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HenryDion:
I do call him. Just decided to not call to see what happens and I was right. If anything, for the fact that he's owing me is enough reason to at least call and say hello.

Hmm, I guess we all see things differently sha.

Adunmhi:
Akin he always like a blood brother to me I never knew he has is own plan
We do talked about my future,education,my sex life we also talked about him too
The movement of destruction started June 05 2020 Aunty Oyin wedding,he invited me to follow him to the wedding which I did we had fun and he take care of me after about two week I followed him to another wedding in yaba, the wedding was on Saturday so we left oshodi on Friday night since yaba is just some hours from oshodi.
We both logged in the same room I had to pull off my bra so I slept off with my cloth on I started feeling some strange touch in my body I had to wake up and check only for me to find out he’s the one touching me sexually I pleased with him not to do this to me that I don’t want any sexual contact from him I briefly remember he telling me that is going to be secret betweeen the both of us I said no we had a little argument over it and he stop touching me
On the wedding day he expected me to react to show him attitude but I didn’t cause I thought is temptation we came home friendly after everything
The next three days we had a conversation on the issue and he tried to force himself on me fortunately I just finish my menstruation he penetrated with force which resolve to me bleeding blood from my vagina he apologize and claim nothing happen that he was unable to penetrate we fought for like 20second before he asked me to clean up myself
Two day after that we both agreed on a contract that we are going to have sex for one month and he’s going to pay 70k we started having the sex ending of June Nd is meant to end in July but because he can’t resist me we had it till the day I left for school which is August 23rd of 2020 he gave me the money I remember during those time I did everything called house chores including his laundry
I went to school on 23rd of August since then we have been communicating like we are dating until I met oluwafemi I told akin about femi but he said no that I should not get close to him but I ignored him because he once told me he had sex with shukurat when I was away
I came back home on the 26th of December i had to tell him everything that happen between me and oluwafemi cause my real boyfriend Emma was fighting with me then.finding out the truth about me and femi made him give me some attitude which I later pleased with him to forgive me since I came back he has been trying to have sex with me again but I told him we ended the contract that we can’t have sex,due to the fact that am having feeling for him I allowed him to continue having sex with me there was a day I was on drip he stop the drip and had sex with me in the midnight till I almost lost conscious I had to go back to school cause we are to resume back to school which is on the 25th of January we are both calling each other doing videos call and showing him all my body he ask me to come to his home town which I did and we spent some days before he ask me to come to Lagos I said no but he said he will give me full attention that no one will come between us he also said he will fight with Iya Malik (the married woman I thought they are friend but they dating) just to be with me till I go back to school everything change the moment I get to Lagos he started going to Iya Malik shop to sit down while me am waiting for him inside is room when ever am with him and she came am the one to leave that spot I had to control myself just because I don’t want to hurt him on the 4th of March he confront me that am showing her attitude and the woman will be thinking we are both having sex he also told me that he prefer I know that he had sex with her than her to know we both are having sex that statement got me upset that I kept malice with him for 4 days he later called me to apologize and we had sex that day upon all his pleading he still went back to the woman I told him that I want to cook for him he said Jumai(the girl he accommodated because he had accommodation issue)will be upset if I cook,on the 11th of March I had to summon courage to tell him my mind but he said he want us to stop everything we are doing that is a sin, he not proud of it that he don’t want anybody in the street to know about us,I just told him yes that we are done.
It really painful cause I thought he will be different from all my ex boyfriend but no he’s also like them he’s even more corny than them

This wasn't betray. You no just get the commonest of common sense!

dapolaw:
It was actually a miracle, he had an issue with a lady and that one reported him to the police. So I just went to the station to bail him and that was when they police showed me things they found in his house when they to search it. And behold my expired ATM card was among the things they found in his house but the said ATM was in my car when it was stolen. So that was how the investigation started, but he later confessed to the crime though. I cried ehn, because I felt betrayed.

Na wa o.

With this kind of friend, who needs enemies?

Thanks for the update.

