These days,the way I'm craving for a girlfriend is alarming.Every girl is literally attractive to me.Something that doesn't happen before.
I'm 19 years old and about to be 20 in may.I've never dated before.

I read similar stories here and everyone says "Go and read your books and forget women","Go and focus on making money and leave women".Well, I'm a student in a polytechnic, above average in grades.I am dead broke and still dependent.I am not idle as I am learning a trade.
But this feeling of craving for love is so strong.
When I was going through puberty,it was mostly sexual urges and infatuations.I was done with puberty at 16 and this feeling is very different from infatuation.

I am a very handsome dude,atleast both male and female compliment me so.I get a lot of greenlights but inexperience and shyness make me ignore.

What do you suggest I do?

Control yourself before you rape a kid, that's what they called lust

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Albertone:
These days,the way I'm craving for a girlfriend is alarming.Every girl is literally attractive to me.Something that doesn't happen before.[/s]
i'm 19 years old and about to be 20 in may.I've never dated before.

[s]I read similar stories here and everyone says "Go and read your books and forget women","Go and focus on making money and leave women".[/s] Well, I'm a student in a polytechnic, above average in grades.I am dead broke and still dependent.I am not idle as I am learning a trade.

[s]But this feeling of craving for love is so strong.
When I was going through puberty,it was mostly sexual urges and infatuations.I was done with puberty at 16 and this feeling is very different from infatuation.

I am a very handsome dude,atleast both male and female compliment me so.I get a lot of greenlights but inexperience and shyness make me ignore.

What do you suggest I do?

[/s]

HMMMMM

SO I EVEN BETTER PASS THIS YEYE... F... O... W... L... WHER DY TROLL ME BECAUSE OF NAIRANYLON..

Albertone:
These days,the way I'm craving for a girlfriend is alarming.Every girl is literally attractive to me.Something that doesn't happen before.
I'm 19 years old and about to be 20 in may.I've never dated before.

I read similar stories here and everyone says "Go and read your books and forget women","Go and focus on making money and leave women".Well, I'm a student in a polytechnic, above average in grades.I am dead broke and still dependent.I am not idle as I am learning a trade.
But this feeling of craving for love is so strong.
When I was going through puberty,it was mostly sexual urges and infatuations.I was done with puberty at 16 and this feeling is very different from infatuation.

I am a very handsome dude,atleast both male and female compliment me so.I get a lot of greenlights but inexperience and shyness make me ignore.

What do you suggest I do?

How cute... I'm 19... I can relate... I also hate how adults think our feelings aren't valid... Or the best thing to do is ignore them...

But I'll be honest with you... Love ain't all that... Unless you find the 'one'... Which is nearly impossible... After a lot of rejections and heartbreaks... You would realise how disappointing people truly are... And even if you do find the right person for you, can you keep her? Handle the drama? The pressure? All the bullsh*t love comes with but no one ever talks about? The awkward moments? Those depressing nights she wants to be alone? Your own uncertainty and doubt? I can go on...

Love isn't a fairytale.. It's not 'get her, game over'...

It's tedious... emotionally draining... And everything love isn't...

Qatar2022:
Control yourself before you rape a kid, that's what they called lust

What makes you think it's lust?

For christsake... He's just a man who wants to be with someone who genuinely loves him...

Guess what? Everyone wants to love and be loved...

Datboredberri:


How cute... I'm 19... I can relate... I also hate how adults think our feelings aren't valid... Or the best thing to do is ignore them...

But I'll be honest with you... Love ain't all that... Unless you find the 'one'... Which is nearly impossible... After a lot of rejections and heartbreaks... You would realise how disappointing people truly are... And even if you do find the right person for you, can you keep her? Handle the drama? The pressure? All the bullsh*t love comes with but no one ever talks about? The awkward moments? Those depressing nights she wants to be alone? Your own uncertainty and doubt? I can go on...

Love isn't a fairytale.. It's not 'get her, game over'...

It's tedious... emotionally draining... And everything love isn't...

OP, listen to your age mate.

very mature response.

Qatar2022:
Control yourself before you rape a kid, that's what they called lust

Where did I mention that I'm currently having a sexual desire?

Datboredberri:


How cute... I'm 19... I can relate... I also hate how adults think our feelings aren't valid... Or the best thing to do is ignore them...

But I'll be honest with you... Love ain't all that... Unless you find the 'one'... Which is nearly impossible... After a lot of rejections and heartbreaks... You would realise how disappointing people truly are... And even if you do find the right person for you, can you keep her? Handle the drama? The pressure? All the bullsh*t love comes with but no one ever talks about? The awkward moments? Those depressing nights she wants to be alone? Your own uncertainty and doubt? I can go on...

Love isn't a fairytale.. It's not 'get her, game over'...

It's tedious... emotionally draining... And everything love isn't...

