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Since 2021 I have being bombarded by numerous preachers both male and female inviting me to their Church,i am not the church going type I just like to live a secular life, but it is getting alarming. these days I just hide inside inside my house on Sundays and Saturdays because I know I will surely encounter a preacher.
Most recently I just encountered one which I have talked about here,this girl has being on my neck like a leech like she is forcing me.I have being ghosting her for some time I don't pick her calls or give her audience anymore because I feel it nots just about church i think she has feelings for me but wants to see me become a devoted Christian and a member of her church this girl is a graduate and a lawyer.
The problem now is since I started ignoring this girl things are not working well for me like before I am not joking . .kinda like someone is punishing me for her tears because I know she is feeling bad anytime I ignore her,I don't understand myself anymore I have heard things like this happen to people that have Gods calling I don't just know.

You mean God is punishing because of the feelings of the lawyer girl?





God is calling you with what?

Do you have a job?

Believe me, anyone that draws you closer to God is the best friend you could ever have.

That many preachers have been inviting you to their church doesn't mean you have a call of God in your life, if you should tow that line of reason or argument it means that a whole lot of people will be pastors because people have been inviting people. Don't get me wrong, I never said you have God's calling neither I'm I saying you don't. I'm just being realistic.


Finally, I have heard stories of how some people experience some form of difficulty if they're not at peace with certain people. It might be right or wrong. While some will always succeed as a result of God's prerogative, many don't.

I suggest you evaluate your life. You know what you want, go for it.

Well....
I can't say whether or not it is the tears of this girl that is the cause of the set back you're facing, but one thing I can advice is that, if you think you have the call of God upon you, you need to take out time (retreat) and press into this matter....

Good luck chief...

Let's put what you posted into experiment.

Now give her listening hears, follow her to church whether things will turn around for good.

Bros, God would never cajole you or put fear in you to worship him. God is Love and there is no fear in love (1 John 4:18). God draws you to him in love. The Cross draws men to God and not fear (John 12:32).

Things are hard for you either because of the situation in the country, bad planning, or you are not diligent in your business.

I repeat God would never stop your business for you to worship him because when your business picks up again, you will turn your back on him, So prefers you to come to him because of his overwhelming love.

Skooltynz:
Since 2021 I have being bombarded by numerous preachers both male and female inviting me to their Church,i am not the church going type I just like to live a secular life, but it is getting alarming. these days I just hide inside inside my house on Sundays and Saturdays because I know I will surely encounter a preacher.
Most recently I just encountered one which I have talked about here,this girl has being on my neck like a leech like she is forcing me.I have being ghosting her for some time I don't pick her calls or give her audience anymore because I feel it nots just about church i think she has feelings for me but wants to see me become a devoted Christian and a member of her church this girl is a graduate and a lawyer.
The problem now is since I started ignoring this girl things are not working well for me like before I am not joking . .kinda like someone is punishing me for her tears because I know she is feeling bad anytime I ignore her,I don't understand myself anymore I have heard things like this happen to people that have Gods calling I don't just know.

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Law of attraction.
Nothing was wrong with you, you thought that something was wrong with you, something went wrong somewhere and by correlation, you now believe that something is wrong with you. And of course something will continue to be wrong with you until you do that which you THINK will make something not to be wrong with you.

You had doubts which gave birth to fear, fear gave room for negative thoughts. Something unfavorable happened and the negative thoughts escalated the cause exponentially thereby further attracting negativity to you. And it is quite strong because it is rooted in an already established believe about the sadness of a girl.
Now you've accepted your punishment but you are indirectly denying it by asking us.

To keep your mind at rest, it would suffice to follow the supposed determinant factor...the girl...to church. By so doing, fear will wear out and positivity will meander its way back into your mind which will in turn be reflected in your life.

I am not a believer of God, having encountered many sayings and supposed prophecies of what would happen to me if I don't follow the God's part, nothing has happened to me and nothing will because I never gave room for fear, I know no fear.
I gave you the above advice because I believe that everybody deserves to do whatever works for them.

It will be news if no one have ever invited you to church. The invitation will even start from your family and friends.

As someone else said, hard life is part of life. It's not everything that is spiritual. Life is not straight. It is full of bumps.