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Martinez39s:
You sabi wetin dey sup. It is common for children to use fake cry as a manipulation tactic. They do this even at the tender of two. They usually use fake cry to try to evade punishment or make you ignore what they did wrong when caught in the act. Usually, when they don't get their way, they start crying to get what they want; they make it loud and long. People who don't know that children fake crying a lot are in for a surprise when they start having kids. Most adults contribute to this: they are ignorant of this game and hence reinforce this behaviour by giving in to fake tears. Most adults can't ignore a crying child for too long, especially when the cry is loud. Even those that know that children fake cry a lot grossly underestimate the extent to which children can fake cry.

To deal with a child faking a cry, you must be ready to ignore the cry no matter how loud or how long he/she cries. Don't let it move you; act as if you are not noticing it. Children are quick learners: when they see that their fake cries doesn't do sh!t after three to four tries around you they will sit up. The only problem is when someone (or a group) who falls for their fake cries is around with you in the same room; they would then cry in hopes that the person (or the group) will come to their rescue to give them what you didn't give them or save them from the punishment you are about to give them.

Children are not really angelic and sweet as people like to think. Children as just like adults without life experience/exposure and physical strength. They are just relatively naive and physically weak and this gets misconstrued as an angelic nature and sweetness. Children can sometimes be very mean, very stubborn, hardened at heart, vindictive, manipulative and, being children, very petty. I say this as someone with a good experience with many children. Children usually know much more than you think they know.

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I remember a two-year-old girl that likes calling me her friend. Each time she sees me, she will happily shout "my friend" and start waving. One day, I went with her and her aunty to get something for my mum. On the way, she was playing with her aunty's phone and she asked her aunty to unlock the phone and her aunty said "no". She begged and begged, at well timed intervals, along the way for her aunty to unlock the phone, but her aunty said "no".

On our way back, I and the little girl were far ahead of her aunty because her aunty stopped to buy something before continuing the walk. The little girl looked back and noticed we were far ahead and she looked at me with pity face and said "please, can you help me unlock this phone?" I immediately said "no" and she kept playing with the phone and we kept moving and gisting like nothing happened.
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Finally, children understand power dynamics and leverage situation. They know who are the authority figures. They understand hierarchies. They know who is the boss. They know who they can mess with and who they can't. They know who is strict and who is not. They know who they feel untouchable with and with whom they can display their true colours to others.

If you have dealt with children very well, you know that when certain people they are familiar with (and feel untouchable with) are not around, they behave well around you and readily obey your orders, but when these people (usually their parents, uncles, etc) show up, they start becoming defiant and rude... disobeying and defying you. They start doing the things they dare not do when these people were not around because they believe that they have protection in these people's presence and you can't beat or caution them in the presence of these people.

I can write more, but time and energy.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Even if Johnny is involved or addicted to drugs and all those sh*t, he's not as bad as you are painting him to be, he might have his worst side but in this case he's damn innocent, even his ex wife testified that he's a cool guy and have never hit her before, I read that somewhere.

that should actually show you who the devil his between him and the nagging b*tch Amber, and I think those movie studios judged too soon without any valid proof, why sack someone from a project he has been for years? that's a very bad judgement and I wish Johnny can sue them all.


And lastly I've been a fan of pirates of the Caribbean since it first release, and I don't think I will ever watch the movie since Johnny isn't in it, and I'm definitely sure that those that are Johnny's fans would gladly do the same thing.

heartofcity12:
Thank God a lady schooled the simp.

Herculex03:
They should not release a pirate of the Caribbean movie without Johnny Depp it's a crime

heartofcity12:
Thank God a lady schooled the simp.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Only a foolish man will chase a woman for 2 years when there are millions of women out there, that man deserves to beaten to pulp.

heartofcity12:
Work husband is the guy she’s cheating on you with at work.

how can I be a work husband?

SOZINN:
Dear comrades please forgive me for I have sinned. I got into a fight with a feminist. She tried to justify amber heards actions against johnny depp and I lost it.
I seek your forgiveness.

SOZINN:
Dear comrades please forgive me for I have sinned. I got into a fight with a feminist. She tried to justify amber heards actions against johnny depp and I lost it.
I seek your forgiveness.

PstDapo:
Hmmmmm

Calibrator:
No gender has the monopoly of double standards.

