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Mercychen:
Yeah. There's this nairalander I became friends with some time last year or after the lock down. I can't really remember.

Hes different. In fact, the reason I replied his PM then was because after observing him for some time, I discovered he's very reserved. Writes intelligently and only visits mature sections. Religion section.

He was actually talking about a serious relationship. So we exchanged pics but what I saw discouraged me. He had the appearance of a Married man. You know that Married man looks. He called and we Spoke. He speaks so well and sounds great on the phone but I just kept wondering why he looked like that.


I told him to send a few more pics, he did but he still had that look.
While I was still caught in the whole confusion, something happened.

He's been the one calling. So one day I felt, let me do the calling today at least. I did but he didn't pick. He now called and said he'll call back later. I didn't think anything of it.
He called and we talked at length and all through he kept talking in the direction of marriage.

I called him another day, he didn't pick but later called and told me he'll call at a particular time. That was when I began to connect the dots. Like why does he prefer to do the calling at a particular hour of the day? I began to zero my mind.

He later called and asked me what time of the day Im free for calls as he wouldn't want to interrupt anything. I told him at nights.

He called me at the agreed time and I picked but the thing is if I call, he never picks.
So one day, he called and I picked then he immediately said I should give him some secs that he needs to change location. He called back and was sounding like someone in a hole. . I asked why the background was so quiet, he said he was in the bathroom. . I let him finish what he was saying and blocked his line and WhatsApp.

Now, i blocked him because I felt he was prolly married, that was why he never picks my calls and choses a paticular time to call me to the point of hiding in the bathroom. So I forgot all about him.

He called me with another line, I blocked it again and it ended there. I deactivated the moniker he knows.

Yesterday, he sent a mail to my old account and was trying to strike a convo and asking why he hasn't heard from me in a while.

He seemed like a good guy/man but that shady character is what I don't get. I have a feeling he's married.

Should I tell him straight up what I think? Or ignore him altogether.

I don't know what he wants this time.

Don't enter into emotional trauma. Leave him for his wife

Mercychen:
Almost Everything. His waistline has dropped.
His wide belly and weak chest. ( Chuckles)

Though he still has a youthful face.

Jesu!

Mercychen:
Yeah. There's this nairalander I became friends with some time last year or after the lock down. I can't really remember.

Hes different. In fact, the reason I replied his PM then was because after observing him for some time, I discovered he's very reserved. Writes intelligently and only visits mature sections. Religion section.

He was actually talking about a serious relationship. So we exchanged pics but what I saw discouraged me. He had the appearance of a Married man. You know that Married man looks. He called and we Spoke. He speaks so well and sounds great on the phone but I just kept wondering why he looked like that.


I told him to send a few more pics, he did but he still had that look.
While I was still caught in the whole confusion, something happened.

He's been the one calling. So one day I felt, let me do the calling today at least. I did but he didn't pick. He now called and said he'll call back later. I didn't think anything of it.
He called and we talked at length and all through he kept talking in the direction of marriage.

I called him another day, he didn't pick but later called and told me he'll call at a particular time. That was when I began to connect the dots. Like why does he prefer to do the calling at a particular hour of the day? I began to zero my mind.

He later called and asked me what time of the day Im free for calls as he wouldn't want to interrupt anything. I told him at nights.

He called me at the agreed time and I picked but the thing is if I call, he never picks.
So one day, he called and I picked then he immediately said I should give him some secs that he needs to change location. He called back and was sounding like someone in a hole. . I asked why the background was so quiet, he said he was in the bathroom. . I let him finish what he was saying and blocked his line and WhatsApp.

Now, i blocked him because I felt he was prolly married, that was why he never picks my calls and choses a paticular time to call me to the point of hiding in the bathroom. So I forgot all about him.

He called me with another line, I blocked it again and it ended there. I deactivated the moniker he knows.

Yesterday, he sent a mail to my old account and was trying to strike a convo and asking why he hasn't heard from me in a while.

He seemed like a good guy/man but that shady character is what I don't get. I have a feeling he's married.

Should I tell him straight up what I think? Or ignore him altogether.

I don't know what he wants this time.

someone you have not seen in person just his picture and because he told you he was in the restroom you conclude that his married damn and blocked hiss ass off without meeting him or getting to know more of him and the yeye guy still tries to call you back again, wow!! This is wonderful

Mercychen:
Exactly!

