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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Brytexbaby: 9:36am On Mar 16, 2022
sgtponzihater1:


Tramadol delays ejaculation, and ladies enjoy the thrill of being sexed for hours with no end. Could this be the reason he is taking it? And could this be the reason you don't want to leave him? Think again

Hours? Hehehehehehe...
I don't see the effect on him sexually as people claim. We stay days, weeks, sometimes months without sex. And when we do, it's within mins like normal people do.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Rubyjade: 9:37am On Mar 16, 2022
luminouz:

You keep seeking attention everywhere with your fakeass account and it's kinda sad
it's not by Force to date you
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by victor11758: 9:37am On Mar 16, 2022
[b][/b] The truth is that he can't change, even if he does in an environment that you are with him what if he is not with you for some time he will return back to his old ways, saying from experience, my good friend does this ducking shit and despite all the rehabilitation program, he is still addicted to trams and smoke. May God have mercy....
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Exkandayee(m): 9:38am On Mar 16, 2022
mecussey:


I am sure the love here is the long lasting sex...trams and lacacera..destroying guys and turning them to porn stars.
I've not heard this before bro... you mean if I drink TM and lacacera na pounding all day lol, Nigerians and invention,Abeg tell me More

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by luminouz(m): 9:39am On Mar 16, 2022
Rubyjade:
it's not by Force to date you
K
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:39am On Mar 16, 2022
Rubyjade:
Fallacy of hasty generalization. Some women not all women, if you spend more than 10mins on me, I feel very uncomfortable

Not a fallacy I didn't say all women. But most women like sex for hours without end. I have seen this first hand multiple when I was in the world.

It's just like when women berate men as scum, I don't think they mean all men too.

Cheers

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by November24(f): 9:40am On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

Lol
Loller
lollest


Keep changing, I'm sure he has money, you eyes go soon clear. U have no idea what marriage is,

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by H4CK3R5: 9:40am On Mar 16, 2022
Tramadol addiction no be better thing o,he might go Psycho if he decides to stop.

One way I know to help him is house arrest more like isolation for a month,give him food,and everything he wants buh he shouldn't have access to goo where he can get the drug and the ones with him should be taken away,I'm not sure you alone can do this

He will start having itching body and loss of appetite for some stuffs and sleepless nights. Buh he will be better In a month time without it

He also need to have the mindset that he needs to stop it. Trams dey give mumu motivation to do things wey Norma person no fit do ����

Talking from experience �

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by manontree: 9:41am On Mar 16, 2022
Tramadal is a very dangerous psychoactive neurotoxic substance to abuse. It also creates a high rate of dependency and addiction

This guy needs help. Urgently. The sooner the better

This guy's liver is in danger as well as other host of health issues

She should encourage him to seek therapy. For those saying the lady cannot save him, i beg to disagree. Most drug addicts that are cured today do so due to the sacrificial works of others

If she feels committed enough to help him, please do not discourage her. However, I agree she cannot do it alone but need to involve his loved ones

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by November24(f): 9:41am On Mar 16, 2022
VenumX:


His mum/dad couldn't help him...it's now you that thinks you can change him.

I pity you.

He has money... I'm sure.
Op has no idea what marriage is, even perfect one dey tire person once once

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Jeffersonagain(m): 9:42am On Mar 16, 2022
The major problem in this situation is that YOU are the one trying to make him stop this addiction because YOU see it as bad for him.

If HE was the one who sees it as bad the He will be making every effort to stop it and your role will be to help him.

You think he wants to stop it but he really doesn't. He only understands that giving you the impression that he wants to stop will make you not leave him. He knows that you are bound by the maternal burden to save a soul and will be guilt ridden if you leave him now.

Additionally, men don't generally end up with women who were their "therapists" or "guardians". Iam a man and I tell you this mostly from experience.

I do not say it would necessarily be so in your case neither do I say you should leave him; I just present you with the facts so you can make a rational decision.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by lebete3000: 9:45am On Mar 16, 2022
Rubyjade:
JumaiInteriorsI am not an albino

Your skin looks a bit like it wink
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by cecejobs(m): 9:46am On Mar 16, 2022
What do u mean by twice a day? Do u mean two sticks/wraps a day or bunches in two places a day?
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by lebete3000: 9:47am On Mar 16, 2022
Rubyjade:
JumaiInteriorsI am not an albino

Kindly send me their website and what to know about them...
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by JennyOfOldstones(f): 9:47am On Mar 16, 2022
cc: Brytexbaby

