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Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by adekolausman0000(m): 12:47pm On May 07, 2022
It was the second day of Eid and everything was going well as planned. We took Amazing photos to celebrate this years Eid a day after. I never knew that he was so cruel and heartless to have planned such evil against me. Few months ago, he attempted to throw a stainless spoon into my face, so as to render one of my eyes impaired but thankfully to God it was a narrow escape, owing to the fact that i dodge it from making an impact on my face. On that very day, he quoted; " You are very lucky that it didn't land in your face; you could have resume school with an indelible mark!" However, we settled it and continued our lives like every other typical twins but it didn't end there. Whenever we engage in an argument, this heartless soul would always threaten to make me bleed out but I never knew why he kept telling me such. Perhaps he was envious of my success as a young adult excelling, since I got admitted to the university before him.

This guy eventually did what he had always anticipated to do; by giving me an indelible mark on my face!!! WHAT PAINS ME THE MOST WAS THAT HE CAREFULLY TOOK HIS TIME TO LOCK THE TARGET WHILE AIMING AT MY FACE BEFORE HE MASSACRED MY IDENTITY. This was how it got started that faithful day; We got into another rift over a standing fan. Although, I never initiated violence at first, but he had always wanted to injure me. At that moment, I didn't want the fan air to blow towards me so I turned it to his direction. Angered by what I did, he told me he wasn't receiving enough air, and commanded me to put the breezer back to it's direction. I was disgusted and pissed like, why in the hell would he try to tell me what to do? After all aren't we mates? On hearing the jargons coming out of his mouth, I refused to return the fan back to its direction with the declaration that I'm not interested in the fresh air, since I'm having catarrh.

Did you know what this boy did? He went to look for a stick. He found the broken stick of a broom, walked backed to the scene, turned the fan back, stood near it with the weapon his hands looking dreadful, and said; "Turn the fan again and see if I won't break your face with this stick." I turned it over and before I could know, the impact made me feel a sharp pain on my face and made me to see how my blood had splattered around my face.

At first I thought it was wrestling and I came back to my senses and was like; "why all this? How could he do such?" While my scar was being treated, I must tell you that I fell into despair for the whole of that day. Afterwards, he felt guilty and begged for forgiveness but I told him what he had to hear since it didn't come out from the button of my heart. I'm sure you've looked at the picture below to see the extent of the damage. The saddening part now is that, he's got a a good face to show for, which is devoid of wounds or marks to the admiration of those who wish to acknowledge him, while my own face would be seen by everyone (most especially ladies) thinking that am a bad person or I had done something incriminating. I took to my gallery to compare my past pics to my current state, but I keep getting angry more, and more, and more!!

Because you have anger issues, does it mean you should do such thing? And the worst part is that we are twins. Is that how other twins behave to each other? My parents think the issue has been settled between us but I'm so sorry to disappoint them that I can never forgive him ever! I don't care what happens in future. My face looks so disfigured and massacred and you expect me to let it go? Nah! such can't happen, even if am 6 feet deep.

I just want us to separate to distant lands, where it would be as if the other had been deceased. I can't continue living with someone who had ruin my life within a minute of anger. Twins works and achieve things together but I don't want us to a achieve anything together again. I just want to be alone... Like a lone wolf. As far as am concerned, I don't even consider myself as a pair of twin. Of course I'm glad I have the upper hand, getting into the tertiary institution before him.... I guess I'll begin a life there, free from hatred, resentment, sadness and anger.

Thanks for listening.....

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by immortalcrown(m): 12:54pm On May 07, 2022
Satan has candidates in this family. May God intervene.

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by christianjoy(m): 12:59pm On May 07, 2022
This is deep cry
Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by shilenji(m): 1:02pm On May 07, 2022
Forget that he his your twin report him to the authorities because the most evil things lurk behind. He will do worse if he gets the chance. Run!!!!

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Kriss216: 1:04pm On May 07, 2022
I got twins as friends. They can fight each other like Iraq and Iran but they're still close pals. They do things together. Their fight no dey reach to carry weapons, just verbal and some sissy blows.

