I taught i have finally seen my remaining half
She is too good and a wonderful person

She opened up to me that she has given birth before.

Omo I can't just get that shit out of my head

I once told her that I would never get married to a single mother... I rather remain remain single

Omo this shit really hit me

Need matured advice please

Never make the mistake of marrying a single mother or a divorcée. Go contrary to this rule at your own peril.

gozzlin:
Never make the mistake of marrying a single mother or a divorcée. Go contrary to this rule at your own peril.

what if the single mother was raped and got pregnant as a result of it, what if the single mother was abused in her formal relationship or marriage, you need to consider something's before taking actions, good wife could come from anywhere, single mother or not, just pray to fall in the hands of the right and honest person.

Takeit2017:
I taught i have finally seen my remaining half
She is too good and a wonderful person

She opened up to me that she has given birth before.

Omo I can't just get that shit out of my head

I once told her that I would never get married to a single mother... I rather remain remain single

Omo this shit really hit me

Need matured advice please

op, would you rather she kept the secret to herself, only for you to discover the truth after marriage? It's more honourable that she tells you her past, it shows she's really into you, make the right decision, but if you feel you are no longer comfortable with her, just quietly leave her life in peace.

Freestainworld:
what if the single mother was raped and got pregnant as a result of it, what if the single mother was abused in her formal relationship or marriage, you need to consider something's before taking actions, good wife could come from anywhere, single mother or not, just pray to fall in the hands of the right and honest person.

Just spare yourself the trouble of thinking all those 'what if's' you posted up there. Just jejeli avoid single mothers and save yourself lots of anguish. Don't say you weren't warned.

gozzlin:
Never make the mistake of marrying a single mother or a divorcée. Go contrary to this rule at your own peril.

You guys just talk anyhow


Single mothers ain't human beings ba?



OP it is a matter of choice... If you love her, wife her! if you can't put up with the fact that she got a kid then kindly free her..

Shikena

If you wan marry am, marry am.

What of the girls you had sex with? What of the ones they aborted for you? You think because they aborted it, you are still gallant? No, you are also a father but a father to a dead child.

Since you pray that your sis who got preggie should see a husband, why not be the husband to sb’s sister who got preggie?


Stop to dey judge. Everybody dey Bleep up!

gozzlin:


Just spare yourself the trouble of thinking all those 'what its' you posted up there. Just jejeli avoid single mothers and save yourself lots of anguish. Don't say you weren't warned.

Stop being narrow minded... It's stupid...


There are millions of single fathers... Are they all bad too?

Many men who've been married to women without kids, how happy are they? Are their relationships perfect?

A woman can be toxic whether on not she's had kids... It's a character...

Funny, if this woman had an abortion instead and opened up to the op... She would have still been labelled 'bad'...

gozzlin:


Just spare yourself the trouble of thinking all those 'what its' you posted up there. Just jejeli avoid single mothers and save yourself lots of anguish. Don't say you weren't warned.

single motherhood could happen to anyone, in any family, just assume she's your sister, would you advice a suitor a backout.

Candidlady:



You guys just talk anyhow


Single mothers ain't human beings ba?

But they feel foot single fathers and widowers... If a young woman refused to date or marry a man with kids, these retārds would call her all sorta names....

Datboredberry:
But they feel foot single fathers and widowers... If a young woman refused to date or marry a man with kids, these retārds would call her all sorta names....

Exactly


Like it is not one crazy that got the poor Lady pregnant and then went AWOL


Really fed up of their matters iswear! The stench of their hypocrisy could choke one to death

Takeit2017:
I taught i have finally seen my remaining half
She is too good and a wonderful person

She opened up to me that she has given birth before.

Omo I can't just get that shit out of my head

I once told her that I would never get married to a single mother... I rather remain remain single

Omo this shit really hit me

Need matured advice please

Ask for God direction.

Candidlady:


Exactly


Like it is not one crazy that got the poor Lady pregnant and then went AWOL


Really fed up of their matters iswear! The stench of their hypocrisy could choke one to death

Honestly!

