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this man get mind.

itchie:
You're full of nonsense, so it's only igbos that have married two wives in this country? How old are you sef? You talk like a child that knows nothing

Read before you react, spewing thrash is not a sign of intelligence, IPOB polygamist!

Ryott:
Your question is not even making sense, please what was the arrogance that was displayed by Yul that you haven't seen people from other tribes display? Please explain

Mention the other tribes na, IPOB polygamist.

F22RAPTOR:
This guy just created problems for his children. This life is a jungle, you either eat or be eaten. Women supportinw women in the mud.

If it's cos of dragging of properties, he can simply leave a will. What about Jackie chan that married one wife and has one son, will all his properties not go to charity, he left nothing for his only son

quentin06:
Mention the other tribes na, IPOB polygamist.

You must be a very stupid person, what arrogance did Yul display that you haven't seen elsewhere? What exactly did he do that you are tagging him arrogant? That's the simple question you can't answer, mention the arrogant thing he did and tell me your tribe and see if I don't give you examples of people that have done exact same thing in your tribe. If it's not the generational madness that is afflicting you and your people that won't allow you to rest unless you find one nonsense to write about Igbos then you must be very stupid indeed. Bloody fool.

Mooh247:




He is a very callous dishonest man

Marrying a second wife is a decision that can potentially affect your wife and children

The honourable thing to do is to discuss it with your wife and kids first, assuring them you still care about them.

To those comparing this to Ned Nwoko, Ned was not a coward, he followed the principles of Islam by introducing Regina Daniels to his wives and children before marriage

Now his grown daughters would be psychologically damage thinking all men are like their father, they would become bitter feminist blaming other men for their fathers stupidity

His Male children would always see cheating and infidelity as a cool thing and dishonesty as a manly smartness

As for his wife, till she dies she would never truly trust anyone, and inferiority complex would always make her feel she isn't good enough since she couldn't satisfy or make her husband happy, and he has to choose a fat divorced mother of two over her


Some people now boldly support betrayer, opportunist behaviour, back stabbing as long as it suite their gender bias, religious sentiment, political affiliation or tribalistic agenda



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He didn't choose her over his wife, he added her as his new wife...not like he divorced his first wife. Get it...why are you so pained?

As Africans, we are free to marry as many wives as we are capable of marrying. The oyinbo ya'll support who practice monogamy embraces divorce.

They can marry like five times...changing women each time they are tired of one hole.

To also add...no religion directly oppose polygamy even christianity. There are too many single women out there who need men to marry.

Let men who are capable marry as many as they want.

Rocktation:
Someone would come and be talking about how it's because the first wife was not smiling broadly now..

One mumu even suggested that she's too fit. That men do not like women who go to the gym.

You'll never win with these ones!

Neddyogu:
He ain't fixing nothing bro. He just wan spite the wife. When he goes get another woman pregnant, that means he'll fix it by making her wifey No3?

Many man are cheating in marriages. This one is marrying the one he is cheating with. Is that not better? He is not spiting his wife. He can't just help himself on the love with his new wife. Someone has to be hurt. The wife is already going to be hurt by hearing the news in future. Guy made his choices. But i think he should have had a heart to heart talk with his wife telling her of his decision.

Ryott:
You must be a very stupid person, what arrogance did Yul display that you haven't seen elsewhere? What exactly did he do that you are tagging him arrogant? That's the simple question you can't answer, mention the arrogant thing he did and tell me your tribe and see if I don't give you examples of people that have done exact same thing in your tribe. If it's not the generational madness that is afflicting you and your people that won't allow you to rest unless you find one nonsense to write about Igbos then you must be very stupid indeed. Bloody fool.

You re such an idiot, you must be related to the idiot you re defending, go to hell.
Thrash man.

quentin06:
You re such an idiot, you must be related to the idiot you re defending, go to hell.
Thrash man.

Your own idiocy and madness na follow come. I defended Igbos from your stupid generalized comment about all igbo men because of Yul's action as if people from your own tribe don't do the worse. If you are not mad, why can't you attack Yul and leave out all Igbos from it if you feel what he did is bad? But the generational madness that you inherited from your parents won't let you rest, you will go about displaying your stupidity like the mad dog that you are. Stupid animal!!