OP, I'm thinking you're rubbing your admission on your brother's face hence he's bittered about that, still not enough reason to be violent with you.


Notwithstanding, the best way to manage risk is to avoid it.

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Hector09(m): 1:05pm On May 07, 2022
Twins from hell

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Xscape1993(m): 1:35pm On May 07, 2022
The wickedness of men! Humans have lost their conscience to the devil...

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Uniquetani1(f): 1:57pm On May 07, 2022
Ibeji oran
I won't advice you stay away from him but be careful.
He can kill

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Neddstark: 4:21pm On May 07, 2022
This is hurtful. Take this advise brother, focus on your hustle, academics or whatever you engage in. Don't let your looks deprive you of anything. Don't chase girls as some will decline you. Chase success. When success comes, no one will see your scar anymore. Take a look at Seal the singer.
As for your decision never to have anything to do with your twin, go ahead. Don't look back on that. Forgive him if you can but remember his jealousy knows no bounds so avoid him. Success should open doors for you so you don't have to deal with his presence again.

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by TYCO77: 5:31pm On May 07, 2022
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So sorry. administer penicillin ointment on the wound it will leave no scare after healing.

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by TheWolfen(m): 6:05pm On May 07, 2022
Uniquetani1:
Ibeji oran
I won't advice you stay away from him but be careful.
He can kill

So he shouldn't stay away from him until the dark hearted twin kills him out of jealousy after that he will say he is sorry like every other criminals that their face turns innocent after their gruesome act ...


Op God already know this that is why you got the escape route first. Visit home less even on holidays, focus on your study and keep any necessary communication with your twin strictly on phone calls and if he complains tell him every action has consequences since you had choose not pay him back in same way there are other ways to make him pay which is to avoid him. Look for a side hustle and don't solely depends on money your parent gives you in school. This is extremely important and keep your progress to yourself. Focus on studies, graduate, get a job and rent an apartment.
You have to be one step ahead and watch your words around an extremely jealous person. The spirit of jealousy is a dangerous one. They can lie, evil schemes, false accusations and kill a person.
Strangers are far more nice are better than some siblings I swear

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Crenzywilliams(m): 6:10pm On May 07, 2022
Wait, you call gaining admission into a uni an achievement,wow, how silly that is. You when know how ur brother temper be, why didn't u just go to another place instead of trying to irritate him. From all you've said, it seems to me say na small pikin de worry una 2, you are really petty and need some serious growing up, well, I hope hope the wound in your heart heals, and not leave a scar, the one on your face isn't a scar yet, it's a wound and I hope it's treated and dont leave a scar. You guys need to settle whatever makes u fight. Your twin should be ur best friend on earth.

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by meobizy(f): 6:22pm On May 07, 2022
Fake story.
Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by JoyousFurnitire(m): 7:10pm On May 07, 2022
Uniquetani1:
Ibeji oran
I won't advice you stay away from him but be careful.
He can kill

Contradiction!

He should stay away from death?


OP do your best to treat the scar. Try honey and aloe vera.
Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Uniquetani1(f): 7:37pm On May 07, 2022
TheWolfen:


So he shouldn't stay away from him until the dark hearted twin kills him out of jealousy after that he will say he is sorry like every other criminals that their face turns innocent after their gruesome act ...


Op God already know this that is why you got the escape route first. Visit home less and even on holidays, focus on your study and keep any necessary communication with your twin strictly on phone calls and if he complains tell him every action has consequences since you choose not pay in back in same way there are other ways to make him pay which is to avoid him. Look for a side hustle and don't solely depends on money your parent give you in school. This is extremely important and keep your progress to yourself. Focus on studies, graduate, get a job and rent an apartment.
You have to be one step ahead and watch your words around an extremely jealous person. The spirit of jealousy is a dangerous one. They can lie, evil schemes, false accusations and kill a person.
Strangers are far more nice are better than some siblings I swear


