Hello Nairalanders, I want you to pardon my English.
I’m 27 years old and a very cute guy.
I’ve always noticed people don’t really greet me at events or any gathering.
Though I’m a shy type and always busy with my phone when we are at a gathering.
I don’t talk to people if they don’t ask me and I don’t start a conversation where I don’t know one or two people . I’ve noticed this for the past 6 years that people to really greet me.
What can cause this ?
I sometimes think maybe cuz my face look so gentle and calm. Sometimes I will have to change my gentle face to rugged face and still when a visitor comes around they greet other people more than me.
There was something that happened yesterday.
This guy came and shake everybody there and didn’t shake me. Please what’s the proplem ?

You're very proud or you don't dress well.

Op, I can't help without a visual representation of you. Can you upload a full picture of you for proper assessment? You can always take it down after my analysis.

You may not know it, but you probably don't dress well enough or you generally look insignificant. Personally, I won't ever ignore anyone; I greet everyone round no matter how you're dressed or look. I may ignore someone I have personal issues with though

Ask people around you .... And with look of things you're Bossy [b][/b][i][/i][color=#550000][/color]

lol


werey dey fine attention

Try to make effort to greet people first.
Don’t always wait until you’re greeted.
When people come close to you, you put down your phone, look up to them, smile and extend a hand for a handshake.
Make yourself more approachable.

Nothing wey we no go see finish
Greetings is your own problem
@OP I believe you are not a real nigga

Shey if you open your mouth to greet, you go die?

Stop waiting for people to greet you, greet them! The next time una meet na them go greet you.

@27 you are not longer a kid. Stop being shy! E no make sense.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Hello Nairalanders, I want you to pardon my English.
I’m 27 years old and a very cute guy.
I’ve always noticed people don’t really greet me at events or any gathering.
Though I’m a shy type and always busy with my phone when we are at a gathering.
I don’t talk to people if they don’t ask me and I don’t start a conversation where I don’t know one or two people . I’ve noticed this for the past 6 years that people to really greet me.
What can cause this ?
I sometimes think maybe cuz my face look so gentle and calm. Sometimes I will have to change my gentle face to rugged face and still when a visitor comes around they greet other people more than me.
There was something that happened yesterday.
This guy came and shake everybody there and didn’t shake me. Please what’s the proplem ?

Just like the way people judge a book by it cover, so also they judge people from their appearance, the type of appearance u have makes them to underrate you, below are reasons why they are underrating you subconsciously


1. they notice you are shy
2. You have a small body size, are you short? And smallish in size?


Other reasons that can make them not to greet you is because they are jealous of you, what are they jealous about you?...it your cute face


Once people notice u are cute, some or them will immediately conclude that you will likely be an arrogant person with pride cos of your cute face, so they will indirectly tell you that being cute is not a big deal, and how will dey tell you?...is by acting as if u do not exist




Try and make money and u will be the one to beg them to stop greeting you

olamidedivotee:
You're very proud or you don't dress well.

I dress well my brother .. I wear latest designers. Though I don’t greet first

Lucasmuyiwaa:

I dress well my brother .. I wear latest designers. Though I don’t greet first

Why? Pride or shy or both?

Lucasmuyiwaa:

What can cause this ?
I sometimes think maybe cuz my face look so gentle and calm. Sometimes I will have to change my gentle face to rugged face and still when a visitor comes around they greet other people more than me.
There was something that happened yesterday.
This guy came and shake everybody there and didn’t shake me. Please what’s the proplem ?

Let's assume for a bit that you are right, and that the real reason why these people don't greet you happens to do with your face being gentle and calm. Do you intend on changing your face so that people can greet you more?

Work instead on being comfortable and confident in who you are as an individual. Spend your energy on things that matter and not on the meaningless things abeg.

Mariangeles:


Why? Pride or shy or both?

To say the truth, Both .

HenryDion:
Op, I can't help without a visual representation of you. Can you upload a full picture of you for proper assessment? You can always take it down after my analysis.

Don't mind him,all of nairaland guys fine for social media but na another thing entirely in reality.Ignore him and go rock your afro

Iyaebe:
Don't mind him,all of nairaland guys fine for social media but na another thing entirely in reality.Ignore him and go rock your afro

Kini