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| Honest Opinions Only by Elmagnifico3000(op): 8:46pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Please house I need your honest advise So my issue is this for about 6years plus been single due to lots of heartbreaks. I dated a girl for 3 years, gave her my everything, was ready to take everything to next level that was when I realized I have been played all this while, for 3 goods years. I got depressed almost committed suicide, but mom love and friends didn't let me at same time I vow never to date nor trust any lady again till I ex this life. Now the issue is last year my mom has been on my Case about grandchild since am second born only Son got an elder sis and a nephew from her. Please good people how do I change my present predicament, how do I start all over again after 6years. Have lost all my cool � manly skill as refered to womanizing as this case may portray. I really need your scrutiny and Insults at this time in my life, good advise will go a long way. 1 Like |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Candidlady: 8:48pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
 During this phase did you have sex with anyone ? Please be sincere °°°°your sure therapist is here. Fear not°°° |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Nobody: 8:58pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Candidlady:op answer this question so we can counsel you better.We are waiting |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by diogo23: 9:03pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Please don't quote or answer this two idiots above me, they inherit generational stupidity 2 Likes |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by czarr(m): 9:15pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Just go out have fun and let things happen organically. Never move with desperation if you don't want to be a target of evening newspapers that their down stream oil sector is like a canal. |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by rickpat(m): 9:20pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
first of all..let the Babbage from your previous go by relating and getting friendly with Ladies again secondly don't let anyone pressure you to get married cus if you are pressured to get married, pressure will still force you out of that marriage. what you need now is not a relationship...you need to start relating with the female folks the right way,so you can bury that mindset you have developed over the years.. it will take a while for you to get rid of that mindset and find love again... IF YOU ALLOW HEARTBREAK TO CHANGE OR DEFINE YOUR PERSONALITY,THEN YOU HAVE LOST YOURSELF TO SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T EVEN CARE/REMEMBER IF YOU EXIST....free your mind and start building a lovable heart again..all the best 1 Like |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Sonnobax15(m): 9:34pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
 I wonder why people seem to allow pressure from others to have an effect on their peace of mind.......... Op,well,e be like say your mom value grand children pass the heartbreak wey your forthcoming banny go use catapult you  Las las,I've come to realize that relationship isn't for everyone....Some of us are actually destined for relation-boat . Just row your turn and get the fvck outta the person's life  1 Like |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Blunttruth: 9:41pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Elmagnifico3000:Learn from your experience. Don't date for too long. Till she becomes your wife Love with your head not your heart. |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Nobody: 9:49pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
diogo23:comrade we're all ready for the vawulence
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| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Vinnie2000(m): 9:57pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
diogo23:I Wonder seriously how 2 ladies re ftc on such a post! The Op needs MANLY advice! Not unnecesary female interrogation! |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by SSARS: 10:01pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Your life Your Rules |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Vinnie2000(m): 10:01pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Op, do NOT be in a hurry! If u rush, u crash! Just make new female friends, chat and play with dem. From there, u wil develop chemistry with one of the Babes! |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by valentineuwakwe(m): 10:50pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Since you are still alive, then there is hope 4u to rise up again....... Take a vacation away from your immediate surroundings 4a while....developed a positive spirit n be prayful. Just like st paul tells us in the bible "forget the past n look ahead for wat is to come ".... A good lady will come your way this time around but be ready to settle down sincerely with her... Cheers! |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by arthurwillia(m): 2:39am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Elmagnifico3000:You want to give your mother a grandchild Go and find person to Impregnate Don’t marry because of pressure You have to be intentional about shii things like this |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Kobojunkie: 3:01am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Elmagnifico3000:You said you vowed never to trust any lady again till you ex this life, so why give any attention to your mum's desire for grandchildren? Why not tell her the truth and let her live with it? Or are you here for us to lie to you that you can make a woman happy with that mindset or what? Or do you plan on going out to make a woman miserable just so you can record a grandchild for your mother? For starters, I suggest you see professional mental health counseling so as to untie that wad you got yourself knotted up in as a result of your past. All that bitterness and anger, you should first deal with or you are likely to end up right back where you started. When you are free of your past bitterness, I believe such things will start to make sense again. 1 Like |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Kobojunkie: 3:03am On Mar 16, 2022 |
arthurwillia:Really? He should find person to Impregnate and if the person finds him unworthy as a mate and decides to carry her child go meet another man, then what will OP do in that case? Finish up the job left unfinished? 1 Like |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by arthurwillia(m): 5:41am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Haha My brother I wasn’t explicit What I meant was he should find a surrogate and give her belle.. pay her and then give his mother the pikin since she’s so desperate for grandchild |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Rubyjade: 8:45am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Elmagnifico3000: |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by Rubyjade: 8:45am On Mar 16, 2022 |
arthurwillia:una no wan dey responsible again |
| Re: Honest Opinions Only by arthurwillia(m): 9:34am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Rubyjade:You no sabi book Being responsible = getting married in your book? Being responsible is relative, if He gets the child and cater for the child whilst with his mother, what’s that? Una go just Dey drink for Nairaland 1 Like |
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