I also learnt the hard way .
Thanks

SoapQueen:


This is the best comment.

One thing I learnt albeit late is that;

✓ I cannot babysit an adult's brain.

✓ I should never be caught up in the middle of someone's highs and lows. Why? Because I'm not a therapist and I have my own issues.

✓ Love and relationships should not be all about long suffering, stressful episodes, and whatnots. I find it worrisome that many of us women feel like we must suffer and go through stress first before love comes our way. There's a place called "Healthy" and "Unproblematic." Everyone should strive for that.

Las las, dem no dey give award for who suffer pass.

Op, follow your heart.

Omo babe the hot long lasting bleeping you are receiving from this tramadol niga can't make you leave him, because if he stop taking d tram now,he will turn to one secs man while bleeping you

Lol.
Yes I come off very cold.

I'll always try to stay logical and practical.
Many people don't like how I communicate, because it seems mean and cold.
Contrary to all that, I know only the truth can set you free, so instead of saying nice things to make you feel better, I'll tell you the truth you hate to admit.
Not trying to spite you, but only expressing my practical way of loving you

Badadvisor:

Omo you go wicked for real life o
Person like you no go even send your junior siblings.

You just sounded like my elder bro. Damn.

falcon01:
explain please cause i have friends who became epileptic after abusing Tramadol for long, I've seen more than 10 cases of seizure attack due to tramadol abuse just 2 weeks ago, one okada man collapsed on the road and was having seizure attack and yeah he was a Tramadol abuser. So please explain .

First, seizures are not the same as epilepsy. Not all seizures are epilepsy. Again just because someone or a few friends of yours are epileptic, it may have nothing to do with tramadol.
When epilepsy is diagnosed in older adults, it's sometimes from another neurological issue, like a stroke or a brain tumor. Other causes can be related to genetic abnormalities, prior brain infection, prenatal injuries or developmental disorders. But in about half of people with epilepsy, there's no apparent cause. drug use is not one of the causes of epilepsy. On the other hand, drug withdrawal can trigger it.

He will have to withdraw slowly

Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

This is very deep.

I never thought about it this way.

When a loved one suffers from an addiction, the extra worry, care, love, and attention that they get is actually counter productive

The best thing OP can do is to walk away. If he really wants to be with her, that will really motivate him to change

slickycee:
But why did you still decide to date him after everything.
Now you've seen the bloody red flags and you're still confused .

My dear , you're not a therapist, you're not Jesus Christ, you can't save him.

The only way to help him is to tell him the consequences of his addiction and report it to necessary authorities.
(Parents, church leaders, even the government )
From what you've typed , you're already on the road to becoming his co addict.

The person that unconsciously motivates him to use tramadol.

Stop trying to control his life,
Have no reaction to his addictions, if he takes it, he's an adult, he knows what he's doing, if he doesn't take it, he also knows what he's doing.
Quit trying to save people, you can't.

The more you try to exercise control over him, the more he continues the addiction to keep you dedicated to him
.

He unconsciously knows that his addiction, makes you more closer to him
Like you feel he needs you now than never, so you would be more caring, loving and supportive now.
Which enables the addiction


The best thing you can do, is not to give the addiction any attention,
If you want to help him, report him to the agency in charge of drug abuse, involve his parents and religious leader.
Keeping and addiction a secret, makes it more powerful.

The more you tell people about your addiction, the more others are aware of your addiction, the more control the addict would have over it.

So he needs to stop hiding that part of his life and publicly tell his loved ones.


I want to advise you but then again isn't it futile to advise someone in love.

So do as you please, may God see you through

VanuatuWycombe:


It delays ejaculation in most users. Not all though.

I know that. But that wasn't what I'm trying to confirm

Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

Does he treat u badly?
Does he cheat?
What are the obvious side effects you see from his part?
Is he a bad person?

