Grandmeister:


I will leave you all with this. Nigerians always want to eat their cakes and still have it.

But this one married a broke man na. Address this one first.

Mstick:
Yul Edochie impregnated his co-star,she gave birth in June last year and he denied it.married her on Sunday and his wife of 17 years found out on Monday and they're people supporting him. As a woman married to a Nigerian man please always have a backup plan. E get why.

Your backup plan should be to make money

olabrinks:
but truly in this case, the second wife is not beautiful at all. Big body and big face.

Yeah, kind of. But I won't say she is not beautiful.

pocohantas:


But this one married a broke man na. Address this one first.

How can I fully address a family matter that I only have the social media side of the story?? Only a naive person will believe the wife didn’t know until few days back! Like really? Lol. And if I should address it from the social media side of the story
1. Yul should have( and I believe he did) inform his wife of his intentions to marry a a second wife.
2. He should not have gotten another woman pregnant but shit has happened.
3. As the deed has been done he should placate his first wife anyhow he can.
4. If the first wife isn’t ok with sharing with another woman (who has been legally married ) then she can ask for separation or divorce.
5. Yul did the honorable thing by accepting the child and the mother as second wife.
6. It is more honorable than the many male celebrities with multiple baby mamas (and still nobody has called for their heads!)
7. He is well within his right, legally, traditionally and even religiously to marry a second wife.

Is it this man needed more children or he just couldn't had sex with a protective product that is ready available in retail stores?
I really would like to know his reason.

tightpussy156:
[s]Some women are good to trap men with pregnancy.The woman in question as given birth to two diffrent kids from diffrent men.yul edochie is the third.diffrent from all countless abortion.it show she has a bad records.she doesnt look like a loyal wife.she look lazy.the first wife look better and responsible than her.she might have trap him because of money.Bitches aint loyal looking for who to carry there financial burden for head.they never ready to work nor support a man.Who quote me for saying truth hug transformer.[/s]

She may also have magnet that attracted coconut head yul's rotten d1ck inside her.

Or may be Yul is a brainless animal that was wondering day and night in the wilderness till he got trapped.

Either way, shame on weak negroes.

Grandmeister:

How can I fully address a family matter that I only have the social media side of the story?? Only a naive person will believe the wife didn’t know until few days back! Like really? Lol. And if I should address it from the social media side of the story

Oga, the wife didn’t know! You will not die if you say the truth.

pocohantas:


Oga, the wife didn’t know! You will not die if you say the truth.

Lol and you believed that? Who told you? Yul or the wife? Oh wait na blogger wey dey get second hand information told you the “truth”.

AstraDroid:
[s]Polygamy is very much the natural design. Gay is not.[/s]

Says who? Written in what book?

Keep deceiving yourself.

SIRTee15:


u know nothing about polygamy.
My cousin ex- in law was from a wealthy polygamous home. when the father died, he had over 800 million naira in his account. More than 10 yrs after his death, none of his children could assess the accounts or any of his estates. The wives dragged themselves to court and case is still pending. Na the man's friends acting as trustee dey chop the money, while his children they hustle for street like laymen.

what wealth does this Yul even have? is it not nollywood that they begging for assistance every week.
make una dey deceive una self.

I give Yul just 10 years.

His head will be too big for his neck to support.

Senseless vessel like him.

Grandmeister:

Lol and you believed that? Who told you? Yul or the wife? Oh wait na blogger wey dey get second hand information told you the “truth”.

Which blogger? Did Yul tell you he told his first wife? When Ned married Regina, didn’t they all post it with their full chest?

Why is Yul’s second wife busy calling him “My wonderful director”. Director of her kpekus. She had the child last year and as at January, dhe was calling Yul “Director”. Why has she refused to post their wedding pictures or change her name? Why has she not posted one picture f the child or her pregnancy? Shebi una say marriage na women greatest achievement. Make she post am na.

This story shock me, I no go lie

anungangampu:

[s]Na people wey never marry go dey blame Yul. Some women will extradict you in your marriage,act as if you can find anyone like them.. And when u do they starts acting af if they are not the cause.