They are twin, they supposed to be together.
They parents should do something about it, it might not be ordinary

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Kpengla(m): 7:50pm On May 07, 2022
adekolausman0000:
It was the second day of Eid and everything was going well as planned. We took Amazing photos to celebrate this years Eid a day after. I never knew that he was so cruel and heartless to have planned such evil against me. Few months ago, he attempted to throw a stainless spoon into my face, so as to render one of my eyes impaired but thankfully to God it was a narrow escape, owing to the fact that i dodge it from making an impact on my face. On that very day, he quoted; " You are very lucky that it didn't land in your face; you could have resume school with an indelible mark!" However, we settled it and continued our lives like every other typical twins but it didn't end there. Whenever we engage in an argument, this heartless soul would always threaten to make me bleed out but I never knew why he kept telling me such. Perhaps he was envious of my success as a young adult excelling, since I got admitted to the university before him.

This guy eventually did what he had always anticipated to do; by giving me an indelible mark on my face!!! WHAT PAINS ME THE MOST WAS THAT HE CAREFULLY TOOK HIS TIME TO LOCK THE TARGET WHILE AIMING AT MY FACE BEFORE HE MASSACRED MY IDENTITY. This was how it got started that faithful day; We got into another rift over a standing fan. Although, I never initiated violence at first, but he had always wanted to injure me. At that moment, I didn't want the fan air to blow towards me so I turned it to his direction. Angered by what I did, he told me he wasn't receiving enough air, and commanded me to put the breezer back to it's direction. I was disgusted and pissed like, why in the hell would he try to tell me what to do? After all aren't we mates? On hearing the jargons coming out of his mouth, I refused to return the fan back to its direction with the declaration that I'm not interested in the fresh air, since I'm having catarrh.

Did you know what this boy did? He went to look for a stick. He found the broken stick of a broom, walked backed to the scene, turned the fan back, stood near it with the weapon his hands looking dreadful, and said; "Turn the fan again and see if I won't break your face with this stick." I turned it over and before I could know, the impact made me feel a sharp pain on my face and made me to see how my blood had splattered around my face.

At first I thought it was wrestling and I came back to my senses and was like; "why all this? How could he do such?" While my scar was being treated, I must tell you that I fell into despair for the whole of that day. Afterwards, he felt guilty and begged for forgiveness but I told him what he had to hear since it didn't come out from the button of my heart. I'm sure you've looked at the picture below to see the extent of the damage. The saddening part now is that, he's got a a good face to show for, which is devoid of wounds or marks to the admiration of those who wish to acknowledge him, while my own face would be seen by everyone (most especially ladies) thinking that am a bad person or I had done something incriminating. I took to my gallery to compare my past pics to my current state, but I keep getting angry more, and more, and more!!

Because you have anger issues, does it mean you should do such thing? And the worst part is that we are twins. Is that how other twins behave to each other? My parents think the issue has been settled between us but I'm so sorry to disappoint them that I can never forgive him ever! I don't care what happens in future. My face looks so disfigured and massacred and you expect me to let it go? Nah! such can't happen, even if am 6 feet deep.

I just want us to separate to distant lands, where it would be as if the other had been deceased. I can't continue living with someone who had ruin my life within a minute of anger. Twins works and achieve things together but I don't want us to a achieve anything together again. I just want to be alone... Like a lone wolf. As far as am concerned, I don't even consider myself as a pair of twin. Of course I'm glad I have the upper hand, getting into the tertiary institution before him.... I guess I'll begin a life there, free from hatred, resentment, sadness and anger.

Thanks for listening.....