Don't stay there thinking you can change him or any nonsense like that, you're not a therapist. One of the biggest mistakes you can ever make in life is to marry a junkie so you better run for your life without looking back. If he wants to overcome his addiction then he needs to take that step by himself. A drug addict can only quit by a self resolution to do so and never by the intervention of anybody in their life.
You should read all about Co-dependency and see the hell you're about to toss yourself into if you marry that man

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Originalsly: 9:47am On Mar 16, 2022
You need to understand what is an addiction ... not bad habit..... addiction. Look it up ... and meditate
on the meaning. You cannot make him come off tramadol. He has to make up his mind to do so .... has to have a strong mind .... has to be determined .... and has to be prepared to face the hell withdrawal will bring. Until such time..... I strongly advise you end the relationship.... maybe it will give him the motivation to fight his monster. Nothing else in life is more important to an addict than feeding the addiction. Addicts have lost their jobs... their marriages ... their homes.... their prestige.... and here you are .... a mere fiancee ... hoping for a brighter tomorrow with an addict. He quit smoking..... because he found a stronger addiction. I'm hoping he can also quit tramadol .... either on his own.... or if he finds a stronger substance .... maybe crack. I've said more than enough ... your life your choice.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by shogsman(m): 9:47am On Mar 16, 2022
Tell him to start tapering off tlhus dosage,in a few months he'll be fine,but I assure you once an addict always an addict,I take tramadol too

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by olisaEze(m): 9:47am On Mar 16, 2022
grin
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by SandraIkuboR(f): 9:50am On Mar 16, 2022
The situation of Nigeria is enough to make you smoke for a billion years and whatever cos it's disheartening cry

That's why I do all I can to help people around me,I don't criticize anybody

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by uuzba(m): 9:51am On Mar 16, 2022
falcon01:
Ahh!! Tramadol!! It has extreme side effects. I'm pretty sure it causes epilepsy.
I had (have) terrible back ache.
Doctor prescribe various meds until we reached Tramadol level.
Doctor warned me that it can be addictive.
I took it a bit and felt fine.
But then the news of Tramadol abuse started spreading in the media.
And whilst I still had sense, I kukuma stopped taking the Tramadol, before I become hooked.
So I dey manage my back pain like that.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Rubyjade: 9:52am On Mar 16, 2022
lebete3000:


Kindly send me their website and what to know about them...
She doesn't have a website but you can Google it
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by bigpicture001: 9:52am On Mar 16, 2022
Nonsense OP because he has money, u bent a red flag and started looking for ways to help him..

Only fools believe everything about ladies is not about money..

They will date and live u even if u murder ppl for a living.. just bring the money... Useless OP
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by InvertedHammer: 9:53am On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

/
You think love is all that's needed for marriage.

You are on the road to perdition. It will never end well.
Some people deserve to be left alone.

/
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by SunTzu123(m): 9:54am On Mar 16, 2022
You are emotionally trapped already. You have to go beyond your emotions; get him to rehab ASAP. You CANNOT make him stop, he will only try to please you but will go back behind you. That is why you must get him professional help.
As long as he is cooperating with professional help, no issues but since you are not married yet, please be careful and think of your future before you get deeper into the emotional miry clay ground. It's dangerous.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by FryMosquito: 9:54am On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you
Just monitor any time he falls seriously sick, arrange with a doctor or his own doctor and take him to that hospital, now the doctor will do the job inflicting fear on him telling him how he almost gone, all organ is not functioning well and wii soon fade. That he notice high trace drug from his system. You know when people learn best is when they learn the hard, case study is Nigeria situation under apc buhari government, I know many have learn the hard way.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by seyz91(m): 9:54am On Mar 16, 2022
cheesy
Danibonk:
Aunty just say the truth you are dickmatise. I believe with my experience those guys that take tramadol Fck like a p0nr star8) grin
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by wisdomkid: 9:57am On Mar 16, 2022
Sammy101111:
My sister hold that man tight and change is life if that is the only issues he as addiction can be chased away he as to pick one you or the addiction

may your sisters and daughters hold these "type" of men tight and fight to change them...
What wicked idea is this?

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by neonly: 9:57am On Mar 16, 2022
Na him money you like abeg stop deceiving yurself

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by andyanders: 9:58am On Mar 16, 2022
Op, to be truthful 2 you, it's extremly very difficult 4 an adult to quit an addiction of any substance like ur guy is into now.

Early death and if u don't know how u handle this relationship, u might end up a victim.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by DAramis: 9:58am On Mar 16, 2022
One thing about addiction is that, you are meant to replace one addiction with another.

Total withdrawal method is more deadly than those already into it. Best advice, he should replace smoking with social drinking of alcohol.

CC OP

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