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The man's gameplan is to keep you at his tail, he loves that attention,he wants to feel like he's the price to her in the situation! undecided
That gameplan is NOT for you, i repeat; ITS NOT FOR YOU!!

You are better than that, no man is worth your emotional, psychological and physical stress, just make sure that through out the whole process, you have always put youself first before considering him and you will be fine i promise.

If you go to him for the first time and he's acting all stupid, just turn around and move like nothing even happened.
If he cheats on you and you find out, don't show any form of emotional outburst, just act like its a normal thing and move on!
Many experiences show that men would get psychologically attacked when you act like that, because you made him feel like he was not worth anything much from the start and like you had better options but you just considered him.
Directed to the female in the house.

Lexy2014 they have clowned your account!!!

Candidlady:
Lexy2014 they have clowned cloned your account!!!

Thank you my lady,this is my alternate.

Candidlady:
Lexy2014 they have clowned your account!!!

I can see. Tnx

lexy20I4:
Thank you my lady,this is my alternate.

Your alternate what?

Women don suffer for men hand ooo

lexy2014:
Your alternate what?

Madness don start. No one takes Mental Health Serious.
Wahala oo

Realmi:
Women don suffer for men hand ooo

I dey tell you my bloda.

Unzerious:
Madness don start. No one takes Mental Health Serious.

Wahala oo

Sorry. I don't follow

If OP is a man, then Will Smith must be his junior brother
OP is a damn Simp.

Uchesis:
If OP is a man, then Will Smith must be his junior brother

OP is a damn Simp.

I am a man and I am only airing my opinion.

Uchesis:
If OP is a man, then Will Smith must be his junior brother

OP is a damn Simp.

Will Smith is ur father.

SugarCake:
Will Smith is ur father.

Not possible. I ain't no simp

Unzerious:
Madness don start. No one takes Mental Health Serious.

Wahala oo

lexy20I4:
The man's gameplan is to keep you at his tail, he loves that attention,he wants to feel like he's the price to her in the situation! undecided
That gameplan is NOT for you, i repeat; ITS NOT FOR YOU!!

You are better than that, no man is worth your emotional, psychological and physical stress, just make sure that through out the whole process, you have always put youself first before considering him and you will be fine i promise.

If you go to him for the first time and he's acting all stupid, just turn around and move like nothing even happened.
If he cheats on you and you find out, don't show any form of emotional outburst, just act like its a normal thing and move on!
Many experiences show that men would get psychologically attacked when you act like that, because you made him feel like he was not worth anything much from the start and like you had better options but you just considered him.
Directed to the female in the house.

This is actually very true , I was always the one getting hurt before and then I got used to it , I just started going with the flow
Last ex came to me , cute and everything said he wanted me , he got me and all of a sudden , he didn't pick my calls anymore , didn't call or text , lied about where he was when I was seeing him at a different place , cheated on me a lot but I acted like I was dumb , I was always happy around him , he didn't even know that I knew everything coz I actually did not care and I did not want to address it , I believed at the time he didn't know what he wanted and maybe in a month he'll see that I'm definitely a lady and not a girl and he'll get his act together and if he's still blind adieus

One day he raised his voice at me and it was an absolute turnoff , I know the patterns coz I repeated it twice so I ended the call and I waited to confront him physically but when I saw him , I couldn't help but feel stupid for allowing someone like that to feel comfortable to the point where they think they can talk down on me because I look like a nice little girl who doesn't know what love looks like ( he said he wanted unconditional love from me LOL)
I Sha came back home and blocked his entire existence and it was like that till he found me on FB and started trying to do that rubbish where exes become friends and just keep each other around but I had to tell him off , I blocked you for a reason and I haven't unblocked you yet that's a sign that I don't want anything with you anymore,
If you see the insults he rained on me on top of say I don't want to be your friend " you're heartless , I regret anything I had for you , you're this and that , if you see me don't greet me "
Someone that was seriously fucking around and even asked my friends out , someone that I did not take anything from , someone that couldn't even make time to speak or come and see me

