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Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by colonelwealth(m): 2:09am On Apr 05, 2022
Dliquidmetal:
I love this,I'm impressed brother.
She can go suck Jesus's dick
Are you a dummy dumb or just born stupid?

Don't try that rubbish next time.
Jesus is your lord.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by haslaw(m): 6:10am On Apr 05, 2022
@ MoneyGoDrop

You hate to accept the truth that yeebos are evil and wicked.

You called it hearsay when I helped my friend Ikechukwu (we call him IK) to look for house in Ibadan and neatly all the landlords rejected him when they discovered he was Igbo.

I have known Igbo wickedness since I was in JSS because the Igbo prefects had this heartlessness about them and could punish their juniors without mercy. All through my life I have encountered the most wicked people as yeebos.

So stop deceiving yourselves that you don't understand why people hate yeebos.
Cc
AlexBells
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by MoneyGoDrop: 6:41am On Apr 05, 2022
[quote author=haslaw post=111657963]@ MoneyGoDrop

You hate to accept the truth that yeebos are evil and wicked.

You called it hearsay when I helped my friend Ikechukwu (we call him IK) to look for house in Ibadan and neatly all the landlords rejected him when they discovered he was Igbo.

I have known Igbo wickedness since I was in JSS because the Igbo prefects had this heartlessness about them and could punish their juniors without mercy. All through my life I have encountered the most wicked people as yeebos.

So stop deceiving yourselves that you don't understand why people hate yeebos.
Cc
AlexBells


Lol...from your statement,it is the yorubas that seems like the hateful tribe because how can you reject a paying customer because of his tribe and still claim not to be tribal? You're also the only one hammering on the word Hate here and I'm absolutely sure you've never left your region for you to have reached the conclusion that Igbos are worst. Finally,it's general knowledge that Awo was solely responsible for sowing the bitter seed of tribalism that have currently ravaged your mind. Learn to free your mind from hate,that's the only forward bro.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by IamV: 6:56am On Apr 05, 2022
Dorwadora:
Leave her and let her be ..... Sincerely, I also have somethings against igbo especially the igbo men. Tho I've never made my dislike to make anyone uncomfortable. But one of the major tenet of a lasting relationship is tolerance and patience. Just leave her and let peace reign.
We honestly do not care.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by IamV: 7:13am On Apr 05, 2022
SHINJA:
I support that your girlfriend..I don't like Igbo's too .

I will never advise any girl from another tribe to marry an Igbo man..
We honestly do not care.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by IamV: 7:15am On Apr 05, 2022
haslaw:
You yeebos should stop deluding yourselves that people hate you because of what she has been fed with as if the lady has no mind of her own.

You think to the high heavens of your own tribe and got irritated when she refuse to accept to be your tribe but instead is very proud of her own tribe, You are the one that is highly intolerant because you want everyone to be Igbo like you.

The real reason people hate you yeebos is because of your heartless character and evil ways. I have lived and worked in both northern and southern parts of Nigeria and have seen the wickedness of yeebos in these regions. There is a Hausa landlord in Zaria, Kaduna state that has practically been chased out of his own house by the tenants who are majorly yeebos. They gave the man hell on earth and nearly everyone blamed him for renting his house to yeebos. This same scenario I have witnessed in both Lagos and Ibadan. This same characters (My sister told me) are being exhibited by yeebos in America. Same thing my colleagues told me was happening in Malaysia

You can never transact business with an Igbo man and he would not seek to cheat you and in some cases be very wicked to you. I avoid yeebos as much as I can because of their heartless and evil ways



cc:
AlexBells
MoneyGoDrop
You're going to cry all day !.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by SHINJA: 7:36am On Apr 05, 2022
IamV:
We honestly do not care.
Okay Mr okoro
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by IamV: 7:49am On Apr 05, 2022
SHINJA:
Okay Mr okoro
A name of honour,I love it.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by haslaw(m): 10:02am On Apr 05, 2022
IamV:
You're going to cry all day !.
The truth hurts right?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by everythinggirly(f): 12:14pm On Apr 05, 2022
Plz, receive sense! Some things should be adjusted.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Adesina18111(m): 12:14pm On Apr 05, 2022
Pls where or what app can I download on Android to watch season movies?...pls help a bored and depressed brother
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by ednut1(m): 12:15pm On Apr 05, 2022
Who want to marry a tribal and religious bigothuh You mad or something
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by zinizta: 12:18pm On Apr 05, 2022
AlexBells:
So, I had known this girl for the past 3 years, she lives in Nsukka and I ussually come around since I have a family here when I met her three years ago, she was writing her WAEC and we seem to fall for each other, however she got admission later that year and now in UNEC so we didn't see for over a year becuase I was going through some stuff that didn't give me space to travel and they packed out from their formal house.

Few weeks back, I came to Nsukka for some trainings and given the ASUU strike, she is staying back in Nsukka, this had given us enough time to reunite, the love and desire is still there but a highly Intolerant girl I never knew had just emerged out of the blue.

