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Re: Sponsoring A Lady's Education by Nobody: 9:09am On Mar 01, 2022 |
uthlaw:Most don't.. Many men have been assisted after the asked for help... They thanked their sponsors and that was the end... Besides... You give people to receive something in return? That's not kind... If you help genuinely, you don't expect them to pay back... |
Re: Sponsoring A Lady's Education by BeautyB99(f): 10:38am On Mar 01, 2022 |
Op this one you dey ask this question abi you dey plan to sponsor one girl education? Or you don already dey do am? Op there is nothing wrong in it but as you dey sponsor her education dey also do the same for your own sisters too (i.e if you get one and dem dey school) |
Re: Sponsoring A Lady's Education by uthlaw: 1:33pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Raspberries:okay I don ear! |
Re: Sponsoring A Lady's Education by uthlaw: 1:34pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:you you,I know for this forum wella,smart n intelligent! |
Re: Sponsoring A Lady's Education by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:39pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
uthlaw:Everyone is smart.. |
Re: Sponsoring A Lady's Education by Nobody: 2:01pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
The only person you sponsor is your wife and not your girl friend. I have a heard and seen a lot of situation where stories like this end in disappointment, A friend of mine came to Lagos for youth service like 20 years ago and was squatting with a guy around Itire in Surulere. The guy was a dispatch rider and was a sponsoring a girl in Unilorin. He used to pamper the girl like a baby until he visited their school unannounced and the girl refused to see him and he hang around for 3 days before seeing the girl in another guys house. This nearly run mad. I have a girl graduate marry a boy mechanic we grew up together but in this case the girl's parent sponsored her education |
Re: Sponsoring A Lady's Education by Truvelisback(m): 2:39pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Ultimate36:Don't. |
Re: Sponsoring A Lady's Education by pansophist(m): 3:06pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
As a general rule the answer is no, unless you've accepted that you're doing it without expecting anything in return. As in, you'll be okay if she met another guy in school and abcond with him. Don't sponsor in the hope that you'll marry her afterwards, only do it, same way you give something to someone in need without expectations. Or else, back off. Be good, but refuse to be used. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sponsoring A Lady's Education by CaveAdullam: 3:51pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Ultimate36: Chances of losing in the end: 102% 1. Are you educated? If no, educate yourself. If yes, further your education. 2. What about your family members/relatives? Spot the one with a good prospect if you want to reap some seeds via academics. 3. If you want to marry the lady in future, better use the money to perform the marriage ceremony now, because probability that she will ever use her certificate to earn profitably in a third world country like Nigeria is almost zero + a high relationship disappointment rate after graduation. 4. Or, start a business with the money and take her as part of the employees. Thanks. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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