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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by AlphaTaikun: 7:47pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
ThamesWater:Well said! I like the fact that you made reference to the 25 years that it takes for the human brain to fully mature... That's key in understanding how to raise children right into adulthood. I first read that info too in a Newsweek magazine about 20 years ago and it was based on brain scan research on teenagers and why they engage in anti-social acts (due to the fact that nerve endings of the pre-frontal cortex which deals with social behaviour are not fully developed). 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 2:01am On Mar 30, 2022 |
monerozi5590: Trust me, I have called them worse trust me. As Nigerian parents, name-calling is a sure banker! Even on NL, Or you be saint? Oh please! 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 2:07am On Mar 30, 2022 |
ibinaboonline: Having children ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD is not for the faint-hearted. But the show must go on! 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 2:16am On Mar 30, 2022 |
ibinaboonline: Bottom line, You can’t leave Nigeria, struggle to achieve all you have and then sit back and LOSE it all because of some flawed system that can’t distinguish between abuse and discipline. You must be in control at ALL TIMES. I watch some parents become the children in some homes, and the children become the parents. Why? Because the parents want to be “best friends” with their children. Sheeeeesh! The parents want to be loved by their children so they can take care of them in old age. Sheeeeeesh! I have told my children that I would rather DIE in a nursing home.! I don’t wanna be their friend please! I AM A PARENT. Simple. My love is EXTREMELY CONDITIONAL. I don’t want any yeye love or friendship. SELF-RESPECT is all I ask.✅ 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 2:24am On Mar 30, 2022 |
ThamesWater: Na which kain “wife” be dat? No wonder na “ex”! She does not understand that only a real mam can raise a real man? Abi, did you try to kill your son? This calling police matter is soooooo annoying. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 2:44am On Mar 30, 2022 |
ThamesWater: At least I can understand this scenario. Foreign tutors do not understand how our children learn because of our cultural differences. As long as you can’t sit still like a mute for 8 hour, you have ADD or are TRIPOLAR! I don’t blame them. Thankfully, you stepped in and gave your son the best individualized Educational Plan he needed to get him where he needed to be. Kudos! ThamesWater: I only have ONE QUESTION. What DA HECK is a 23-y/o still doing around his parents’ home? WHO GAVE HIM THE KEY TO THE HOUSE TO COME IN? ThamesWater: ThamesWater: Hmmmm! All these 23 y/o nefa reasssh to MARRY? Or is the moving out age THIRTY YEARS OLD IN THE UK? What are they doing at home? By 18, you should be goooooooone please! For health reasons, we must always avoid the physical route o! The reason I call the cops jeje. The last time I tried that physical thingy, I thought I was gonna have A STROKE! I tried to push one of the children out of the house. GOSH! It felt like I was PUSHING A COW!!! I respected myself jeje! I could not move the BABE O! She full ground like ELEPHANT! Oh no! Never!!! Seriously, by 18. . . EVERY CHILD SHOULD BE OUT OF THE HOUSE. . . FOR GOOD! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 3:13am On Mar 30, 2022 |
rickleye: Besides TV, social media and peer pressure, It is actually the cops and social workers who put all the funny ideas in the children’s heads. Then the bring those “loafers” called therapists to add insult to injury, I can’t stand therapists! The are like pastors who try to swindle you with “sweet mouth” by stealing your money and promising you heaven! No need to take them to any juvvy jail. Since COVID, levels have changed here o! They now use ANKLE MONITORS! Or you are sent to a PSYCH WARD! The best thing ever is putting children on probation too! Like the police told me. Parents have rights. CHARGE YOUR CHILD TO COURT AND LET THEM HO BEFORE THE JUDGE! They also GO ON TRIAL, Yes! You can charge your child to court for being UNGOVERNABLE. Oh yes. Just like an adult, they will APPEAR BEFORE A JURY. Use the system to your advantage. Your child is a U.S. citizen, you are an IMMIGRANT. Instead of me to be the one to get that “RECORD”, I will make sure THEY GET IT FIRST! It worked like magic! We now have PERFECT EVERLASTING PEACE!✅ 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 3:25am On Mar 30, 2022 |
drnoel: Please, get off your personal side! Take note of the message ONLY. Thanks. Gosh! These old NLanders will never grow up! Maybe I should have said “East St Louis” or Harlem”! Sheeeesh! 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 3:35am On Mar 30, 2022 |
cocolacec: Hehehe Of course! But be prepared to SLEEP IN JAIL till you can find one. You will need to provide PROOF OF INCOME TOO. As I don't qualify as an L-I-G, not an option. Besides, I don’t like “cheap lawyers”! I go with the reviews and get the best! I will find the money anyhow. When you are dealing with your, JOB, reputation and your CITIZENSHIP, you need to get the best. Never forget you are an immigrant. For domestic abuse cases, if you live in a WHITE HOOD, get a WHITE FEMALE LAWYER.✅ If you live in a BLACK HOOD, get a BLACK MALE LAWYER!✅ 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 4:02am On Mar 30, 2022 |
mmsen: I don’t get this. All I have shared all this thread shows that “abroad” is not the best to raise children. My niece could have gone to Fela’s Shrine for all we cared. Abroad or not. Bottom line? CULT NA CULT! Religious or SOCIO-POLITICO-ECONOMIC! No difference! In case you missed it, this topic is about active parenting. It takes a village abi? Hey! The POLICE is part of the village. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 4:12am On Mar 30, 2022 |
