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nomenclature:
There is no love...its interest ....wake up

seems you're right

I think you have answered your own question with the last line... (Giving examples of successful people who are married)!

If a person starts failing in life and career due to marriage, then he made a wrong choice in marriage.

Vinnie2000:
Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE!

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career!

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS?

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well!

Bill gate, Elon musk, Mark Zuckerberg, Carlos Slim, Warren Buffett are all married men ooo

I guess you know nothing about football and Messi because he married 5 years ago and he has won world best player since then till now more than any other player on earth.

Yeah, it will tie you down especially when you're not financially stable..
Ma view though.

nomenclature:
There is no love...its interest ....wake up

Lol

Marriage supposed make your career/business better. Although there's time for everything!

When you marry wright, your life will never be the same. But when you marry to a diffuser and confusser. It goes wrong be That

Yes, it does especially if you married the wrong person.

Depends on the kinda lady ur going out with to me marriage is beautiful if your wife see it as a partner stuff in the sense she helps you become more greater and likewise you also help her too

Depends

Vinnie2000:
Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE!

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career!

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS?

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well!

Some marriages slow down partners, while some help the parties to grow more.



I speak as a married young man and ever since I got married, I have grown more than I was as a single man.



In fact, my financial and business growth became more rapid ever since I got married.


Maybe its luck, I don't know sha

My brother told me this like q0 years ago and I'm beginning to think it's true.
As a man,if you have goals to achieve ,especially big ones, it is good to stay away from women.
Comes with all sorts of distractions and drawbacks.

Confirmation bias.

Just as there are succeful unmarried folks, there are successful married folks. Infact there are more successful married people than the opposite. The crux of the matter is to marry a good partner.

Vinnie2000:
Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE!

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career!

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS?

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well!

For a guy still building up,yes it is.
For a man that's fulfilled,No it's not.

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SeaTrade:
My brother told me this like q0 years ago and I'm beginning to think it's true.
As a man,if you have goals to achieve ,especially big ones, it is good to stay away from women.
Comes with all sorts of distractions and drawbacks.

Not always true my brother, sometimes it depends on the woman.



Some women will inspire and assist you to become great while some will slow you down. So before you marry, pray to your God on your own and also use your wisdom, romantic love is not enough reason to marry anybody.



Marriage is more than love and butterfly feelings. Don't marry a girl just because you feel you love her. Most men marry foolishly in the name of love. Use your number 6.

It depends on the individuals in the marriage.

And it depends on the type of pursuits as well.

You want to become a prolific writer of quality fiction, you need an extremely understanding spouse.

While writing Attahiru, Ahmed Yerima had to leave home for months to research and gather materials for his work in Sokoto.

And that is just one instance.

You want to be a great actor, you need a very understanding spouse, otherwise you will not get far.

Marriage is a blessing from God. He who finds a wife findeth good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord.

kunkelhanspeter:
I guess you know nothing about football and Messi because he married 5 years ago and he has won world best player since then till now more than any other player on earth.

That's Obembet's alternative account
She's/he's a Messi hater

Vinnie2000:
Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE!

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career!

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS?

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well!

It depends on the person but there are certain decisions you can take as a single that you can't take as a married person. You have to consider your family.

Besides it also depends on the type of wife you married. If she's a drama queen, your name is "sorry".

Vinnie2000:
Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE!

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career!

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS?

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well!

Ronaldo, wizkid, davido are all married mr MR.


For them not to get papper back up doesn't stop them to function the same way those who did elaborate weddings as husband and father do.

Infact they do more of husband and father functions far more than many unknown certificate backed husbands.

CocaineLord:
Marriage can make or mar you

I have seen broke ass men with potentials turned successful after marriage.... I've also seen billionaires turn into a pauper after marriage.

Marriage ain't for the weak

Which billionaire have you seen turned into pauper?

No come here dey lie Biko

It is

What is success?

It depends...

What I'll tell you is marriage is about the two compromising and sacrificing their personal pleasures for a joint venture...

The "Joint venture" is where an admixture of pros and cons happen...


Thing is, if you cannot sacrifice that thing 'so special' to you on the altar of a joint venture, then rule out marriage!