LilMissFavvy:
I was laughing here when I saw one foool quoting me, saying that even if the wife were to have her own money, it would not be a guarantee for her to spend it on frivolities. That same foool who dropped that comment, didn't see anything wrong with the man wasting 20k on frivolities. These men are so selfish'.

After cutting off a woman in her prime, turning her into a mother who is still hussling in the university, soon, she will be dumped as a baby mama, or abandoned as first wife in polygamy. People work to fix their marriages, but here he has already chosen to pick another wife or pick prostitutes'.

Nigerian man cheats on his wife: that's not fair, bro, why is she complaining? It's the audacity to complain for me, my guy! Bring in another women to threaten her position, she will fight for you. That's the solution.

Nigerian man cheats on wife: bro, you can't eat the same rice everyday. Get another plate. That's the solution.

Nigerian man cheats on wife: OMG, bro! You've been dying in silence. I feel so sad seeing men in the same situation as my grand uncle. Marry another wife, she's not giving you peace of mind. Sleep with another one, isn't it t0t0 still? That's the solution.

Nigerian man cheats on wife: that's my guy! Show these women pepper, they deserve to be cheated on. We're still hurting from what one of them did to our gender since 2000BC. Get another wife or sleep with another woman. That's the solution.

Nigerian man cheats on wife: guy, we are gay, but you know what? You're straight. So just rubbish her anyway, let's watch her cry. Get another wife, or have sex with another woman, too. It will sort everything out.

Nigerian man cheats on his wife: say no to simping! The red pill gospel will save you. I will save you. When it goes bad, just blame her. Her body isn't snatched. She's got hoe vibes. Let's help you insult her. Marry another wife or cheat on her as if you will get an award for it. It's all her sluttty fault. It will sort everything out.

Nigerian man cheats on his wife: she's guilty. Just have sex with someone else anyway. She will come around. That's the solution.

Reading their threads is getting boring. There's a one size fits all mentality, all women are like this or like that. They come online to lie and twist the story round, and expect that because they are male story tellers, that they will be believed. Or that their grand scheme will remain secret.

Over to the woman haters to bash away at. The mods behind it are getting desperate going by the rate at which they churn out these topics.

Candidlady:


Your wife cfvkd up hitting you was something she shouldn't have done.

But since you also pulled a wire on her iguess you guys are even.


You paid iPo that followed you to the so called pastor's place. Amount unknown


your booked over night 17 thou'

You paid a sex worker 4 thou'

Sure you got high on some liquor and prolly got food. Amount unknown

How much is a bag of rice.?

Don't get me wrong iam not in support of what your wife did. Matter of fact Ihate lousy ladies


don't forget you have a kid... just hope it is not a boy child and if it is then ireally do not care whatever happens to him as a result of your toxic marriage/relationship

Men hate being forced to do something. The woman is wrong trying to exert force on her husband to do something for her. It is not a matter of the man having the resources to grant her her request. It is her coercive, forceful approach, utter disrespect for her husband and being abusive bith verbally and physically, that made her husband not to grant her her request.

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Hope she never get special adviser way day lead her astray? The good thing is that her folks are not in support of her actions, give her space for some days then call her for a talk so you guys can iron out your differences. One thing you need know is that your child will continue to live if you die today but suffer go sure for him/her so call it quit with your wife if her troubles becomes too much for you, there's nothing that destroys a man as fast as an hostile partner. Best of luck man

Kdon2:


You will never see such woman. All women have one issue or the other that is sever. Some it's adultry financial status regardless

These are wise words.... there's really no perfect woman.... there will be a deficiency in her in one way or another.....

BigBashiru:


These are wise words.... there's really no perfect woman human.... there will be a deficiency in her them one way or another.....

Fixed

Candidlady:


Fixed

Hahahahahahahahaha!!! Living true to your name in candidness...I like that....

If u read my posts on this forum ud see I'm rational and bit biased towards any gender.... I just focus on the truth...

Is it fair to say that guys tend to me more willing to cope to make things work while babes tend to break things off at the slightest sign of inconvenience

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Congratulations bro! It is better late than never.

BigBashiru:



Is it fair to say that guys tend to me more willing to cope to make things work while babes tend to break things off at the slightest sign of inconvenience

Very big lie. On the contrary ladies tend to cope/adapt.