marianneada:
I'm sorry for any typo graphical error cos i'm writing this in tears.
I am happy to come across this topic,I come from a family where there's no peace,I grew up knowing my late father nd his elder sister were d only close ones in their family of five,My father served and trusted my aunty so much,My mum started working in my aunty's organization when I was still tender as a cleaner,I remember vividly how my mum worked tirelessly to make my aunty happy,out of the whole women married into the family,she was the only one that respected and served my father's elder sister,she washes her clothes including her undies,people called my mum servant because of how she was running errands for my aunt,infact she saw my aunt as a big sister she never had.My father on his own side helped her alot,he was always there at her beck and call,he made sure he puts smile on her face.When I finished my University Education,I started working in my aunt's organization cause I noticed alot of things going wrong there,I took her as a mum nd loved her so much. I gave her 10years of my life and lost so many opportunities that would have better my life.Unfortunately I lost my dad in 2020.(He died at the age of 56years)
To cut the whole story short,this my aunty abandoned my family and I when my mother had partial stroke and we needed her the most,she accused my mum of witchcraft,due to the shock of what happened I had a premature birth and spent months in the hospital,while in the hospital she refused to pay my salary for the month I stopped working, she also refused to pay my mum who was also on sick bed.The betrayal was too much cos she went as far as tarnishing my family's image,telling everyone how she fed my family,how she single handedly buried my dad which is a big lie,and how my mum is a witch.Right now my mum is dying of heartbreak cos the only person she thought she has has abandoned her.People are laughing at us cos they warned us about this my aunt but we never listen.I'm still waiting on God to judge this case cause the heartbreak is just too much.

What of ur hubby

Okunga:
How old are you?

Very good question

Kunja2:
do you live in Lagos?

You are evil, bro. You don see who to exploit naw

YourFavorite21:
When I was still in secondary school, my aunts and uncles always promised to help me in school especially financially, but since I got admission into university from year 1 to my current level (final year) I didn't receive a kobo from any of them, each time I call them it will always end with the usual,
Let me see what I can do these are the people that my dad, trained and Paid their fees in school, And now they are very rich, but one thing is certain, I have learnt not expect anything from people, atleast my dad is trying for me, but I have made up my mind to do the same to my cousins too, They will not receive a kobo from me too, May God keep me till then sha.

The cycle you hate continues if you don't change it.

Miles91:
I have a brother who is always being controlled by the wife, and the woman does not want us his family members around our brother and it seems to be okay with him. This same brother of mine complains bitterly about this same woman, that he married the wrong woman And all sort of things, he even stopped her from praying for him. This guy no trust the woman at all. One day I was inside her kitchen frying Irish potato, this woman walked in and started insulting me, that I should touch her stuffs, that same day she walked inside my room to insult my whole family including my late parent's for close to 3hrs, and my brother was inside the house and he didn't do anything, knowing full well that I was recording everything, this woman went ahead to start calling all my uncles to lay accusations against me, but Glory be to God that all my Uncles knows who she is.

All these happened in January 2th or 3th, after three days my brother came to tell me that he is giving me until 10th of January to leave his home. I said okay, on the 8th I left, without him supporting me, knowing fully well that I have no money on me. But guess what guys? God did it for me, I was applying for UK VISA without their knowledge and God did it for me, finally I'm now in UK.. What God cannot do, does not exist..

How come you didn't have money and still got to the UK? Which god are you serving? I want to serve him too because I don't have money now and the UK is the goal.

Tough

GboyegaD:
Hmm, I guess we all see things differently sha.

Not differently. You're just a horrible person.

Brandonx:
After I was betrayed by a friend I arrived at the conclusion that thing happens for a reason.

Years ago I was still trying to get on my feet , I was working somewhere and I needed a better job. I met one woman (a family friend to my friend) who told me she had a better job for me , I went to her place with my friend, he sat and watched me negotiate salary and saw that the salary was big Two days later he came to me that the woman said I shouldn’t resume. I later found out he resigned from where he was and started working for the woman.

I already resigned so I was jobless , he probably felt bad so he looked for a demeaning job for me, I had no option than to accept. I was angry for months and I hated my friend for that .

But that job paved way for me, tho the pay was very small and I worked there for three months but the connections I made whilst working there brought me to where I am today.

Today that same friend is still trying to get on his feet.

My God!

People are really wicked in this country o.......Frienemies everywhere.

[quote author=Rubyjade post=110892391]People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

There's nothing worth sharing about people's betrayal. You keep holding the past by being resentful towards human, you're only hurting yourself more, because you will count every of their mistakes and become unforgiving and that will not make you move on with people. I reckon you give people too much credit, hence you're feeling this way. Let's be realistic even you too must have unknowingly done same to someone, no one's perfect... so find something positive with people and give them chances. Don't worsen people's heart who are trying their best to forgive.

I was sacked in December 2021 and my side business wasn't doing well. So as not to suffer my gf I got her 50k salary job with daily tfare of #350 in January. In February, she broke up with me because I am broke, blocked me on all media and contacts. I have not seen a wicked and betrayal like that before. Am thinking of revenge gan bayii.

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HenryDion:
Not differently. You're just a horrible person.

By not expecting me debtors to worship me makes me an horrible person? I am amused you are expecting people to bow to you because you think you are better than them.

chatinent:
This wasn't betray. You no just get the commonest of common sense!

