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My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This - Romance (3) - Nairaland

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Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Pinkyposh(f): 12:27pm On Mar 26, 2022
Bigchristo:
It’s not only poor people oo, you better know your girlfriend or boyfriend genotype to avoid giving birth to sickle cell, even with your money such child will still die, checking compatibility doesn’t end in knowing your partner genotype it has to also do with background check and knowing if you guys are fit to have a child there are some couples who suffer from these things unknowingly.
Don't mind him, he doesn't know how frustrating it is both for the child and the parents to always find themselves in the hospital every now and then for the same thing
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Tribalism123(m): 12:30pm On Mar 26, 2022
Any serious girl that want to marry me should send me email to nnaeyesworld@gmail.com. but u should be resident in Lagos. I dont have tfair for far distance. I am Igbo and I am 37. I am AA ab B+ for blood group.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by meobizy(m): 12:33pm On Mar 26, 2022
Affairs below the belt and Nairaland are a better love story than Twilight.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by skywalker240(m): 12:34pm On Mar 26, 2022
Lalami3232:
This one no be for our women. Take this post to a blog in Europe and the ladies there go applaud you but not here. For 9ja, all our ladies know na:
1. How much he get?
2. How well he dey dress?
3. He dey fine for face?
4. He get CAR?
5. He fit foot my bills?
6. He get big gbola wey fit drill my wide canal?
7. He go fit comot me from my abject poverty?

Those are what the average 9ja girl dey looks out for, not genotype. Na make as yahoo boys/ritualists dey quench dem reach, dem still dey use torch and candle to find the yahoo boys. OP you made sense but I'm sorry you are making sense in the wrong con3.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "Oga if no be you disvirgin your wife, try go do DNA test oooo. The pikin resemble me no mean say na your pikin. Our boreholes aka nonvirgins can't be trusted"
What a hilarious Comrade

You made me laugh out loud over here grin grin

Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Chiefecho(m): 12:34pm On Mar 26, 2022
lexy2014:
Dead end
How do you know it's a dead end
We you God ?
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by effort1: 12:35pm On Mar 26, 2022
nedubrazil111:
My friend got married sometime back to her husband who is supposedly well exposed. They both tested and discovered that they were both AS.

After all the crying, they still went ahead to get married, but this genotype thing has been hidden from the husband's family. He doesn't want them to know because his last relationship crashed for the same reason.

Now they're hoping a Doctor will give them hope of having non AS children or a Pastor will invoke the heavens for them.
I hope you have told your friend and her husband that they are stupid?

God gave us brain to think. God will not do for them what simple wisdom can do for them.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by toujurs: 12:36pm On Mar 26, 2022
A queen and more, would want the guy to do those. None her
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by KangaIye: 12:39pm On Mar 26, 2022
Cutehector:
Its only poor people that all these issues concern.
It is well with your soul angry
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Munzy14(m): 12:40pm On Mar 26, 2022
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by skywalker240(m): 12:40pm On Mar 26, 2022
JosephXavier:
Imagine trying to know about over 10 guys blood group and genotype

Like

Sometimes she would even be surprised that Femi is AS instead of Emeka while Femi is actually SS but has more money
grin grin grin grin

Nigerian Girls would remod a wealthy SS Femi to AS grin

Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by lexy2014: 12:43pm On Mar 26, 2022
Chiefecho:
How do you know it's a dead end
We you God ?
what is the it that is a dead end?
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by FishySmell: 12:43pm On Mar 26, 2022
If only MEN could be like me, Ladies will not see any HUSBAND to marry.
But can they huh They can't undecided
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by SirMichael1: 12:43pm On Mar 26, 2022
Cutehector:
because it is so not a problem for them there. But here in nigeria, our Medical sector is so outdated.
What the fúck??!! This comment is like the most stupid I have read since coming on NL.

How is the importance of knowing your partner's genotype outdated in the medical field? So over in the US, AS can easily walk down the aisle with another AS because their medical sector is top notch?

You guys will just be typing nonsense all in a bid to sound woke. Shut the fûck up!
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Munzy14(m): 12:45pm On Mar 26, 2022
Lalami3232:
This one no be for our women. Take this post to a blog in Europe and the ladies there go applaud you but not here. For 9ja, all our ladies know na:
1. How much he get?
2. How well he dey dress?
3. He dey fine for face?
4. He get CAR?
5. He fit foot my bills?
6. He get big gbola wey fit drill my wide canal?
7. He go fit comot me from my abject poverty?