I can sense and feel the Devil at work here

Be careful and vigilant bro, the Devil is a heartless taskmaster

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Blackbelly(m): 8:10pm On May 07, 2022
OP I understand how you must feel. This is indeed very hurtful. I'm quite sure he hates himself whenever he sees what he did to you. Siblings squabble occasionally, must they learn to live past their differences. Never say never to forgiveness. You may be a muslim, but permit me to quote Jesus Christ when one of his disciples asked him how many times must he forgive his brother when his brother offends him. His response was 70 times 7.
Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by TheWolfen(m): 8:16pm On May 07, 2022
Uniquetani1:



They are twin, they supposed to be together.
They parents should do something about it, it might not be ordinary
Why should the injured twin be the only one to care about their togetherness when the other twin doest even give a fvck about it? So he should die because of togetherness abi?

Mind you they not children anymore so there is little or nothing the parent can do about it. One cant read the human mind. A jealous person is a dangerous person I tell you.
People hardly change.

They can love themselves from afar.

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Uniquetani1(f): 8:31pm On May 07, 2022
TheWolfen:

Why should the injured twin be the only one to care about their togetherness when the other twin doest even give a fvck about it? So he should die because of togetherness abi?

Mind you they not children anymore so there is little or nothing the parent can do about it. One cant read the human mind. A jealous person is a dangerous person I tell you.
People hardly change.

They can love themselves from afar.



All the same
He should be careful, I still stand on the parents doing something about it. They should seek spiritual help

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Reggaemich(m): 8:54pm On May 07, 2022
Op, u can try this out

This info I gave here was told to me by my friend

U can give a shot

Boil groundnut (cooked groundnut)

Eat it thoroughly, don't swallow (it will for a white paste)

Vomit the paste

If your scar is open

Apply the groundnut paste on the scar(cover it thoroughly)

Do it at least ones regularly

It might heal or reduce your scar wound

Then after, use Gental violet for drying the wound

"Boiled groundnut(paste) has a lot of medicinal use"

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by N3wman: 9:18pm On May 07, 2022
adekolausman0000

Bro, this could have been me typing this, i understand where you are and the advice i wil give is that you just let it go and try as much as possible to stay away from him, go to school, i'm sure you guys are best of friends when you are apart.
Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Drillminded: 11:04pm On May 07, 2022
I always have sympathy for twins .. they are usually burdened with each other and hardly can have a regular life once the brainwashing from the world has set.... I know a pair of twins abi nah couple of twins abi group ... anyway those two boy would go to one giant football field at night just to fight. And every time they fought, no body bothered to separate them. When they finish they will follow each other home again. I come dey wonder maybe some of the screw when den use tie their Brian been fall down when they were born.

Twins ... special kind of people

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by AntiBMC(m): 11:20pm On May 07, 2022
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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by ThatsONYI: 12:32am On May 08, 2022
shocked

I understand your pain, bro.

I have a scar on my face too, I remember when my big sis would beat me up till I'd bleed.

What happened? I grew up and finally left home by 16, and now we're all good and closer.

Your brother gotta grow up, infact the both of y'all! Anger is no friend, stay away from it please!

I'm 20 and have learned to keep my mouth shut on certain things, or just "mind my business" because I don't want no blabbing or fighting.

If I'm gonna die or get a scar again, I wanna know that it's worth it.

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by NwaAmaikpe: 2:02am On May 08, 2022
shocked




This is strange.

I thought it was your step-brother, I am so shocked to learn it's your blood brother, your twin even.

That boy is very envious of you, just be careful around him, because his hate and hurt are all premeditated.

If you check well, you might find out you guys don't even have the same dad.

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Cashio(m): 3:56am On May 08, 2022
All these niggahs already crucifying the brother and telling the OP to never forgive him even without hearing his own side of the story are not intelligent I must say.
In this life, I have learnt never to judge a one sided story because no one will ever tell a story in a way that won't favour him, even myself.
There are possibilities the OP also must have fought his brother with weapons also. Fighting among siblings is a very normal thing among younger siblings and it will reduce as they grow into maturity. So OP, your twin bro is not a devil, but just immature. Same as you.
I remember throwing a container of Vaseline at my kid sis while we were younger when she angered me so much and I couldn't contain it. She dodged the bullet and it shattered the mirror behind her back. Some days, when I remember that incident, I will imagine the extent of the damage that would have caused her if she hadn't dodged it.
Do not hate your brother for this act. Your scar will heal and you both will eventually outgrow petty siblings fight and learn how to manage your misunderstandings in a more matures way over time.

