i met him, we were dating, later found out he had a secret girlfriend. she broke up with him. i told him i was done with him too. he apologised for what he did and said that he never wanted a relationship with her then messaged me saying if i was really done with him. i asked if he wanted to get into an exclusive relationship he said he just wanted us to continue dating/sleeping together but no title just yet, maybe in the future. i said i wasnt interested in that, then he left. then he got me a gift for valentines day and apologised again. i ignored him. then i messaged him a few weeks later and said hi. he told me he missed me and we had a chat and he said he was looking for a relationship and i said i was open to get into a relatioship with him and told him are you ready for a relationship now, he said yes and you and i said yes and i asked him about his ex, he said he was done with her and then he wanted to meet me over the weekend to talk about US, but i was busy so we arranged 2 weeks later. but it has been 6 days and i haven't had any contact from him.

i recently found out the day after we had the relationship talk, he went to his ex's house to drop off some items. she asked for some items back about a week before we had the relationship talk and he said he would post it. they agreed no contact (i asked her, she confirmed this - she isn't lying). yet, he turned up at her house unexpectedly to give her the items. he lives about 50 minutes away from her, and when she asked him why diddnt he just post it, he said he was going somewhere that was 15 minutes away from her house, so because he has kept lazing around about posting the items, he decided to kill two birds with one stone and hand deliver it. i know where he lives and i found that there are two post offices near his house, one that is 9 minutes walk and about 15 minutes walk. should i be worried that he took a train of 30 minutes to her house, walked 20 minutes to her house from the train station with the parcel and then walked back to the station to go to his final destination? he diddnt tell her that she was coming and they agreed no contact. she wasnt at home when he turned up.

he also did not ask the other girl if they are really done nor did he buy her valentine gifts. that must mean something right?

Hmmm

He is soon going to disburse you,it's a gradual process.
He is only playing ping pong with you and the so called ex of his,by the time he feel it's ok then he can get rid of you.

Just wait till then and don't expect much from this relationship, doesn't even look like a relationship.it look like some fcck mate schit.

Confusion everywhere!

Akuko umuazi... relationship na luck, if you like, observe all the 7 commandments in a relationship, ticket wey go cut go still cut. Just open your heart and enjoy any relationship you found yourself, if it progresses to the next level..lucky you, if not, continue moving. No be do or die.

Just play along since you've agreed to be in a relationship with him

E shock u?

bukky1994:
Just play along since you've agreed to be in a relationship with him

What a disastrous advise.

Where una see this relationship self

Where una de see this relationship self

more advice please
what do u think does he want me

This is really confusing

U suck ur mama breast atall?

Both your story, writeup and grammar no correct atall. Check if a space dey for yaba, I go pay for the medication

You're his back up plan
He may truly love u though
But it seems he is not done with his ex

what makes you think he isnt done with his ex? he said he went to her only to return item and only because he was near the neighbourhood

Jeremani:
You're his back up plan
He may truly love u though
But it seems he is not done with his ex

Skyfornia:
Akuko umuazi... relationship na luck, if you like, observe all the 7 commandments in a relationship, ticket wey go cut go still cut. Just open your heart and enjoy any relationship you found yourself, if it progresses to the next level..lucky you, if not, continue moving. No be do or die.

What are the 7 commandments, please?