If not,show him love and give him reasons to reduce the intake,not to stop totally tho cos tramadol is good when taken moderately.

slickycee:
I also learnt the hard way .
Thanks

your love live get power o .... lol .. abeg leave the guy jare ... before his addiction put you in trouble

those saying it banging that is making the op to remain in the relationship i want to let you know that is not everybody that tm work for as sex enhancer I have many friends that take it and their manhood will not even stand for a whole day some it's stand but quickly loses it firm with just little distraction during the do. while some can knack for almost 40min depends on how the drug interract with ur system . and it's not because of sex that makes everyone to take it but the Highness. the confidence, strenght, happiness is what draw people to it. and yes it very difficult to quit and yes am an off and on user

Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

Oya lie say the guy no dey fuvk you very well with the Tramadol. Shey you no dey enjoy it? Omo you fall for him because he’s good knocking you for 2hrs plus with the TM drug. Back to your question. I think he’s an addiction and for you to change or make him stop it maybe if he doesn’t see it to buy or around him. That shit is dangerous it wears the bone gradually

Damn!
Tramadol is understandable try your best and he'll change but smoke especially if it's weed better leave that guy to enjoy himself

You've seen the red flag, but you're still there trying to be a saviour. Wanting the feel good feeling of how your rehabilitated him.

Drug addiction leads to violence due to impaired judgment. Dont stay until you or your future kids are mained or killed or you become a widow, listen to that inner voice thats keeping you restless. Quit the relationship!

Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

Let him go for rehabilitation

Show us his picture, e get wetin I wan check

DAramis:
One thing about addiction is that, you are meant to replace one addiction with another.

Total withdrawal method is more deadly than those already into it. Best advice, he should replace smoking with social drinking of alcohol.

CC OP

Never replace an addiction. Quit the addiction.

Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

He is an addict and they question that should bother you is can you cope with such person for life

I don't think you have the capacity to do so

Quiting an addiction is never easy, but I learned to quit tramadol by replacing it with something else and then quitting the new substance before I became too dependent, dm me for details on how I did it, it is a process and e long

quote author=Remag666 post=105593087]I just dey pity myself I've given up already I know that's what will kill me last last... it's so bad if I don't take it for 3days my body will start shaking and I'll have this terrible weakness I don't wish my enemies to get hooked on that thing it cures depression and gives you a stronger one the moment you try to stop...I tried to get help the doc told I'm experiencing withdrawal syndrome....I dare not stop if not I go mental I swr [/quote]

Op whatever has a beginning must have an ending I used to think trams would be the death of me but today I'm totally free from it. I swr to God almighty the only person that can stop your bobo from TM is himself not you so don't even try when he's ready he'll let go of it or it will kill him through (seizures) or warapa.
That shit is the most addictive substance....I used to take 1500miligrams everyday 300 days out of 365 every year since 2013 and I was just able to stop last year

holuphumny73:
Let him go for rehabilitation

Even before convincing himself to go for that rehab he will need TM to do that that drug it's better you just don't start it i was hooked on it for 9yrs. I can't recall how many rehab centers I went to it was as if they were making noise in my ears all I could think about was my next fix

Exkandayee:

I've not heard this before bro... you mean if I drink TM and lacacera na pounding all day lol, Nigerians and invention,Abeg tell me More

Bro don't try it you will have good sex I'm talking 5 hours straight without cumming but last last the girl will bite your neck just for you to stop.
Even urine won't come out on time talking from 8 yrs experience with TM.
I mixed mine with coke or laca to get a very good high and sex but the end na premium tears cause it fvcks with your kidneys.

Remag666:

Bro don't try it you will have good sex I'm talking 5 hours straight without cumming but last last the girl will bite your neck just for you to stop.
Even urine won't come out on time talking from 8 yrs experience with TM.
I mixed mine with coke or laca to get a very good high and sex but the end na premium tears cause it fvcks with your kidneys.

Mehn I think I'm really a dumb niqqa,I don't know this for all this year wtf,I like experiments though, Just tell me the measurements even if na for once lolz, but there's no lacacera here in the US, will Coke be ok,hahahahaha,my baby mama is reading this shit with me now hahahahA, just tell me the measurements I wan to try even with Coke shit

Exkandayee:

Mehn I think I'm really a dumb niqqa,I don't know this for all this year wtf,I like experiments though, Just tell me the measurements even if na for once lolz, but there's no lacacera here in the US, will Coke be ok,hahahahaha,my baby mama is reading this shit with me now hahahahA, just tell me the measurements I wan to try even with Coke shit

I assure you if you get hooked on that thing the minimum time you'll spend fighting it is 5 yrs.
But if you insist on taking it get some solid food and eat cause it will shut down your appetite for the rest of the day if you take it in the morning.

