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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by imagrg(m): 10:46am On Mar 16, 2022
Look for a more responsible man to marry.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Thomas144: 10:47am On Mar 16, 2022
How many MG does he take per day? And the only solution to this is by taking him to a rehab

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by lebete3000: 10:47am On Mar 16, 2022
Rubyjade:
wink

Can you send me your number?
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Sensuallyunruly(m): 10:49am On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you
I had a friend who had same addiction with trams it resulted to him using Lenses for a very particular period until he is better now, he has since stopped.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by phemmyfour: 10:50am On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you
Take a bow before he turns you to a punching bag. It's just a matter of time

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Rubyjade: 10:51am On Mar 16, 2022
lebete3000:


Can you send me your number?
Where you based?
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by badboyTee(m): 10:54am On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you
it causes stroke

Am sure he mostly takes the drug to impress you on bed

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by AIIyIic(f): 10:58am On Mar 16, 2022
luminouz:
Nawa

I wonder how guys and girls use this shiit for libido enhancement.

The one time I used it as a pain reliever...I slept off like a new born baby. My dick no even rise at all. Same with NESCAFÉ that makes people stay up all night reading, I almost failed PHY 101 due to this. For 9am exam, I woke up by 8:30am after taking NESCAFÉ the previous night and ran to exam without bathing or brushing my teeth. I didn't revise or read for that exam.

Which Kain body I get sef. I'm sure if I ever use Viagra....na to sleep like a pregnant hippo too. grin

I faced very similar issues with urs when I took nescafe for the following morning paper... I had to consciously force my eyes open (very difficult) and started doing press up in the middle of the night
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Oscillator: 10:58am On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you
how foolish that you're seeking help desperately for someone else when it is you who need help more!

Any girl/woman addicted to drug users let alone one who is addicted to drugs needs help more than the druggie himself.

Are you a magnet for social despot and reprobates?

What's the filth in you that keeps finding these kind of dudes?

And what's the taboo you enjoy that keeps making you deceive yourself you can change him?

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by lebete3000: 10:59am On Mar 16, 2022
Rubyjade:
Where you based?

Ekiti State.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Rubyjade: 11:01am On Mar 16, 2022
lebete3000:


Ekiti State.
You far from me
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Exkandayee(m): 11:03am On Mar 16, 2022
mecussey:



Lol, me I be beer man so I no dey follow them do that one. But I saw and believed. Somebody will start from 10pm, pound till 5am. Na run the bani dey run finally. Trams and lacaxera. That kind thing go get side effect at old age.
How Dem de take mixam,I want to know, lolz,but whats The essence of banging for hours, the thing go deh boring nah
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Mcslize: 11:05am On Mar 16, 2022
That's a deadly drug. The side effect is immeasurable. 5? That's suicide mission. It can cause sudden convulsion/spasm. Uncontrollable shaking of the body and can make one pass out. It's a very addictive drugs.

He better don't take it to exam. He won't remember anything in the hall. Complete brain lock.

Very deadly. Advice him to try very very much to stop it.

Brytexbaby
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Emir01: 11:10am On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

Report to the NDLEA
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Dagger111(m): 11:10am On Mar 16, 2022
That guy go dey f3ck u like mad. Lolz
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by tctrills: 11:14am On Mar 16, 2022
falcon01:
Ahh!! Tramadol!! It has extreme side effects. I'm pretty sure it causes epilepsy.
your science is faulty.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Emperor88(m): 11:15am On Mar 16, 2022
Sammy101111:
Have deleted my post if you like listen and if you like dont listen .
Addiction is different from prostitution

People that even go to ara or yaba left are they not human being .

Addiction can be changed
Prostitution is a decision from the mind and body
Very true...he has slowed down on smoking, he can with trams also with the right approach.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Emperor88(m): 11:18am On Mar 16, 2022
Oscillator:
how foolish that you're seeking help desperately for someone else when it is you who need help!

Any girl/woman addicted to drug users let alone one who is addicted to drugs needs help more than the druggie himself.

Are you a magnet for social despot and reprobates?

What's the filth in you that keeps finding these kind of dude?

And what's taboo you enjoy that keeps making you deceive yourself you can change him?
Lol. I don't know why I found this funny...I like this your logic and I just learnt something new. They both need help though.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by sphinixs2: 11:20am On Mar 16, 2022
it is a great challenge you face; in my opinion a greater challenge would be a lifetime facing drug addiction. walk away dear. there's nothing like peace of mind!