Ever since these people upped their pressure on me to get married, I have been posting thousands of reasons why I wouldn't anytime soon.

I am learning how to beat this people at their games.

I am getting ready for another round of vawulence in my inbox this evening.

Funny enough, 50% of the replies are usually done whenever they see me offline, 30% will do WhatsApp call screaming their heads off, 15% will reply with a lengthy voicenote and the remaining 5% have given up on me as a lost case.

Hotspotbro:
how can I be a work husband?

MisterRuk:
The masculine is action. The feminine is reaction.
Why am I saying this?
I've observed that some of the bad habits of women(reaction) were influenced by the weakness of some men (action). There won't be hoes on the streets if there weren't men patronizing them. Girls won't be flocking to sugar daddies if there weren't men unfaithful in their marriages. OnlyFans and Pornhub thots won't be raking so much money than tech startups if there weren't men pouring their time and money into them. Your girlfriend won't have a Love Machine in her handbag if you weren't masturbating to porn (she might still though). Single mom parenting that we criticise won't exist if we as men took responsibility and be careful with our choices. Women won't be manipulating men with their bodies when there are lots of men who value character and personality over "breast and yansh".
I'm not trying to justify the sexual amoral attitudes of women nowadays but I'm saying that as men we have to check ourselves first. Sometimes we say "women did this", " women are that " but what about us? Hating women or acting blackpilled would not solving anything especially if you're financially and morally infertile.
Men are meant to create order in the society but today a lot of we guys are morally, physically, spiritually, and financially weak. A lot of 4th wave feminists and gender crazies use some of these weaknesses to justify their actions. Rather than complaining about women we should learn to take responsibilities for our own actions too and carry our cross lest we feed the all consuming power of chaos.
We have to become superior men, uphold strong values and stand for the truth (our own truth especially). If you're a frequent patron to porn don't cry if you see your girlfriend featuring in one.
There would be a lot of hoes in the name of "female empowerment" and destroying destinies at the end but you will choose to be the better man and chose to follow straight road.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
REDPILL NOT OVER NIGHT CHANGE


CHANGING BLUEPILL TO REDPILL IS NEVER GON BE
OVERNIGHT


TRULY YOU WANT TO BE RIGID AND TOUGH
IT'S UNDERSTANDABLE

MAKING MISTAKES IS PART OF D GAME

YOU HAVE TO KEEP MAKING MISTAKES AND MAKING MISTAKES, WHY?

COS IT'S YOUR LEARNING CURVE AS A MAN THAT MAKES YOU UNDERSTAND THAT MAKING MISTAKES
ONLY MAKES YOU AWARE OF YOUR MISTAKES AND NOT CORRECTING THE MISTAKES COS YOU ARE AWARE OF THE MISTAKES DOES NOT MAKE YOU CORRECT THEM
DEPENDS ON YOU IF YOU WANTS TO MAKE AN AMMENDMENTS TO YOUR MISTAKES

IF YOU DONT SEE IT AS A MISTAKE YOU WILL KEEP MAKING THOSE MISTAKES COS TO YOU THEY DONT REALLY LOOK LIKE A MISTAKE
YOU WOULD NOT BE GUIDED WHEN YOU DONT MAKE MISTAKES

WOMEN WILL THROW YOU OFF BALANCE
IF YOU DONT ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKES AND MAKE MORE MISTAKES IN ORDER TO AVOID MISTAKES WHEN IT COMES TO REDPILL MISTAKES

MISTAKES ONLY MAKES YOU VEXED, ANGERED, BITTER WITH A BETTER PROMISE TO YOUR SELF THAT YOU WILL GROW COS MISTAKES ONLY MAKES YOU REALISE THAT YOUR EXCUSE FOR MAKING MISTAKE WAS NOT VALID, COS MISTAKE BE LIKE "YOU GOT THE KNOWLEDGE" WHAT'S THROWING YOU OFF BALANCE?

MISTAKES MAKE YOU STRONG
IT TEACHES YOU THAT YOU SHOULD LEARN TO SAY "CAPITAL NO" AS AN ANSWER IN TERMS OF MANIPULATIONS


AND ONCE YOU START GETTING ANGER FOR YOUR SLACKNESS, YOU TENDS TO MAKE AMMENDMENTS WHICH DOES NOT AMMENDS OVERNIGHT

BEEN A BLUEPILL WASN'T AN OVERNIGHT JOURNEY HOPE Y'ALL AWARE RIGHT FROM AGE ZERO, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 TILL DATE?