I once had an encounter with one like that. Immediately he sent his pics, I knew he was married. So i ignored him.
After sending loads of messages without any reply from me, he changed his dp, and dressed like a young boy but it was too late.

Few months down the line, he popped up on my Facebook wall and I saw where he was being congratulated by friends and families on his third baby's dedication. I checked further and saw his beautiful wife and baby. I just shook my head.

I still see his post on my wall and I just burst out laughing eact time. Meaning he's still has my number.

Men!

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seems it's only married men that are showing interest..

may be wrong though.

abbasajao:
This is one of the ladies that are not married and do not want other to get married. What kind of rushed conclusion is this?

Ogbeni mind your business, abi na u be d guy OP is talking about, mtcheeeeew!

Naijanascam:
How do you know a married man?
Do you see him with sienna vehicle?
Do you hear the cry of a baby in the background?

With all these questions of mine I came to conclude that you are impatient and confused

I tire o, am 28 yo, drive a sienna and have tons of pictures of 2 nieces and 3 nephews on my phone.
That makes me a married man as well ?

Klass99:
Mercychen , I can't help but become fond of this dramatic lady. New week, new drama, new story! African Magic has got nothing on you I swear.

Hahahahaaaa..

Mercychen:
Yeah. There's this nairalander I became friends with some time last year or after the lock down. I can't really remember.

Hes different. In fact, the reason I replied his PM then was because after observing him for some time, I discovered he's very reserved. Writes intelligently and only visits mature sections. Religion section.

He was actually talking about a serious relationship. So we exchanged pics but what I saw discouraged me. He had the appearance of a Married man. You know that Married man looks. He called and we Spoke. He speaks so well and sounds great on the phone but I just kept wondering why he looked like that.


I told him to send a few more pics, he did but he still had that look.
While I was still caught in the whole confusion, something happened.

He's been the one calling. So one day I felt, let me do the calling today at least. I did but he didn't pick. He now called and said he'll call back later. I didn't think anything of it.
He called and we talked at length and all through he kept talking in the direction of marriage.

I called him another day, he didn't pick but later called and told me he'll call at a particular time. That was when I began to connect the dots. Like why does he prefer to do the calling at a particular hour of the day? I began to zero my mind.

He later called and asked me what time of the day Im free for calls as he wouldn't want to interrupt anything. I told him at nights.

He called me at the agreed time and I picked but the thing is if I call, he never picks.
So one day, he called and I picked then he immediately said I should give him some secs that he needs to change location. He called back and was sounding like someone in a hole. . I asked why the background was so quiet, he said he was in the bathroom. . I let him finish what he was saying and blocked his line and WhatsApp.

Now, i blocked him because I felt he was prolly married, that was why he never picks my calls and choses a paticular time to call me to the point of hiding in the bathroom. So I forgot all about him.

He called me with another line, I blocked it again and it ended there. I deactivated the moniker he knows.

Yesterday, he sent a mail to my old account and was trying to strike a convo and asking why he hasn't heard from me in a while.

He seemed like a good guy/man but that shady character is what I don't get. I have a feeling he's married.

Should I tell him straight up what I think? Or ignore him altogether.

I don't know what he wants this time.

Tell him you think he is married. Besides,You should have told him that before you blocked him.

gannod:
Tell him you think he is married. Besides,You should have told him that before you blocked him.

He claimed he was single from our very first chat. before we even exchanged pics.

ITbomb:
See how the other gender gather to cast aspersions on innocent married men

dont mind them, na where u go see them. well, i dont blane them at all, u no en get where a woman go reach to dey find husband, she go give, d next thing na to dey find her fellow aunty to lash at men

Vision101:
Hahahaha....my sister Mercychen I am married. How do I look?

Why is it that majority of the comments are coming from the daughters of Eve?

My advice on your post - run run run. Remove your shoes and run

Baba so u don't know that this is psychology. Women hate themselves, so those aunties trying to deceive our able Mercychen, they just don't want to hear that Mercychen is getting married anytime soon, they only want her to be in same status with them.
Bcs going by what Mercychen wrote up their, is not a yardstick to judge somebody if d person is married or now, (though d brother's way is questionable)

. Men sha. Just thread with caution

chiefbuchiV12:
I tire o, am 28 yo, drive a sienna and have tons of pictures of 2 nieces and 3 nephews on my phone.
That makes me a married man as well ?