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by mecussey(m): 11:21am On Mar 16, 2022
Exkandayee:

How Dem de take mixam,I want to know, lolz,but whats The essence of banging for hours, the thing go deh boring nah

Banging for hours, it doesn't make sense to me too. Na jobless students dey do that one. No go dey mix anything, it doesn't make any sense. Banging no get any award perhaps nobody know s the effects on the kidney and liver
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Winneygirl(f): 11:22am On Mar 16, 2022
Stop trying to change people who dont want to change.
Are you his doctor or his therapist?
You know he smokes and abuses drugs. You started dating him in order to what? Change him? Are you his mother?
This is how people deliberately choose a life of sorrow. You are seeing someone's true colors, but you are clinging to some hope that he will change...

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Burgerlomo: 11:29am On Mar 16, 2022
I feel very sorry for him because he's just killing himself gradually, I pray that he gets help before it's going to be too late. #saynotodrugs
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Mcslize: 11:32am On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:


Hours? Hehehehehehe...
I don't see the effect on him sexually as people claim. We stay days, weeks, sometimes months without sex. And when we do, it's within mins like normal people do.


It's already too much in his system that's why. The longer one takes it, the less effective it becomes. That's why he has increased the doses. I can tell you for free that it wasn't 5 he was taking before now.

He increased it when he noticed that 1-3 wasn't working any more for him. He needs to stop and detox his system. The drug is already too much in his system.

He will keep on increasing the doses. From 5, he will start taking 7-8 and even 10 which is a complete suicide mission.

It will be hard for him to stop it immediately. But with the appropriate help, he can. That drug does cause epilepsy. Not epilepsy per say but he can just suddenly fall and start shaking on the floor.

Assist him and if you know his people, they can also help assist him.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Allisgud: 11:36am On Mar 16, 2022
Madam u be go now,because I know why u are still staying,him dey give u complete 1 hour straight pkanshing,if u change ham,him turn 2 seconds

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Badadvisor: 11:38am On Mar 16, 2022
Fedrick100:
Stopping the addition is not easy especially Tramadol.if he don’t take it aday he won’t have strength to do anything,to sleep sef will be difficult for him
I have cousin brothers that take tramadol and I can tell you how weak they always feel if they haven’t taken the drug
Bro the main problem is not having strength to do anything. You won't be able to sleep and the restless legs. Damn.
Tramadol addiction is the strongest so far honestly, even with how costly it's now.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Badadvisor: 11:45am On Mar 16, 2022
slickycee:
But why did you still decide to date him after everything.
Now you've seen the bloody red flags and you're still confused .

My dear , you're not a therapist, you're not Jesus Christ, you can't save him.

The only way to help him is to tell him the consequences of his addiction and report it to necessary authorities.
(Parents, church leaders, even the government )
From what you've typed , you're already on the road to becoming his co addict.

The person that unconsciously motivates him to use tramadol.

Stop trying to control his life,
Have no reaction to his addictions, if he takes it, he's an adult, he knows what he's doing, if he doesn't take it, he also knows what he's doing.
Quit trying to save people, you can't.

The more you try to exercise control over him, the more he continues the addiction to keep you dedicated to him
.

He unconsciously knows that his addiction, makes you more closer to him
Like you feel he needs you now than never, so you would be more caring, loving and supportive now.
Which enables the addiction


The best thing you can do, is not to give the addiction any attention,
If you want to help him, report him to the agency in charge of drug abuse, involve his parents and religious leader.
Keeping and addiction a secret, makes it more powerful.

The more you tell people about your addiction, the more others are aware of your addiction, the more control the addict would have over it.

So he needs to stop hiding that part of his life and publicly tell his loved ones.


I want to advise you but then again isn't it futile to advise someone in love.

So do as you please, may God see you through
Omo you go wicked for real life o grin
Person like you no go even send your junior siblings.

You just sounded like my elder bro. Damn.

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by belafa: 11:46am On Mar 16, 2022
Stay away from drugs. Run for ur life
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by geelite(m): 11:49am On Mar 16, 2022
you are mad.............. you love a guy that has been smoking since over 15 years... it seems he has money thats why you love him. a reasonable and a better woman can never love a chain smoker taking tramadol like kilode.........mtweew. madam, na money make you like am and you are digging your grave

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Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by SaLongs1(m): 11:52am On Mar 16, 2022
Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you
Most people who have stopped the addiction do take alcohol to ease the ache and fatigue that comes with quiting the addiction and it seems to work for them.
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Badadvisor: 11:52am On Mar 16, 2022
airminem:
Your sex life must be awful

@OP be honest please, when last did you see your partner cum(semen/ejaculation/sperm) with you two naked eyes or even feel it inside your body?

Hello why did you say this?
Does tm affect sperm or what?
Re: My Fiance Abuses Tramadol. Please Help by Badadvisor: 11:58am On Mar 16, 2022
backnbeta:

"Hold that man tight?"
It's good to help him break the addiction and I hope you'll tell the man to hold on tight to the woman if she was the one addicted to prostitution, can't cook or addicted to drugs undecided
Olosho dey your eyes

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