The man who impregnated her is still husband material but she's a second hand product...

Hypocrites...

Takeit2017:
I taught i have finally seen my remaining half
She is too good and a wonderful person

She opened up to me that she has given birth before.

Omo I can't just get that shit out of my head

I once told her that I would never get married to a single mother... I rather remain remain single

Omo this shit really hit me

Need matured advice please

Ask her what led to being a single mother. If the situation is conducive for you, I think you can marry her. Giving birth is not a disease. Do you know how many pregnancies single lady you want to later marry have aborted?Atlst, u knw this lady is fertile. My one cent

so the problem here is just cus she had a child?.. well...two options

firstly, if you can't love her and her child,just QUIT QUIETLY before you complicate her life and that of the child

secondly,if you must marry her,be ready to love the child as well..be a good dad to the child and make sure you ain't a "step dad" but a dad indeed to the child.

As you said the lady is a wonderful person,I just hope you don't leave her and later regret it cus of your quest of marry a single lady without kids.

Good luck in whatever you decide but trust me every child deserves love and attention whether your biological child or not...just be man enough and wise... sometimes good people come into your life in ways that you don't prefer or expect...I WISH YOU THE BEST

Takeit2017:
I taught i have finally seen my remaining half
She is too good and a wonderful person

She opened up to me that she has given birth before.

Omo I can't just get that shit out of my head

I once told her that I would never get married to a single mother... I rather remain remain single

Omo this shit really hit me

Need matured advice please

If you really truly love her and she is a good person then the fact that she already has a child shouldn't be a problem for you. At least she was honest with you about it unlike some people who will hide it and then it's after the marriage that it now comes out. Just because someone is a single mother doesn't mean they are not still good wife material. So please don't break up with her just because of that.

Candidlady:

You guys just talk anyhow

Single mothers ain't human beings ba?

OP it is a matter of choice... If you love her, wife her! if you can't put up with the fact that she got a kid then kindly free her..

Shikena

True. It's amazing how some people think human psychology and sociology could be treated like concepts that follow simple arithmetic rules. A total mockery of human faculty and several generations of research and studies. Even arithmetic logic are carefully applied in certain situations, hence the saying "1+1 is not always 2". This lazy and pedestrian approach to issues is a reflection of where we are as a people and the result is obvious everywhere around us.

Candidlady:



You guys just talk anyhow


Single mothers ain't human beings ba?



OP it is a matter of choice... If you love her, wife her! if you can't put up with the fact that she got a kid then kindly free her..

Shikena

You obviously are a single mother.

gozzlin:
Never make the mistake of marrying a single mother or a divorcée. Go contrary to this rule at your own peril.

What of a regular innocent-looking sexually active girl with 12 ex-boyfriends in tow and at least 7 abortions, all perfectly concealed from you as glitters of gold. What's your rule for that? See no evil, hear no evil? Does that remove the facts and reality?

Always remember that women re freaking manipulative.....she's just playing ur head.


U re the man...
Ur the hotcake....
Men re the ones doing those gender favour..
Most of them have enjoyed and wasted their prime already ( turned evening newspapers)..now she wants to ruin urs..not fair..her child would always comes first tho..

Pick from the best and untainted, not from rotten scraps.
Goodluck bro...

kaymart:

You obviously are a single mother.

How is it obvious that she is a single mother?

Run far away from her.

Candidlady:


Exactly


Like it is not one crazy that got the poor Lady pregnant and then went AWOL


Really fed up of their matters iswear! The stench of their hypocrisy could choke one to death

Even single mothers prefer single guys... yet you ladies are guilt tripping single guys for their choice..

The fact is, nobody wants someone else’s baggages even those that have baggages of their own... it’s not always about slut shaming

Shikena:

How is it obvious that she is a single mother?

Why do I need to tell u?

kaymart:

Why do I need to tell u?

Oh ok I understand, never mind

Single mothers are not bad people just that the drama that can come from the whole situation is not something you want in your life...

Single mothers are okay but peace of mind is better.