₦airaland Forum

Toks2008:
It is in their Gene to share bro. You see many of these married ladies threatening when they hear the word Polygamy, were side chics to married men before they got married and many have indulged in 3some hook ups.

Sharing is in their gene

Toks2008:
I totally agree that my mother is one of the wisest women of old who have imbibed the right culture and who understands the role of a woman in this world.

But i put it to you that you are a product of failed parenting and i pity that man that will mistakenly marry a Kolossal waste of extreme @bysmal natured lady like you.

I refuse to tow the same path with you else i would have concluded that you are a mirror image of your ill-mannered mother else you won't reference my mum the way you did.

Now run off and stop quoting me. Arindin omo Ale

Farfalla:
Conclusion:
1. Marriage to first wife - logical decision/no love
2. Marriage to second wife - emotional decision/love

So men can actually make decisions out of love? I thought they were the almighty logical ones? So emotions can actually play a role in their decision-making?

Interesting!

Christistruth00:
Na lie

There is a difference between looking for a Husband and looking for a rich or well to do man

Too many Nigerian women are Chasing the man with the big Jeep

folake4u:
Farfalla, your comments always crack me up.
It's the sarcasm for me.

Toks2008:
Davido sef better.

She might even dump you to marry Ned Nwoko.

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Yul has never loved his first wife. He got her pregnant and ran away. It was his father that went and married her for him and he had no choice then because his Dad threatened to disown him if he doesn't do what he said.

Most times when he comes to social media to talk nonsense,I usually laugh out loud because we all grew together at hill view and pioneer Street in ind/ layout Enugu and we all know what happened.

He has always been in the marriage because of his kids and I'm not surprised this happened.

pocohantas:
First wife dey keep in shape, Husband go marry orobo.

Angelfrost:
Sigh... This one strong Gaan!!!

The depth of a scorned woman's pain wrapped up in those words!

However, a child is innocent of such drama! This should never have been posted in such a place and at that time! Makes no sense!

I keep saying this, we have traditions for a reason! Why not report or involve both your families, and find a solution, instead of this social media attack!

Social media is no place for such personal issues! She should know better!

franchasofficia:
Hahahahaha, so true

AyomideOG01:
[s]All the curses you people have bn heaping on buhari till date his family is living just fine. Infact some of you that wished him death are already carcass. Curse has no such effects so you bitter women should keep ur time productive. God haven't judged you for all the fornication and abortions you do almost yearly yet a man that married a new wife is whom God will punish. Mad people, this is Africa and our culture permits polygamy. If Yul's wife doesn't want to remain in the marraige let her pack and go. See all the women condemning Yul, 90% percent of the married ones are paternity fraudsters yet they have an opinion. This is simply the best way to reward all rebellious women out there. Congratulations Yul, they can never tame a lion with their manipulations and victims card. Na man you be.

Modified : All the deputy Jesus mentioning my handle and crying please go find yourselves a mop stick. I have no Bleep, apology nor consolation to offer you pipo. Go to sudan and help wet their lands with ur tears, I heard it's bn a very long time it rained over there.[/s]

Sapeleomi:
... I see your point.. However, Issues of the heart that evolves emotion is difficult to judge. This may sound as an excuse but a man having an affair with another woman or seeking a second wife may be for several reasons, some of which are complex.
Especially when he feels the first wife with children has done nothing wrong and respect her...
I think women should endeavour to understand men who choose that lifestyle and refuse to divorce their wife but respectfully leave the option to her to decide whether to stay or leave the union..
It is a complex and painful process and sometimes people grow out of each other and seek different stimulation..
The bottom line is that as a couple put your religious, modern expectation, view that relationship is monogamous aside. seriously and constantly assess your connection, emotional, spiritual, sexuality and most importantly your level of attention and affirmation..
I think many Christians think religious beliefs guarantee loyalty and monogamous discipline. Connection and self discipline by choice is the yardstick that keeps people discipline.. Mind you, women have affairs too...particularly married women who have completed having kids. What do you with kind of betrayal!! Life goes on and focus on a better outcome.
Men are not holy!! But they should be encouraged to look after the children, even when the first wife or who ever feels victim of the breach of trust....

koyyess:
Coming from the a$$ of an Ap£.

Toks2008:
Some of us nairalanders in our 40s can't think and reason like many toddlers pouring their emotions on a matter they have no clue of.

Even many unmarried ladies wailing here are side girlfriends of their men and not the main one

Pakute:

Men, go for it if you can afford it. We are Africans.

laudate:
So it is now the woman's fault for expressing her pain....but not the man's fault for hurting and disgracing her? You people should use your head sometimes.

You cannot cause a person pain, and dictate how he or she should process such a pain or react.

May God judge that Yul Edochie, a million times over.

HelipsTech:
The feeling of betrayer is horrible

koyyess:
My father Came from the a$$ of an Ap£.

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Yul has never loved his first wife. He got her pregnant and ran away. It was his father that went and married her for him and he had no choice then because his Dad threatened to disown him if he doesn't do what he said.

Most times when he comes to social media to talk nonsense,I usually laugh out loud because we all grew together at hill view and pioneer Street in ind/ layout Enugu and we all know what happened.

He has always been in the marriage because of his kids and I'm not surprised this happened.

AyomideOG01:
You mean my afonja father and ancestors right?

Toks2008:
Wait o!

If Yul dies shey she no go move on?

I honestly dont understand the way people are buying into her emotional blackmail.

If she says Yul does not play his role as a father to the kids then we have a case and im sure Yul no still mind playing his conjugal role. Afterall many celebrities with different baby mamas still visit the mothers of their kids.

Nah wah

koyyess:
F00l.

They will come for your wife. All will have a share from her cause they are Africans.

franchasofficia:
plenty people are eating on this table you are shaking oh

Nezzjnr:
This our double standard is nauseating.

We all bashed Mercy Aigbe for snatching a married man... But now in the case of Yul... He's entitled to more than 1 wife and it's not against the law.

Cmon you guys can do better.

I just hope he has enough strength to handle both wives because trust me... It won't be funny.

Go and ask children that came out from a polygamous family.

I wish him well

maasoap:
Why would they come for her wife? Single ladies looking for husbands don finish?

AyomideOG01:
Congratulations to me, I was born from an afonja wh0r£

franchasofficia:
Not true. Forget what you read online, many well trained ladies are looking for just a good man that can provide for them yet such men are in scarce quantity due to so many factors I mentioned earlier which include:


so many men are in jail due to crime more than women

so many men get killed as terrorists, bandits, armed robbers, ritualists, fraudsters, drug traffickers, human traffickers, cultists, agberos, street gangsters, hired assassins, etc.


Another set of men get killed in family or communal land disputes leaving the women.


another set get killed in political thuggery more than women.


another set of men die while trying to migrate abroad through dangerous routes just to make ends meet leaving the women.


another set of men get killed as soldiers, Police, Navies, vigillantes, etc, fighting criminals, terrorists, bandits, cultists and society outlaws.



with all these, number of eligible bachelors are reduced thereby leaving so many women vulnerable and making few eligible bachelors highly sought after.



only polygamy can close these gaps if you study this critically without being sentimental about it

AyomideOG01:
You got it all wrong darling. No woman can break my heart okay. If you want me to get heart broken then stop my source of income and not because a cheap pussy I can afford from my back pocket...lol