As in ehhhhh, d thing tire me ohhhhh. Somebody like that always play around kids, kids are just fond of me whevere I go, so if u see my pictures with different kids u would term me a married man

This chronic attention seeker. Nonsense.

Klass99:
Mercychen , I can't help but become fond of this dramatic lady. New week, new drama, new story! African Magic has got nothing on you I swear.

At all nne.

Mercychen:
Going to receive a call in the bathroom alone is enough to tell me he's got something up his sleeve. So, no need.

Your conclusions of him is funny. You are only adding things up from your ignorance. Trust your instincts, yes but trying to make it seem you are right is a no.

DarlingtonC:
Observant people can actually know a married man by his looks

Big lie. Before I got married, I had a big frame right from my teens. While I was serving even at a young age, people treated me with more respect than they did the older corners.

In terms of cars, except for my first car, I have always used family cars cos I just love them. I buy clothes for kids I know and I am sure many might have concluded I was married.

Assumptions are not always true.

Mercychen:
He claimed he was single from our very first chat. before we even exchanged pics.

Ok. Follow your mind. Best wishes

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Mercychen:
Yeah. There's this nairalander I became friends with some time last year or after the lock down. I can't really remember.

Hes different. In fact, the reason I replied his PM then was because after observing him for some time, I discovered he's very reserved. Writes intelligently and only visits mature sections. Religion section.

He was actually talking about a serious relationship. So we exchanged pics but what I saw discouraged me. He had the appearance of a Married man. You know that Married man looks. He called and we Spoke. He speaks so well and sounds great on the phone but I just kept wondering why he looked like that.


I told him to send a few more pics, he did but he still had that look.
While I was still caught in the whole confusion, something happened.

He's been the one calling. So one day I felt, let me do the calling today at least. I did but he didn't pick. He now called and said he'll call back later. I didn't think anything of it.
He called and we talked at length and all through he kept talking in the direction of marriage.

I called him another day, he didn't pick but later called and told me he'll call at a particular time. That was when I began to connect the dots. Like why does he prefer to do the calling at a particular hour of the day? I began to zero my mind.

He later called and asked me what time of the day Im free for calls as he wouldn't want to interrupt anything. I told him at nights.

He called me at the agreed time and I picked but the thing is if I call, he never picks.
So one day, he called and I picked then he immediately said I should give him some secs that he needs to change location. He called back and was sounding like someone in a hole. . I asked why the background was so quiet, he said he was in the bathroom. . I let him finish what he was saying and blocked his line and WhatsApp.

Now, i blocked him because I felt he was prolly married, that was why he never picks my calls and choses a paticular time to call me to the point of hiding in the bathroom. So I forgot all about him.

He called me with another line, I blocked it again and it ended there. I deactivated the moniker he knows.

Yesterday, he sent a mail to my old account and was trying to strike a convo and asking why he hasn't heard from me in a while.

He seemed like a good guy/man but that shady character is what I don't get. I have a feeling he's married.

Should I tell him straight up what I think? Or ignore him altogether.

I don't know what he wants this time.

Ignore him, let him date himself

No time for nonsense

Mercychen:
Like candidlady said, they look exausted. That's one aspect though.

ROFLMAO

aanuoluwami14:
you must be either desperate or rushing to get married. Why not calm down to know better? Most of them here are happly married but writting single or single parent. Since he can't be picking calls, he is mad, they are many here, set of who are looking for flirts. Let him go

Couldn't you have made your point without cursing the man? Even the OP didn't curse the man in all her write up. Mtcheeew

Mercychen:
Yeah. There's this nairalander I became friends with some time last year or after the lockdown. I can't really remember.

He's different. In fact, the reason I replied to his PM then was because after observing him for some time, I discovered he's very reserved. Writes intelligently and only visits mature sections. Religion section.

He was actually talking about a serious relationship. So we exchanged pics but what I saw discouraged me. He had the appearance of a Married man. You know that Married man looks. He called and we Spoke. He speaks so well and sounds great on the phone but I just kept wondering why he looked like that.


I told him to send a few more pics, he did but he still had that look.
While I was still caught in the whole confusion, something happened.

He's been the one calling. So one day I felt, let me do the calling today at least. I did but he didn't pick. He now called and said he'll call back later. I didn't think anything of it.
He called and we talked at length and all through he kept talking in the direction of marriage.