He just packaged himself as fine boy and one innocent girl will think he has sense and I feel like I'm the first girl to break lose so quickly and that's probably why he was so upset because I can bet with the last #500 in my akant that he was trying to use me and he didn't give two shits about me from the get go
He wanted a girl that would kiss his butt and rub his feet and he got the wrong biatch

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
This is actually very true , I was always the one getting hurt before and then I got used to it , I just started going with the flow
Last ex came to me , cute and everything said he wanted me , he got me and all of a sudden , he didn't pick my calls anymore , didn't call or text , lied about where he was when I was seeing him at a different place , cheated on me a lot but I acted like I was dumb , I was always happy around him , he didn't even know that I knew everything coz I actually did not care and I did not want to address it , I believed at the time he didn't know what he wanted and maybe in a month he'll see that I'm definitely a lady and not a girl and he'll get his act together and if he's still blind adieus

One day he raised his voice at me and it was an absolute turnoff , I know the patterns coz I repeated it twice so I ended the call and I waited to confront him physically but when I saw him , I couldn't help but feel stupid for allowing someone like that to feel comfortable to the point where they think they can talk down on me because I look like a nice little girl who doesn't know what love looks like ( he said he wanted unconditional love from me LOL)
I Sha came back home and blocked his entire existence and it was like that till he found me on FB and started trying to do that rubbish where exes become friends and just keep each other around but I had to tell him off , I blocked you for a reason and I haven't unblocked you yet that's a sign that I don't want anything with you anymore,
If you see the insults he rained on me on top of say I don't want to be your friend " you're heartless , I regret anything I had for you , you're this and that , if you see me don't greet me "
Someone that was seriously fucking around and even asked my friends out , someone that I did not take anything from , someone that couldn't even make time to speak or come and see me

He just packaged himself as fine boy and one innocent girl will think he has sense and I feel like I'm the first girl to break lose so quickly and that's probably why he was so upset because I can bet with the last #500 in my akant that he was trying to use me and he didn't give two shits about me from the get go
He wanted a girl that would kiss his butt and rub his feet and he got the wrong biatch

sad but u will get a better someone someday always watch closely and dress decently if you dont

it sad most women are not sharing their experiences here just the male

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
This is actually very true , I was always the one getting hurt before and then I got used to it , I just started going with the flow
Last ex came to me , cute and everything said he wanted me , he got me and all of a sudden , he didn't pick my calls anymore , didn't call or text , lied about where he was when I was seeing him at a different place , cheated on me a lot but I acted like I was dumb , I was always happy around him , he didn't even know that I knew everything coz I actually did not care and I did not want to address it , I believed at the time he didn't know what he wanted and maybe in a month he'll see that I'm definitely a lady and not a girl and he'll get his act together and if he's still blind adieus

One day he raised his voice at me and it was an absolute turnoff , I know the patterns coz I repeated it twice so I ended the call and I waited to confront him physically but when I saw him , I couldn't help but feel stupid for allowing someone like that to feel comfortable to the point where they think they can talk down on me because I look like a nice little girl who doesn't know what love looks like ( he said he wanted unconditional love from me LOL)
I Sha came back home and blocked his entire existence and it was like that till he found me on FB and started trying to do that rubbish where exes become friends and just keep each other around but I had to tell him off , I blocked you for a reason and I haven't unblocked you yet that's a sign that I don't want anything with you anymore,
If you see the insults he rained on me on top of say I don't want to be your friend " you're heartless , I regret anything I had for you , you're this and that , if you see me don't greet me "
Someone that was seriously fucking around and even asked my friends out , someone that I did not take anything from , someone that couldn't even make time to speak or come and see me

He just packaged himself as fine boy and one innocent girl will think he has sense and I feel like I'm the first girl to break lose so quickly and that's probably why he was so upset because I can bet with the last #500 in my akant that he was trying to use me and he didn't give two shits about me from the get go
He wanted a girl that would kiss his butt and rub his feet and he got the wrong biatch

Baby u are worth so much more.
I am so happy for your getting out of that toxic situation.
You are beautiful and you will meet someone who will cherish the goddess you are