1Sharon:


Right. Looking at her picture, not surprised seeing her. She does look alot older for her age.

Girls who matured much earlier were the ones who wanted to look grow beyond their years with revealing clothing and make-up. If your daughter was a tomboy or a late bloomer. She'll have wanted to look like a child for much longer.

This one is an over-bloomer! She is bigger than most 17 year olds. With make up, she looks 18!

Her shoes are already SIZE 10!

Beremx:
good evening Auntie Kanwulia. Longest time and how are you doing? Trust you are good.

@topic, when we were growing up as teenagers during our time, who born you to wear skimpy clothes? Who even will buy for you?
There was a lot of discipline by our parents.
Children of these days no dey hear word both home and abroad. The social media has worsened everything by interfering in their upbringing. Abeg hold your daughter wella. No mind the yeye police people

The kids get it from their friends or buy it with money they've saved up.

KanwuliaBaby:



This one is an over-bloomer! She is bigger than most 17 year olds. With make up, she looks 18!

Her shoes are already SIZE 10!

Ha.

On a real note sis, limit what she eats.

If she looks like this now, it's only gonna get worse as she gets older.

KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside.

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house?

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

There should always be an avenue to return your kids back to Nigeria or their African if they have passports already. Nigeria is a safe space for kids to learn respect for at least one or two years before they return again.

This is something i take very important and that's why this Western enforcement of Nigeria accepting their form of Libéralism doesn't go well with me.

Take them back to Africa and let them learn.

I am super sure i can't be caught in this situation.

1Sharon:


Ha.

On a real note sis, limit what she eats.

If she looks like this now, it's only gonna get worse as she gets older.

Na your own you dey talk o!
See what I find in her room almost EVERY DAY!

One day we ended up in the ER!
Severe constipation. They had to go in and dig out a lot of POO! To drink water nko?

If you cook, they will just wrap the food in plastic bag and straight to the NEIGHBORS’ trash! :

Na you go taya ke!

Rotten food everywhere. So I wait till 3:00AM wake them alll up to start cleaning. Shikena!

KanwuliaBaby:


Good to see you madam B!❤️

Thank you!
I go show dem ke.
Dem go call police TAYA!

I told the police to please take anyone who can't tolerate the home rules. Do you know what the stupidd cops told me?

They said their “books” are full and there is no space in “the system”! Oh?

It got to a stage I filed a complaint against the police dept for RACISM! Arrrrrrrgh, they started sending only BLACK COPS to my house o!

If ANY CHILD DISOBEYS, I CALL THE POLICE!

I wore them out.

No one wants to call police any more o!
I became an EXPERT in calling the police.

If you nor wash plate- POLICE!
If your nor brush teeth- POLICE!
If you disobey curfew- POLICE!
If you nor do homework- POLICE!
If you use foul language at home- POLICE!

The police were tired of me o! I taught them and the children a gravvvve lesson.

Now, I can parent in. PEACE!

This woman ehn

Loool at parent in peace.

KanwuliaBaby:


Na your own you dey talk o!
See what I find in her room almost EVERY DAY!

One day we ended up in the ER!
Severe constipation. They had to go in and dig out a lot of POO! To drink water nko?

If you cook, they will just wrap the food in plastic bag and straight to the NEIGHBORS’ trash! :

Na you go taya ke!

Rotten food everywhere. So I wait till 3:00AM wake them alll up to start cleaning. Shikena!

Ha! You mean they aren't eating fruit either?

Did she learn from having to go to the ER?

Growing up I was never given more than 2 snacks a day.

Even as an adult I feel guilty when I overindulge.

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOUR CHILDREN CALL THE POLICE ON JHOOOOO!

1. NEVER-NEVER-NEVER leave marks on your kids when you spank them. If you leave marks on their bodies, YOU ARE A GONNER!✅

Tell them to open their hands and spank them on their PALMS. Good luck with that, because they will refuse to open their palms and will proceed to running ALL OVER THE HOUSE. You will have a stroke chasing them from room to room.

I wait till they are sleeping, lock the door and the shows begins!✅

1Sharon:


Ha! You mean they aren't eating fruit either?

Did she learn from having to go to the ER?

Growing up I was never given more than 2 snacks a day.

Even as an adult I feel guilty when I overindulge.

Fruits ke! Dem go feed am to the dog and make it poop all over the house with diarrhea ke! You will now start running to the VET to cure the dog! More wahala for you.

Or they will flush it down the toilet and BLOCK the whole sewer system! Another $500 bucks to cough out!✅

NoToPile:





This woman ehn

Loool at parent in peace.

You have to be creative.
You know it gets to a stage you call the police and the lt ALREADY KNOW YOU BY YOUR FIRST NAME!

