Op sef just to give your life to Christ is your problem, oya give it to the devil because you can't sit on the fence. I love the girl already. And the people of Agbor are not Igbos period!!

ygowon:
No, we are not the same, because I can't bring up a little issue here for fools to advise me.
Once I see one whom I perceive would give me wahala, I don't think twice in pushing that person out.

Just the way the girl has seen that his wahala and her own wahala are not on the same page. But why my post come too pain you na, the guy na your brother?

Gbamusolutely

Zonefree:

Whatever who have against Igbo is none of Igbo business. Keep that to yourself.

The worst is that you will be begging to carry an unloyal breed responsibilities. What the f Something is wrong somwhere[s][/s]

Slynation:
From the screenshot, she made her points very clear and you also made your stand very clear and precise...!! So both of you should pretend nothing happened and go your separate ways...!!

Honestly speaking, some guys are impressing me this days, no time to be begging around/ trying to convince a confuse or domineering lady anymore, just leave her alone so she can always find you in her memories...!!

Trojan8:


I tire honestly. Someone is from Delta state, you called her Igbo and she rejected. I am from Agbor, and I don't like being called Igbo. Does that mean that I hate the Igbos? The way people are wired though.


If as an Igbo man, you tell me your tribe and then I call you a Deltan. Will you accept it?

All these online trolls, just in the last page u said all tribes hate Igbos, and now u are making it look as if u don't hate Igbos but u just dint like being identified as one, is this confusion on your side?

AlexBells:
So, I had known this girl for the past 3 years, she lives in Nsukka and I ussually come around since I have a family here when I met her three years ago, she was writing her WAEC and we seem to fall for each other, however she got admission later that year and now in UNEC so we didn't see for over a year becuase I was going through some stuff that didn't give me space to travel and they packed out from their formal house.

Few weeks back, I came to Nsukka for some trainings and given the ASUU strike, she is staying back in Nsukka, this had given us enough time to reunite, the love and desire is still there but a highly Intolerant girl I never knew had just emerged out of the blue.

First, she's from Agbo Delta State, she is one of the people who don't accept being Igbo, okay I have no problem with that but what irritates me is why she always throw subtle insult on the Igbos. Meanwhile since she been on strike she's been the one taking care of their shop where I ussually go to buy stuff and also make withdrawals, apart from the fact that I love her, I prefer to go to her shop becuase they run a POS service so I can easily withdraw and do my shopping right there.

On several occasions, I had overhead her speaking with her mum in their Agbo dialect and I can almost understand them completely despite my being from Nsukka, Ezikoba to be precise. I had asked her on several occasions, if you are not Igbo why do I understand you while you spoke to your mum, she always told me to forget that one.

Then one day a man came to withdraw money and instead of handing the money to her, the man kept the money on the table just about two foot away, so after collecting the money from the table, when the man left she now said "You Igbos don't have respect especially Igbo men, why would he keep the money on the table instead of give it to me", I looked at her and said, I hope you know thats hate speech when you make such generalisation by saying you Igbos while this if at all is an issue is individualistic. I asked her, I'm Igbo what do she think about me, she said I'm different however she wish to change me so I don't have that Igbo attitude, I smiled through that.

Honestly she's decent and intelligent but religious as well and seemingly intolerant in that aspect too, meanwhile I'm not quite the church going type especially because I have a view that religion had severely impaired our society and while acknowledging religion and God, I believe that extremism in religion is as well dangerous, and in another note, I see religion as an aspect of socialisation of which the Nigerian churches is suffering the same decay with the general society and as such I appreciate my peace and most times I isolate myself from most social gatherings.

However we had an argument over time about this whole church and God stuff, she wants me to start going to church, partly her concern is becuase of the rigorous nature of my trainings, she don't appreciate the fact that I'm isolated but the manner she's pressing for that is crazy, this morning she sent me a message telling me that if I don't give my life to christ that I should stop whatever with her, I smiled however to be honest I was hurt.

I'm worried becuase at one point I even considered marrying her, but even if I begin to go to church, what happens to the identity of our children, becuase I know her parents must have been the one that thought her so much intolerance for the Igbos, to even think that she was born and raised in Nsukka. Bellow is the screenshot of her message and reply.

Please I need advice, I don't want anyone to judge her especially as regards her tribal sentiments on the Igbo, I understand it is what she had been fed while growing, shes a nice person generally.

Hmmmm
You don't seem to me a very intelligent person.
How could someone hate your tribe and you are even considering getting married to her?

Anyone that claims to love you but hate your family will either make you hate your family too or poison your family members one day.
A woman that was brought up with Nsukka water talking rubbish about Umunwoke ndị Igbo...
Oga kick her out of your life before you regret it later

Elvis778:

All these online trolls, just in the last page u said all tribes hate Igbos, and now u are making it look as if u don't hate Igbos but u just dint like being identified as one, is this confusion on your side?

OK bro

Trojan8:


Why can't the Ibos acquire a change of identity so they won't associate with Deltans? This kind of mentality is why you all are hated.

If Igbos in Enugu decide that they are not Igbo, how does that affect you as a human?