Farfalla:
One mumu even suggested that she's too fit. That men do not like women who go to the gym.

You'll never win with these ones!

ahah wetin - why would i want a fit babe?
you think i want to be emasculated in the bedroom?
with my love handles and pot belly and sexy, atrophied body

abeg take your time o

all you Hot wenches who have been watching too much adult entertainment and expect 40 plus year old men to pull every muscle doing the do?

or you want us to crash and burn on tramadol + viagra + bitters cocktail

dey there dey look for fit women

abeg give me a lazy woman jare. i dont have time to be keeping up with any amazon between the sheets

live to knack another day

quentin06:
Read before you react, spewing thrash is not a sign of intelligence, IPOB polygamist!

Is there anything that shows that you have up to the intelligence of a five year old kid? All the nonsense you have been writing is all evidence that you have no intelligence whatsoever. A five year old kid has more sense than you.

pocohantas:
W

Why is Yul’s second wife busy calling him “My wonderful director”. Director of her kpekus. .

walahi! You dey tire person.

CoronaVirusPro:
Ones have changed and the world is adapting to polygamy.

Ned Nwoko, Tuface, Ubi Franklin, Dangote, TY Danjuma, Razaq Okoya, King Sunny Ade, Wizkid, KWAM1e.t.c can all be referred to as polygamist and their families are doing fine.

Learned people who have found themselves in such situation will always have a plan, that even in death, their definitely will be no issue.

It’s left for the first wife to embrace the second wife so has to build a happy home.

The earlier she realizes that they all one inseparable family as it stands today, the better for the family.

Tearing down the roof will only fall on same family she is part of.

If am the one i won't mind that to happen. He is a big time traitor. Is not marring 2nd wife that is the issue but how he went about it is the issue.mtchewwwwwwwwwww

Oh

NoahHadNoArk:
Upon all the papa wise sayings and proverbs, pikin no wan keep prick for boxer

I tell you!

The first wife will soon file for divorce

koyyess:
Says who? Written in what book?

Keep deceiving yourself.

The Bible, The Koran and The Torah are all in support of Polygamy. And those are 3 Holy Books of most popular Religions.

RaptObserver:
For the wife not to know her husband will be wedding even when a programme was scheduled shows she has not been "close" to her in-laws.

I disagree with you. She can be very close to her in-laws yet they won't open up to her for the fear of not wanting to break her home, afraid to hurt her, let her not hear it from me so it won't look like am the one that set her home on fire and so on and so forth. She may on the other hand, not believe it at all and may even fight the person and also report it to her husband while on bed together after all the enjoyment because of love this I've seen . I bet you, there is the possibility that the closest person to her, has the authentic info perhaps with evidence but did not know how he/she will communicate to her and the funny thing with things like this, people around you will all know including your family friend but it will never get to your ears. kai! i feel really bad for her but it is well as i trust her to overcome it. MEN! MEN!MEN!

GloriousGbola:
ahah wetin - why would i want a fit babe?
you think i want to be emasculated in the bedroom?
with my love handles and pot belly and sexy, atrophied body

all you Hot wenches who have been watching too much adult entertainment and expect 40 plus year old men to pull every muscle doing the do?

or you want us to crash and burn on tramadol + viagra + bitters cocktail

abeg give me a lazy woman jare. i dont have time to be keeping up with any amazon between the sheets

live to knack another day

Relax jor!

You don't need tramadol. All you need to do is be the lazy log for a change and let her be the one to do the riding. You think Ned Nwoko utilises any muscle?

Farfalla:
Relax jor!

You don't need tramadol. All you need to do is be the lazy log for a change and let her be the one to do the riding. You think Ned Nwoko utilises any muscle?

bad girl Farfy - teaching us arugbo the way

you know our ego will not allow that na

to quote one of those super drug ads - in order to defeat your woman hands down you need our special drug that cures pile, weak erection, watery sperm staph auerus etc

make your woman know tell you - ehn you try small

peepydelano:
You should have ignored the amateur feminist long before now. How many of these bittered lioness will refuse a marriage proposal from a rich and comfortable already married man? They are totally different from what they rant online.Picture below was posted by a female who reason with her brains and not with the down below.