They will say “Hello “MISS LAURA”, are you calling about your “REPEAT OFFENDERS” again?

And I will reply: “YEP”!
Then they will say-“We are on our way”!

One day, the sent 4 HEAVY BLACK COPS to tackle 2 of them. The cops insulted the children ehn? Shegeeeeey!

The children told them I threatened to SHOOT them!

I told them YES! In self defense.
I told them I would not hesitate to gun them down if they show up in MY SIDE OF THE HOUSE UNINVITED. They can reach me via phone or landline intercom.✅

Grow up in Nigeria : You lack opportunities.

Grow up in US : You abuse opportunities.

To be fair, I'd prefer the latter.

1Sharon:


The kids get it from their friends or buy it with money they've saved up.

Thank you!
The kids have allowances ke.
Children start earning money for chores as from 10 years old. So they learn how to manage money and SAVE to buy birthday gifts for their friends.

Besides, no BAGA or MAGA will trick them to some dark alley to offer them $10 for turning tricks, because they don’t have money of their own.

KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside.

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house?

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

I'm pretty sure she repented after this experience

Shokoloko:
On top of all the "African disciplining, the average African from 12 years is corrupt.
A westerner will turn a new leaf because he wants to be a better person, an African will turn a new leaf because there is a likelihood to be caught and disgraced or jailed.

At 12 years an African child in boarding house will try to BRIBE the gate men to let them go out indiscriminately. At 12 introducing their classmates to cultism as long as they do not get caught. At 12 multiple abortions claiming to be virgins. Certified runs girl at 15.
Upon all the disciplining.

No, africans are not law- abiding, empathetic and less corrupt. It was over here I saw that on a bus younger people stand up to allow older people, pregnant women and disabled people to sit down. I never saw it in Nigeria.

Over here UPS and DHL drops your package in front of your door. The package remains there until you come home at night and pick it. It cannot happen in Nigeria. Since I started buying cars I have locked car doors less than 5 times. Sometimes I forget to lock my door.

Upon all our discipline.

Aunty, the standard of living yonder is higher than Nigeria so this example doesn't have any substance.

KanwuliaBaby:


You have to be creative.
You know it gets to a stage you call the police and the lt ALREADY KNOW YOU BY YOUR FIRST NAME!

They will say “Hello “MISS LAURA”, are you calling about your “REPEAT OFFENDERS” again?

And I will reply: “YEP”!
Then they will say-“We are on our way”!

One day, the sent 4 HEAVY BLACK COPS to tackle 2 of them. The cops insulted the children ehn? Shegeeeeey!

The children told them I threatened to SHOOT them!

I told them YES! In self defense.
I told them I would not hesitate to gun them down if they show up in MY SIDE OF THE HOUSE UNINVITED. They can reach me via phone or landline intercom.✅

This madam ehn loool, self defence ke, parenting seems to be a whole different ball game in obodo yonder.

KanwuliaBaby:


Let me let you know how fast these little boys and girls can be IF YOU DO NOT PAY ATTENTION TO EVERY DETAIL.

1. Girls can suck **** to make money!✅
There are reports of 10 year olds having ****-sucking competitions in school bathrooms and behind school buses FOR MONEY!✅

2. I did not assault anyone. The police were infringing on my parental rights and thought they could intimidate me.

3. Yes! That little lady is 13!✅
We went to a kid’s party one day, before I knew what was happening, she had mascara and lipstick on. One DUDE called me and ask why I let her out of the house like that. I said I didn’t. She just went to the bathroom and did it. I totally ignored her. She wanted me to make a scene in public. I did not fall for it.

When we got home, we suspended her phone and electronic privileges for SIX MONTHS!✅

This is a STRAIGHT As student. We are talking TWO GRADE CLASSES above her age. But she wanno hang with the big girls! Some spoiled, rich white kids in their school are teaching them about “independence”!


I was a teenager in Nigeria, not in the US. We did not have such latitude.

This is the age of Snapchat and Tik Tok. You can’t compare.

Example:

I worked at a psych facility last year.
One 11 y/o boy was sent there by his mother or aunt/guardian. Guess what he was doing?

Jesus.

We need more threads like this one from people like you who are actually experienced in these issues, not all these singles in this forum giving marital advice and teaching parents how to raise kids.

truthsayer009:


There should always be an avenue to return your kids back to Nigeria or their African if they have passports already. Nigeria is a safe space for kids to learn respect for at least one or two years before they return again.

This is something i take very important and that's why this Western enforcement of Nigeria accepting their form of Libéralism doesn't go well with me.

Take them back to Africa and let them learn.

I am super sure i can't be caught in this situation.