Yeah I get.

But we will one day fall in love right?

Datboredberri:


How cute... I'm 19... I can relate... I also hate how adults think our feelings aren't valid... Or the best thing to do is ignore them...

But I'll be honest with you... Love ain't all that... Unless you find the 'one'... Which is nearly impossible... After a lot of rejections and heartbreaks... You would realise how disappointing people truly are... And even if you do find the right person for you, can you keep her? Handle the drama? The pressure? All the bullsh*t love comes with but no one ever talks about? The awkward moments? Those depressing nights she wants to be alone? Your own uncertainty and doubt? I can go on...

Love isn't a fairytale.. It's not 'get her, game over'...

It's tedious... emotionally draining... And everything love isn't...

Are you really 19? I couldn't agree less.

Love is extremely demanding. When you're ready, there's no easy way. One just has to manage thier expectations to avoid to getting burned and eventually becoming an anti-love campaigner. Unfortunately, it usually takes a few failures to set the expectations right. But then again, the downtimes serve to create memories that, over time, strengthen the love.

WoundedLamb:


Are you really 19? I couldn't agree less.

Love is extremely demanding. When you're ready, there's no easy way. One just has to manage thier expectations to avoid to getting burned and eventually becoming an anti-love campaigner. Unfortunately, it usually takes a few failures to set the expectations right. But then again, the downtimes serve to create memories that, over time, strengthen the love.

Yeah... I am...

I agree completely... It's hard to manage one's expectations... That's usually the problem... We expect our partners to be perfect, especially if we've been disappointed before...

I do believe in love... I'll always be a helpless romantic... I'm still learning what it means... And not from the disney dictionary...

I read an essay recently... That love is more hate than love and I can totally relate...

Anger, jealousy, doubt, insecurity, etc... These are some of what the most in love couples deal with but hide from the rest of us cause it's not 'love'... So were left with a blurry edit of what love is...

It's not really fun... Anything but it...

Datboredberri:


How cute... I'm 19... I can relate... I also hate how adults think our feelings aren't valid... Or the best thing to do is ignore them...

But I'll be honest with you... Love ain't all that... Unless you find the 'one'... Which is nearly impossible... After a lot of rejections and heartbreaks... You would realise how disappointing people truly are... And even if you do find the right person for you, can you keep her? Handle the drama? The pressure? All the bullsh*t love comes with but no one ever talks about? The awkward moments? Those depressing nights she wants to be alone? Your own uncertainty and doubt? I can go on...

Love isn't a fairytale.. It's not 'get her, game over'...

It's tedious... emotionally draining... And everything love isn't...

hmmm...

Albertone:


Yeah I get.

But we will one day fall in love right?

We surely will... But just know what it is beforehand... It's not always great... And you would feel pretty sh*tty more often than not... Because you're young and you would want more out of someone who can't offer everything you want/need...

There would be sad days... Really sad days... You would get mad... Use words you regret... Wonder if you even love her... Want other girls... Need a change...

You're still discovering yourself... If you can deal with the bad side of love, then go for it... But if you can't, focus on yourself...

The pain might cripple you... You would get up and eventually move on... But your grades could suffer and all that...

Descottes:
hmmm...

Yes?

Op, nothing is wrong with you. @ur age, you have raging hormones and having not dated b4, you have more urge for Sex/girls. Will advice you to improve ur finances, get a GF willing to fvck and be a man properly!

Datboredberri:
What makes you think it's lust?

For christsake... He's just a man who wants to be with someone who genuinely loves him...

Guess what? Everyone wants to love and be loved...

Brother read what he wrote again, any woman he see he will have urged to sex her, that's lust

Qatar2022:

Brother read what he wrote again, any woman he see he will have urged to sex her, that's lust

You mean this?

Every girl is literally attractive to me.

You do realise that physical attraction is as important in a relationship as an emotional connection...

This is a teenager who's never dated before... It's not exactly lust... It's wanting the company of a woman...

Datboredberri:


How cute... I'm 19... I can relate... I also hate how adults think our feelings aren't valid... Or the best thing to do is ignore them...

But I'll be honest with you... Love ain't all that... Unless you find the 'one'... Which is nearly impossible... After a lot of rejections and heartbreaks... You would realise how disappointing people truly are... And even if you do find the right person for you, can you keep her? Handle the drama? The pressure? All the bullsh*t love comes with but no one ever talks about? The awkward moments? Those depressing nights she wants to be alone? Your own uncertainty and doubt? I can go on...

Love isn't a fairytale.. It's not 'get her, game over'...

It's tedious... emotionally draining... And everything love isn't...

This man..... Stop masquerading as a lady

Datboredberri:
Yes?

your brain is very beautiful

Datboredberri:



You mean this?



You do realise that physical attraction is as important in a relationship as an emotional connection...

