalized and from your comments you are just looking for excuses and who to blame for your ineptitude,last Sunday I accompanied my farm manager to umunze for formal introduction to his in-laws,guys are getting married everyday and you are complaining,do you want to marry someone's daughter without doing the important traditional rites for the family and community?do you want to be given a wife on hire purchase?if finance is what is holding you from marrying and Igbo lady please restrategize and improve your finance and stop calling Igbo custom stupid.

Brian47:
Bro it's obvious that he is not an igbo person.
He's obviously one of these tribal b*gots always active on the politics section.

Raalsalghul:
Women all over the world like money not just Nigerian but they do so at different levels.

A Yoruba lady is more willing to accept an upcoming guy compared to her Igbo counterpart.

This is based on observation.

crismark:
I simply won't marry from my tribe(igbo) because of the high cost of bride price and the wedding ceremonies (white and traditional). They want the man to foot all the bills starting from introduction.

I don't see myself spending over 1m simply because i want to put a woman in my house.
Never!

I see my yoruba guys getting married even tho am way richer than them. Yoruba culture has made things easy for the men while my stupid igbo culture keeps making life difficult for we young folks.

I will never please others and displease my pocket. The very moment i see a yoruba girl that ticks 80% of the boxes, am getting married.

RightToReject:
Most of you in your desperate bids to appear woke, if Igbo by tribe, or maintain ethnocentrism and revel in bigotry, if not Igbo by tribe, have always proved that commonsense is not common. Given that there are a lot of men who are menial job holders and who might have not had up to 50,000 naira savings at any point in their lives but are legally married from the same Igboland, that should tell any sane person, but definitely not mentally parochial element like you and your ilks, that Igbo culture does not mandate that any man marrying from Igboland must spend money in millions.

Raalsalghul:
Calm down.

I'm Igbo too and I agree with that guy.

Yoruba ladies are more willing to accept an upcoming dude compared to their Igbo counterparts. I'm not saying that Igbo ladies or the customs/traditions are bad but it is what it is and this is something I've seen time and time again without number.

Cc: crismark ndo1

crismark:
You made a very nice point.

I dnt know how to explain to those dummies that am igbo from Nise, Awka South to be precise.
They want everyone to support their greedy traditions

ndo1:
Onye mgbu.jee kpata ego and marry like ur mate.

Mrxawe:
I'm not any of these tribe but to be honest, what sets Yoruba girls different from the rest is that when they love, they love for real and not because of your money.

. Ifemi, ademi , etc. Yoruba girls Sabi love abeg