Learn how to spell origin correctly before forming political correct.

Lol, illiterates everywhere, a tribe called IGBO, speaking IGBO, with a culture that's typically IGBO should abandon that identity for another tribe that uses everything IGBO but hates IGBOS?? That's a severe case of confusion and foolishness on your side.
IGBOS identify each other by name, language and culture, so if you act like an Igbo, with an Igbo name and eventually speaks Igbo or at least, a dialect, we can't be sorry for seeing you as one of us, you have to repeatedly state it as fact that you ain't Igbo, without hating oo, until u finally choose a different identity that won't be confused with ours, we can't change centuries old means of identifying fellow tribesmen because some group that hate us are confused.
It's just like wearing the number 7 tag in football and telling people you are not number 7, then hating them for calling you number 7 each time they see u with that same number 7 tag.

Elvis778:

Lol, illiterates everywhere, a tribe called IGBO, speaking IGBO, with a culture that's typically IGBO should abandon that identity for another tribe that uses everything IGBO but hates IGBOS?? That's a severe case of confusion and foolishness on your side.
IGBOS identify each other by name, language and culture, so if you act like an Igbo, with an Igbo name and eventually speaks Igbo or at least, a dialect, we can't be sorry for seeing you as one of us, you have to repeatedly state it as fact that you ain't Igbo, without hating oo, until u finally choose a different identity that won't be confused with ours, we can't change centuries old means of identifying fellow tribesmen because some group that hate us are confused.

OK

@alexBells .. the problem you have is that you are empty. I have a feeling that the so called agbor girl is the only girl in your life. Men that have plenty girls in their life don't bother whether one of them is misbehaving. If she misbehaves you cut her off and continue with the rest, anytime you see her act like she doesn't even exist and pass. My man go and up your game, read comments from ubunja redpill on this forum or look for free online books on alpha males and how to make good friend and start meeting lots of girls. Have alot of girls at your disposal so you won't be needy. You don't have to look like Justin Bieber to nail bitches trust me. Your post is irritating and You sound like an idiot to me. All this epistle for a girl. Chai you Bleep up.

Pedklose:


Agbor is not a tribe. Agbor is in Anioma. Anyone from Agbor is Igbo.

First of all, It's glitteringly clear you are not well informed.
* Anioma is in no way a Tribe
* Agbor (Ika Nation, if i may say) is more populated than the whole Aniocha/Oshimili (Anioma)
* Agbor is a tribe recognized in the then, House Of Chiefs (A body of Prominent Traditional Rulers). The Dein of Agbor, represented not only Agbor, but the current Delta North Senatorial district.
* Agbor migrated from the then Benin Empire, and have zero connections with the Igbo race.
* Anioma might be Aniocha/Oshimili, but never Agbor (Ika Nation), nor Kwale.
* And finally, Agbor is a Place, Language and People.
I'll base your aforementioned statement on Ignorance.

Spiff20:
Op sef just to give your life to Christ is your problem, oya give it to the devil because you can't sit on the fence. I love the girl already. And the people of Agbor are not Igbos period!!

who cares?

Elvis778:

Lol, illiterates everywhere, a tribe called IGBO, speaking IGBO, with a culture that's typically IGBO should abandon that identity for another tribe that uses everything IGBO but hates IGBOS?? That's a severe case of confusion and foolishness on your side.
IGBOS identify each other by name, language and culture, so if you act like an Igbo, with an Igbo name and eventually speaks Igbo or at least, a dialect, we can't be sorry for seeing you as one of us, you have to repeatedly state it as fact that you ain't Igbo, without hating oo, until u finally choose a different identity that won't be confused with ours, we can't change centuries old means of identifying fellow tribesmen because some group that hate us are confused.

For starters, You sound confused.
Have you heard this language, called Agbor? try comparing it to Benin Language and see who is closely related to who.
I don't blame you Igbo's, I blame the Head of State that removed History from our Curriculum.

Unzerious:

For starters, You sound confused.
Have you heard this language, called Agbor? try comparing it to Benin Language and see who is closely related to who.
I don't blame you Igbo's, I blame the Head of State that removed History from our Curriculum.

If it's more related to Benin, me as an Igbo won't understand it, the fact I understand most things they say proves you wrong, totally, and if you are right perhaps they should answer Benin names not Igbo names...yes, I blame the HOS cuz it really fked with the minds of people, people that are confused today. I don't have issues with your choice, terms of identity, but don't complain and hate us when we refer to you as Igbo cuz sorry, it's not our fault you are using everything Igbo.

ifihearam:
LOL...the OP is looking for who will encourage him to still be with the girl....over 60% advised you leave the babe because you guys are not compatible but you never responded to any one of those. I do not think you guys are even dating from your analysis of how you met and separated due to some reasons..I can tell YOU for free that you havent slept with that girl and she shows a lot of things you are yet to decipher.

The babe does not accept money or gift from you because she does not love you and dont want you to feel entitled to her as a"typical igboman" that you are, you are yet to see things from her point of view because you are the real problem here not her so far from your submission; this babe sees a LOT of igboman who patronize her hourly and the attitude they display, she sees them regularly and as such her appetite for you diminishes based on what she experiences and not instilled by her parents like you claim.