I have said it. Most women and men need a second wife for their marriage to balance [/s]

Are you married?

Go and take a second wife na.

But buy coffin and join. Prices increase every year.

Spare your people the expense except you want them to wrap you with mat and cloth and throw you into the pit like Muslims do.

pocohantas:


Which blogger? Did Yul tell you he told his first wife? When Ned married Regina, didn’t they all post it with their full chest?

Why is Yul’s second wife busy calling him “My wonderful director”. Director of her kpekus. She had the child last year and as at January, dhe was calling Yul “Director”. Why has she refused to post their wedding pictures or change her name? Why has she not posted one picture f the child or her pregnancy? Shebi una say marriage na women greatest achievement. Make she post am na.

So that fellow women like YOU will flood her page with curses and vitriol? So that you will attack her and child to make yourself feel good? She is wise enough to keep her shii out of social media lest those who are holier than thou pelt her with e-curses. How many of you women attacking her will prefer your daughters as baby mamas to being LEGALLY married as second wife to a well to do man? Would it have been better? That she was just relegated to being a baby mama? Why the unnecessary headache that a man chose a second wife??

SIRTee15:


u know nothing about polygamy.
My cousin ex- in law was from a wealthy polygamous home. when the father died, he had over 800 million naira in his account. More than 10 yrs after his death, none of his children could assess the accounts or any of his estates. The wives dragged themselves to court and case is still pending. Na the man's friends acting as trustee dey chop the money, while his children they hustle for street like laymen.

what wealth does this Yul even have? is it not nollywood that they begging for assistance every week.
make una dey deceive una self.

A man with over 800 million in his account & lots of estates failed to write a proper will & u blame it on the wives?? Without a proper will even twins will fight themselves if a lot is at stake! You don't know humans change when they smell lots of cash? Haven't u seen blood siblings fighting over properties?

There is no deceit here, Yul may not be as rich as dangote, but someone that is able to afford the school fees of a decent private university in Nigeria for his daughter doesn't need u to start worrying your head over is ability to take care of his family!

Grandmeister:

So that fellow women like YOU will flood her page with curses and vitriol? So that you will attack her and child to make yourself feel good? She is wise enough to keep her shii out of social media lest those who are holier than thou pelt her with e-curses. How many of you women attacking her will prefer your daughters as baby mamas to being LEGALLY married as second wife to a well to do man? Would it have been better? That she was just relegated to being a baby mama? Why the unnecessary headache that a man chose a second wife??

Curses ke? I thought you guys said we support each other in evil? We can’t curse her o. We go congratulate one of our fellow witches. You hear? ?

Suddenly you people have remembered being a second wife is good, but it was bad when Mercy Aigbe remarried as a second wife. The logical gender with their one-sides logic.

CoronaVirusPro:



[s]Ones have changed and the world is adapting to polygamy.

Ned Nwoko, Tuface, Ubi Franklin, Dangote, TY Danjuma, Razaq Okoya, King Sunny Ade, Wizkid, KWAM1e.t.c can all be referred to as polygamist and their families are doing fine.

Learned people who have found themselves in such situation will always have a plan, that even in death, their definitely will be no issue.

It’s left for the first wife to embrace the second wife so has to build a happy home.

The earlier she realizes that they all one inseparable family as it stands today, the better for the family.[/s]

Tearing down the roof will only fall on same family she is part of.

Roof that coconut head Yul brought down himself? Or can't you see he is bald?

You need a booster dose of the covid 19 vaccine in your brain.

Ishilove:
You never know with men.

'Chop and clean mouth' gone wrong. Yul's wandering glorious gbola got hooked the way two mating dogs sometimes get hooked and can't disengage afterwards, no matter how loudly the male screams in pain and terror.