Those are what the average 9ja girl dey looks out for, not genotype. Na make as yahoo boys/ritualists dey quench dem reach, dem still dey use torch and candle to find the yahoo boys. OP you made sense but I'm sorry you are making sense in the wrong con3.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "Oga if no be you disvirgin your wife, try go do DNA test oooo. The pikin resemble me no mean say na your pikin. Our boreholes aka nonvirgins can't be trusted"
From being arrogant and uncouth, you have become funny.. grin grin especially with that meme.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Chiefecho(m): 12:45pm On Mar 26, 2022
lexy2014:
what is the it that is a dead end?
You have not answered my question
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by lexy2014: 12:46pm On Mar 26, 2022
Chiefecho:
You have not answered my question
This question? what is the it that is a dead end?
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Hassanmaye(m): 12:46pm On Mar 26, 2022
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Nobody: 12:47pm On Mar 26, 2022
I am AA and I don't care about his genotype, if it likes, it it be ZZ.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Munzy14(m): 12:47pm On Mar 26, 2022
skywalker240:
grin grin grin grin

Nigerian Girls would remod a wealthy SS Femi to AS grin
Damn!

grin grin grin

I am out of here before you guys choke me with laughter biko
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by mm7: 12:50pm On Mar 26, 2022
Bigchristo:
It’s not only poor people oo, you better know your girlfriend or boyfriend genotype to avoid giving birth to sickle cell, even with your money such child will still die, checking compatibility doesn’t end in knowing your partner genotype it has to also do with background check and knowing if you guys are fit to have a child there are some couples who suffer from these things unknowingly.
Bros stop talking trash @bolded
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by olenyi: 12:50pm On Mar 26, 2022
nedubrazil111:
My friend got married sometime back to her husband who is supposedly well exposed. They both tested and discovered that they were both AS.

After all the crying, they still went ahead to get married, but this genotype thing has been hidden from the husband's family. He doesn't want them to know because his last relationship crashed for the same reason.

Now they're hoping a Doctor will give them hope of having non AS children or a Pastor will invoke the heavens for them.
There is a way to give birth to AA and AS kids without an SS. let them do their research. Science has made these things easy.

Warm regards.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Elrafiki2(m): 12:51pm On Mar 26, 2022
You have to have the capacity for such conversations before having them.

The average Nigerian girl hates conversation and see it as boring when it doesnt involve money, hair, iPhone etc. That's why they end up marrying total strangers and when things go south, they rush to social media to cry and seek sympathy.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Chiefecho(m): 12:52pm On Mar 26, 2022
lexy2014:
This question? what is the it that is a dead end?
No how do you know its a dead end
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by SirMichael1: 12:53pm On Mar 26, 2022
meobizy:
Affairs below the belt and Nairaland are a better love story than Twilight.
Affairs below the belt is what originated you, so it makes sense we discuss ways to prevent further mistakes like that.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by meobizy(m): 12:55pm On Mar 26, 2022
SirMichael1:
Affairs below the belt is what originated you, so it makes sense we discuss ways to prevent further mistakes like that.
Not when we have diverse untouched issues in this country. I blame this forum for stifling members creativity.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by skywalker240(m): 12:56pm On Mar 26, 2022
Munzy14:
Damn!

grin grin grin

I am out of here before you guys choke me with laughter biko
Na here we de oo, running grin

Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by SirMichael1: 12:58pm On Mar 26, 2022
olenyi:
There is a way to give birth to AA and AS kids without an SS. let them do their research. Science has made these things easy.

Warm regards.
Yes there is a way but that way is mere probability. In AS/AS marriages, at least 1 of 4 kids is SS.

It could be your first child, the second, the third or even the fourth. Mere probability.

Except you want to go for external fertilization with is expensive but if it's natural, science has only made us know the likelihood of having an SS child. Don't take it.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by lexy2014: 12:58pm On Mar 26, 2022
Chiefecho:
No how do you know its a dead end
what is the it that is a dead end?
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Gracey03(f): 12:58pm On Mar 26, 2022
Genotype is as important as Money is in marriage.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Bmaster(m): 1:00pm On Mar 26, 2022
[sometimes na this genotype ish dey make me doubt whether true true say na GOD starts everything.

I mean,where would everything could have gone wrong?
From Adam or Eve?



Edit:

Before you quote me,try and remember say na GOD on everything to existence o .

So in other words, everything supposed to be perfectly made from the beginning

Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by HumanoidX: 1:02pm On Mar 26, 2022
nedubrazil111:
My friend got married sometime back to her husband who is supposedly well exposed. They both tested and discovered that they were both AS.

After all the crying, they still went ahead to get married, but this genotype thing has been hidden from the husband's family. He doesn't want them to know because his last relationship crashed for the same reason.

Now they're hoping a Doctor will give them hope of having non AS children or a Pastor will invoke the heavens for them.
Having non-SS or SC children is a 100% possibility, if that's what they decided to explore. It is science. It's called Preimplantation Genetic Screening, through IVF (Doctors in the house can shed more light on this). From government teaching hospitals to private clinics, the cost of IVF ranges from 400k to 4m depending on the couple's conception issues/needs.

They can have their children and use a permanent family planning method.

I have seen couples who seemed to be "compatible" give birth to children with defects, disabilities, etc.

I understand the point OP is trying to make but it is 2022 and a myopic take.

I know I will receive backlash for saying this but it is not a death sentence if two people who know their genotypes to be incompatible, plan their conception method. It is different if they don't have a plan in place and carelessly bring SS children into the world. I am not trying to be insensitive to people who are going through it now. Plan it. The world has advanced beyond these takes. Love in this day and age is proving difficult to find. I know a few people who have gone the IVF route because of genotype and did permanent family planning.
Re: My Sister, You Have Been Dating Him For 1 Year Plus & You Dont Know This by Chiefecho(m): 1:03pm On Mar 26, 2022
lexy2014:
what is the it that is a dead end?
.you have not answered my question
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