You are not even a real igbo because you willing to bend over religion..she has given you ultimatum and you tend to wan to bend to be a deeper life or what but you cant bend in her views with respect to her tribe? you are a simp oga and you very immature..with what you said she sould be in her early 20s but yet more matured than you.

I went for a class, came back and the responses is already too much, had a drink with my guy on the way back, the hurt is getting lighter, I try to laugh, I'm moving on already,

Whatever you say could be right, however her collecting or not collecting money from me, I don't see as an issue, there are hundreds of people to spend money on, I'm Igbo and I know the value of money, the same feelings I get when I give the little kids begging money is the same feelings I get if she takes money from me,

It wouldn't matter anymore if she loved me or not, I have other things to keep my energy to rather than being a mind reader

Trojan8:


Coming from an Igbo man that stays in every state one Nigeria. So because she stays in Nsukka means that she must associate as Igbo.

Meanwhile when you get a response, you talk about hate for the Igbo tribe. Una never ready.

anybody can spew rubbish but only mad person stay in dt rubbish. Don't think bigger than ur small brain.

Elvis778:

If it's more related to Benin, me as an Igbo won't understand it, the fact I understand most things they say proves you wrong, totally, and if you are right perhaps they should answer Benin names not Igbo names...yes, I blame the HOS cuz it really fked with the minds of people, people that are confused today. I don't have issues with your choice, terms of identity, but don't complain and hate us when we refer to you as Igbo cuz sorry, it's not our fault you are using everything Igbo.

My point is, we may bear Igbo names (influenced by the spreading of Catholicsm to the west/mid-west), but that doesn't rule out our common Ancestry to Benin's, and who says we don't bear Benin names, what is Gbenoba, Edobor, Ebohon etc in Igbo?
The people of Agbor blame your Ancestor's for selling our people into Slavery, you don't think they'll forget?
Well, its your perspective. I would love you visit Agbor, and see for yourself that we're in so many ways, unlike the Igbo Trib

SilentQueen:
If that is her only problem you don't need to leave her...Many Nigerians are like her so no big deal, just try to tell her how you feel about it and hopefully she will change

Lol!

Poster, please don't take this advise biko!

Dliquidmetal:
I love this,I'm impressed brother.
She can go suck Jesus's dick

You are cursed

I saw this meme somewhere

God1stson:


Repent and give ur life to Christ. U will not live forever and u will judged for every idle word u've said. Ignorance is not an excuse.

repent and accept the others known gods too,no one would live for ever lol and no one is gonna judge you for anything,stop comforting yourself with medieval horse shits

Terver90:
You are cursed

thank you.

Why the hate of ignos? It’s appaling the way she’s going about it. She’s also very childish but maybe with time, she’ll grow up.
Threatening to break up with you if you don’t start going to church is just extreme.
If you are Igbo and she speaks so little of your people the way she does, isn’t that a red flag? Her impression about igbos is not changing so don’t kid yourself.

Chigold101:

Hmmmm
You don't seem to me a very intelligent person.
How could someone hate your tribe and you are even considering getting married to her?

Anyone that claims to love you but hate your family will either make you hate your family too or poison your family members one day.
A woman that was brought up with Nsukka water talking rubbish about Umunwoke ndị Igbo...
Oga kick her out of your life before you regret it later

Men with terrible low self esteem & scarcity mindset put up with nonsense attitudes from their women inthe name of love.

As is the case most times,they end up regretting their over-tolerance of her bad behaviours,in the long run.

MoneyGoDrop:
I truly didn't understand the hatred people had for Igbos especially the south south people till i went for service. I found it weird that someone that bears and speak igbo will be insulting you and making bad jokes about the language they also speak.

My advise is move on from her. Her hatred for your tribe will only get worst,same with her attitude. I generally stay away from religious/churchy people because most of them have lost touch with reality.

how many states speak igbos in south south pls dnt include edo state cux we're nt part of ur so call tribe

In the words of lord Mosdii

Nigerian girls are useless.......all of them

Dorwadora:
Dearest sir.... Hate is a powerful word to be used anyhow. I do not hate any tribe, I said I have somethings against igbo men. The 'Something' in this context might be my unanswered opinion or belief. I am not tribalistic, I've never been and last time I checked my rights to Conscience, Expression and Religion as a Nigerian is still intact.

You have something against all Igbo men whom you have not met up to 0.000000001% of them yet you are not tribalistic. Nigerian girls and confusion are like 5& 6

From the post you can see that she doesn't play with church yet she hates Igbos.
How is that one being a good Christian what happened to loving your neighbors?
She's a hypocrite if you ask me.

chatinent:
There's no cause for alarm. You both could peacefully go separate ways without insults, hate, or retaliation. There are others who'd want you both individually for who you are.



If everyone started having a thing against another tribe, you'd not be safe to even manage oxygen. Stop being tribalistic...no tribe has totally good sides! Your hate is just in your head...and it doesn't have to count.

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