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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by ThamesWater: 6:12pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
1Sharon: Now that is wisdom. Prevention they say is better than cure. When you give a child access to a web enabled phone with little or no supervision you have already lost that child to the jungle called the internet and social media with 7 billion influencers influencing your child daily positively and majorly negatively. I also marvel when i visit friends and see that their kids who are not even 8 years old have unfettered and unsupervised access to everything on the DARK WORLD WIDE WEB. In London, I did not have my first phone or home computer until age 32 and the heavens did not fall. Kids use enough computer and supervised internet access at school so they can do without it at home or if they must use it at home, i will so rig the computer or phone with monitoring such that I am aware of any dodgy website they visit before they say jack robinson. Me wey be say I dey track my then 14 year old sons posts on his Facebook account and I sharply correct him when he and his friends make unacceptable posts online and when he tries to deny it, I ask him if he wants me to tell him the date, time and exact content he posted and he then backs out from his denials. I'm sure a lot of parents don't know that the rational part of a teenager's brain is not fully developed and won’t be fully developed until age 25 or so. https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?ContentTypeID=1&ContentID=3051 Although left to me, he would not be on Facebook even at 14 years old and I was in away in Nigeria on a business trip and my ex wife allowed him a Facebook account in my absence. Even a lot of adults can not handle some of the "stuff" they see / read on the internet / social media talk less of a teenage or pre-teenage child and this is why i marvel when i see black parents in the UK allow their very young children (less than 10 years old) to have the same access that adults have to all the content on the dirty world wide web when even adults are struggling to cope with / exorcise themselves of some of the sordid nastiness on the internet / social media. Imagine allowing a child unsupervised access to twitter where people post any and everything in "broad daylight" including pornography and twitter turns a blind eye !!!! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by descarado: 6:12pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
loveymom:Hello stranger It's real o. Just be their best friend and others will fall in place. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 6:22pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
descarado: Hi Nne ndi ikhom I am their best friend. Hopefully, we are in a good place even in the future. |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 6:34pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: The lady I mentioned claimed that despite all the beatings Africa give their wards, Africa is still a shithole devoid of human empathy,peace and development while the whites who don't beat their kids have a society that is synonymous to human empathy, peace and develpment. Now understand that in the context she used, there was nothing like the WEST, it was basically the WHITES against the African society. so the people that I referenced, don't they qualify for the denotation, THE WHITES, or are u telling me that they were raised in Africa. Now my claim of their exploits being related to their upbringing is a reverse psychology I used to prove to to the lady I was arguing with that upbringing has nothing to do with the desposition of peopleninna society whether developed or not. You get the drift now 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by 1stGenAmerican(f): 6:35pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
cocolacec: I agree. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by 1stGenAmerican(f): 6:36pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
JohnBullMySon: I agree. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 6:37pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
shantti: Okay, now I am thoroughly confused. Where did I mention whites? I believe I said "westerners" 1 Like
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by mrblessed(m): 6:37pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko:See emotional blackmail 101. So any refutation of your shaky, error-infested claptrap is a portrayal of a nonexisting violence that occurs only in your head. I'm glad you have been unable to coercion people into agreeing with your erroneous view, even when knowing "violence" is a choice word you use with complete abandon. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Solatium(m): 6:41pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko: If you need citation from Google to validate your knowledge of things as little as this,then your degree certificates should come to questioning. Those who studied Sociology, Criminology or Anthropology do not need to even read twice before they know you are talking balderdash. You are one of the Major reason schools abroad don't count our degree towards academic credit, having degrees either first or second is not enough,but how have you been able to internalized knowledge and make same reflect on the quality of your argument while in fora like this is what matters. Madam,no need to form Voltron,just keep quiet and learn |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 6:42pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko: Sorry, I read u wrong. But should I start mentioning Americans who had perpetrated atrocities |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 6:42pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
mrblessed: If you feel someone has made an error, point it out and correct the person, rather than insulting the person. I keep saying it is typically in Africa that two people will be having a debate, ne person will make his presentation and the other person instead of making his own presentation will attack the 1st person verbally. Even you, what effort did you make to correct my erroneous view. You could type out an insult, but you did not have the time to type out a correction. Mtscheww! 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 6:43pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
shantti: Yes please , mention a couple. I would like to go study their childhood backgrounds and either correct myself or give you an update 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 6:45pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Solatium: I am ready to learn. Teach me na. Just so you know Google isn't the only search engine available, so if you have a problem with google, kindly cite from a different search engine You have the time to type all this, but no time to type out a correction. This common sense isn't as common as we think it is. BTW, the second degree is Canadian. Thanks I ask again what is your second degree? 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 6:46pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