I thought about NIGERIA many times.
But ever since I saw that story of that beautiful Chidimma-KILLER, I had a rethink.
Her mother had not seen her since she was 10 or 11! Then surfaced on the news for killing a business man in a hotel room. Life imprisonment at 19 abi na 22?

Nigeria with the level of poverty there? Tufiakwa!

My niece is 20! Lives in Nigeria. She has been temporarily disowned by my brother till she is 25, married with her own kids.

Wetin she do?
She left medical school and went to camp in Oyakhilome’s church in Lagos. . . To be doing “ASHAWO-in-Christ” for dia! While in the cult, they BLOCKED ALL FAMILY MEMBERS PHONE #s from her phone. She refused to talk to any of us.
That was it. Her father, my brother has dashed her to the church. He has vowed not to have anything to do with her till she is 25. We have dashed her to her mother’s people!✅

KanwuliaBaby:


Good to see you madam B!❤️

Thank you!
I go show dem ke.
Dem go call police TAYA!

I told the police to please take anyone who can't tolerate the home rules. Do you know what the stupidd cops told me?

They said their “books” are full and there is no space in “the system”! Oh?

It got to a stage I filed a complaint against the police dept for RACISM! Arrrrrrrgh, they started sending only BLACK COPS to my house o!

If ANY CHILD DISOBEYS, I CALL THE POLICE!

I wore them out.

No one wants to call police any more o!
I became an EXPERT in calling the police.

If you nor wash plate- POLICE!
If your nor brush teeth- POLICE!
If you disobey curfew- POLICE!
If you nor do homework- POLICE!
If you use foul language at home- POLICE!

The police were tired of me o! I taught them and the children a gravvvve lesson.

Now, I can parent in. PEACE!

You are a marlian

Ishilove:

You are a marlian

You damn right! I don’t play with these little fools here o.

If you try to call the police, they will just fall on their knees and be begging. Dem don taya to see police ke!

You have to use the system to your advantage ke!

Every police complaint is RECORDED IN THEIR FILES.

When it gets to a stage, they police sends them in front is a judge for being public nuisances. That na another wahala entirely.

Na dem go get record, nor be me?✅

KanwuliaBaby:


You damn right! I don’t play with these little fools here o.

May God continue to give you wisdom. Parenting in this internet/social media/woke age is lot more difficult than our parent's time.

KanwuliaBaby:


You damn right! I don’t play with these little fools here o.

If you try to call the police, they will just fall on their knees and be begging. Dem don taya to see police ke!

That's discipline right there.

Ishilove:

May God continue to give you wisdom. Parenting in this internet/social media/woke age is lot more difficult than our parent's time.

You can say that again.
To make matters worse, the system will tell you the children are well-behaved in school, so it must be YOUR APPROACH!

Then I say to them, then let them go and live with YOUR SYSTEM OR THE SCHOOL.

I dropped one at the police station one day after I was tempted to go physical and left. The mofos called me and told me if I don’t come and get my daughter, I will be charged with CHILD ABANDONMENT AND NEGLIGENCE!

Shuuuoooo ? ? ?

LWKMD!!!

KanwuliaBaby:


You can say that again.
To make matters worse, the system will tell you the children are well-behaved in school, so it must be YOUR APPROACH!

Then I say to them, then let them go and live with YOUR SYSTEM OR THE SCHOOL.

I dropped one at the police station one day after I was tempted to go physical and left. The mofos called me and told me if I don’t come and get my daughter, I will be charged with CHILD ABANDONMENT AND NEGLIGENCE!

Shuuuoooo ? ? ?

LWKMD!!!

LMAO!! You really have your hands full.

One day, when they're older, they will look back and y'all will have a good laugh over all the drama. But that road still faaaaaar

Ishilove:

LMAO!! You really have your hands full.

One day, when they're older, they will look back and y'all will have a good laugh over all the drama. But that road still faaaaaar

You can say that again!
Faaaaar. Can’t wait to kick them all OUT!
Filthy things. See nasty used feminine craaaap all over their rooms.
They find it sooooo funny.
My husband does not say ONE WORD ANY MORE because he has the most foul temper with them.

I told him I will handle them.

KanwuliaBaby:


I thought about NIGERIA many times.
But ever since I saw that story of that beautiful Chidimma-KILLER, I had a rethink.
Her mother had not seen her since she was 10 or 11! Then surfaced on the news for killing a business man in a hotel room. Life imprisonment at 19 abi na 22?

Nigeria with the level of poverty there? Tufiakwa!

My niece is 20! Lives in Nigeria. She has been temporarily disowned by my brother till she is 25, married with her own kids.