IT'S ONLY YOUR DETERMINATION, DRIVE, MENTAL TOTURE FOR SLACKNESS THAT GETS YOU THERE

BLUE PILL IS A KNOWLEDGE
REDPILL IS A FORBIDDEN KNOWLEDGE


WICKEDNESS IS A SIGN OF STRENGTH
KINDNESS IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS

HATRED IS A SIGN OF STRENGTH
LOVE IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS

LEARN TO LOVE AND SHE WILL NOTICE YOUR SOFT SIDE
HER HARD SIDE WILL BE NOTICED BY YOU

BUT YOU WOULD NOT UNDERSTAND COS YOU ARE CONCLUDING WITH A BLUEPILL LENSES SAYING "SHE'S A WOMAN"

WOMEN HOLD POWER MOSTLY IN RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES

MEN HOLD LOVE MOSTLY IN RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES

WHY YOU AS A MAN CANT HOLD THE POWER?

WHAT CAN SHE AS A WOMAN MAKE USE OF THE POWER IN HER HANDS IF NOT FOR WICKEDNESS SUCH AS MANIPULATIONS TO HER ADVANTAGE AND SHE STILL NEVER GAVE A FVCCKK CLOWING YOU FOR YOUR DEFENSELESSNESS

AND WHEN I PREACH WICKEDNESS NIGGAS ON THIS THREAD WILL CLOWN ME


TRY BEEN KIND TO YOUR EMOTION AND YOU WOULD UNDERSTAND YOUR ENEMY

NICENESS IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS UNDER NATURE'S AGENDA THROUGH SURVIVAL

STRENGTH IS THE ROUND TABLE
WHERE YOUR SIT AT?

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
REDPILL NOT OVER NIGHT CHANGE


CHANGING BLUEPILL TO REDPILL IS NEVER GON BE
OVERNIGHT


TRULY YOU WANT TO BE RIGID AND TOUGH
IT'S UNDERSTANDABLE

MAKING MISTAKES IS PART OF D GAME

YOU HAVE TO KEEP MAKING MISTAKES AND MAKING MISTAKES, WHY?

COS IT'S YOUR LEARNING CURVE AS A MAN THAT MAKES YOU UNDERSTAND THAT MAKING MISTAKES
ONLY MAKES YOU AWARE OF YOUR MISTAKES AND NOT CORRECTING THE MISTAKES COS YOU ARE AWARE OF THE MISTAKES DOES NOT MAKE YOU CORRECT THEM
DEPENDS ON YOU IF YOU WANTS TO MAKE AN AMMENDMENTS TO YOUR MISTAKES

IF YOU DONT SEE IT AS A MISTAKE YOU WILL KEEP MAKING THOSE MISTAKES COS TO YOU THEY DONT REALLY LOOK LIKE A MISTAKE
YOU WOULD NOT BE GUIDED WHEN YOU DONT MAKE MISTAKES

WOMEN WILL THROW YOU OFF BALANCE
IF YOU DONT ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKES AND MAKE MORE MISTAKES IN ORDER TO AVOID MISTAKES WHEN IT COMES TO REDPILL MISTAKES

MISTAKES ONLY MAKES YOU VEXED, ANGERED, BITTER WITH A BETTER PROMISE TO YOUR SELF THAT YOU WILL GROW COS MISTAKES ONLY MAKES YOU REALISE THAT YOUR EXCUSE FOR MAKING MISTAKE WAS NOT VALID, COS MISTAKE BE LIKE "YOU GOT THE KNOWLEDGE" WHAT'S THROWING YOU OFF BALANCE?

MISTAKES MAKE YOU STRONG
IT TEACHES YOU THAT YOU SHOULD LEARN TO SAY "CAPITAL NO" AS AN ANSWER IN TERMS OF MANIPULATIONS


AND ONCE YOU START GETTING ANGER FOR YOUR SLACKNESS, YOU TENDS TO MAKE AMMENDMENTS WHICH DOES NOT AMMENDS OVERNIGHT

BEEN A BLUEPILL WASN'T AN OVERNIGHT JOURNEY HOPE Y'ALL AWARE RIGHT FROM AGE ZERO, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 TILL DATE?