I tire for the babe

horpeyemmi66:
Baby girl, your story is very weird. Nevertheless, a single advice I'd give you is that you stop sleeping with them.

Any small thing, sex. Ahn ahn, I can count more than 7 times you wrote sex.

I don't think Lab rats even have sex that frequently.

Just Calm down.

The babe na comedy

GboyegaD:
By not expecting me debtors to worship me makes me an horrible person? I am amused you are expecting people to bow to you because you think you are better than them.

Not at all... But when you owe someone money, it's courtesy to at least call and make plans for repayment. Even if you don't give a Bleep about the friendship, at least have the dignity to pay your debt.

nickyj19:
Me i betray my yoruba friend i Bleep im yoruba bitch.
the girl say im boy friend get small preeq.
yoruba people useless die
all dere men get low sperm count

You re a goat

Rubyjade:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

This isn't a case of betrayal. Most of the comments on the thread are not either.

In life don't expect anything from anyone but be nice and good towards all.

SmellySperm:
Trying so hard to be savage. Put more effort you buttscratcher

Nothing to Savage about, it's a pure fact. You obviously lack funds to gallivant with! It's norm for you guys to lazy around waiting for your parents to die in other to start renting out the one room you inherit. Stupidly Collecting rents 5years ahead.

filleSouriante:
You re a goat

great of all time

Enny2013:
Pls...we kogites are not in anyway insultive.And there are yorubas in Kogi state too.

my own kogi dey insult anybody wey 5n my trouble

wallrichy:
What a pity to your life and your miserable generation. You are just a waste and useless sperm that should have been masturbated and flush into the toilet. What a waste of human maggots you are.....sorry......Ndo......

You must be very very crazy for this ur
comment, ,common sense you no get RUBISH

SirMichael1:
Ah, it is you, the bloody Romans. We have fought your kind and have always tasted victory. There is yet a war that we haven't fed your people to the vultures... This time we come, not just the emperor but with his allies, for since hearing of the emperor's rebirth and knowing of the wars to come, I scoured the earth, making alliances with many kings, fortifying our Kingdom.

Speak no more for you and your kind shall fall at wielding of my sword the next time I set eyes on you.

By the power of Mars the supreme deity, the romans will have the last laugh in this life time and every other one to come.

marsman:
By the power of Mars the supreme deity, the romans will have the last laugh in this life time and every other one to come.

Lol. I don tire abeg. Dey go.

SirMichael1:
Lol. I don tire abeg. Dey go.

Lol... As i just start to dey enjoy am

Adunmhi:
Akin he always like a blood brother to me I never knew he has is own plan
We do talked about my future,education,my sex life we also talked about him too
The movement of destruction started June 05 2020 Aunty Oyin wedding,he invited me to follow him to the wedding which I did we had fun and he take care of me after about two week I followed him to another wedding in yaba, the wedding was on Saturday so we left oshodi on Friday night since yaba is just some hours from oshodi.
We both logged in the same room I had to pull off my bra so I slept off with my cloth on I started feeling some strange touch in my body I had to wake up and check only for me to find out he’s the one touching me sexually I pleased with him not to do this to me that I don’t want any sexual contact from him I briefly remember he telling me that is going to be secret betweeen the both of us I said no we had a little argument over it and he stop touching me
On the wedding day he expected me to react to show him attitude but I didn’t cause I thought is temptation we came home friendly after everything
The next three days we had a conversation on the issue and he tried to force himself on me fortunately I just finish my menstruation he penetrated with force which resolve to me bleeding blood from my vagina he apologize and claim nothing happen that he was unable to penetrate we fought for like 20second before he asked me to clean up myself
Two day after that we both agreed on a contract that we are going to have sex for one month and he’s going to pay 70k we started having the sex ending of June Nd is meant to end in July but because he can’t resist me we had it till the day I left for school which is August 23rd of 2020 he gave me the money I remember during those time I did everything called house chores including his laundry
I went to school on 23rd of August since then we have been communicating like we are dating until I met oluwafemi I told akin about femi but he said no that I should not get close to him but I ignored him because he once told me he had sex with shukurat when I was away
I came back home on the 26th of December i had to tell him everything that happen between me and oluwafemi cause my real boyfriend Emma was fighting with me then.finding out the truth about me and femi made him give me some attitude which I later pleased with him to forgive me since I came back he has been trying to have sex with me again but I told him we ended the contract that we can’t have sex,due to the fact that am having feeling for him I allowed him to continue having sex with me there was a day I was on drip he stop the drip and had sex with me in the midnight till I almost lost conscious I had to go back to school cause we are to resume back to school which is on the 25th of January we are both calling each other doing videos call and showing him all my body he ask me to come to his home town which I did and we spent some days before he ask me to come to Lagos I said no but he said he will give me full attention that no one will come between us he also said he will fight with Iya Malik (the married woman I thought they are friend but they dating) just to be with me till I go back to school everything change the moment I get to Lagos he started going to Iya Malik shop to sit down while me am waiting for him inside is room when ever am with him and she came am the one to leave that spot I had to control myself just because I don’t want to hurt him on the 4th of March he confront me that am showing her attitude and the woman will be thinking we are both having sex he also told me that he prefer I know that he had sex with her than her to know we both are having sex that statement got me upset that I kept malice with him for 4 days he later called me to apologize and we had sex that day upon all his pleading he still went back to the woman I told him that I want to cook for him he said Jumai(the girl he accommodated because he had accommodation issue)will be upset if I cook,on the 11th of March I had to summon courage to tell him my mind but he said he want us to stop everything we are doing that is a sin, he not proud of it that he don’t want anybody in the street to know about us,I just told him yes that we are done.
It really painful cause I thought he will be different from all my ex boyfriend but no he’s also like them he’s even more corny than them

