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The sweetest part of your story was how you defended yourself when she assaulted you, and beat her up in the process ...

My elders will say ""eh-bob!"" ((Good for her)) ...

However OP....
I frown at the fact that you cheated on your wife .... That's a very terrible thing to do ... And the height of it all is that you intend to continue to do so, that's bad man ...

Obviously, your wife doesn't listen to you, neither does she listen to her parents, so I can't suggest counselling .... But if you can find someone who she'll listen, please do so and salvage your marriage, but if not, please divorce that woman asap ...

A very good advice. Op listen to this

Thanks for attempting to arrest the Pastor. Wise gesture!

Persephone1:
My Mama always warn me of men with wonderful narrative skills! I've seen an example on Nl today. He narrated it so well it will take extra effort to detect the lies, people like this can kill! They are hardly ever wrong or at fault.
Pity!

Had he had a problem with his fellow man and narrated it, I would had had some doubt, but with women, nah, I believe all he said. Am a victim myself

You and your wife na mumu.

She chased you out of the house with nagging, you too now went and slept with a harlot, risking your life in the process and now want to make it a habit.

The both of you are endangering your lives for nothing because when you collect disease and take it home to her. Wetin remain again?

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwww.

Chai!! Mehnn..This is just a case of your house been on fire and you're busy chasing rats.

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

How will someone create a new moniker to type rubbish and useless story? Omo people need help

Smh. All this long story to justify why you went to carry olosho

And I was rooting for you all along until I read to the end to see what your end game was. Oga go and sit down

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

I love how you guys advice infidelity as a solution to marital problems.

ibechris:
Oga,u have done well and I don't think any married man would ever judge u because of one stupid wife of yours.

However,I want to say it categorically clear here that many women have used their foolishness and entitlement mentality to wreck their marriages.

If a bad wife gives u a problem,hmm that is when u will know that prostitutes serve a purpose in our society.

U don't need to marry another woman bros,just ease yourself whenever she comes with her demonic powers.

Get a permanent girl friends that might lead to marriage if the issue becomes too hard to solve.

Good luck to u sir.


But if u must marry another wife,pls marry a working class lady and u will see the difference.

cococandy:
I love how you guys advice infidelity as a solution to marital problems.

Extra-marital affairs is seen as the silver bullet that helps with addressing marital conflicts. A man have issues with his wife and still believes another woman is the solution! Then one would ask, why does he need another when he should be alone to avoid women wahala.

Things dey happen

Mindlog:
Extra-marital affairs is seen as the silver bullet that helps with addressing marital conflicts. A man have issues with his wife and still believes another woman is the solution!.

Let's jump out of the frying pan and into the fire! I need another cray chick in my life (seeing as the man is likely to chase the same type of chick)

Mindlog:
Extra-marital affairs is seen as the silver bullet that helps with addressing marital conflicts. A man have issues with his wife and still believes another woman is the solution! Then one would ask, why does he need another when he should be alone to avoid women wahala.

But they sweat blood when their ladies treat them the same way. Make it make sense

"Religion is the opium of the masses"

You're an adult and can make life decisions on your own. Don't be careless with your life.
Sleeping with strangers in a land riddled with HIV.
Are you not even afraid for your life?

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Please erase the thought of marrying another woman because no woman can give a total peace of mind. They are only slightly better than one another.

Allow peace to reign in your home, I am sure from now on, she wont dare slap or block your way again. Just forget about the issue and move on with your family.

APC2:
My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

Please don't take two wives. This present one will get worse if you do. Divorce her while you still can.

Another episode of Things That Never Happened.

Your column in Hints magazine would have been called "Marriage Palaver: Marital woes of oga Cletus"

Okay

A woman you ought to have been sending on emotional and psychological assignments through third-party fictitious allegations at least every six months the very moment you observed that she is not submissive to you in particular and objective in general. If you were doing that, she would have been so engrossed with the thoughts of succeeding in her studies, battling to extricate herself from the shame of an act she didn't commit and gaining your favourable approval on each new interval that she would not have had the courage and any form of standing to place the words of any religious or outside figure above yours or disrespect you.

This is not so good

Bro don't reply those witches up there... Candidlady and Fernandezizback avoid those people for your sanity... Try and search for their comments about men,.. use the search bar

Mooh247:




What a silly woman

Abeg Oga for the sake of your child try and work things out with her , I know it must be hard hustling for money and still getting no peace of mind at home or common appreciation

Till she gets her senses back, avoid her as much as possible because domestic violence and assualt is a crime that would completely destroy you and your reputation and nobody would listen to your side of the story


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I doubt if u hv sense about violence and psychology

Candidlady:


Your wife cfvkd up hitting you was something she shouldn't have done.

But since you also pulled a wire on her iguess you guys are even.


You paid iPo that followed you to the so called pastor's place. Amount unknown


your booked over night 17 thou'

You paid a sex worker 4 thou'

Sure you got high on some liquor and prolly got food. Amount unknown

How much is a bag of rice.?

Don't get me wrong iam not in support of what your wife did. Matter of fact Ihate lousy ladies


don't forget you have a kid... just hope it is not a boy child and if it is then ireally do not care whatever happens to him as a result of your toxic marriage/relationship

Aunty zukwanike, u can't be neither here nor their, call a spade a spade. Una see why I always say, before a man go lift his hand on a woman, ask what warranted it. But here u want to sound like a canker worm, which is very bad

APC2:
My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

Oga, right now, u don't hv to think about your wife. U hv to put yourself together, then know if separation or divorce is d way.
Right now, I will suggest separation for your sanity and bcs of your work too. Such a wife does not worth hard working man like u, she deserve owo-mi-da type of husband.
BP is real and it has being killing men right from ages.

LilMissFavvy:
That is why it is good for a woman to have a source of income. If she had her own money, she would have bought what she wanted.

Very bad that she fought her husband, and only she knows if she truly wanted a bag of rice or she needed money for something else.

The same man who said he didn't have money for a bag of rice, had 20k to pay for hotel room and prostitute'. He also says he will start patronising prostitutes',. The marriage is already ruined.

Not shocked that the comment is coming from one daughter of eve. Just look at how u painted and ended it all, as if op did not give d jezebeel wife long rope

shantti:
Had he had a problem with his fellow man and narrated it, I would had had some doubt, but with women, nah, I believe all he said. Am a victim myself

Happy that men are speaking out and also had it being u didn't experience it, u would hv said its a lie. I hv being hammering it both online and offline that I prefer to be with serpent than Nigerian women, they are deadly and evil than devil himself.
They hv called me all sorts of names but I don't care

yemmit90:
Please erase the thought of marrying another woman because no woman can give a total peace of mind. They are only slightly better than one another.

Allow peace to reign in your home, I am sure from now on, she wont dare slap or block your way again. Just forget about the issue and move on with your family.

For a woman to raise her hand on a man shows that she can kill d man at any slightest opportunity

Take her threats seriously, ur life is in danger for ur info.

Donaluta:
Bro don't reply those witches up there... Candidlady and Fernandezizback avoid those people for your sanity... Try and search for their comments about men,.. use the search bar

Personally, i dont reply to some of their rubbish comments while on some occassions i would just out them where they all belongs to

APC2:
My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

marrying another wife is bringing more problems to yourself. You might end up marrying a worse woman. I will advise you set up a business for your wife to keep her busy. Also hold a family meeting to settle things amicably