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GloriousGbola:
my point is that as a male, once you have had children, you can also consider a vasectomy. unless you have plans to continue having children into your old age.

For me, it's an unnecessary adventure.

Acidosis:
Okay good. So, that means you don't care about kids?

Who said I don't care for kids?


I said a man's character is more important to me than his ability to father kids.



That means we will definitely have kids no matter his problem.



Fertility can be bought, but good character cannot be bought.

GloriousGbola:
hello smarty pants, i know exactly what a hysterectomy is. my mother had one when i was in uni, and my wife had one last year. i don't need need quasi feminists with giant chips on their shoulders womansplaining upandan - Rest in your exhaustion

please try to be polite next time, or i will be much more abusive in future. nonsense and womansplaining

You are free to express yourself in the darkest way possible.



It simply shows how dark your soul is, not mine.





By the way, I am not the cause of whatever is bugging you.

Saintmary:
You are free to express yourself in the darkest way possible.

It simply shows how dark your soul is, not mine.

By the way, I am not the cause of whatever is bugging you.

better. next time go and play pretend intellectual with someone else. you are prime evidence that dickery is not the sole preserve of the male gender

GloriousGbola:
better. next time go and play pretend intellectual with someone else. you are prime evidence that dickery is not the sole preserve of the male gender

I am who I am.


I don't care, neither am I afraid of your tiny little taunts.


I am beyond description.

I transcend tiny little boxes.


I AM.

Saintmary:
Who said I don't care for kids?

I said a man's character is more important to me than his ability to father kids.

That means we will definitely have kids no matter his problem.

Fertility can be bought, but good character cannot be bought.

Okay. So at what point or on what basis is vasectomy a thing to consider or talk about among single guys? Are you in any way implying that guys should get a vasectomy done so they can sleep around without getting trapped with pregnancy issues?

So far, the only guy that claimed he got one did so because he does not care for kids. Why then do you want me to talk to my friends about vasectomy?

I don't have any friend who does not care for kids (asides from Klass99 and she's female ) And I also don't think anyone, if given the chance to choose either the natural conception or technology-assisted reproduction, will choose the latter (all things being equal).

pocohantas:
Thank you! That is why I am considering May 26. It is not in Lagos o, I must add that. Lagos and urban areas gets all the support and goodies, the NGO I work with isn’t Lagos based.
I’ll let you know still.

Abeg make you help me ma

Acidosis:
Okay. So at what point or on what basis is vasectomy a thing to consider or talk about among single guys? Are you in any way implying that guys should get a vasectomy done so they can sleep around without getting trapped with pregnancy issues?

So far, the only guy that claimed he got one did so because he does not care for kids. Why then do you want me to talk to my friends about vasectomy?

I don't have any friend who does not care for kids (asides from Klass99 and she's female ) And I also don't think anyone, if given the chance to choose either the natural conception or technology-assisted reproduction, will choose the latter (all things being equal).

Hmmmm, now I see you've got enough time to rest well before giving this reply.



Men know what's best for men

Women know what's best for women


I said it before, and I will say it again, because I'm female, my first concern will be the well being and good opportunities for females.


Whatever is good for women, I'm all in.



But when it comes to men, I do not claim to understand the male perspective, neither do I claim to look out for men's benefits, even though I do that, but it's not my pressing concern, being a female.



Therefore, vasectomy and it's benefits, a procedure that will not be performed on me, or my spouse because I do not have a spouse as of present, is not my most pressing concern.




So, dear Acidosis, go through the information readily available to you and make whatever you want with it.


Have a productive day.