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A Nigerian man based abroad has taken to Facebook to call out his wife’s boyfriend for refusing to leave her alone. The aggrieved husband, who has been overseas for six years and left his wife in Nigeria with their two kids, disclosed that he had been tracking his wife’s phone and discovered that she was dating a certain Segun. https://www.facebook.com/103713935449283/posts/165074775979865/

He should be a man and fix it

Assuming this is not staged, these 2 are idiots. For the husband, you have no business exchanging words with a man sleeping with your wife, your talk should be with your wife. If she said that you guys are not in a relationship, then that is a definite answer and you can move on with your life and stop embarrassing your self.

The other lover boy should ask his so called girl friend if she is still in a relationship and why her supposed ex husband is claiming that they are still married.

Typical... But redpillers would say women are men's greatest threat...

Your best man would to screw your bride on your wedding if he could...

Men don't respect the bro code...

Problem nor dey finish both inside and outside the country

no be every beheaded corpse be ritual killing..

Techsupport:
Assuming this is not staged, these 2 are idiots. For the husband, you have no business exchanging words with a man sleeping with your wife, your talk should be with your wife. If she said that you guys are not in a relationship, then that is a definite answer and you can move on with your life and stop embarrassing your self.

The other lover boy should ask his so called girl friend if she is still in a relationship and why her supposed ex husband is claiming that they are still married.

A divorce case going on... And the husband didn't deny that he's a womanizer... Even responded with 'So?'...

You don't think he's banging some chick where he is?

BoredBerry:
A divorce case going on... And the husband didn't deny that he's a womanizer... Even responded with 'So?'...

You don't think he's banging some chick where he is?

Left his wife sex starved. Nawa for some men sef.

Abroad husbnds and selfishness are inseparable.




They go there, have steady partners and then leave their wives here sex starved .


Their excuse is that they are making money for everyone.

Techsupport:
The other lover boy should ask his so called girl friend if she is still in a relationship and why her supposed ex husband is claiming that they are still married.

Didn't you read where the boyfriend even states that the husband refused to show up or send a lawyer and representative for their divorce case abi wetin?,

ROFLMAO

doggedfighter:
Abroad husbnds and selfishness are inseparable.
They go there, have steady partners and then leave their wives here sex starved .
Their excuse is that they are making money for everyone.

This story is hilarious as hell!

ROFLMAO

Kobojunkie:
This story is hilarious as hell!

ROFLMAO

The chat of two mad men

Kobojunkie:
Didn't you read where the boyfriend even states that the husband refused to show up or send a lawyer and representative for their divorce case abi wetin?,

ROFLMAO

Same point. That woman is the prize at this point. These 2 men should not be exchanging words. Mr "dick in a jar" has been waiting for this for 8 years. So he should tell the woman to leave her husband's house and move in with him, stop all financial gifts from the womanizer husband and face this lover man.
The abroad guy should face the woman as well and end things with her if she has moved on. Not threatening to do this and that when brother 9 inches is already laying the pipe.

Wotoporiously speaking

Some Game of thrones shit loading.....

Sadly only one/none must sit on the throne and the other/none will either give way or die.

The woman go continue with her life, a very SIMPle case to be solved but very delicate at this critical stage.

I wish the two contenders best of luck.

Who apply wisdom na hin go live to tell the story.

Techsupport:
Same point. That woman is the prize at this point. These 2 men should not be exchanging words. Mr "dick in a jar" has been waiting for this for 8 years. So he should tell the woman to leave her husband's house and move in with him, stop all financial gifts from the womanizer husband and face this lover man.
The abroad guy should face the woman as well and end things with her if she has moved on. Not threatening to do this and that when brother 9 inches is already laying the pipe.

Leave her husband's house, why? The couple is in court to decide such things as far as who gets the house and who keeps the kids though.

As for what you call financial gifts from the womanizer husband, you mean the man ought not to pay child support and maybe alimony again to his ex?,

The abroad guy na real case of wanting to eat his cake and having it at the same time. He needs to maybe respect himself and move on with his side chicks on this. Even this text message with him admitting to playing away game on his own marriage while constantly stalking his wife is potential information that might work against him.

ROFLMAO

Kobojunkie:
Leave her husband's house, why? The couple is in court to decide such things as far as who gets the house and who keeps the kids though.

As for what you call financial gifts from the womanizer husband, you mean the man ought not to pay child support and maybe alimony again to his ex?,

The abroad guy na real case of wanting to eat his cake and having it at the same time. He needs to maybe respect himself and move on with his side chicks on this. Even this text message with him admitting to playing away game on his own marriage while constantly stalking his wife is potential information that might work against him.

ROFLMAO

Mr. Kobo. I can see that you live in the western world. Abeg reason am. Share house? Child support? Child custody? In Nigeria?
What you are proposing is an ideal case scenario.

Techsupport:
Mr. Kobo. I can see that you live in the western world. Abeg reason am. Share house? Child support? Child custody? In Nigeria?
What you are proposing is an ideal case scenario.

um... i know folks down there in that same Nigeria who this "ideal scenario" happened to. Yes, your courts there in Nigeria do happen to work similar packages out in the case of divorce.

