Eric247:
Martinez39s, CaveAdullam, I'm a silent follower of this blessed thread, I'm just opening this new account because I have a problem, my peniss is controlling my frame,I have strong sexual urges, but my SMV is low as I'm still a student, I have never received greenlight and virtually all my cold approach leads to zero closure,the ones that leads somewhere make me end up in the friendszone and when I behave thirsty try to escalate to sex they reject my advances or create rules for me telling I only can press breast, the best I got was to finger ones pussy, penetration is a no no, these frustrating me, I watch a lot of erotic tv series, porn and WhatsApp TV's, I'm invisible to all women since I don't have status and I'm not into yahoo, it's frustrating as I masturbate alot, then I decided to patronize brothels does it make me less redpilled, I feel like an hypocrite viewing redpill materials and paying to get sex that other men get for free( I believe majority are paying )

I don't know what to do although I have drastically reduced the way I visit the hooker because they have attitude, I lack cash and they give poor quality sex, but I see it as a quick fix, but at least that one-titis of having one girl as a pedestal has died in me due to redpill as any lady I see around me is strictly as sexual object or necessary work colleague

I am getting the sex but I feel degraded but there is no option for me as my status is very low, do you still think I can be redpilled like this, I'm doubting redpill can be used to subdue our innate biology of sexual libido, I'm scared that by paying for sex I'm subconsciously admitting I'm in the long run I'm going to be used to pay my way to get the best of women emotionally, may be paying to win her love when she's not into me, I'm scared please I need guidance, I'm 25 yrs

2dice01:
Now imagine 5-10 female moniker should invade this thread simultaneously

How will you niggass survive

2dice01:
Now imagine 5-10 female moniker should invade this thread simultaneously

How will you niggass survive

SOZINN:




They will literally fucking DIE

COOL10:
The fact that we literally have to plead with the men here to avoid interactions with the cockroaches, shows that we have a long way to go.

Emmynator:

Its a grind already on the basics learning, I know I have a tough path ahead.
I hope to pull through in the end.

Eric247:

luminouz
Emotionns
Ubunja
Skepticus
jessepaid
Heartofcity12

Help your bro out

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

Who's noticed that these trolls actually sound collected and sensible in other threads excepts this one..

The troll energy in this thread is overwhelming..


Like energized stoned, drooling vultures rushing to sieze off the flesh of a lion that is not dead...


If only no one paid heed to these saggy breasted, stretch marked pussied set of individuals..


We would see them wear their own hands out with blisters from clapping all by themselves for themselves for a performance that has no audience

Altairx440:

Me too, I have discrete math and DSA ahead of me. Today I coded for about 13hrs, and not just coding, it's coding challenges , did 25 today, remaining 5, just finished about an hour ago.

satandeterrible:

Hehehe
You didn't quote me, but I'll try to help the much I can.

I'll start by giving you this powerful quote by the philosopher Plato; "The first and greatest victory is to conquer yourself; to be conquered by yourself is of all things most shameful and vile."
Again, another philosopher, Paulo Coelho said and I quote, "If you conquer yourself, then you conquer the world".
Finally, Napoleon Hill posited; "If you do not conquer yourself, you will be conquered by yourself".

These great statements from very great men of the times past, at different points in history, underlie the utmost importance of having total control of one's self.

Bro, you must go into yourself. You must go on a soul searching journey. Now is the time for a deep introspection and sober self reflection.
Get a pen and a paper (preferably a personal diary), write down your weaknesses and your strengths. Get to know who you truly are.

The first thing you need to do after that is to thank yourself for your strengths, your unique/positive qualities.
You must draw on your strengths to make up for your weakness.
Begin to develop a healthy self esteem.
Make resolutions about stopping your bad traits, be it porn, masturbation, etcetera. You must be resolute in keeping to your resolutions.

Do you have friends? What type of friends do you roll with? How social and out going are you?
Begin to hang out more with your socially active friends/course mates. Try to live an interesting life even while you're in school.

How do you dress? Your dressing and appearance says a lot about you. You don't have to wear the latest designers before looking good. Dress neatly, smartly and fashionably.
Your mannerisms, demeanours and composure in public says a lot about you.

Women most often will determine your social status by judging your mannerisms, dressing, composure, and self esteem. This will either increase or dampen her attraction towards you.

I'm of the opinion that a lot of the problems you face has to do with your sense of self confidence and esteem. I can deduce that it is drastically low.
You must begin to work on it without delay. Learn the art of not giving a Ffuck.
Do not live your life walking on egg shells, wandering what people around you think of you and your actions. Do not live for female validations. That is a very speedy way to lower you self confidence.

I won't tell you whether to continue paying for sex or not. But personally I don't. I'd rather use that money on myself, with an attendant effect of attracting even more women.

Finally bro, I'd like to remind you that change is a constant, gradual journey.
You won't experience change overnight, it only comes when you keep putting in work, consistently and passionately.
Its okay to fail. It's okay to falter. We're all humans. No one is infallible. What is not okay however, is to remain where you have fallen.

May the force be with you as you start out in your journey of conquering yourself.

CaveAdullam:



Seun is acting like the government of his country, the reason he doesn't want to make some upgrades.

Winnerly:


Thanks for the honesty and just so you know, we all go through it.

Men are being weakened deliberately in ways we don’t even know. Eg bad food, music, etc. you won’t believe it but certain diet can make you simp just as certain diet can make you more spiritual.

Men are also selling the cheapest in the sexual market right now. What it means is that, women have become entitled to acts of simping from men and if you choose not to simp, she will move on fast from you because a thousand other people are waiting to simp for her. The abundance for women now is at its peak while at the lowest for real men.