The brideprice was paid on Sunday, and his wife May found out on Monday. We live in interesting times

Like a social media commentator remarked, some men deserve to be dragged 'wotowotoly."

https://www.thefamousnaija.com/2022/04/everything-to-know-about-yul-edochie.html?m=1

https://twitter.com/Gistloversblog1/status/1519437065330569223?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet

Humans ought to have more sense and stop forcibly trying to disengage two dogs. It should hurt.
GOD made it that way, when they are done, they will disengage by themselves!


Yul Edochie and his first wife had grown to look so much alike like twins. They had become truly one, a feat that the media make seem a little herculean these days, and he ruined it. Now he will start afresh.

phemmyfour:
He that finds a wife....

Well it says "a good thing". I don't think that was what it meant there.

I personally don't think a spouse is the secret to happiness, it can't be sustainable. That's a high pedestal to put anyone on.
If you can't be happy with one, what makes you think the magic number is two.

pocohantas:


Curses ke? I thought you guys said we support each other in evil? We can’t curse her o. We go congratulate one of our fellow witches. You hear? ?

Suddenly you people have remembered being a second wife is good, but it was bad when Mercy Aigbe remarried as a second wife. The logical gender with their one-sides logic.

What are you even going on about? I don’t even know what mercy aigbe did or didn’t do BUT I’m pretty sure it was still her fellow gender that attacked her for her decision. I’m a traditional man and I can never condemn having a second wife. As long as you married her properly and takes care of her then by all means go ahead and get yourself another wife.

Tradegood:


Humans ought to have more sense and stop forcibly trying to disengage two dogs. It should hurt.
GOD made it that way, when they are done, they will disengage by themselves!


Yul Edochie and his first wife had grown to look so much alike like twins. They had become truly one, a feat that the media make seem a little herculean these days, and he ruined it. Now he will start afresh.

Very deep.

Mooh247:




He is a very callous dishonest man

Marrying a second wife is a decision that can potentially affect your wife and children

The honourable thing to do is to discuss it with your wife and kids first, assuring them you still care about them.

To those comparing this to Ned Nwoko, Ned was not a coward, he followed the principles of Islam by introducing Regina Daniels to his wives and children before marriage

Now his grown daughters would be psychologically damage thinking all men are like their father, they would become bitter feminist blaming other men for their fathers stupidity

His Male children would always see cheating and infidelity as a cool thing and dishonesty as a manly smartness

As for his wife, till she dies she would never truly trust anyone, and inferiority complex would always make her feel she isn't good enough since she couldn't satisfy or make her husband happy, and he has to choose a fat divorced mother of two over her


Some people now boldly support betrayer, opportunist behaviour, back stabbing as long as it suite their gender bias, religious sentiment, political affiliation or tribalistic agenda



.

You can see from this picture yul married very early

His children are all grown

He is in his early forties and married for 17yrs

The tendency of being bored is there

Getting another woman as wife is likely

This is the disadvantage of early marriage for a man

Ishilove:

Very deep.

Respect!

Toks2008:


Who be this?

Seems many nairalanders are suffering from serious mental illness.

What brings about the insult? On top wettin?

I think you need an urgent evaluation of your mental health and now that you have displayed your symptoms please stay off my mentions.

It is well with you.

You should have ignored the amateur feminist long before now. How many of these bittered lioness will refuse a marriage proposal from a rich and comfortable already married man? They are totally different from what they rant online.Picture below was posted by a female who reason with her brains and not with the down below.

Ishilove:

I wonder what happened to cheating responsibly. All these would have been avoided if he had simply used a condom.

Lol...hahahahah...nothing one will not see on nairaland...which one is "cheating responsibly"..like you folks have bought into this nonsense that men must cheat and now you folks have chosen to sugarcoat it with "responsibly" biko...Hmmm...how do u put cheating and responsibly side by side abeg?

With or without protection, a woman cheated on loses something inside her-her honor, her pride!

What he did whether it had produced a child or not is reprehensible! U r d second lady I have had to correct today-stop subsidising the inanities of people! See where subsidy has gotten us in Naija...catch my drift?