I have said it before, and I created a thread six years back that really shook the table.

https://www.nairaland.com/2956934/no-lady-should-get-married
Any woman who is not ready for the POSSIBILITY(not certainty) of sharing her husband should not bother getting married.

Marriage no be by force.,

doshiyad1:
If am the one i won't mind that to happen. He is a big time traitor. Is not marring 2nd wife that is the issue but how he went about it is the issue.mtchewwwwwwwwwww

I agree with you.

The only fault I see is him not telling his wife. More like a coward.

CoronaVirusPro:
“cheating responsibly “

So cheating responsibly is better than having a second wife?

Some women reason in a way that is questionable..

Bleeping anyhow outside is now preferred to having a legit second wife.

The western world eating deep into us.

Yul followed the way of great men..

No great man without two or more wives..Even in the scriptures our church sisters follow..But they will Find a way to side step it.

If you can't sayisfy him, he will go outside..If you can't satisfy her, she will go outside or become a rude and arrogant..Nature must fill the vacuum.

He messed up by not telling her, or may be he did, but she took it a joke..

You can't pocket such an accomplished fellow with exposure..Too many ladie at his beck and call.

Toks2008:
I have said it before, and I created a thread six years back that really shook the table.

https://www.nairaland.com/2956934/no-lady-should-get-married
Any woman who is not ready for the POSSIBILITY(not certainty) of sharing her husband should not bother getting married.

Marriage no be by force.,

madoooo

quentin06:
If what I am saying is false, why are you weeping and gnashing your teeth?
Mention a tribe in Nigeria that displays this type of arrogance?

What point are you even driving at? That all Igbos are arrogant because of what Yul did? How many other Igbos do you know that did the same thing? Na wa oh, can you confidently swear on your life that something like this has never happened in your tribe? That no married man in the history of your tribe has ever impregnated another woman and married her, can you swear on that? Some of you need to think well before you post some of the rubbish you write here

AstraDroid:
[s]The Bible, The Koran and The Torah are all in support of Polygamy. And those are 3 Holy Books of most popular Religions[/s].

All from your a$$

pocohantas:
Which blogger? Did Yul tell you he told his first wife? When Ned married Regina, didn’t they all post it with their full chest?

Why is Yul’s second wife busy calling him “My wonderful director”. Director of her kpekus. She had the child last year and as at January, dhe was calling Yul “Director”. Why has she refused to post their wedding pictures or change her name? Why has she not posted one picture f the child or her pregnancy? Shebi una say marriage na women greatest achievement. Make she post am na.

Aunty wey moonmoon God gave us brain use it, a phrase like "my director" is enough clue to answer any jamb question, the three parties involve depict traces of a sequel which further postulate the Man is in charge of his affair. chochocho rest by fire

phemmyfour:
Prov 5:18-19

So be happy with your wife and find your joy with the woman you married -
19 pretty and graceful as a deer. Let her charms keep you happy; let her surround you with her love

"Be happy with your wife...", meaning it's a choice you have to make. It comes from within, it is not external.

NLT says:
Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be captivated by her love.
Proverbs 5:18‭-‬19 NLT

You can chose to be happy, content and satisfied with your "wife" or go about philandering. You can only blame yourself.

Wow! He should have jejely divorce the first one to marry her jare. There is always a strong story behind side chic becoming wife especially when high profile brands are involved...these due are earning all consequences to be together. Well, I wish all parties involved happiness.

[quote author=kingthreat post=112349976]Many man are cheating in marriages. This one is marrying the one he is cheating with. Is that not better? He is not spiting his wife. He can't just help himself on the love with his new wife. Someone has to be hurt. The wife is already going to be hurt by hearing the news in future. Guy made his choices. But i think he should have had a heart to heart talk with his wife telling her of his decision.

This is why I said he did so to spite his wife. Haba she had to find out that way? Goes to show how he and his entire family is disrespectful of her. Too bad.

Omoluabi16:
walahi! You dey tire person.

Dey manage me like that abeg.