Wetin she do?
She left medical school and went to camp in Oyakbilome’s church in Lagos. . . To be doing “ASHAWO-in-Christ” for dia! While in the cult, they BLOCKED ALL FAMILY MEMBERS PHONE #s from her phone. She refused to talk to any of us.
That was it. Her father, my brother has dashed her to the church. He has vowed not to have anything to do with her till she is 25. We have dashed her to her mother’s people!✅

She was not properly guided, people don't just wake up and leave their homes out of nothing. A family showing love and paying attention to a child will not have type of issues. I retain my opinion on this based on the evidences of number of people It has worked for. Percentage of occurrence and success is what I base my decision on.

During the ages of 10 to 18 when I have kids who got attained their passports, I will make sure they get the Nigerian training bi-yearly.

I know this because it works & this is exactly what I would do.

KanwuliaBaby:


You have to be creative.
You know it gets to a stage you call the police and the lt ALREADY KNOW YOU BY YOUR FIRST NAME!

They will say “Hello “MISS LAURA”, are you calling about your “REPEAT OFFENDERS” again?

And I will reply: “YEP”!
Then they will say-“We are on our way”!

One day, the sent 4 HEAVY BLACK COPS to tackle 2 of them. The cops insulted the children ehn? Shegeeeeey!

The children told them I threatened to SHOOT them!

I told them YES! In self defense.
I told them I would not hesitate to gun them down if they show up in MY SIDE OF THE HOUSE UNINVITED. They can reach me via phone or landline intercom.✅

Is this what the police do in the US?

In the UK, they'll accuse you of wasting police time

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOUR CHILDREN CALL THE POLICE ON JHOOOOO!

2. You will be arrested and charged with domestic violence if you spank your child and leave bruises and whelps ANYWHERE on their body.✅

This is how the police operates WITH BLACK FAMILIES ONLY! They will NEVER humiliate white families like this o!
They will wait till you go to work and ARRIVE AT YOUR JOB TO HANDCUFF YOU AND TAKE YOU STRAIGHT TO JAIL!✅

That is what happened to a lady working for Delta airlines. She had just got to work and was boarding passengers for the scheduled flight. They arrived and hand-cuffed her in front of passengers and co-workers. She ended up on social media.✅

Shokoloko:
On top of all the "African disciplining, the average African from 12 years is corrupt.
A westerner will turn a new leaf because he wants to be a better person, an African will turn a new leaf because there is a likelihood to be caught and disgraced or jailed.

[s]At 12 years an African child in boarding house will try to BRIBE the gate men to let them go out indiscriminately. At 12 introducing their classmates to cultism as long as they do not get caught. At 12 multiple abortions claiming to be virgins. Certified runs girl at 15.
Upon all the disciplining.

No, africans are not law- abiding, empathetic and less corrupt. It was over here I saw that on a bus younger people stand up to allow older people, pregnant women and disabled people to sit down. I never saw it in Nigeria.[/s]

Over here UPS and DHL drops your package in front of your door. The package remains there until you come home at night and pick it. It cannot happen in Nigeria. Since I started buying cars I have locked car doors less than 5 times. Sometimes I forget to lock my door.

Upon all our discipline.

Who’s this unfortunate lying scum?

truthsayer009:


She was not properly guided, people don't just wake up and leave their homes out of nothing. A family showing love and paying attention to a child will not have type of issues. I retain my opinion on this based on the evidences of number of people It has worked for. Percentage of occurrence and success is what I base my decision on.

During the ages of 10 to 18 when I have kids who got attained their passports, I will make sure they get the Nigerian training bi-yearly.

I know this because it works & this is exactly what I would do.

Bi yearly ke? As for me I'm thinking of sending my kids to school there and they can return when they're 16 like I did.

They need to learn their culture.

Private school was my aim but what happened with that boy is off-putting

1Sharon:
I'm sorry I'm your daughter is dressing provocatively at 13, isn't that a highlight of your parenting?

And what if she got raped while she was outside in just her underwear?

Highlight of her parenting ke? I beg to differ.

Kids who dress provocatively aren't necessarily kids who are not properly trained. They are just kids who want to dress that way.

The reason we have effective law enforcement and criminal laws in place is so as to protect even the kids when they go astray or dress provocatively.

truthsayer009:


She was not properly guided, people don't just wake up and leave their homes out of nothing. A family showing love and paying attention to a child will not have type of issues. I retain my opinion on this based on the evidences of number of people It has worked for. Percentage of occurrence and success is what I base my decision on.

During the ages of 10 to 18 when I have kids who got attained their passports, I will make sure they get the Nigerian training bi-yearly.

I know this because it works & this is exactly what I would do.

Very important!
If done properly, the children will be very appreciative.✅