1stGenAmerican: I am actually very concerned about the police record she might be creating against her kids 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by DrFunmisticGlow: 6:49pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby:please teach us the way |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by GloriousGbola: 6:49pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko: No records until 18 unless you are involved in major juvenile delinquency |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Kobojunkie: 6:49pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
shantti:1. OK! 2. If by WHITES, we literally indicate skin color here, then there is a problem since we also have WHITE africans both in northern(Arab) and Southern Africa. So.....? 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Solatium(m): 6:51pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko: Who cares where you get your degrees from? You only need to read and pass an exam then a certificate awarded for your efforts. That is what certification is all about,deploying what you have learned is what I am after an SSCE holder who is logical in thinking is far more better than a Msc Holder. i do not have a second degree but i will school you with your Toronto Msc or MA or MPhil. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by shantti(m): 6:51pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko: Ok |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by SunMusk(m): 6:52pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Be calming down .... Not all Africa parents are bully. I know what i did from small very very bad bad thing , I deserve any beating. What you should be against is putting fire in a child hand or pepper inside a female child virgin Shokoloko: |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 6:53pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: Awesome. Thanks. I guess this is for the US. I read somewhere that in Canada some occupations will require a police background check from students attempting to get into university. I am assuming that some of these students will be younger than 18. Anyways, thank you for allaying my fears. I was quite worried |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 6:55pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Solatium:Where are you references? Why are you trying to avoid debating and correcting me. Lets go back to the correction you were about to give me. I am waiting. I told you that child abuse and domestic violence affects a country's GDP. I gave references. You said it does not. Explain to me 1 Like
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by ThamesWater: 7:00pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: You are lucky their Dad is on the same page with you. My Ex wife once told me in front of my then 11 year old son in London (who I was about to discipline) the following words - Ti o ba fi owo kan omo yen ma a pe olopa - meaning that if I touched my son, she would call the police. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Solatium(m): 7:18pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko: Read writings of Emile Durkheim,Max Webber,Karl Marx and the ilks and you wouldn't be asking stupid questions like this.. ire o |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 7:22pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Solatium: Which of their books? They must have written on a variety of subjects. Which ones please so that you can go back to your laptop sales and I can face my budget reconciliation? If you were in a sane country or if you were sane you would respond this way: NO question is stupid, please ask away, these and these are the books I believe that you should study to enlighten yourself on this matter. Let me know if you need more clarification. But no, the typical aggressive African selling laptops, which is you, will say " stop asking stupid questions ....." The reason why you generalized and their books together is because YOU DO NOT KNOW WHICH ONE TO RECOMMEND 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by ThamesWater: 7:27pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
NoToPile: In Nigeria, a parent can go to their child's school, enter their classroom and slap / flog their child in front of his classmates and teacher as punishment for something the child did at home. Try that in the West and the Government will take that child off you (and their social services will most likely wreck the child's life eventually), and you will most likely lose your job and most likely end up in prison for assault and/or child abuse. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by NairaMaster1(m): 7:30pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko:Ok |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by baby124: 7:37pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
gadgethead:That’s not true. The most useless children I saw who were having sex and even doing all sorts of orgies and nasty things were children of pastors and those from very strict homes. Looks are mostly deceiving! The lesson there is that, decency is not something that has to do with outward looks. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by 2braithe: 7:43pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Evolutionlove: You know next to nothing about racism. You think racism is only about calling you nigga,black monkey?? 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by ThamesWater: 7:44pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Klass99: This is very common in London where the kids are used as pawns / weapons against their Dad who eventually has no choice but to move out of the house for his own sanity or to prevent himself from going to prison for disciplining his own child in a situation where wife and kids gang up against husband/father to get him out of the house any which way they can so that the woman can claim generous single parent cash from the government and the kids can do as they wish in the house with no correction. A lot of times, the generous single parent cash benefits that is given to single mothers in the UK (which is the single parent capital of Europe) has blinded some of these so called single mothers to the long term dangers of raising children in a home where there is no father figure. One such Nigerian boy aged 23 stabbed his mum do death in London in 2013 and is currently serving life in prison. A similar case happened in Detroit USA in 2012 when a 14 year old boy shoots his mother dead as she slept after she tried to keep him away from joining a gang or hang with the 'big boys'. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-essex-33204248 https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2107504/Joshua-Smith-14-shoots-mother-Tamiko-Robinson-death-slept.html 7 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Kobojunkie: 7:44pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
drnoel:What? |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Onewazobia(m): 7:58pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko: Trash, trash, trash brother. Compare the rate of rape between western world and Africa, despite their stenched law they still rate high. Inhuman is inhuman whether among whits or people of colour. 1 Like |
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