Those people telling you never to forget also had fights with their siblings. Perhaps theirs never resulted to physical injuries.
And hey, your fear that ladies will reject you is obviously the reason why you are so mad, but that is not true. Your scar is very light and can heal in a short time.
Forgive your brother and make amends. Siblings fight and I think twins fight more at home but protect each other outside...that's the reality of childhood.
Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by michlins(m): 4:42am On May 08, 2022
I thought I was reading imaginary story until I saw the picture.

What kind of rivalry are you guys dealing with that resulted in physical injury. What are your parents doing to avoid reoccurrence because the way you're bittrred, you will want your own pound of flesh and that will be an endless circus of blood spilling which will eventually lead to death

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by VictorUSA(m): 5:44am On May 08, 2022
Even if the story is true, the picture is not.
Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Gadafii: 6:10am On May 08, 2022
Yanga dey sleep wahala go wake am...u sef get your own for body

Because you get catarrh u turn fan face ur brother that you know is violent, he. Asked you to turn it back u didn't when you could have just turn the fan off, but instead u were feeling why would he order u around,tryin to prove what point exactly.?

Go and nurse ur wound in peace.

I remember I chop nasty beating from my immediate elder brother, because we don't always agree, and I always imitate him when he stammers...he nearly kill me with beating.


But nobody dare touch me when we go to the fieldbwcauae everyone knows he's got shot fuse for anger, and anyone that tried to bully me then go collect, that was how strange our be relationship was

I was barely lucky I did t get scares from him
Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Cashio(m): 7:27am On May 08, 2022
TheWolfen:

Why should the injured twin be the only one to care about their togetherness when the other twin doest even give a fvck about it? So he should die because of togetherness abi?

Mind you they not children anymore so there is little or nothing the parent can do about it. One cant read the human mind. A jealous person is a dangerous person I tell you.
People hardly change.

They can love themselves from afar.
I hope you are living by the examples you are dishing out.
I hope you are currently living in your own apartment and has cut off all your family members from your life and business.
I hope you will also tell your kids to cut off communications from one another whenever they have squabbles.
I hope you will sow into your own kids the spirit of not forgiving. I hope you will tell them that they fight with themselves because they envy themselves.
I hope if life happens and your second child gains admission before the first and the first shows signs of feeling angry and irritated for not gaining admission first, you will advise the younger one to avoid the elder sibling at all costs and never come back home on holidays so that the elder won't poison him or her instead of sitting the elder down and making him understand that life is not about who gained admission first and that no matter what happens, he should celebrate his siblings always even if he is at his worst.

I hope you will do all that before brainwashing young and naive OP to do same to his family Cos you have to live by example.
You don't live peacefully in your home with your family and brainwash someone else to cut off his twin simply because they fought and he got injured.
Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by Cashio(m): 7:35am On May 08, 2022
Crenzywilliams:
Wait, you call gaining admission into a uni an achievement,wow, how silly that is. You when know how ur brother temper be, why didn't u just go to another place instead of trying to irritate him. From all you've said, it seems to me say na small pikin de worry una 2, you are really petty and need some serious growing up, well, I hope hope the wound in your heart heals, and not leave a scar, the one on your face isn't a scar yet, it's a wound and I hope it's treated and dont leave a scar. You guys need to settle whatever makes u fight. Your twin should be ur best friend on earth.
His reasoning clearly states he is still a kid. I wonder who told him he has an upper hand because he gained admission first.
He just had a normal brother to brother fight and he feels he should run away and abandon his twin because he has gained admission. Kids.

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Re: Reason Why I Can Never Forgive My Brother For Giving Me A Facial Scar by dazzlingd(m): 7:40am On May 08, 2022
His mission was to make you look different from him, he is so jealous sharing a look with another.
What a twin

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