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Jennyclay:
God has finally open this one sense.

Listen to me carefully... Most of these frustrated guys here are weaklings and vegetables in Real Life. But they would come to social media and start forming redpillar and barking like a loose dog... Giving useless advice to people like op.

@op listen to me carefully again... Your relationship is more healthy than these frustrated guys relationships but they are always quick to dish out useless advice to others.

Infact, most of these frustrated guys need serious help in their relationship but they would rather seek advice somewhere else than to bring it here to Nairaland because they don't want be mocked as a wannabe redpiller.

I'm glad that God has given you wisdom to differentiate between wrong and right advice. Just take a look at them below.. They have started praying for the op downfall.

Nawa oo!!

Yeah I agree with you, most of them are just angered people who just want to be hearing brake up, brake up.

Those kind of people will always give others reason thier relationship will crash always here on Nairaland.

Most of them even paint pictures of possibilities of someone sleeping with your girl or wife.

Man, if you're on Twitter, I'd advise you go search Jon_d_doe and follow him.

The man is realistic with his submissions on relationships, marriage and life and you will need that as you navigate through the muddy waters of life

I know there are no manuals to relationship neither an handbook in the library of congress for marriage but you can surely bank on the experience of those who have been there before you.

Daniel7543:
One man down already. See how dey manipulate this fvcking SIMP.

Them don use menstruation pad cook egusi soup for op.

Lol

OscarJaden:
You will definitely come back here for advice toward your relationship again.

One thing you fail to understand is that women are very manipulative and your girlfriend has just succeeded in manipulating you into believing that she's truly sorry
Any girl on her right senses will never upload a picture of her x everytime....she doesn't have respect for you and i bet you she will continue doing it and this time around....she will make sure she block you from viewing her status before she does it

He's definitely going to register another account to weep here.

Na WA for all these kind idiots o, girlfriend naim u take seriously like say na wife so?

Ninisun:
If she leaves him and what about it? How many ladies have you slept with? Is relationship a do or die affair? Why do you people take this life so serious? That is the Op's life and leave him to live it.
Most of you guys are just claiming what you are not because u are anonymous abi? Learn to respect people's decisions.

Maybe you should respect other people's opinion. You even type like the lady in question. We already know your type

Ninisun:
You just wrote the truth about men here ...it's unfortunate that I'm taken. Na cruise we dey here

I know cuz a lot of them mailing Keep telling me so, they keep saying that's the only way nairaland can be fun, and I understood that very well. While chatting them I then discover how nice they were and I will be like Wow. Indeed u guys are catching cruise, but it can be annoying the way some of them say ill things about women. Very very bad.

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

... don't forget to come back here when she finally dump your ass...

Did anyone force you to take advice from nairaland ?

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phemmyfour:
Maybe you should respect others opinion. You even type like the lady in question. We already know your type

Deal with it, I no dey find husband or boyfriend. Truth is bitter, face your own relationship and leave him to his own decisions.

Animegirl:
Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.

How some of you find it convenient calling someone broke beats me. Except you are not in Nigeria, it's a tough world out here for many. You can pass your message without being derogatory.
By the way, I didn't call you out because I'm one of those Redpillar guys, if you check my record I comment only on politics, but I felt the need to correct the "broke" thing maybe because I am not rich.

Shalom.

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Most Nairalanders are woman haters
Anything relationship like this you see lots of negative comments

Their life are probably pathetic
It’s good you worked your relationship out
Listen to nairalanders at your own peril

abati07:
U will definitely come back for advice by d time she is finally done with u though with different moniker. Enjoy ur shared meal while it last

@bolded

I once lived in doubt until she told her brother to inform me about her wedding plan with the suspected guy.

Alaigbopress, I would just advise you get a shock absorber .

Ninisun:
Deal with it, I no dey find husband or boyfriend. Truth is bitter, face your own relationship and leave him to his own decisions.

Well, that's a typical sermon turns cliche from an average naija girls

phemmyfour:
Well, that's a typical sermon turns cliche from an average naija girls

Send me a mail

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

She apologised but has that changed her attitude ,preposition and the one she is really attached too and the one she is managing for the main time ?

Ballzproblemm:
the most annoying part of this post is that you are feeling victorious at the same time shitting on the people you ran for ,to advice you showing the kind of person you are ,now you are living in a delusion thinking you are the man , meanwhile you are a f**king loser who is afraid of the relationship to fail, go ahead , , you not a bright person,Kai see as you fall easily anyways what is my business I am just a broke bitter redpiller

Thank God u know that, and it should be a very good reason why u shouldn't be giving advice on any relationship issue related.

If she knew it would've provoked you she wouldn't have done it and you accepted that? What about why she posted them in the first place? No respect for you at all?..if it were YOU who had done this do you realize the manner of things you would've been told? So now she's posting you on her status or whatever and you feel satisfied that you're in charge. Just don't come crying to anyone for advice here. This is really sad hope you get to realize before it's too late

Ninisun:
Send me a mail

Sure, will do

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

From experience a lady once shed tears that almost got me feel like I wronged her bcuz I caught her cheating and she laid curses on her self she even swear in the name of God our creator. But some years later after we broke up and she got married she confessed to me that she actually cheated on me that time, she came to lagos to Bleep her ex, who she claimed he doesn't care about her and he's a woman beater....most ladies out there don't really know wht they want....Don't loose guard

Nah who say make you carry your relationship problem come here in the first place

For making me mistakingly open this thread I say, OP is foolish for seeking advice here in the first place.

No b u find advice come meet us. We give u now u day complain

Omo
My guy no lose her girlfriend... Prasie the Lord!!!!!


One simp idiot lost but never will be found

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

You are a simp, immature and a bit foolish.

do you ever wonder that some people on this Nairaland are business or working class people?
All these sinful relationships and baby loves are not what we are here for.
People crave contents that mature and sound not GF, BF shiets

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Ballzproblemm:
mumu fall for manipulation thinking say en done win , anyways carry on , until she start to scream her ex name during sex ya eye go clear

The OP too childish tbh.

At first, why bringing your relationship issues on the platform? Knowing fully well you matured enough to handle it.

Ninisun:
And what about it? Ain't you knacking someone's own? Please stop the hypocrisy.

I'm Nacking my own. I'm not part of your dead generation that nack around.

You all need help. Small small children don dey nack about.

hmm ok but still keep her on a watchlist, she still likes that ex for sure.

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

and you believe she loves you.

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Her change is in her actions not cries. In your heart, is she done with her X?

My brother, e no get better advice wey pass the one you give yourself.

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.