FlowerGirl040:
As a FTM that you are,pls try to have someone around if possible.

But there are some people that do amaze me (if the English is correct ) is it tradition in some tribes or what sef. As a new mum, some people will expect you to enter kitchen,cook and serve them when they visit. Instead of them to enter kitchen to help you cook or even help wash some clothes as you never get strength well enough. The thing tire me o.

r dey crazy ni?! If na me dewan do dis 4... Lol, dey r on der own cs frm day 1 i dnt fucking care about inlaws, anytin dey wan do or say mk dem do, me dt i ve dis i dnt care personality n i really dnt knw how to impress pipu.

miracletoday:
d way I read that lol and don't worry, e get meaning. I know u are looking at me in 4D with one kain eye

swears

FlowerGirl040:
Lol punishing our selves? . Yu know first childbirth tummy is very easy to go back to been flat, unlike we that already have more kids. We learn everyday Sha. Another thing I noticed about the massage is it helps me relieve of waist pain,this I am 100% sure. When I had my baby boy 2020,that died after 4 weeks,he never sucks,that experience wasn't easy,even feeding bottle na by force,so I result to the massage to see if it can help and it did help me out as expected. Body differs Sha and I will sure look out to the breastfeeding thing you said. Thanks for the enlightenment. Abeg go gym as planned it's a good idea really.

u r right abt d massage... It helps reduce pain... Me i shower wit hot water.. D feelin is bliss
.. Sorry to hear u loss a child wow!!!

BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

kokaiye:
tnk God i hvnt slip into dt tin called postpartum depression... Dt tin aint gud news.

Thank God for you Ma.

kokaiye:
u r right abt d massage... It helps reduce pain... Me i shower wit hot water.. D feelin is bliss
.. Sorry to hear u loss a child wow!!!

Lol that time when you shower with hot water,then drink hot water join,the kind sweat ehn, especially during heat.

Thanks. I am not fully over it yet though,not after another terrible miscarriage @14weeks. But we move Who are we to question God

ChizziCindy:
BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

Congratulations to you ma.

Please i want to ask, whats the age difference between your two kids? The bs sounded like it was less than the 3yrs. I am thinking of vbac but fear dey catch me

kokaiye:
r dey crazy ni?! If na me dewan do dis 4... Lol, dey r on der own cs frm day 1 i dnt fucking care about inlaws, anytin dey wan do or say mk dem do, me dt i ve dis i dnt care personality n i really dnt knw how to impress pipu.

I raise two ✋ ✋ hands for you

kokaiye:
lol... Some people r just opportunist ... I once helped my aunt wen she gave birth to her first child wen i was lil, she totally turned me to a full housemaid n nanny n maltreated me badly... Omo!!! I suffered, stayed wit her 4 7months b4 i finally ran away b4 she kill me... She hardly do anythin nor attend to her baby... I did literally everything to d extent dt weneva i am goin to sch, it ws headache 4 her cs she wil ve to attend to her baby 4 d hrs i ws absent... One day she beat me mercilessly... Why? Bcs i went to visit my dad... I let her beat me den i went n pack my tinz n bid her gudbye wen my mom saw me wit scares al over my body she was terrified... Nva went bk to her place til date.

What a sad experience thank God it's in the past now

FlowerGirl040:
Very cool then. May God make it easy for everyone.

Amen

miracletoday:
at d end of the day, it is only u that will be thinking of what will they eat o, (chei I hate.),if God wants to catch person let d cheif omugwo be aged woman that usually eat breakfast by 7am, lunch by 1pm, predinner 4pm, before dinner.

Don't even try to carry an aged person, you are the one that will do omugwo for her... Like my mother did omugwo for my grandma

sugarcoatted:


Congratulations to you ma.

Please i want to ask, whats the age difference between your two kids? The bs sounded like it was less than the 3yrs. I am thinking of vbac but fear dey catch me

My first turned two years on the 16th of April... So my Chance for VBAC was pretty ok, and what gave me confidence was because my sister in-law first child was CS and second was VBac and the age difference between the both of them isn't up to two years...It's a year and 7months I think...Just that you won't be induced at all because of fear of uterine rupture...

Comanche:


Haha..It will be fine. Me I want to observe Eid prayers which should fall on May 2nd or 3rd so I’m actually hoping I port to May .

Whatttt , May is praying to port to April while April wants to port to May.. Mama, it's like you are not tired, come let's exchange EDD

ChizziCindy:
BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

Congratulations dear.

kokaiye:
i tell u... Wat i am facing now wit my body is swollen leg, elevated bp n headache due to sleepless night n day... Hubby not helping at all... Imagine!! If i tell him i just wanna go buy smtin down s road dt e shld watch ova d baby, e will tell me to carrybl him along... Bottle fed baby oo, breastmilk r inside fridge dt e can easily tk frm n feed baby wen he cry if i am not around but e chose not to help... Smh!!! E doesn't even look my side wen i complain of bodyache instead e complains of wat i didnt do in d aous.