This means you risk being lonely if you are a true red pilller because you will refuse to condone what these other men are puttin up with. It’s hard times for real men right now.

Something is wrong. I can feel it and believe me, it’s not only physical. We are actually up against a spiritual battle.

Something is not right and it’s at a macro level

heartofcity12:
Anyway, @ Smartb0y, this cold approach/warm approach debate has always been some sort of argument on most Redpill platforms. See this,
I often feel like Ray Ahmed too tho but that doesn’t stop cold approaching from working sometimes too..

Eric247:
Martinez39s, CaveAdullam, I'm a silent follower of this blessed thread, I'm just opening this new account because I have a problem, my peniss is controlling my frame,I have strong sexual urges, but my SMV is low as I'm still a student, I have never received greenlight and virtually all my cold approach leads to zero closure,the ones that leads somewhere make me end up in the friendszone and when I behave thirsty try to escalate to sex they reject my advances or create rules for me telling I only can press breast, the best I got was to finger ones pussy, penetration is a no no, these frustrating me, I watch a lot of erotic tv series, porn and WhatsApp TV's, I'm invisible to all women since I don't have status and I'm not into yahoo, it's frustrating as I masturbate alot, then I decided to patronize brothels does it make me less redpilled, I feel like an hypocrite viewing redpill materials and paying to get sex that other men get for free( I believe majority are paying )

I don't know what to do although I have drastically reduced the way I visit the hooker because they have attitude, I lack cash and they give poor quality sex, but I see it as a quick fix, but at least that one-titis of having one girl as a pedestal has died in me due to redpill as any lady I see around me is strictly as sexual object or necessary work colleague

I am getting the sex but I feel degraded but there is no option for me as my status is very low, do you still think I can be redpilled like this, I'm doubting redpill can be used to subdue our innate biology of sexual libido, I'm scared that by paying for sex I'm subconsciously admitting I'm in the long run I'm going to be used to pay my way to get the best of women emotionally, may be paying to win her love when she's not into me, I'm scared please I need guidance, I'm 25 yrs

fmighty:
Good day everyone. Been following this page for some time now, just open this account to ask a question. Been following Redpill since 2020.
There’s this girl in my school (100L, I’m in 400L). She’s a good girl, possess good characters and I must say one that tick all the Redpill kind of wife material.
She’s 19, a Virgin, never kissed before or did anything sexual....Things went out well for us as we both really like each other... She’s really willing to do a lot of stuffs sexually apart from 3 others( Sex, Anal and fingering) and this is a matter that has raised concerns about our relationship.

Pls, what advice would you give to me? As currently we are likely going to breakup.

Emmynator:

I think nairaland works for Seun this way, especially in terms of traffic generation, I mean, the light nature of the forum means that it can be assessible on any form of device with any hitch, especially smaller ones, so much so that it is even eligible for freebasics browsing.

Not saying I support the lack of innovation on nairaland o, but it brings in the dough, and maybe that what matters to Seun.

luminouz:


I quite agree with you on this ..especially quoting female monikers and trolls. It's just a habit of keeping one emotions in check and scrolling past such posts. That's all

fattprince:

Bro. When you see these gender spewing thrash you just want to reply them logically to make them see how dumb and foolish they sound. The urge can be overwhelming, but for me the urge is always shortlived u know how many times( not even on this thread for this gender) have tried to explain but will delete my comment halfway because I feel the post is worth it after all after the emotion has pass

Winnerly:


Indeed, every noble cause has a sacrifice. May we continue to draw strength from within to live a noble life as men so as not to shame the long line of brave ancestors that came before us

Trex4:
That's the issue I have with cold approach because it feeds their ego. Imagine a world where men didn't cold approach. It would be way better. Even the ugliest people will feel like gods when a lot of people flock around them. Cold approaching as a redpiller for me is like leaving your castle gates open during an enemy siege. You can unintentionally simp, waste money and time. But to each his own.

Trex4:
That's the issue I have with cold approach because it feeds their ego. Imagine a world where men didn't cold approach. It would be way better. Even the ugliest people will feel like gods when a lot of people flock around them. Cold approaching as a redpiller for me is like leaving your castle gates open during an enemy siege. You can unintentionally simp, waste money and time. But to each his own.

Emotionss:
There's a lot of Redpill misinterpretation going on in this thread of late.

Please and please Redpill is not about rage and hate towards the Virgina entities rather it is about enlightenment and elevation.

The Redpill is about self improvement in all areas of our lives not just about women and their manipulations.

The Redpill is all about building yourself mentally, emotionally,physically and financially to the extent of becoming invisible to manipulations and sentimental vulnerability.

We don't hate or run away from women. We just refused to be manipulated by them and society.

Redpill is all about dealing/interacting with people ( man/woman) on a daily basis without losing Frame by
compromising your masculinity.

Redpill is about controlling your emotions and desires. It's about looking at a beautiful, seductive woman right in the eyes without feeling to urge to sell your dignity just to please her...

My friends.
Redpill is many things but hate is definitely not one them.

Emotionss:
Pathetic.

Thread is now filled with half-baked wannabe Redpillers with emotional tantrums.

Simple rules (don't feed the trolls) they find it hard to follow and it's not as if they have something intelligently tangible to say by quoting trolls,

A lot of women and Simps are happy KS is dead and so fuccking what ? If people can celebrate (negatively) the death of holy prophets and disciples of Christ, is it someone as controversial as KS that you expect broken people not to celebrate (negatively) ?

This entities crave attention just as the desert sands crave for rain. What better way of denying them such feasts than ignoring them.

Sadly something as simple as that is difficult for supposed Redpillers to do. It now makes me wonder how Redpill are we in reality.