First, she's from Agbo Delta State, she is one of the people who don't accept being Igbo, okay I have no problem with that but what irritates me is why she always throw subtle insult on the Igbos. Meanwhile since she been on strike she's been the one taking care of their shop where I ussually go to buy stuff and also make withdrawals, apart from the fact that I love her, I prefer to go to her shop becuase they run a POS service so I can easily withdraw and do my shopping right there.

On several occasions, I had overhead her speaking with her mum in their Agbo dialect and I can almost understand them completely despite my being from Nsukka, Ezikoba to be precise. I had asked her on several occasions, if you are not Igbo why do I understand you while you spoke to your mum, she always told me to forget that one.

Then one day a man came to withdraw money and instead of handing the money to her, the man kept the money on the table just about two foot away, so after collecting the money from the table, when the man left she now said "You Igbos don't have respect especially Igbo men, why would he keep the money on the table instead of give it to me", I looked at her and said, I hope you know thats hate speech when you make such generalisation by saying you Igbos while this if at all is an issue is individualistic. I asked her, I'm Igbo what do she think about me, she said I'm different however she wish to change me so I don't have that Igbo attitude, I smiled through that.

Honestly she's decent and intelligent but religious as well and seemingly intolerant in that aspect too, meanwhile I'm not quite the church going type especially because I have a view that religion had severely impaired our society and while acknowledging religion and God, I believe that extremism in religion is as well dangerous, and in another note, I see religion as an aspect of socialisation of which the Nigerian churches is suffering the same decay with the general society and as such I appreciate my peace and most times I isolate myself from most social gatherings.

However we had an argument over time about this whole church and God stuff, she wants me to start going to church, partly her concern is becuase of the rigorous nature of my trainings, she don't appreciate the fact that I'm isolated but the manner she's pressing for that is crazy, this morning she sent me a message telling me that if I don't give my life to christ that I should stop whatever with her, I smiled however to be honest I was hurt.

I'm worried becuase at one point I even considered marrying her, but even if I begin to go to church, what happens to the identity of our children, becuase I know her parents must have been the one that thought her so much intolerance for the Igbos, to even think that she was born and raised in Nsukka. Bellow is the screenshot of her message and reply.

Please I need advice, I don't want anyone to judge her especially as regards her tribal sentiments on the Igbo, I understand it is what she had been fed while growing, shes a nice person generally.
if she says she isn't Igbo then she isnt igbo.

na by force.

delta tribes intermarry

it is likely she has other ancestry from Ijaw, itsekiri, isoko etc

allow her be who she is.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Cutehector(m): 12:18pm On Apr 05, 2022
Please end whatever you have with that girl. There are over 4billion ladies out there that you would be compatible with.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Nobody: 12:21pm On Apr 05, 2022
MoneyGoDrop:
I truly didn't understand the hatred people had for Igbos especially the south south people till i went for service. I found it weird that someone that bears and speak igbo will be insulting you and making bad jokes about the language they also speak.

My advise is move on from her. Her hatred for your tribe will only get worst,same with her attitude. I generally stay away from religious/churchy people because most of them have lost touch with reality.
there was this Agbor guy when we were students at UNN...my friends and I would be conversing in Igbo and this guy will come and start yelling that we should stop speaking Igbo here. And it was funny then to me because I actually liked the guy but now when I think about it, it makes me angry. We were Igbo in nsukka speaking Igbo and some how you that also speaks a dialect I can hear is angry that I speak Igbo. Ask an average Niger deltan why he hates Igbo and watch him tell you a bunch of chappy reasons
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by marsup: 12:23pm On Apr 05, 2022
Use your tongue to count your teeth.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by SLOVFO(m): 12:25pm On Apr 05, 2022
Ishilove:
Lmao! I had to do a double take because It's almost like I am the one the OP is describing grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

See how rude the OP is. She was very polite and coordinated in her message, while his message is full of 'mumu', 'fool' and other allied vitriol.

Isioma deserves better. She is right in showing you the door, you stiff necked heathen.
Stiff necked heathen indeed cheesy
OP should know that the girl has his interest at heart here... introducing Jesus to you is the best offer anyone could make you. Take it OP.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by BloomingDale(f): 12:27pm On Apr 05, 2022
I avoid religious folks like the plague.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by King3urna(m): 12:27pm On Apr 05, 2022
AlexBells:
So, I had known this girl for the past 3 years, she lives in Nsukka and I ussually come around since I have a family here when I met her three years ago, she was writing her WAEC and we seem to fall for each other, however she got admission later that year and now in UNEC so we didn't see for over a year becuase I was going through some stuff that didn't give me space to travel and they packed out from their formal house.
Few weeks back, I came to Nsukka for some trainings and given the ASUU strike, she is staying back in Nsukka, this had given us enough time to reunite, the love and desire is still there but a highly Intolerant girl I never knew had just emerged out of the blue.

First, she's from Agbo Delta State, she is one of the people who don't accept being Igbo, okay I have no problem with that but what irritates me is why she always throw subtle insult on the Igbos. Meanwhile since she been on strike she's been the one taking care of their shop where I ussually go to buy stuff and also make withdrawals, apart from the fact that I love her, I prefer to go to her shop becuase they run a POS service so I can easily withdraw and do my shopping right there.