Awwwww, sorry about that ,it is well with you...
But wait ooo, some weird things do run in my head, as he said you should carry baby along, if you drop baby on his lap and walk out quietly, what will he do?

ChizziCindy:
BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

Congratulations to you ma, may she bring love and light to your home

Omakraid:

Congratulations to you ma, may she bring love and light to your home

Amen,thanks ma.

FlowerGirl040:
Lol that time when you shower with hot water,then drink hot water join,the kind sweat ehn, especially during heat.

Thanks. I am not fully over it yet though,not after another terrible miscarriage @14weeks. But we move Who are we to question God

It is well with you ma, God is a restorer of one's losses and will definitely restore yours...

FlowerGirl040:
Congratulations dear.

Thanks ma

ChizziCindy:
BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

Yeah! Congratulations to you new mama. Thanks for the BS

FlowerGirl040:
Is better to stand your ground, don't tolerate any extra work,else ehn some human being go just frustrate you. Thinking it's an opportunity to come enjoy,and na those type no dey bring shishi as gift give baby . If you give room for entertainment,they will take it for granted sit down and occupy both your space and food no go fall sick after they left or have back pain issues.

Thank God for my MIL,she don't believe that am d strong type,she came around yesterday asked her wat she will eat she was like can I make semo? I said I can na hmmm if I born I go fold my legs Indian style and enjoy pampering ooo.I kukuma get ajebo face and body na only me know say I be ajepako for ijesha in Lagos since small.as for my mum na cooking she go do becos me I haff share dia work for them

FlowerGirl040:
As a FTM that you are,pls try to have someone around if possible.

But there are some people that do amaze me (if the English is correct ) is it tradition in some tribes or what sef. As a new mum, some people will expect you to enter kitchen,cook and serve them when they visit. Instead of them to enter kitchen to help you cook or even help wash some clothes as you never get strength well enough. The thing tire me o.

Dats what my neighbor is passing thru MIL dats supposed to assist carry a 10yr old come omugwo.she cooks can't sleep nor rest all MIL does is back baby up and down till d point the baby can't sleep without being held,d mother told the MIL to always allow baby sleep on bed so wen she goes her baby won't be used to carry carry. I feel for her omo she haff reduced in size

ChizziCindy:
BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

hurray.good news to cheer me up. Congratulations ma. we pray God's blessings be on the baby and your entire household.may u neva lack what will be needed to give her a good life.Amen. thanks for BS

miracletoday:
hurray.good news to cheer me up. Congratulations ma. we pray God's blessings be on the baby and your entire household.may u neva lack what will be needed to give her a good life.Amen. thanks for BS

Uwc Cappo.

mumplenty:
I have p[color=#000000][/color]
BA ...l gave birth to my princess on Wednesday 18/4/18 at 4:29am with vd.every one is doing well.i thank God.#God of complete project.

Happy birthday to my girl
It's exactly 4 years since I announced the birth of my daughter.it seems just like yesterday.
Please join me and celebrate.

mumplenty:


Happy birthday to my girl
It's exactly 4 years since I announced the birth of my daughter.it seems just like yesterday.
Please join me and celebrate.

Happy birthday to her... She'll always be a source of blessing to your family in Jesus name

Omakraid:

Awwwww, sorry about that ,it is well with you...
But wait ooo, some weird things do run in my head, as he said you should carry baby along, if you drop baby on his lap and walk out quietly, what will he do?

Was about to ask same question because these are the kind of things that bring out my own madness. Not nice.

FlowerGirl040:
As a FTM that you are,pls try to have someone around if possible.

But there are some people that do amaze me (if the English is correct ) is it tradition in some tribes or what sef. As a new mum, some people will expect you to enter kitchen,cook and serve them when they visit. Instead of them to enter kitchen to help you cook or even help wash some clothes as you never get strength well enough. The thing tire me o.

Anyone that can't help me should stay far away. I don't think it's tradition, it just depends on the individuals and the kind of family.

kokaiye:
wat u pipu shld realise is dt tommy goin bk to almost its original size is bcs baby sucks ur breast which mkz d uterus contract mking it shrink n not d hot water massage... I stil cnt pinpoint d connectn....wit my first born, my mom tried to massage me wit hot water but ano gree ooo n my belle went bk to its original size bcs my baby suck on my breast very well b4 2weeks i was alrrady flaunting d flat tommy, wen my mom saw dis she understand dt We africans hv bein punjshin ourselves.... But with my second, he refused suckin straight frm my breast, so i tried d hot water n my tommy is still lookin as if i am 3months preggy... Wen my body heal well, wil just head to d gym 4 help.

Do you use any form of band for your Tommy? I hear the one that looks like bandage helps postpartum, whether you press hot water or not.

ChizziCindy:
BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

Congratulations mama, may she always be a source of joy to you and your household.

TOHHAN:
Please who has the number of the woman that sells Jimpo ori on IG?

I sell Jimpo-ori in Lagos state.

ChizziCindy:
BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

Congratulations❤ ❤ ❤
The Lord has done it again