Back to your GUYS coping mechanism. Is it by going to a hotel to sleep with a sex worker? Again Iam not taking side with the lady.

Imagine his dad even dishing out advice that he should get another lady. truly the fruit doesn't fall far from the tree.

Rubbish
Typical Carter iii
Like father like son

For your own safety, call off the marriage and move on with your life. Divorce is inevitable if you want to live long. As it stands now, your life is under a serious threat by the woman you married. She can even poison you or stab you to death while asleep.

That woman is a liability to you.

Are u the one sponsoring her degree?

Stop it henceforth, you are wasting your money.

Add that as part of the punishments u already met out to her.

She can never be useful to u.Na agbero she be .

Hear this last one, she will never change, so start looking at separation for the sake of your mental health.She will do worse things to u, mark my words.

By now, you will also notice that you won't be concentrating at work.Check you hair in the next 6 months, you will notice 2 white strands.Na stress be that.

Act now.

Jamesbiodun:
na the sex her twice got me cracking
Seriously I don't like people that carry pastor for head, I always believe they make themselves feel intimidated...
She promised bag if rice as seeds when she knows she is not working, that is her been silly ...
She is going to school for nothing

It's called faith

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We ng marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Since your wife said she will deal with you, just make sure you and your two year old Son always eat together whenever she prepares food for you.

Bros u bad oh.. after u wipe ur wife cable finish for house u still get strength to wipe another lady "Twice" for hotel!!! Anyway sha, it's obvious your wife no longer respects you and there's an adage that goes "Hell hath no fury like a woman's scourge". As she don promise to "deal with u" quietly pack her comot ur house to avoid story that touch oh. Make sure u take care of ur kid and ur mental health las las Marriage no be by force!!.

Never marry a woman that is jobless ,or not doing anything meaningful . E get why

Anfieldboss:


Men hate being forced to do something. The woman is wrong trying to exert force on her husband to do something for her. It is not a matter of the man having the resources to grant her her request. It is her coercive, forceful approach, utter disrespect for her husband and being abusive bith verbally and physically, that made her husband not to grant her her request.

Don't make it a gender thing.

Everyone, even women hate being forced to do something. Yet they behave themselves in the name of "submission". Not because they like it.

Mishydoo:
My wife has even slapped me once but I know only a weak man hits a woman .

Women that hit men nko? How would you classify them?

ibechris:
Oga,u have done well and I don't think any married man would ever judge u because of one stupid wife of yours.

However,I want to say it categorically clear here that many women have used their foolishness and entitlement mentality to wreck their marriages.

If a bad wife gives u a problem,hmm that is when u will know that prostitutes serve a purpose in our society.

U don't need to marry another woman bros,just ease yourself whenever she comes with her demonic powers.

Get a permanent girl friends that might lead to marriage if the issue becomes too hard to solve.

Good luck to u sir.


But if u must marry another wife,pls marry a working class lady and u will see the difference.

I pry God connects him with your sis.

OblorOblor:
You made a mistake by going to sleep in a hotel. And worse still, you do kerewa. I understand you wanted a break from her to avoid any unforeseen wahala. But I think you should have insisted she proceed on one month leave at her parents', during which time peace can be brokered. NEVER resort to unfaithfulness because of the fight. My two and half kobo.

If sleeping in the hotel was a mistake, where would you have recommended?

toluleke:
Never marry a woman that is jobless ,or not doing anything meaningful . E get why

Some men prefer to marry women who are jobless as it gives them sense of control.

Candidlady:


Very big lie. On the contrary ladies tend to cope/adapt.

Back to your GUYS coping mechanism. Is it by going to a hotel to sleep with a sex worker? Again Iam not taking side with the lady.

Imagine his dad even dishing out advice that he should get another lady. truly the fruit doesn't fall far from the tree.

Rubbish
Typical Carter iii
Like father like son

Well I'm a polygamist.... it's true na if one lady is doing Shakara guys should get another lady and marry 2 of them....

Ur wife messed up....don't eat her food she might poison u.

BigBashiru:


Well I'm a polygamist.... it's true na if one lady is doing Shakara guys should get another lady and marry 2 of them....

What if reverse was the case. Shoulda lady get another man and marry two of em?