On several occasions, I had overhead her speaking with her mum in their Agbo dialect and I can almost understand them completely despite my being from Nsukka, Ezikoba to be precise. I had asked her on several occasions, if you are not Igbo why do I understand you while you spoke to your mum, she always told me to forget that one.

Then one day a man came to withdraw money and instead of handing the money to her, the man kept the money on the table just about two foot away, so after collecting the money from the table, when the man left she now said "You Igbos don't have respect especially Igbo men, why would he keep the money on the table instead of give it to me", I looked at her and said, I hope you know thats hate speech when you make such generalisation by saying you Igbos while this if at all is an issue is individualistic. I asked her, I'm Igbo what do she think about me, she said I'm different however she wish to change me so I don't have that Igbo attitude, I smiled through that.

Honestly she's decent and intelligent but religious as well and seemingly intolerant in that aspect too, meanwhile I'm not quite the church going type especially because I have a view that religion had severely impaired our society and while acknowledging religion and God, I believe that extremism in religion is as well dangerous, and in another note, I see religion as an aspect of socialisation of which the Nigerian churches is suffering the same decay with the general society and as such I appreciate my peace and most times I isolate myself from most social gatherings.

However we had an argument over time about this whole church and God stuff, she wants me to start going to church, partly her concern is becuase of the rigorous nature of my trainings, she don't appreciate the fact that I'm isolated but the manner she's pressing for that is crazy, this morning she sent me a message telling me that if I don't give my life to christ that I should stop whatever with her, I smiled however to be honest I was hurt.

I'm worried becuase at one point I even considered marrying her, but even if I begin to go to church, what happens to the identity of our children, becuase I know her parents must have been the one that thought her so much intolerance for the Igbos, to even think that she was born and raised in Nsukka. Bellow is the screenshot of her message and reply.

Please I need advice, I don't want anyone to judge her especially as regards her tribal sentiments on the Igbo, I understand it is what she had been fed while growing, shes a nice person generally.
If you like let niggas wey Dey bang olosho Dey advise you if you lose a good girl you go join them with runs girls they you go see the difference
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Amayabor1: 12:28pm On Apr 05, 2022
MoneyGoDrop:
I truly didn't understand the hatred people had for Igbos especially the south south people till i went for service. I found it weird that someone that bears and speak igbo will be insulting you and making bad jokes about the language they also speak.

My advise is move on from her. Her hatred for your tribe will only get worst,same with her attitude. I generally stay away from religious/churchy people because most of them have lost touch with reality.
You will not really understand until you live with igbos (if you are not an Igbo).

I have lived in the South east, North, South West, and south South. The average Igbo person is very greedy and cunning. If possible, they can sell you for money. Money is their centre of attraction. Some of he things I witnessed in Igbo land, I have never witnessed it in any other part of Nigeria. Whenever I go to the market and you are a Igbo person, I either leave or make sure I am very alert!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by BotherMleeper(m): 12:28pm On Apr 05, 2022
These are the kinds of girls that end up getting fukked by their pastors, or killing their own kids in the name of witchcraft and destiny.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by obailala(m): 12:30pm On Apr 05, 2022
MoneyGoDrop:
I truly didn't understand the hatred people had for Igbos especially the south south people till i went for service. I found it weird that someone that bears and speak igbo will be insulting you and making bad jokes about the language they also speak.

My advise is move on from her. Her hatred for your tribe will only get worst,same with her attitude. I generally stay away from religious/churchy people because most of them have lost touch with reality.
It's actually hAtred inherited from their parents. It will take special grace and pure wisdom for anyone to outgrow the seed of hate instilled upon them through their upbringing.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by SmartPolician: 12:34pm On Apr 05, 2022
The most dangerous people to marry are those who are seemingly active in church, but they know nothing about God. These people explain why it's dangerous to get a life partner in church.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by mastermaestro(m): 12:36pm On Apr 05, 2022
BloomingDale:
I avoid religious folks like the plague.
You are unwell.

Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by IamV: 12:36pm On Apr 05, 2022
haslaw:
The truth hurts right?
I'm not the one writing an epistle.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by ngwababe(f): 12:40pm On Apr 05, 2022
Nna, free this one abeg. She wants you to give your life to Christ, but doesn't have respect for a tribe and to an elderly man? Oga, this one go scatter your family o.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by mastermaestro(m): 12:41pm On Apr 05, 2022
BotherMleeper:
These are the kinds of girls that end up getting fukked by their pastors, or killing their own kids in the name of witchcraft and destiny.
Why are you folks angry at someone for upholding her Christian faith? She didn’t abuse the op, nor did she fight him. She only made her belief clear to him. Op should exercise his right of choice by looking elsewhere. sad
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by splashbaby(m): 12:46pm On Apr 05, 2022
[quote author=MoneyGoDrop post=111658330][/quote]I have been saying this for many years...Igbos have cultural heritage of been mannerless, rude, arrogant and insensitive to other tribes. Naturally hatred will come...it very easy to behave well but Igbos find it easy to misbehave always. They have terrible upbringing with poor integrity and myopic outlook to life.
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