Then get the 100mg capsule pour the powder into the coke and mix it in about 1minute it would change to brown that means it has fully diluted you can drink it then surely in some 30minutes you'll get a very powerful urge to sleep resist it and you'll start feeling the strength from nowhere plus serious sweating and this internal joy but pls and pls make sure you eat heavily before taking it na food be TM fuel if you don't eat well it will dry your blood I mean you'd become a skeleton within weeks.
The red button trams avoid it I guarantee it will fvck you up use the capsule instead

There's so many side effects it may have on you so I suggest you dead the idea
Just looked around my room and saw some used sachets.

tctrills:
First, seizures are not the same as epilepsy. Not all seizures are epilepsy. Again just because someone or a few friends of yours are epileptic, it may have nothing to do with tramadol.
When epilepsy is diagnosed in older adults, it's sometimes from another neurological issue, like a stroke or a brain tumor. Other causes can be related to genetic abnormalities, prior brain infection, prenatal injuries or developmental disorders. But in about half of people with epilepsy, there's no apparent cause. drug use is not one of the causes of epilepsy. On the other hand, drug withdrawal can trigger it.

OK sorry, I got it

Remag666:

I assure you if you get hooked on that thing the minimum time you'll spend fighting it is 5 yrs.
But if you insist on taking it get some solid food and eat cause it will shut down your appetite for the rest of the day if you take it in the morning.

Then get the 100mg capsule pour the powder into the coke and mix it in about 1minute it would change to brown that means it has fully diluted you can drink it then surely in some 30minutes you'll get a very powerful urge to sleep resist it and you'll start feeling the strength from nowhere plus serious sweating and this internal joy but pls and pls make sure you eat heavily before taking it na food be TM fuel if you don't eat well it will dry your blood I mean you'd become a skeleton within weeks.
The red button trams avoid it I guarantee it will fvck you up use the capsule instead

There's so many side effects it may have on you so I suggest you dead the idea
Just looked around my room and saw some used sachets.

You really a motherfucker ma niqqa, you mean I should put 100mg only or the whole sachet, seems you just finished banging bad guy, you guys should take it easy on these bitches

Exkandayee:

You really a motherfucker ma niqqa, you mean I should put 100mg only or the whole sachet, seems you just finished banging bad guy, you guys should take it easy on these bitches

Just 1 capsule is okay if you take the whole sach you'll go into coma in minutes
As for the girls I promise i won't take it easy on them they love it when I spend hours smashing

Badadvisor:

Bro you're right. You know i used to have a big phobia for driving but when i take Trams i hit the road with much confidence and care and drive perfectly well and come back home safely. Trams motivated me to learn how to drive perfectly, it gives me the confidence to drive outside anytime without considering what anyone or any driver with trailer thinks now I'm a very good driver.
But I'm hooked to the drug now and i can't even sleep without taking it and the Damn restless legs. Mehn i wish i never got to know about this shit. It eating me up so bad.
Damn Damn

damn mhennn,it's crazy reaction for everyone. Take days off work prolly 3 or 4 days off,stay indoor and off friends that get u the product infact don't let em know you're home for those 4days ,bath,take enough water,eat enough food watch movies, sleep. That should help,4days without it should make a difference

H4CK3R5:
damn mhennn,it's crazy reaction for everyone. Take days off work prolly 3 or 4 days off,stay indoor and off friends that get u the product infact don't let em know you're home for those 4days ,bath,take enough water,eat enough food watch movies, sleep. That should help,4days without it should make a difference

Thank you so much.
I'll give my best to do according to your advice.

Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

Don't tell us you don't know he is into drug addiction before you agree to dating. Next thing to do is to help him get out of it. Let him know agrees that he has an addiction that needs to stop. 2. He must be willing to stop, so recommend he sees a therapist even if you are to foot the bills (he needs help). 3.If he genuinely wants to seek help, make sure you stand by him even if the progress is slow. 4.If you think you have tried you best and no progress then quit.