IT'S ONLY YOUR DETERMINATION, DRIVE, MENTAL TOTURE FOR SLACKNESS THAT GETS YOU THERE

BLUE PILL IS A KNOWLEDGE
REDPILL IS A FORBIDDEN KNOWLEDGE


WICKEDNESS IS A SIGN OF STRENGTH
KINDNESS IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS

HATRED IS A SIGN OF STRENGTH
LOVE IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS

LEARN TO LOVE AND SHE WILL NOTICE YOUR SOFT SIDE
HER HARD SIDE WILL BE NOTICED BY YOU

BUT YOU WOULD NOT UNDERSTAND COS YOU ARE CONCLUDING WITH A BLUEPILL LENSES SAYING "SHE'S A WOMAN"

WOMEN HOLD POWER MOSTLY IN RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES

MEN HOLD LOVE MOSTLY IN RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES

WHY YOU AS A MAN CANT HOLD THE POWER?

WHAT CAN SHE AS A WOMAN MAKE USE OF THE POWER IN HER HANDS IF NOT FOR WICKEDNESS SUCH AS MANIPULATIONS TO HER ADVANTAGE AND SHE STILL NEVER GAVE A FVCCKK CLOWING YOU FOR YOUR DEFENSELESSNESS

AND WHEN I PREACH WICKEDNESS NIGGAS ON THIS THREAD WILL CLOWN ME


TRY BEEN KIND TO YOUR EMOTION AND YOU WOULD UNDERSTAND YOUR ENEMY

NICENESS IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS UNDER NATURE'S AGENDA THROUGH SURVIVAL

STRENGTH IS THE ROUND TABLE
WHERE YOUR SIT AT?

MisterRuk:
Negativity feeds upon a previous negativity to grow
Hatred feeds on hatred
Mediocrity feeds on mediocrity
Like fire, evil needs evil to justify itself to grow
It's a cyclical thing
Modern day feminism won't be this strong today if there weren't men falling hands, raping women, cheating on their wives or girlfriends, domestically abusing their wives, inability to control themselves in public when they see a woman, and not chasing after greater causes but embracing mediocrity.
After the saga of the gospel singer who was battered to death by her husband many "empowered women" have now come out online to condemn marriages and encourage women to stop being submissive to their husbands.
It's the same with the redpill, if there weren't manipulative and wicked women
who suck men's money and emotion, or even 4th wave feminists out there this thread might not have existed.
So to your question:
As long as you're an adult, male or female, take responsibility for your actions first. From your waking up to your going to bed. Be watchful of your actions and reactions especially in times of pain and negativity. If women are putting up a lot of nasty behaviors around, make we no follow do our own in retaliation, think first, mind your actions. You might end up turning an innocent woman nearby into a bad person, or worse, give a already bad woman the opportunity and excuse to wreck society.

CAPSLOCKED:
SOMETIME AGO, A MAN AT THE BAR WAS DISCUSSING WITH HIS FRIENDS. HE SAID 1 DRUNK ILLITERATE MAN IS BOUND TO MAKE WISER DECISIONS COMPARED TO 10 SOBER WOMEN WITH DOCTORATE DEGREES. AS ANYBODY THAT KNOWS ME PERSONALLY WILL EXPECT, I CHIPPED IN AND ARGUED AGAINST ALL MEN THERE AND EVENTUALLY LEFT IN ANNOYANCE. NOWADAYS I LOOK AT SOMETHINGS AND REGRET THE POSITION I HELD THAT DAY.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 115, REDPILL 2022

Guys, don't wait to hit it big; use the little you have to beautify yourself a little. And gradually, you'll become as beautiful as desired.

You are not there yet, but at least you are moving.

Authority: Take good care of yourself.

MisterRuk:
I've observed that some of the bad habits of women(reaction) were influenced by the weakness of some men (action). There won't be hoes on the streets if there weren't men patronizing them.
I'm not trying to justify the sexual amoral attitudes of women nowadays but I'm saying that as men we have to check ourselves first.

Skepticus:
Zabiboy, one also has to be careful as a lot of countries around the world, including Nigeria has serious penal laws for having sexually-explicit photos or videos of minors in possession (in whatever form) whether you are aware or ignorant of it. It is regarded as aiding and abetting in the crime of CHILD PORNOGRAPHY. Just watch and delete.
Let's see how the case pans out!