Rubbiish:

A man with over 800 million in his account & lots of estates failed to write a proper will & u blame it on the wives?? Without a proper will even twins will fight themselves if a lot is at stake! You don't know humans change when they smell lots of cash? Haven't u seen blood siblings fighting over properties?

There is no deceit here, Yul may not be as rich as dangote, but someone that is able to afford the school fees of a decent private university in Nigeria for his daughter doesn't need u to start worrying your head over is ability to take care of his family!

I laff at your ignorance. when I said u dont know jack shit about polygamy, I wasn't joking.
There are thousands of wills contested by polygamous family in nigerian courts. If the man like, let him cast the will in stone, once one of his wives or children contest the will in court and the judge gives an injuction; the execution of will is indefinitely suspended. na to dey spend money on lawyer remain.
The north may be different due to the strong islamic influence on their culture and the islamic system of executing wills.
But southern nigeria is a different ball game. I wouldnt advise any man to dabble into such here. Just keep side chick and never promote them into wife.

macho44:


Ubi Franklin isn't a POLYGAMIST, Dude Impregnates Women For Fun . TuFace dey learn work for where he dey.

derecho:
Oga, I'm not even talking about the Christian faith.
I'm talking about common sense.

You can't just say it's our culture and forget that it's not exclusive to Africans

Many people don't even understand the Christian faith they talk about.
Western culture is not Christian culture

This response is sentimental. I am referring to the English culture.

Do you know your history?, we are colonised by England, they started practicing Christianity from the 1532 from Henry VIII & it was sold to us by Bishop Ajayi Crowder. Today is 28th of April and England still practices Christianity.

Nobody cares about common sense when It comes to legality. What is legal is what should be followed whether it make sense or not, morality is where you begin to use common sense which is relative, what may be common sense to you may not be for someone else.

According to the law, the man committed adultery, because he got married by Civil law, Court Marriage which was inherited/inspired by the British law.

However, if the argument was that "is Polygamy a sin", It can be argued that it is not because the Bible does not clearly condemn it.

kingthreat:


Hello, the child is born already. He deserves the family structure and the full love from a father and mother. You are thinking much of the wife's plight and forgetting that the other woman and her son are also human beings. The person who did wrong here is Yul and he is trying to fix it.

He ain't fixing nothing bro. He just wan spite the wife. When he goes get another woman pregnant, that means he'll fix it by making her wifey No3?

Miyachi:

Well it says "a good thing". I don't think that was what it meant there.

I personally don't think a spouse is the secret to happiness, it can't be sustainable. That's a high pedestal to put anyone on.
If you can't be happy with one, what makes you think the magic number is two.

Prov 5:18-19

So be happy with your wife and find your joy with the woman you married -
19 pretty and graceful as a deer. Let her charms keep you happy; let her surround you with her love

After five children, you still went out to impregnate another daughter of Eve.. I know your disciplined father would be terribly disappointed in you but what can Baba do since you are an adult old enough to chose your path of life. We wish you well

SIRTee15:


I laff at your ignorance. when I said u dont know jack shit about polygamy, I wasn't joking.
There are thousands of wills contested by polygamous family in nigerian courts. If the man like, let him cast the will in stone, once one of his wives or children contest the will in court and the judge gives an injuction; the execution of will is indefinitely suspended. na to dey spend money on lawyer remain.
The north may be different due to the strong islamic influence on their culture and the islamic system of executing wills.
But southern nigeria is a different ball game. I wouldnt advise any man to dabble into such here. Just keep side chick and never promote them into wife.

Is it only polygamous family that are contesting will in court? U haven't seen siblings contesting a will? A will is not devoid of contest but to set a benchmark!
Different things work for us, what is not working for u, may work for others, that is how life is designed! Because u detest polygamy doesn't mean it is not working for others. The late Alafin of Oyo had more than 3 wives & I am very sure he led a better life more than a lot of men that had one wife. Ned have more than one wife, do u see him as a sad man?? We have seen men that were still unable to manage their one wife! Do what work for u & let Yul do what works for him! It is simple.