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Carcholce:
You are very silly for this question. It seems you do not know what to think with your brain instead of this.

rickpat:
it's more like a responsibility...cus some women go through very tough pregnancy period than others..so it's good the man goes with her so he will hear what the doctor has to say,that way he will know how to support the wife through that period...cus some men don't believe when the wife tells them the things the doctor told her,the man will think she is just seeking excess attention.

so it's good the man goes with her,if his schedule permits....it's all about support especially when the lady has very tough gestation period

Kuriosmynd:
Most antenal appointment hold in the morning. And a responsible man should be at work in the morning, preparing for money needed to raise the baby...abi u want him to leave his job and come follow her to antenatal?
Probably a jobless man will have the luxury of time to stroll to antenatal.

ParpahSeventy:
It's quite annoying to see every question on the internet these days with "...I just want to hear your opinion..."
I do wonder, what happens to "common sense" and good sense of judgement?
What happens to your creed and way of life or nobody has one?
Since our opinion matters a lot to you.
It's neither responsibility nor compulsory, do it as you wish, many women don't go to antenatal and still deliver healthy children, if you want to go with her, it's your choice, if you don't want to go with her, it's still your choice.
It's not your responsibility, it's not compulsory, unless you make it your responsibility and compulsory for yourself.

Kuriosmynd:
You say this in a world where men now follow their wife to take antenatal photoshoot?
Whatever that means....
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It seems norms and expectations are changing

ParpahSeventy:
Whenever some Sissy's are called "men" I feel offended, every man should be reasonable, one good attribute of reasonable people is that they should be able to give cogent reasons why they take the actions they are taking, women can take actions without reasoning, I understand, but if you want to be classified a man let me say a gentleman, you should take actions with reasons no because norms and expectations are changing.
Men change norms and expectations, norms and expectations don't change men, if norms and expectations sway your actions and make you do unreasonable things like antenatal photoshoot, you are not really a man.
What is the rationale behind a pregnant woman putting on underwear and taking photoshoots, can you explain it and the advantages it has on the pregnancy and society?
If you say for remembrance, why posting it online for the world to see?
And some Sissy's will turn up in the photoshoots, I assume their sole aim is to make the world believe that they love their spouse.

Kuriosmynd:
Finally u are seeing why this conversation is cogent and germane, unlike your earlier dismissal of the need to discuss it.

rickpat:
please I don't know what you're driving at or probably you have your conclusions about the topic already.... antenatal appointment MUST NOT BE IN THE MORNING... SECONDLY NOT ALL MEN HAVE JOBS THAT THEY CAN'T CREATE TIME IF THEY WANT TO...this conversation is something delicate and quite sensitive..thanks for your time anyways

Qatar2022:
Who's this kid, all the antenatal is the morning and every reasonable man should be at the place of work , it's only a stupid woman will want her husband to follow her to antenatal and mostly women get money from their husband through there

ParpahSeventy:
From where I stand, antenatal photoshoot and antenatal visits are two different concepts.
Some of the comments here have already pointed to some of the advantages of going with her and some are insisting it's responsibility, though we know it's no where near responsibility unless you make it a personal responsibility.

Kuriosmynd:
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It's an open discussion. Don't make it closed. It's not abt my opinion
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Meanwhile, antenal photoshoot is even worse off than Antenatal visit.

ParpahSeventy:
Sounds really funny.
How is it worse?
I want to hear you on that.

Kuriosmynd:
. snapping during pregnancy is for women ..it's feminine.
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A man going for pregnancy photoshoot e no gel... doesn't he have something to do

LilMissFavvy:
A man who loves his wife, can follow her anywhere. A man who does not love his wife very much will give a thousand reasons why men shouldn't follow their wives to these and that place. Do whatever works for you.

LilMissFavvy:
A man who loves his wife, can follow her anywhere. A man who does not love his wife very much will give a thousand reasons why men shouldn't follow their wives to these and that place. Do whatever works for you.