Akin has a big DICK.
you don't love akin
you only love his DICK

Adunmhi:
Akin he always like a blood brother to me I never knew he has is own plan
We do talked about my future,education,my sex life we also talked about him too
The movement of destruction started June 05 2020 Aunty Oyin wedding,he invited me to follow him to the wedding which I did we had fun and he take care of me after about two week I followed him to another wedding in yaba, the wedding was on Saturday so we left oshodi on Friday night since yaba is just some hours from oshodi.
We both logged in the same room I had to pull off my bra so I slept off with my cloth on I started feeling some strange touch in my body I had to wake up and check only for me to find out he’s the one touching me sexually I pleased with him not to do this to me that I don’t want any sexual contact from him I briefly remember he telling me that is going to be secret betweeen the both of us I said no we had a little argument over it and he stop touching me
On the wedding day he expected me to react to show him attitude but I didn’t cause I thought is temptation we came home friendly after everything
The next three days we had a conversation on the issue and he tried to force himself on me fortunately I just finish my menstruation he penetrated with force which resolve to me bleeding blood from my vagina he apologize and claim nothing happen that he was unable to penetrate we fought for like 20second before he asked me to clean up myself
Two day after that we both agreed on a contract that we are going to have sex for one month and he’s going to pay 70k we started having the sex ending of June Nd is meant to end in July but because he can’t resist me we had it till the day I left for school which is August 23rd of 2020 he gave me the money I remember during those time I did everything called house chores including his laundry
I went to school on 23rd of August since then we have been communicating like we are dating until I met oluwafemi I told akin about femi but he said no that I should not get close to him but I ignored him because he once told me he had sex with shukurat when I was away
I came back home on the 26th of December i had to tell him everything that happen between me and oluwafemi cause my real boyfriend Emma was fighting with me then.finding out the truth about me and femi made him give me some attitude which I later pleased with him to forgive me since I came back he has been trying to have sex with me again but I told him we ended the contract that we can’t have sex,due to the fact that am having feeling for him I allowed him to continue having sex with me there was a day I was on drip he stop the drip and had sex with me in the midnight till I almost lost conscious I had to go back to school cause we are to resume back to school which is on the 25th of January we are both calling each other doing videos call and showing him all my body he ask me to come to his home town which I did and we spent some days before he ask me to come to Lagos I said no but he said he will give me full attention that no one will come between us he also said he will fight with Iya Malik (the married woman I thought they are friend but they dating) just to be with me till I go back to school everything change the moment I get to Lagos he started going to Iya Malik shop to sit down while me am waiting for him inside is room when ever am with him and she came am the one to leave that spot I had to control myself just because I don’t want to hurt him on the 4th of March he confront me that am showing her attitude and the woman will be thinking we are both having sex he also told me that he prefer I know that he had sex with her than her to know we both are having sex that statement got me upset that I kept malice with him for 4 days he later called me to apologize and we had sex that day upon all his pleading he still went back to the woman I told him that I want to cook for him he said Jumai(the girl he accommodated because he had accommodation issue)will be upset if I cook,on the 11th of March I had to summon courage to tell him my mind but he said he want us to stop everything we are doing that is a sin, he not proud of it that he don’t want anybody in the street to know about us,I just told him yes that we are done.
It really painful cause I thought he will be different from all my ex boyfriend but no he’s also like them he’s even more corny than them

Akin has a big DICK.
you don't love akin
you only love his DICK
moment of DICKSTRUCTION you mean

Adunmhi:
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Send me your number let me give you a new contract