Kobojunkie:
um... i know folks down there in that same Nigeria who this "ideal scenario" happened to. Yes, your courts there in Nigeria do happen to work similar packages out in the case of divorce.

You have a point. I have never experienced any court rulings for domestic issues in Nigeria.
Where in the states do you stay.

Techsupport:
You have a point. I have never experienced any court rulings for domestic issues in Nigeria.
Where in the states do you stay.

I am in IL.

Kobojunkie:
I am in IL.

Cool. If you ever find yourself in the lonestar state, Hola at a brother will ya

BoredBerry:
A divorce case going on... And the husband didn't deny that he's a womanizer... Even responded with 'So?'...

You don't think he's banging some chick where he is?

What I am saying is that 2 of them are idiots for arguing like the woman is the spoils of their chest beating war.

The woman should decide who she wants to be with and that's the end.

fat simp lol, your wife is consensually giving the segun sex and everything , you still dey beg to the man to leave your wife, watch as people will blame the man for abandoning his wife , forgetting that the man has to provide for the family, only the man will provide, clothe, shelter , provide hope for the family but one small misstep people will still blame him, men stop marrying jobless women , better bring the marriage to a conclusion if you have no plans of returning back, as for that simp up there you better divorce that wh*re, highest fight for your children custody or send small upkeep money for them and only them then restart life ,he's just waisting his time

doggedfighter:
Abroad husbnds and selfishness are inseparable.


They go there, have steady partners and then leave their wives here sex starved .

Their excuse is that they are making money for everyone.

Ladies who agree to that are just greedy and don't consider the kind of nonsense they are getting themselves into. They just want to marry someone based outside the country at their own detriment.

I used have a neighbour who was helping one woman whose husband stays in Europe meet her bedmatic needs. The guy would always gist us whenever he visited the lady because she was extremely nice to him.

Even the ladies who agree to marry those guys know that their husbands aren't faithful. That nonsense is no marriage.

Dude a bold cheaterr, damn!

If this is really true, the estranged husband should accept his ‘L’ and move on, joke is on him

SmartPolician:
Ladies who agree to that are just greedy and don't consider the kind of nonsense they are getting themselves into. They just want to marry someone based outside the country at their own detriment. .

Read the story! The man was living in Nigeria before he then left his wife and kids behind for greener pastures.

If she had said absolutely not to her husband going abroad to fend for his kids, you would probably have been one of the first to label her an enemy of his progress.

Try to learn to judge these things on a case by case abeg!

Kobojunkie:
Read the story! The man was living in Nigeria before he then left his wife and kids behind for greener pastures.

If she had said absolutely not to her husband going abroad to fend for his kids, you would probably have been one of the first to label her an enemy of his progress.

Try to learn to judge these things on a case by case abeg!

Sorry, I wasn't reacting to the story in the headline. In fact, I didn't even read it. I just quoted that comment and added my thoughts and experience to the point the person raised.

SmartPolician:
Sorry, I wasn't reacting to the story in the headline. In fact, I didn't even read it. I just quoted that comment and added my thoughts and experience to the point the person raised.

No, this is different from you typical husband abroad situation and the fact the husband's philandering began right in Nigeria, before he even left, leads me to wonder if the marriage wasn't already on the rocks long before he left.

ROFLMAO


The way the husband even store the contact under the name "Kemi boyfriend", gives him away as a man who is probably only miffed that his ex to be has an exclusive man of her own.

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

SmartPolician:
Ladies who agree to that are just greedy and don't consider the kind of nonsense they are getting themselves into. They just want to marry someone based outside the country at their own detriment.

I used have a neighbour who was helping one woman whose husband stays in Europe meet her bedmatic needs. The guy would always gist us whenever he visited the lady because she was extremely nice to him.

Even the ladies who agree to marry those guys know that their husbands aren't faithful. That nonsense is no marriage.

Wives with abroad husbands are all over Onitsha . Some are lucky to be living large with cars and other things sent to them while some aren't lucky as there's no economic difference between them and women with Nigerian based husbands.

One neighbour with abroad based husband nearly died of heartbreak when she saw her Brazil based husband's wedding pictures to his Brazilian lover.

It has economic gains though

I just feel husbands abroad should allow their wives find sexual satisfaction anywhere too. And not wait for their once in three year visit when they come back for impregnation duties

BoredBerry:
A divorce case going on... And the husband didn't deny that he's a womanizer... Even responded with 'So?'...

You don't think he's banging some chick where he is?

He's definitely banging another oyibo chick outside. Foolish man.

I also know a guy that has stayed abroad for 8 years now, leaving his wife and 2 kids.

The wife is always bitter for nothing.

I pity her so much.

Ok
The guy shanking his lover doesn't hold him any loyalty.

If I catch my wife cheating I don't have problem with the guy she cheated with, my loyalty is with her not the guy,
Cause I know how this bitches behaves,

He should mend this back, cause himself don Bleep up

Listening to the devil doesn't bargain by“ Alec Benjamin "

He only break your heart