Mariangeles: Of course they have privacy. The areas with cameras are areas they must not enter. They must keep their own areas at ALL times. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 4:33am On Mar 30, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: No! You can NEVER get in trouble calling the police. Not since COVID. The police have become extremely sensitive to domestic issues because of COVID LOCKDOWN. Many people ran mad. We do not call 911. Even if you do, your call will be routed to the non-emergency baby-sitter section. Even the children know NOT TO CALL 911.✅ After the 3rd 911 call, they sat us down and told us how to reach them. So if we ever do call 911, they know it is serious. You see the police has different departments o. Our case was so special. WE HAD OUR OWN SPECIAL SQUAD JUST FOR PEOPLE LIKE US! It is called “the domestic unit”, not “the emergency unit”! Since COVID, lots of children AND ADULTS almost ran MAD at home with nowhere to go. A lot of parents had ISSSSUES! Police calls EVERY SECOND! They had to do something. You see? What you don’t know is that, when you are a “frequent caller”, the city police will now start routing YOUR CALLS to a “special unit” DESIGNED for people like you. The “problem children” who want to judge nonsense. They send you the “over-fed” and “more-jobless-donut-and-coffee-quaffing-flatfeet”. Where we live, there is almost NO CRIME. We have toooooo many idle cops who can’t even give traffic tickets! They are staying employed. Gosh! I have learned soooooo much about this America of a system. Lemme gist you! You now become part of a “crises intervention unit”. The will give you their cards- YOU DO NOT CALL 911 any more. You call the police DIRECTLY. This special “family unit” is on call 24/7! That way, you do not tie up emergency lines. If you call them 1 million times, they will came to your house 1 million times. THIS COUNTRY IS GREAT. ✅ Arrrrrrrtgh! When someone call you by you NL baptismal name, you know you are OLD on NL I miss my MILITIA days. NL was sweeeeeet! ; I don’t like the “almond” days- too many jolosi-h-enemies. Anyway! Anyhow! I always dey kamkpeeeee sha! Always growing old gracefully on and off NL! Thanks for reminding me I have been on NL for 15 Year! Took short breaks though. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 8:17am On Mar 30, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: The message was not a message. Stop the stereotype |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by monerozi5590: 9:01am On Mar 30, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: That aside. You said you file a racist report against the white cops. Please can you share your experience. Can you tell us what they did to you that made you file that report? |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by descarado: 11:51am On Mar 30, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby:That your picture is dope. You look so beautiful |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Mariangeles(f): 12:00pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: They’re still your babies o. You don’t want them to hate you, do you? Our people say when you beat a child with the right hand, you draw them close with the left hand. |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by ibinaboonline: 6:04pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
I haven’t heard anyone talk like this, ever. Want to swap emails? KanwuliaBaby: |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drmuchin: 10:04pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Personal Experience My Auntie in UK then had a 9yr old daughter who called the police after a discpiinary action. They waited for her to finish primary school and shipped her to Nigeria, straight to the village to live with her grandma. The little girl was enrolled in a mission school. First few months she still dey run mouth about calling police for 9ja whenever she is disciplined. Not until after several kpokpo her head reset. She learnt to fetch firewood, water etc By the time she completed her secondary school, she had become a full AFRICAN child. Right now she is even doing her Msc back in UK Cc KanwuliaBaby Ishilove 1Sharon descarado 7 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by kazyhm(m): 11:09pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: And this is a supposed progressive society ? ....it is rather a directionless society and a fool paradise. Too stressful to get simple things done 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by kazyhm(m): 11:46pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Shokoloko: Park to NY, Detroit or Florida. You lack conceptual interpretation of ideal society. |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 2:19am On Mar 31, 2022 |
kazyhm: I am not interested in the US. Canada has everything I need. I like it here. |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by descarado: 9:00am On Mar 31, 2022 |
drmuchin: Though I don't support using cane, for the fact that she was sent home will reset her brain. My people do that a lot. Have told those that have ears in my house that I will not hesitate to send them to a village school Once I say it, everybody will sit up They will not give us hbp |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 12:51pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
drmuchin: Absolutely correct. If you must send them to Nigeria, send them early o! Any child above 13? Toooooo late! The already know to find their way to ANY US CONSULATE if they are ever removed from the US. Things have changed o. They give them TOLL FREE numbers to call if they are outside the US. The US WILL FLY GHEM BACK AND BILL YOU WITH INTEREST! Don’t mess with this messed up welfare system. Hmmm! You will now add KIDNAPPING charges to your wahala. You better send them before they involve the police o. Once you get involved with THE SYSTEM and you have open cases with the social workers or courts. GAME OVER! You CANNOT take the children OUT OF THE US without notifying the AUTHS! You will be charged with KIDNAPPING! More wahala for you. 4 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaBaby: 1:02pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
kazyhm: Progressive in NUCLEAR WARFARE only. I can’t blame them sha. Too many PSYCHOS killing children here for just being children. The only thing is that there must be a balance for any system to work effectively. Also, RACIST WHITE, ASIAN AND HISPANIC COPS should stop targeting normal black family units and concentrate on those with real issues. . 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by KanwuliaExtra: 1:18pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
What is all this SPAM rubbish?
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by armyofone(m): 2:59pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: I'm sure they bought them from school vending machine. Or kept some from Halloween. |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by armyofone(m): 3:06pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: KanwuliaBaby you are killing me with laughter CSO Holly Nkita |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Mariangeles(f): 3:18pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
ibinaboonline: You want to take lessons on how to hashie stubborn kids? |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by ibinaboonline: 8:38pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Abi o Mariangeles: |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by ibinaboonline: 8:44pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Holy shit. Hmm. KanwuliaBaby: |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by armyofone(m): 9:32pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Mariangeles: Best - you know what's going on around the front and back of your house. Those boys can fly fences when trying to be with one's "daughter " |
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