Candidlady:


Your wife cfvkd up hitting you was something she shouldn't have done.

But since you also pulled a wire on her iguess you guys are even.


You paid iPo that followed you to the so called pastor's place. Amount unknown


your booked over night 17 thou'

You paid a sex worker 4 thou'

Sure you got high on some liquor and prolly got food. Amount unknown

How much is a bag of rice.?

Don't get me wrong iam not in support of what your wife did. Matter of fact Ihate lousy ladies


don't forget you have a kid... just hope it is not a boy child and if it is then ireally do not care whatever happens to him as a result of your toxic marriage/relationship

person wey go marry you this candidlady wey be evening newspaper don carry load wey go kill am

Segun2222:
person wey go marry this cand.idlady or what is her name sef go think say

Think say what

Mr segun shouldn't you be in church

Richy4:
Family misunderstanding is not a license for a promiscuous lifestyle buddy...There are too many diseases out there...Condoms are not 100% safe... It might even get torn in the process and what we are afraid of will come knocking..

Honestly, She did everything in the book to provoke you...That is correct...But beating her with wire is what I don't understand. Do you want to commit murder?...there's a thin line between life and death buddy...

I don't support domestic violence but If she slaps you first, slap her back twice but with moderation...Not to the extent that she can't get up...Just saying in case of next time...

That women described up there doesnt sound like someone that only two slap will stop her madness...

In funke akindele's voice..
Na madness dem dey counter madness

APC2:

My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

Please don't rush into another marriage now.

You'll only triple your issues.

Mooh247:




What a silly woman

Abeg Oga for the sake of your child try and work things out with her , I know it must be hard hustling for money and still getting no peace of mind at home or common appreciation

Till she gets her senses back, avoid her as much as possible because domestic violence and assualt is a crime that would completely destroy you and your reputation and nobody would listen to your side of the story


.

Everyone has a right to happiness.

This man can still be a father to his child without being married to the mother of his child.

His wife's behavior has resulted in violence in the marriage and infidelity. The handwriting is already on the wall.

He should divorce that woman before it is too late. Marriage is not by force.

AkaraAndBread:


Everyone has a right to happiness.

This man can still be a father to his child without being married to the mother of his child.

His wife's behavior has resulted in violence in the marriage and infidelity. The handwriting is already on the wall.

He should divorce that woman before it is too late. Marriage is not by force.

Well you are right... If he dies the child would still live

Candidlady:


Your wife cfvkd up hitting you was something she shouldn't have done.

But since you also pulled a wire on her iguess you guys are even.


You paid iPo that followed you to the so called pastor's place. Amount unknown


your booked over night 17 thou'

You paid a sex worker 4 thou'

Sure you got high on some liquor and prolly got food. Amount unknown

How much is a bag of rice.?

Don't get me wrong iam not in support of what your wife did. Matter of fact Ihate lousy ladies


don't forget you have a kid... just hope it is not a boy child and if it is then ireally do not care whatever happens to him as a result of your toxic marriage/relationship

My sister that question " How much is a bag of rice" spoilt everything you wrote. I don't think it should be about the amount here but about the wife's st*pitidy only, except if she has an entirely different tale to tell that we've not heard.

habsydiamond:
A jobless entity even get strength to fight... E get how dem dey torture people like them.. If not for the 2year old child I would have advised u not to fulfill any of her requests again until she comes to her senses... visiting too many prayer houses will only add more to ur problems cos the problem you don't have is what those money sucker creatures called pastors will say u have just to collect the little u have. See this woman o.. She no get job but fit buy one bag of rice for a pastor... Shey she wise or she's foolish... Imagine, jobless pesin dey sow seed for another jobless pesin. This world balance at all

Under no circumstances should a gentleman hit a lady.
Read again, a gentleman and a lady .
If she is a tout, please beat her like one

I have experience, even if you calm the situation I don't see a good woman here

Heavy counselling and prayers can restore her but watch it, she's on that path that usually leads to her packing and running away with your son

She will come back later and start giving you problems

Guy, most of these you must av noticed in her but your busy and making money
Trust me av been there before

I moved on with my life,

Get a working class girlfriend and keep her
That your wife will eventually Bleep up and you need to prepare your life and future to move on and not be depressed