cococandy:

She’s heartless cos she needs to pay her bills?

I’m convinced many of you commenting here don’t even know what it takes to survive in today’s world.

NoToPile:


Loool expantiate further,you blame the mother for working? You blame the father for not providing enough to let the woman not work for at least 6 months? since you don't blame the system for not providing at least 6 months paid mat leave.
Who do you blame? I really want to know.

Hope you do know no mother would want to drop her 3month old baby anywhere if they could help it.

osazsky:
if the work is important why not go to work with ur little sibbling or relative..that hold the child in d car..immedoately the baby starts crying her sinbling put a call acrose while she rushes down to breastfeed her child.u will be suprised that d cteatch is at ojota and her place of work bony island in port hardcourt

Not nobody is going to support this stupid act by this stupid woman.children who know nothing becoming mothers cus they started sex at 12 she shld go to her village and ask her grand parents how its been done before taking in again..and no body is going to support the stupid sch for accepting a todler cuz of cash..both the sch and the mother should be sued by civil right society

canada2022:
Take heart woman.
Proper investigation should be conducted to confirm what happen.

People should not blame the woman for dropping her baby there. If you were in her shoes you will do the same.

nwekeugochukwu:
A Nigerian mum lost her three-month-old baby after leaving the child at a crèche, IGBERETV reports.

Twitter user @Lolo_cy who shared the sad story online said no one knows what happened to the baby only that the mother came back to pick her baby's dead body.

She wrote;

Pls only post a complete version of issues like this.
Was the woman called to the hospital, was the child taken to hospital for any emergency, or was the baby dead in it's sleep pls tell us something to reason with even if it's one side of the story.



https://twitter.com/Lolo_cy/status/1500387723064057857?t=rpOIKoXPwMkvP7UhpEqb5Q&s=19

GloriousGbola:
No one knows what happened? This is exactly where police should be brought in.

This is negligence or worse. I have read of creches renting out babies to street beggars.

If you cannot manage the babies in your care, then you have no business running a creche.

cococandy:
Such utter bullshiet

It’s easier for you to assume she’s a single mother because that way you can blame her entirely instead of considering that she might have a “provider” husband or partner who can’t even cover their bills hence she needs to work.

Some of you are so annoying.

“ThE moDern wOman” yen yen yen

mrmattolanrewaju:


Send me a mail

elantraceey:


It's simple. People should stop paying attention to what people say because no matter what you do, people both men and women will still talk. If you drop your 3 months old baby you laboured 9 months for at a crèche because of what people say, then that's even the lamest excuse available.

jeff1993:
Sad

Please NL family .... I need someone who can mentor me on any online skill

Itsrm:


Not true.

Marcofranz:
I’m faulting the mother. You know you’re not ready for a baby why not abort the fetus and face your career or whatever.

Why drop a 3 months old fragile child in a crèche?

eipreel:
I read a lot of comments on this thread and I just smh. Blaming the woman for taking her child to a creche. Humans are truly insatiable. You don't work, they term you a liability to your husband. You work, they say you want to run away from your responsibility. Smh really

thesicilian:

The job of a woman is to care for her baby, otherwise she shouldn't have any at all. But you "woke" folks will not want to hear that because you have been brainwashed into thinking that abandoning children to make a career is the modern thing to do. When someone speaks the harsh uncomfortable truth, everyone shouts "crucify him!"
Well, maybe now that the baby has been killed by the carelessness of strangers, she should have more time for her job.

thesicilian:
What's a 3 month old baby doing at a crèche?

descarado:
3 months

What about her place of work?
These days, establishments have facilities set up for nursing mothers.

Haba


Why start work 3 months after childbirth?

This is heartbreaking

No cctv.

showafrica:
This work of a thing is over rated. Ask her how is her take home, you will hear 45k or highest 80k. Less than 200$ in the name of i dont want to be a house wife. My brothers, hustle oo, make them no use ur pikin gamble. Marry a house wife... Who is ready to take care of ur children during the first 6 yrs of marriage at least and open a side business for her. After nursing all your children, she can then look for a work of her choice and work for fun. Why should I marry someone who is always rushing out every morning and coming back late, taking orders from one idiot as boss? It doesn't make sense to me. I rather keep numerous baby mamas

cococandy:
Make sure you’re stacking your money in anticipation for that time.

Have money saved up for at least 6 months to one year of expenses so that you won’t start disturbing us on nairaland about your “lazy wife” who refuses to work since she had a baby.

pocohantas:


One minute their mothers prioritized them by staying at home. The next minute their mothers joggled family, home and business without help unlike lazy modern women. The more you try to understand them, the more confusing it gets. Don’t even try…

cococandy:
keep quiet and listen once in a while.
Read the post you quoted again and see if maybe you should be learning from her

Prophet777:
Here are the facts you need to know about this unfortunate issue;

Pls stop blaming the mother of the baby. The Nigeria system has failed the little innocent baby. The fact here remains that maternity leave here in Nigeria is just 3 months. After which you might be sacked. Imagine taking a just 3 months old baby to a creche? Ahhh!! Is that reasonable to any right thinking person? That is not how the system works in an advanced countries.

Then, the death of the baby must also be thoroughly investigated to avoid future reoccurrence.

Finally, it should be a standard practice henceforth that every private schools operating kindergarten, creche etc should have a CCTV cameras in their various classes.

CHoccolaTE:


Elantraceey
It seems you are very savvy in the world of online work.
Do you care to start a thread or whatsapp group to help women become more enlightened on some online jobs they can do while taking care of their small babies.
You could be saving a child's life by providing this information. Thank you.

lagosrd:
Hopeless mothers everywhere. So what is her gain now after labouring fo 9months and she couldn't wait for just 6months to make sure the baby is matured enough to stay without the mother.

Everything is not evil spirit as we can always avoid catastrophe like this.
3month old baby, that woman will leave my house. The work she went for now , she won't be able to do , even the money she makes there will be spent be her alone in most cases.

This is a good example to other young ladies to allow their children to grow before returning to work. If the work will not allow you take care of your kids, abeg find alternative one.

The very careless and hopeless creche too also ignorantly left the poor child to die and they couldn't explain. No even in this yahoo days I can never leave any of my children to complete strangers Never.

Meanwhile, if your pick your child at the creche and there is a pattern of always sleeping abeg go straight into the class of the teacher , open her bag and see what she has been giving them.

DKM123:
It's the same bas*tar*d nairalanders that will insult Nigerian women for not working and making thier own money that will still come here and spill thrash about her chosing to have a job. If the job only gave her three months maternity leave, what do you expect her to do?

There are hardworking women out there who put thier babies in creche after one month sef. This are some of the limiting factors why women are not out there making millions because they have to focus on family but you nairaland goats will still insult a stay at home mother and call her lazy for sacrificing her career to care for the home front.

What exactly do you people want from women?! Nkpis!

thesicilian:

The job of a woman is to care for her baby, otherwise she shouldn't have any at all. But you "woke" folks will not want to hear that because you have been brainwashed into thinking that abandoning children to make a career is the modern thing to do. When someone speaks the harsh uncomfortable truth, everyone shouts "crucify him!"
Well, maybe now that the baby has been killed by the carelessness of strangers, she should have more time for her job.

Romanoff:


The same idiots will call stay at home mums liability.

Meanwhile, a lot of them are products of a stay at home mom.