I called him another day, he didn't pick up but later called and told me he'll call at a particular time. That was when I began to connect the dots. Like why does he prefer to do the calling at a particular hour of the day? I began to zero my mind.

He later called and asked me what time of the day I'm free for calls as he wouldn't want to interrupt anything. I told him at night.

He called me at the agreed time and I picked but the thing is if I call, he never picks.
So one day, he called and I picked then he immediately said I should give him some secs that he needs to change location. He called back and was sounding like someone in a hole. . I asked why the background was so quiet, he said he was in the bathroom. . I let him finish what he was saying and blocked his Line and WhatsApp.

Now, i blocked him because I felt he was prolly married, that was why he never picks my calls and chooses a particular time to call me to the point of hiding in the bathroom. So I forgot all about him.

He called me with another line, I blocked it again and it ended there. I deactivated the moniker he knows.

Yesterday, he sent a mail to my old account and was trying to strike a convo and ask why he hasn't heard from me in a while.

He seemed like a good guy/man but that shady character is what I don't get. I have a feeling he's married.

Should I tell him straight up what I think? Or ignore him altogether.

I don't know what he wants this time.

I have been told a lot of times by ladies that I look like a married man. Some say the way I dress, how I treat ladies, and calminess. The first time, my fiancee introduce me to her mum, she ask if I have married before and how many kids, lol. I pause for some minutes and I told her I have no kid and never married. Only Nigerian women suggest I am a married man due to my corporate look. So please Nigerian ladies, how does a married man look? As for the issue of the call, I think you need to find out more. I have a particular time I don't pick calls only if there is an emergency and to avoid billing he may not like you to use your airtime.

sirjamesjnr:
I have been told a lot of times by ladies that I look like a married man. Some say the way I dress, how I treat ladies, and calminess. The first time, my fiancee introduce me to her mum, she ask if I have married before and how many kids, lol. I pause for some minutes and I told her I have no kid and never married. Only Nigerian women suggest I am a married man due to my corporate look. So please Nigerian ladies, how does a married man look? As for the issue of the call, I think you need to find out more. I have a particular time I don't pick calls only if there is an emergency and to avoid billing he may not like you to use your airtime.

Well... He made me to start suspecting him with his programmed way of Calling coupled with his looks

Mercychen:
Well... He made me start suspecting him with his programmed way of Calling coupled with his looks

. I need to know about this look. Too old or what?

sirjamesjnr:
. I need to know about this look. Too old or what?

Lol.. not like he looks old facially. It's his body. He has that father of 4 kind of body. Just picture a family man's body.That's how he looks.

Mercychen:
Lol.. not like he looks old facially. It's his body. He has that father of 4 kinds of body. Just picture a family man's body. That's how he looks.

. Do you mean he is fat? I come from a family of big bodies (fat) does that make them look like married men? I look fit but still, women assumed I am married with kids. Going to the restroom to make calls, maybe he was with someone. You need to have proof, not this assumption. I have a brother who has married with 3 kids but you won't know because he dresses like teen. Niga bed young girls like water.

sirjamesjnr:
. Do you mean he is fat? I come from a family of big bodies (fat) does that make them look like married men? I look fit but still, women assumed I am married with kids. Going to the restroom to make calls, maybe he was with someone. You need to have proof, not this assumption. I have a brother who has married with 3 kids but you won't know because he dresses like teen. Niga bed young girls like water.

You won't understand. Only women will understand what I mean.

Mercychen:
You won't understand. Only women will understand what I mean.

. Why are they always wrong in my case? No other African suggest I have married only a Nigerian lady. Do Nigerian ladies have special mastery others don't?

So people can tell if a man is married from his looks? AsweArigad, it's new to me.. then again, no be today married men don dey help the female ministry. We are just trying to fulfil the scriptures. Isaiah 4:1 come to mind. We dont want u to come begging/asking to bear our names and bla bla, we want to treat u ladies with some dignity by coming to woo u and make u feel good. No be today abeg..

But if ur gut feelings tells u He's married and u can't/Don't do married men, tell him to his face and Waka. Ladies wey go do, go still do Sha.

Hubeznigeria:
Couldn't you have made your point without cursing the man? Even the OP didn't curse the man in all her write up. Mtcheeew

Borrow sense, he is angry because na them