This is a teenager who's never dated before... It's not exactly lust... It's wanting the company of a woman...

Any man that find every lady he see on the road attractive is lusting after their body, you're just sugar coating it

Descottes:
your brain is very beautiful

Thank you... I just nearly lost someone cause I thought I didn't love him... I was impatient too... Wanted something new...

Albertone:
These days,the way I'm craving for a girlfriend is alarming.Every girl is literally attractive to me.Something that doesn't happen before.
I'm 19 years old and about to be 20 in may.I've never dated before.

I read similar stories here and everyone says "Go and read your books and forget women","Go and focus on making money and leave women".Well, I'm a student in a polytechnic, above average in grades.I am dead broke and still dependent.I am not idle as I am learning a trade.
But this feeling of craving for love is so strong.
When I was going through puberty,it was mostly sexual urges and infatuations.I was done with puberty at 16 and this feeling is very different from infatuation.

I am a very handsome dude,atleast both male and female compliment me so.I get a lot of greenlights but inexperience and shyness make me ignore.

What do you suggest I do?

So, na gf and sex be ur problem? At this ur age.

Datboredberri:
Thank you... I just nearly lost someone cause I thought I didn't love him...

you mean senom.. ? Or the Latino guy?

Datboredberri:
was impatient too... Wanted something new...

Yeah you're adventurous, i always knew about that

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Descottes:
you mean senom.. ? Or the Latino guy?


Yeah you're adventurous, i always knew about that

The Latino guy... Senomi and I are friends nothing more... He's even my 'female' friend... The asshole...

I regret it... I mean, I was bored... But I shouldn't have thought of double dating... It's karma... She just bitc*ed-slapped me...

Who cheats on a guy who sends pictures of his breakfast? Climbs a roof to show you his city? Translates your messages and audios cause you can't speak his language? Makes an effort every fu*king minute to please you...

At this point, it we don't get back together... I'm attending the next Shiloh to seek divine intervention or becoming gay...

Jeon:
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HMMMMM

SO I EVEN BETTER PASS THIS YEYE... F... O... W... L... WHER DY TROLL ME BECAUSE OF NAIRANYLON..

But I don't know you.

Datboredberri:
We surely will... But just know what it is beforehand... It's not always great... And you would feel pretty sh*tty more often than not... Because you're young and you would want more out of someone who can't offer everything you want/need...

There would be sad days... Really sad days... You would get mad... Use words you regret... Wonder if you even love her... Want other girls... Need a change...

You're still discovering yourself... If you can deal with the bad side of love, then go for it... But if you can't, focus on yourself...

The pain might cripple you... You would get up and eventually move on... But your grades could suffer and all that...

Thanks a lot.

Vinnie2000:
Op, nothing is wrong with you. @ur age, you have raging hormones and having not dated b4, you have more urge for Sex/girls. Will advice you to improve ur finances, get a GF willing to fvck and be a man properly!

Thank you.

Truvelisback:
So, na gf and sex be ur problem? At this ur age.

I never told you sex was my problem.

Now tell me at what age gf should be my problem.

Datboredberri:
The Latino guy... Senomi and I are friends nothing more... He's even my 'female' friend... The asshole...

Oh wow. This comes off as a surprise to me cuz you literally created a thread on here singing about how you've found love on nairaland.. what happened to the love?

Datboredberri:


I regret it... I mean, I was bored... But I shouldn't have thought of double dating... It's karma... She just bitc*ed-slapped me...

Lol. Double dating is never easy, been there, done that... It's not that fun, tedious (imagine having 2 attention-loving girlfriends lol), and takes away your peace.

Datboredberri:

Who cheats on a guy who sends pictures of his breakfast? Climbs a roof to show you his city? Translates your messages and audios cause you can't speak his language? Makes an effort every fu*king minute to please you... .

incredible. The dude really adores you. I mean who wouldn't? You are sweet and totally lovable. Lol

Datboredberri:


At this point, it we don't get back together... I'm attending the next Shiloh to seek divine intervention or becoming gay...

so hilarious.

You're sexually fluid so yeah, I believe you could be gay at some point.. I mean you're still a youngie, there's a whole load of 'adventurous' life ahead of you.

Albertone:
I am a very handsome dude,atleast both male and female compliment me so.I get a lot of greenlights but inexperience and shyness make me ignore.

What do you suggest I do?

Work on your relationship with your family members. Start stepping out of yourself for others. Get a hobby if you find you have so much extra time on your hands.

You are still young and have so many others to busy your mind with than women.

Kobojunkie:
Work on your relationship with your family members. Start stepping out of yourself for others. Get a hobby if you find you have so much extra time on your hands.

You are still young and have so many others to busy your mind with than women.

So how old should I be to start thinking of women?

If I'm too young now, then why am I having the feelings?